Every Man's Battle: Winning the War on Sexual Temptation One Victory at a Time (The Every Man Ser...
the challenge every man faces...the fight every man can win
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Oct 15, 2007
Amy
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I read this on the reccomendation of a friend, and have since reccomended it to many of my friends. It opened my eyes to ways that I might have unknowingly hindered my brothers in Christ. I appreciated the honest approach on the subject of sexual sin, of the way that God created men, and the frank advice given to men as well as women. I used the book to create a discussion, which I gave to the youth with whom I was working at the time. One of the questions I asked of the young ladies was: "
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May 24, 2010
Mike
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Taken from a discussion about the book.
Behavioral intervention is a good first step but, I agree, it is limited. The bouncing the eyes thing is a good tip in that regard, but eventually it will have to move beyond that kind of intervention. This is the only strength of the book and that isn't saying much.
I agree that the interaction between the husband and wife isn't dealt with well. The whole topic is very skewed toward validating the man's experience. I vaguely remember a concept in the book r More...
Behavioral intervention is a good first step but, I agree, it is limited. The bouncing the eyes thing is a good tip in that regard, but eventually it will have to move beyond that kind of intervention. This is the only strength of the book and that isn't saying much.
I agree that the interaction between the husband and wife isn't dealt with well. The whole topic is very skewed toward validating the man's experience. I vaguely remember a concept in the book r More...
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Jan 09, 2012
Mark
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In the last few years I have had the misfortune to watch several families devastated by the husband engaging in multiple, simultaneous affairs. These affairs were not something that came from no where, but a series of smaller decisions, some that seemed innocent, that led to amazing destruction. Everyman's Struggle is a book that has been written to encourage men to live honorably, to protect their hearts and marriages. There are a number of cautionary tales paired with practical suggestion t
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Mar 04, 2010
Charles
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This book was disappointing. I've heard people speak of this book as if it's "the book" on defeating sexual temptation. Unfortunately, that's not what I found on the pages.
First of all, the authors are far too graphic, and may in fact evoke some of the very thoughts that they are telling you not to have. Big problem.
Second, while the authors provide some practical advice - it is all quite basic and really never touches on the real problem of lust - the heart. Bigger pro More...
First of all, the authors are far too graphic, and may in fact evoke some of the very thoughts that they are telling you not to have. Big problem.
Second, while the authors provide some practical advice - it is all quite basic and really never touches on the real problem of lust - the heart. Bigger pro More...
Jun 20, 2010
Devin
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This book is an excellent overview of the sexual struggles that most (if not all) men face in their lifetimes. The book was very accurate, explicit, and helpful in describing men's sexual wiring and how temptations often overcome men and can be conquered in light of this wiring.
I will say that this book is definitely helpful. Arterburn and Stoeker offer great advice on taking practical steps to fighting what they call "fractional" sexual addiction. Their solution starts More...
I will say that this book is definitely helpful. Arterburn and Stoeker offer great advice on taking practical steps to fighting what they call "fractional" sexual addiction. Their solution starts More...
May 07, 2010
Beckie
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I'd actually give this book 2.5 stars but that's not an option.
I don't have anything against the book, it just covered a lot of things I either already knew or mostly, I was outside their target audience.
Now before you say "duh, this is a book for men," I'm referring to the sections for women. While the book is good at shedding light on men's struggles, I seem to fall into a narrow 1% of "understanding and merciful women" who were not exactly represe More...
I don't have anything against the book, it just covered a lot of things I either already knew or mostly, I was outside their target audience.
Now before you say "duh, this is a book for men," I'm referring to the sections for women. While the book is good at shedding light on men's struggles, I seem to fall into a narrow 1% of "understanding and merciful women" who were not exactly represe More...
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Oct 29, 2007
Keely
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This book is one dose terrifying self-delusion, one dose hilarious over-reaction. I don't know if I should make a full review, as I may not have the space to address all the peculiarities here. The fact that attraction and companionship are expressed in terms of martial combat should tell you something about the author's depth of repression.
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Jan 01, 2010
James
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I hesitate to poo-poo this book because some may find it helpful (hence I gave it two stars rather than one). This is a Christian-self help book which endevors to aide men overcome sexual temptation by training their eyes away from women (other than their wives). Beyond not being particularly realistic, this book lacks an overarching theological view of human sexuality. Being able to quote a few Bible verses and say "if Job can train his eyes so can you" does not amount to a thoughtful
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Mar 07, 2010
Timothy
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May 19, 2010
The presentation / verbiage of this book can be plain offensive. Unlike sites like http://xxxchurch.com/ this book doesn't have immediate appeal. It comes across as quite a bit holier-than-thou guised in "we're trying to be relevant" and "we're trying to still look like nice Christians."
If/when I finish this book, I'll add more.
All that aside... if you are able to get past the aforementioned, then the insights in the book are worth pondering, and cut deep!
If/when I finish this book, I'll add more.
All that aside... if you are able to get past the aforementioned, then the insights in the book are worth pondering, and cut deep!
Dec 11, 2008
Eddie
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Prevention is the key, right? This was a tough read from the standpoint of how graphic it was, but overall it's pretty encouraging and I'd recommend it to anyone for that, guys and girls--especially women to have a better picture of guys' wirings. I do think the authors seemed a little lax in some of the discussions, but overall it's a good book.
Feb 10, 2012
Walt
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This is an incredibly difficult read, not because it is poorly written, but because what is written is so painfully true. Though I think that some of the introductory material is a bit bawdy, I found the overall content of the book excellent and--if I can use an old Christian word--convicting. I would heartily recommend this book.
Mar 11, 2011
Jessica
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This book blames women for a man's "sin" of being sexually attracted to women with whom they are not involved, or with whom they are a "couple" but not yet "allowed" to be sexually involved. Take some responsibility guys, and also, sexual attraction is a natural thing. A biological thing. It's not evil. Neither is masturbation.
Oct 12, 2007
Nicholas
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I read this book ith a group of guys a while back and it blew my mind how graphic and real it was. I almost blushed at the words written on the page. If you read this book with a group of men devoted to "cleaning up their act" and becoming more pure in their walk with Jesus, you will see some major barriers break down. This book helps with the Biblical principle of "iron sharpening iron" and jumps right into what has plagued men since the fall. I have heard of wives even read
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Nov 25, 2011
Joey
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The most prevalent stumbling-block in our culture today is the temptation to sexual immorality. Every man with an active sexual appetite should consider the dangers of our culture and move to defend his mind and his spirit accordingly. This book goes a long way towards providing some preparation for that battle.
Nov 26, 2009
Marty
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Every man struggle with this stuff and if they say they don't then they are a liar. I've been honest about my struggle with this in the past and this book was very instrumental in helping me deal with this issue. God has used this bring me a lot healing and to help me learn how to protect my eyes and heart.
May 01, 2010
Scott
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A "straight talk" book for Christian guys who want to protect their eyes and minds and ultimately their marriages in a culture that actively works against purity. Have to be honest here, this book has some stories that almost make the images worse. Would recommend the book with a word of warning about this.
My takeaway: the why of this book is the most important. why should I protect my eyes and mind? Because my relationship with God and my wife depend on it. It's th
My takeaway: the why of this book is the most important. why should I protect my eyes and mind? Because my relationship with God and my wife depend on it. It's th
May 07, 2009
Chris
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This book is a good introduction to the subject matter. It doesn't get as deep as it should for this important issue. For those who have a need for deeper help or a deeper understanding of sexual addiction from a Christian perspective, I would recommend "Pure Desire" by Ted Roberts.
Apr 19, 2009
Joshua
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This book was shenanigans. Super conservative, non-denominational shenanigans. Sexual purity is a great concept. However, this book is so hetero-sexist, and full of masogyny. I stopped reading it halfway through because of the offensive content.
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Apr 19, 2011
Brenda
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I picked this up at a marriage retreat. Wanted to see what it was all about. Working with kids and some of them boys I want to be able to help them. This book was great. The information was presented well.
Nov 03, 2009
Christina
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A must read not only for men but wives should read this as well to understand the physical needs of a man. It gives practical examples which have made a huge impact on our marriage and the success of it.
Aug 20, 2009
Shannon
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You may ask why I read this since I'm not a man. 2 reasons. 1) Fascination with human sexuality in general. 2) I have a husband and I was wondering if this really is EVERY man's battle.
Jan 12, 2009
Bobby
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This is a great read and I believe both men and women can gain from reading this book in the area of understanding sexual temptation and the battle that takes place every day.
May 14, 2010
Brian
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I think this is a battle that most of us fight. The book gives some practical defenses, and some really vivid and compelling examples of why it is an important battle to fight.
Oct 29, 2008
Scott
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This was the second time I read through this. It's a very practical book with some good tips and encouragement as to planning a strategy to controlling your eyes. It was a good reminder of the lie we often buy into that, because we (men)are visual creatures, we can't help but look and somehow therefore, we don't need to control it. A "why bother" mentality. Hogwash. And this book calls it. Sometimes I think that the book might paint a simplistic approach like, "just do this and bi
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Jan 10, 2010
Kathy
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Very good for Christian men AND women to read - discusses topics related to sexual temptation that most people are afraid to bring out in open conversation.
Jan 23, 2009
Alaina
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This was an excellent book that really brings the perspective of mens thinking into a womans head to further understand a mans way of thinking
Feb 11, 2009
Demetri
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The author's viewpoints were fresh perspectives to me, especially as I moved from a boyfriend to fiancee to husband.
Aug 25, 2011
Really a good book, opened up my eyes to what I could be or should be doing as a lady to help my fellow friends.
