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  <title><![CDATA[Boy Meets Girl: Say Hello to Courtship]]></title>
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  <default_description>Joshua Harris follows up his bestselling &lt;I&gt;I Kissed Dating Goodbye&lt;/I&gt; with  &lt;I&gt;Boy Meets Girl&lt;/I&gt;, the story of how he met and married his wife, Shannon.  Where Harris's first book encouraged readers to throw off modern ideas of  romantic fixation, &lt;I&gt;Boy Meets Girl&lt;/I&gt; goes to the next level and urges single  Christian men and women to pursue courtship, and ultimately marriage,  thoughtfully and prayerfully. Knowing that many readers will balk at the idea of  premeditated courtship, Harris insists that dating should not be emotional  recreation but rather a careful decision rooted in obedience to God. While the  anecdotes used to reveal true-to-life scenarios about dating pitfalls are  somewhat elementary (and geared to those in their 20s), Harris succeeds in  hammering home the point that obedience to God's word, selfless love, community,  purity, and satisfaction in God are the most important aspect of any  relationship. The last section of the book is particularly practical, discussing  forgiveness of past sexual sin, questions to ask before tying the knot, and how  an understanding of our sinful nature can lead to conflict resolution. For  Harris's mere twentysomething years of life experience, his maturity and  devotion to God are sincere evidence that he has indeed practiced what he has  preached, resulting in a passionate relationship with the love of his life. &lt;I&gt;--Jill Heatherly&lt;/I&gt;</default_description>
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      <name><![CDATA[Joshua Harris]]></name>
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  <date_added>Thu Jan 22 12:32:50 -0800 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[A few years ago I read his book I Kissed Dating Goodbye, which was really helpful for my new outlook on relationships. This one was just as insightful and helpful for me. See, as a young child, I always held to a pretty traditional outlook on what boys should do and what girls should do. Dads work a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43957214">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="68773222">
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    <location><![CDATA[Richmond, BC, Canada]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Aug 24 20:10:24 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Aug 24 20:11:11 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[or a while I was very curious to read this book Boy Meets Girl, which is the sequel to I Kissed Dating Goodbye. While I kissed Dating Goodbye gives us a radical idea of abstaining from any dating relationship, Boy Meets Girl answers the question of what to do when you have met the right person to ma...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/68773222">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="18021488">
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    <name><![CDATA[Kendra]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <recommended_by><![CDATA[Variety of People]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Sat Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2005</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Mar 18 11:13:06 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 18 11:28:38 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[2005/2006-ish.<br/>This has been an open topic in our family since I was about eleven. Partially because I have an older sister, but also because it's something my parents value (healthy boy-girls friendship/ relationships). <br/>The book itself is very good! I definitaly don't argue with that. I ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18021488">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="39878952">
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    <name><![CDATA[Eddie]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2001</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Dec 11 11:20:00 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Dec 24 14:10:29 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Josh Harris does a good job of clarifying/correcting legalistic-sounding points made in <em>I've Kissed Dating Goodbye</em> (&quot;Be sure to ask a girl's father or pastor before asking her out&quot;, etc.) I think partly, that problem in the first book was due to the fact that he was about 21 when he wrote ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39878952">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="26750178">
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    <name><![CDATA[Mollie]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Dublin, OH]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Wed Jul 09 08:59:36 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Jul 09 09:02:55 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I picked this up after reading Jessica’s review. As a single Christian it sounded like something I might benefit from reading. When I started it, I wasn’t sure what to expect; now that I’ve finished it, I’m not sure how I feel about it.<br/><br/>I think overall, I liked it. The questions H...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26750178">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="8719748">
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    <location><![CDATA[General Santos City, Philippines]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Nov 05 17:17:55 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 05 18:36:54 -0800 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is great. I love it as in! It help a lot especially to those , like me, waiting for the right moment of romance. Gosh finding out that I'm hopeless romantic myself hahaha. This book is a must-be-on-your-shelf especially for guys kasi it did widen your idea whats on your future. We must alw...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8719748">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="2939324">
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    <name><![CDATA[Tia]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2003</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Jul 11 08:10:11 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Jul 11 08:19:11 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this book while staying at a born-again Catholic friend's house.  It was one of the funniest books I've read in a while!  I especially liked the parts where he talked about avoiding temptation, even when you're engaged.  Some of the ways to make sure you're pure:  don't kiss your S.O., avoid ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/2939324">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="42878491">
    <user id="737481">
    <name><![CDATA[Peter]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Jan 13 01:43:55 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Jul 04 09:53:05 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I never thought highly of Christian relationship books, because they always struck me as a way either to avoid tackling issues yourself, or as a way to pander to a 'lonely hearts' club.<br/><br/>I was wrong!<br/><br/>I was recommended to read this by my girlfriend (we are both Christians), and I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42878491">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="12595383">
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    <name><![CDATA[Jennifer]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[San Francisco, CA]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Tue Jan 15 12:44:46 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Mar 10 19:03:54 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Here are some hints from the book of what I like the most!<br/><br/>I really like their wisdom about the Art of Skillful Romance:<br/>1) Romance says &quot;I want it now!&quot; Wisdom urges patience.<br/>2) Romance says, &quot;This is what I want and it's good for me.&quot; Wisdom leads us to co...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/12595383">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67566994">
    <user id="2527754">
    <name><![CDATA[Mcdaniels]]></name>
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <date_added>Sat Aug 15 21:19:13 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Aug 15 21:21:48 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I definitely put Joshua Harris in an unfair box, thinking that he talked about courtship and dating without really having much experience.  I was wrong!  In this book, I genuninely found some reflective and thoughtful insights that I my cynicism was not expecting.  Very worthwhile.  While I may not ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/67566994">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="63656715">
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    <name><![CDATA[Pamela]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 27 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Jul 15 18:12:05 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Jul 15 18:14:58 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I recently re-read this book to kind of re-evaluate my dating habits.  I found his advice helpful without being legalistic.  The only downside was that scripture was often referenced but not quoted.  I hate when books do that - I felt like I was constantly grabbing my Bible (which isn't a bad thing,...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63656715">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="45358002">
    <user id="982096">
    <name><![CDATA[Erin]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Spring, TX]]></location>        
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    <body><![CDATA[If you have a daughter or son entering into the age of serious relationships (or if you are thinking about entering into a serious relationship) then this is a great book to read.  It totally changed the way I approached dating when I was in college.  I am looking for my copy because I want to read ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45358002">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="48566108">
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    <name><![CDATA[Brittany]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2002</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Due to the horrendously old-fashioned sexism, I could barely bring myself to even read the back synopsis of another Joshua Harris book.  I'm one for gender diversity, domesticity and chastity - though I don't believe that God expects us to live in the stone age.  ]]></body>
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    <review id="71918720">
    <user id="740191">
    <name><![CDATA[Jaclynn]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Shingletown, CA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sat Oct 03 12:32:40 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Kind of a sequel to I Kissed Dating Goodbye, this is the story of Josh's own courtship (and others woven throughout the story) to illustrate some keys points in establishing a courtship/relationship that truly honors the Lord. I would recommend it, especially for those who have just entered in a rel...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/71918720">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="62508640">
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked this one as well as Quest for Love...it kinda summed up what he was trying to accomplish with &quot;I kissed dating goodbye&quot; -this one was more insightful with more practical advice for those of us who want to eventually meet someone and get married :-)]]></body>
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    <review id="45836483">
    <user id="2002700">
    <name><![CDATA[Dan]]></name>
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  <date_added>Mon Feb 09 10:40:09 -0800 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[The biggest problem with this book is that the author is clearly working from a complementarian view of gender relationships, a view I reject as logically and biblically unsound (see my <em>upcoming</em> review of &quot;Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood&quot; for more information). Since Harris' whol...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45836483">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I actually read this book as a rebellious act against Josh's first book &quot;I kissed dating goodbye&quot;. I thought that book was impractical and this one was and therefore left nullified that book. Now that I have been in and out of a couple of relationships I decided to actually read the first ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24794135">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[courtship lasts not for a week nor for a month. but it lasts a lifetime. do not have a commitment/boy-girl relationship if you're not ready for marriage.for it is a preparation for future marriage life.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'd recommend this book to anyone who is single, even if they aren't Christian.<br/><br/>&quot;Abstinence until marriage&quot; is confusing advice for young people who aren't made aware of chastity or courtship.<br/><br/> ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[if you liked the first one, you'll LOVE that one!<br/>i'm so thankful that there exist people who write books like that and teach others about god's will in our life in every part...in our love lifes.]]></body>
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