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Home Safe
In this new novel, beloved bestselling author Elizabeth Berg weaves a beautifully written and richly resonant story of a mother and daughter in emotional transit. Helen Ames–recently widowed, coping with loss and grief, unable to do the work that has always sustained her–is beginning to depend far too much on her twenty-seven-year-old daughter, Tessa, and is meddling in he...more
Hardcover, 260 pages
Published
April 28th 2009
by Random House
(first published January 1st 2009)
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I always look forward to a new work by Elizabeth Berg which is why I devoured it, gulping it when I should have probably done more sipping and savoring. The plot, a middle-aged widow with writer's block discovers a secret her husband kept from her, and a secret she has kept from herself about who she is and what she is truly capable of, is classic Berg. I didn't particularly care for Helen. Her relationship with her daughter, Tessa, made me want to smack her up-side the head on several occasions...more
I received this book for free, as a sort of promotional Nook was doing. I felt kind of cheap and decided I would get this, instead of one of the books I had planned on.
What a mistake.... but before I get into subject analysis and general ranting, here are the technical specs.
Most of the writing is in third person present tense. At first it's awkward to read in present tense, but you get use to it. It appears to be written this way so as to make easy transitions from past and present.
The main ch...more
What a mistake.... but before I get into subject analysis and general ranting, here are the technical specs.
Most of the writing is in third person present tense. At first it's awkward to read in present tense, but you get use to it. It appears to be written this way so as to make easy transitions from past and present.
The main ch...more
I've heard this is not a typical Elizabeth Berg story, but this is my first, and, from the writing, it could be my last. Incidentally, I have been informed (by a rather nasty reviewer), to put a Spoiler tag here. So, here it is! SPOILER ALERT.
The book seemed to lack plot or point; the main character, Helen was so unlikeable -- needy, non-self-reflective in any way, no sense of self, critical, empty, and lacking any EQ, that I felt sorry for her daughter and parents, and angry and irritated at he...more
The book seemed to lack plot or point; the main character, Helen was so unlikeable -- needy, non-self-reflective in any way, no sense of self, critical, empty, and lacking any EQ, that I felt sorry for her daughter and parents, and angry and irritated at he...more
I found this book a quick read, but a very enjoyable one. The main character Helen Ames is a writer, or at least she was until she hit the writing block she is currently up against. The block began eleven months ago when her husband died suddenly.
Helen has gone from depending on her husband to do certain things to depending on her daughter. And while she depends on her daughter, she still sometimes treats her daughter too much like a child. Her best friend Midge is urging her to move on.
When Hel...more
Helen has gone from depending on her husband to do certain things to depending on her daughter. And while she depends on her daughter, she still sometimes treats her daughter too much like a child. Her best friend Midge is urging her to move on.
When Hel...more
Helen is a 50 something widowed author who is still trying to find her way a year after her husband’s death. She cannot do the most basic things around the house relying instead on her 27-year-old daughter Tessa and she has not been able to write at all. When she finds out the nest egg she thought would support her financially is gone, having been taken out of the bank by her husband before his death, she has no idea what to think. She takes a job teaching a writing workshop and the eccentric st...more
The word that comes to mind when describing this book is "sweet." The story is both sad and uplifting. The main character is an author who lost her husband very unexpectantly almost a year before, resulting in an inability to continue her writing. We see her struggle to move on with her life and deal with a surprising revelation about her late husband. As with so much of life, she finds she is only able to heal when she gives of herself, even if it is reluctantly at first.
The author does a nice...more
The author does a nice...more
I bought this book when it first came out, but the reviews that I read put me off it and it's been sitting on my bookshelf ever since. Now that I've finally read it, I'm sorry I waited so long. It's a lovingly written, thought provoking book about moving on after you've lost your partner, and redefining what your "home safe" place will be.
Helen Ames is in her late 50s and a successful author. She is recently widowed and is struggling to cope without her husband, Dan. She is becoming overly depen...more
Helen Ames is in her late 50s and a successful author. She is recently widowed and is struggling to cope without her husband, Dan. She is becoming overly depen...more
My first book by Elizabeth Berg was "What We Keep", which I thought was an amazing book and set me on the path to buy and read every book she wrote. I found almost all of them to be terrific. But as the years go on and I read her newest novels, I am continuously disappointed. "The Day I Ate Whatever I Wanted", "Dream When You're Feeling Blue" and now this novel.
I, like Tessa, have a mother who depends on me far too much, and for that reason, I found Helen to be unbelievably annoying. I wanted t...more
I, like Tessa, have a mother who depends on me far too much, and for that reason, I found Helen to be unbelievably annoying. I wanted t...more
Home Safe is one of the latest works by bestselling and prolific novelist Elizabeth Berg.
Recently widowed Helen Ames is a bestselling author who encounters writer's block as she tries to adjust to life without her husband, who took care of everything in the household, including finances. When Helen discovers there's very little money left for her to live comfortably from, it comes as quite a shock. Why are thousands of dollars missing and what did her husband spend it on? In addition, Helen mus...more
Recently widowed Helen Ames is a bestselling author who encounters writer's block as she tries to adjust to life without her husband, who took care of everything in the household, including finances. When Helen discovers there's very little money left for her to live comfortably from, it comes as quite a shock. Why are thousands of dollars missing and what did her husband spend it on? In addition, Helen mus...more
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I gave this book 3 stars only because it was readable and it didn't take me to the point where I wanted to put it down. It came very close though. Like the writing students in the book, this was like one long writing exercise that went on beyond the point of reason. The book begs so many questions: Why wasn't more done with the missing money angle? Why wasn't the relationship between Helen and the builder developed? If Helen felt guilty about her husband's passing, why wasn't that explored?
Of co...more
Of co...more
I've told you before that Elizabeth Berg is my favorite author. I don't think I could ever read a book by her that disappoints! This novel is about a 59-year-old writer, Helen Ames, who is recently widowed and trying to now fend for herself, and is battling writer's block. Her 27-year-old daughter lives in the same city and Helen depends on her too much and meddles in her life as well. One day Helen discovers her husband was seemingly leading a double life and had withdrawn a huge amount of mone...more
I've read several of Elizabeth Berg's books because I love her thoughtful discriptions of everyday ordinary life. But I keep waiting to really LOVE one of them, and it just hasn't happened yet. I did love this quote about books though:
"When Suzie introduced Helen, she told the audience that one of the best things about books is that they are an interactive art form: that while the author may describe in some detail how a character looks, it is the reader's imagination that completes the image, m...more
"When Suzie introduced Helen, she told the audience that one of the best things about books is that they are an interactive art form: that while the author may describe in some detail how a character looks, it is the reader's imagination that completes the image, m...more
Helen, a successful writer, lost her husband, and after a year of emptiness and blank pages. She's turning all the energy she used to spend on writing and hr life towards interfering in her daughter, Tessa's, life instead. Then she finds out her husband was keeping a very big secret which involved removing most of their life savings. Reading this book is like having a long conversation about everything with an old friend you haven't talked to in a while. Helen and Tessa and their muddled relatio...more
Helen Ames's doesn't know what to do with herself after the sudden death of her husband Dan. She finds herself unable to write and becomes more and more dependent on her 27 year old daughter, Tessa. Then one day she receives a call that will completely change her world. She and her husband had always saved money for their retirement, but she is shocked to find out that he made a very large withdrawal before his death. Now she must find a way to support herself and she takes a job something she h...more
A book about a widow who has a lot to learn about herself, her deceased husband, her daughter.
Helen is an author who has written since childhood. It was a natural ability that allowed her to express herself effortlessly and obviously well since she became a top selling author.
Then her husband dies and suddenly she has no words left. Try as she might and this scares her. Where have the words gone and how can she get them back.
The very things that might help her are what she runs from. But in th...more
Helen is an author who has written since childhood. It was a natural ability that allowed her to express herself effortlessly and obviously well since she became a top selling author.
Then her husband dies and suddenly she has no words left. Try as she might and this scares her. Where have the words gone and how can she get them back.
The very things that might help her are what she runs from. But in th...more
Oct 12, 2009
Tressa
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3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Fans of Alice Hoffman, Anne Tyler, and Kaye Gibbons.
This is my first Elizabeth Berg novel, and since I've heard so many good things about her other books, I'm going to assume this isn't one of her best.
Home Safe is the story of Helen, a writer whose husband of 30+ years drops dead suddenly. They are well off and Helen assumes that she is set financially, until a call from the accountant surprises her with this: over $800,000 was removed from their retirement account by her husband. What did he do with the money? Gambling? Does he have another fam...more
Home Safe is the story of Helen, a writer whose husband of 30+ years drops dead suddenly. They are well off and Helen assumes that she is set financially, until a call from the accountant surprises her with this: over $800,000 was removed from their retirement account by her husband. What did he do with the money? Gambling? Does he have another fam...more
Elizabeth Berg's books are really good. I'm enjoying novels by women these days. This was a mother-daughter story of a recently widowed woman who is overprotective of her 27-year-old daughter. The mother's own mother gives her excellent advice from older times: "We didn't need to air all our dirty laundry and run to therapists every five minutes. Life comes with problems. You just have to accept that. And you have to try to lead the simple life; to not constantly ask questions about the whys and...more
A fun, light and breezy read, Elizabeth Berg does not disappoint. I enjoy her heroines, who usually tend to be older females overcoming the challenges of life. In this story an author, who has recently had a husband pass away, is suffering from a bad case of writer’s block and trying to set up her exasperated daughter. Helen then discovers her situation is much worse, and stranger. Her late husband withdrew a very large amount of their nest egg. She has no idea why. Although resistant at first,...more
Helen Ames, recently widowed, coping with loss and grief, unable to do the work that has always sustained her, is beginning to depend far too much on her twenty-seven-year-old daughter, Tessa, and is meddling in her life, offering unsolicited and unwelcome advice. Helen's problems are compounded by her shocking discovery that her mild-mannered and semmingly loyal husband was apparently leading a double life.
The Ameses had painstakingly saved for a happy retirement, but that money disappeared in...more
The Ameses had painstakingly saved for a happy retirement, but that money disappeared in...more
May 29, 2009
Alissa
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Heather, Lesley, Kay, Diana, Stephanie, Maya, June
Recommended to Alissa by:
Kay got me hooked on her books
I'm always ashamed to admit how much I like Elizabeth Berg's books. I mean, really--they're corny, with a lot of rumination about the small pleasures in life. Which, yeah, ok, I have to admit: I'm kinda the same way--I just don't talk about how much I love the iridescence of a scrub jay's wings. Maybe Elizabeth Berg is just the part of myself I'd never let anyone see because I'd be too freakin' embarrassed.
Anyway. I read this book in a day and a half, and that was even with Charlie sitting on my...more
Anyway. I read this book in a day and a half, and that was even with Charlie sitting on my...more
It's important to note that this book is not for anyone who has not experienced the art of life’s maturity. And what I mean by that is the natural progression of growing older with all the pit falls of life. Falling in love, getting married, having children, taking care of elderly parents. Not to say that someone who hasn’t done any of those things wouldn’t enjoy it but most likely wouldn’t relate to the characters as much as someone who has or been close to someone who has.
All in all this is a...more
All in all this is a...more
Surprisingly good, this book brought back my confidence in Elizabeth Berg! I don't remember which novel made me question her, but I was hesitant to start this one, and was hooked immediately.
GREAT look inside the head of a (fairly neurotic) female writer as she grapples with getting on with life after the loss of her husband. She's never had to be self-sufficient, and does a fairly poor job of it in the beginning, sponging off of her late-20s daughter both emotionally and practically. I loved to...more
GREAT look inside the head of a (fairly neurotic) female writer as she grapples with getting on with life after the loss of her husband. She's never had to be self-sufficient, and does a fairly poor job of it in the beginning, sponging off of her late-20s daughter both emotionally and practically. I loved to...more
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I was anxious to read Home Safe by Elizabeth Berg, because I have enjoyed a few of her books in the past. The premise of this story is not a new one: when her husband dies unexpectedly, Helen Ames is stunned and finds it difficult to move on.
Yes, Helen lose her husband, but this woman was incapable of doing anything for herself ; honestly, she was pathetic. Once a best selling author, she even loses her her ability to write. She also becomes dependent on her 27 year old daughter Tessa, to the po...more
Yes, Helen lose her husband, but this woman was incapable of doing anything for herself ; honestly, she was pathetic. Once a best selling author, she even loses her her ability to write. She also becomes dependent on her 27 year old daughter Tessa, to the po...more
Elizabeth Berg's novels have "normal" characters with average lives, but she always manages to make them interesting and very real, as if they live next door. This novel was no exception. It is sometimes hard for me to relate to female characters who are "weak" and expect to be taken care of. But Berg always manages to redeem them by the end and they become stronger and more independent. Berg writes beautiful prose and the reader feels comfortable inside the pages.
This book is set in Chicago an...more
This book is set in Chicago an...more
"Ann Tyler Lite"
Helen Ames has been a widow for almost a year, and she is rather unsuccessfully dealing with her loss. Dan handled all of the practical details of their marriage, and tended to coddle Helen. Now, Helen tries to make her adult daughter, Tessa, the focus of her life, but a surprise 'beyond the grave' gift from Dan introduces radical change.
One of the themes of Elizabeth Berg's sentimental novel is similar to O. Henry's 'Gift of The Magi'. Both Dan and Helen secretly acknowledge eac...more
Helen Ames has been a widow for almost a year, and she is rather unsuccessfully dealing with her loss. Dan handled all of the practical details of their marriage, and tended to coddle Helen. Now, Helen tries to make her adult daughter, Tessa, the focus of her life, but a surprise 'beyond the grave' gift from Dan introduces radical change.
One of the themes of Elizabeth Berg's sentimental novel is similar to O. Henry's 'Gift of The Magi'. Both Dan and Helen secretly acknowledge eac...more
I don't really dislike books very often, but this one is a "dislike" for me. I would probably give this a 1.5 stars because the writing is not hideously bad, I just did not find the story enjoyable at all.
This book is what my husband and I call a "lady book". It's as close as I comfortably get to a "beach read", but far from romance novel. It's the kind of book I probably would have liked in high school because I thought it would make me seem sophisticated or grown up.
The story focuses on Helen...more
This book is what my husband and I call a "lady book". It's as close as I comfortably get to a "beach read", but far from romance novel. It's the kind of book I probably would have liked in high school because I thought it would make me seem sophisticated or grown up.
The story focuses on Helen...more
I enjoy Elizabeth Berg as an author and this book is no exception. Helen Ames is 59 years old, a recent widow, and she is driving her 27 year old daughter, Tessa, crazy with her unwanted advice and constant clinging. I can identify somewhat with Helen. Although I'm not a widow, I'm sure that I constantly drive both of my children crazy. Batten down the hatches if Dad dies, kids. There will be no controlling me then. But back to the book. Helen was completely dependent on her husband, Dan, and no...more
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Elizabeth Berg is the New York Times bestselling author of many novels, including We Are All Welcome Here, The Year of Pleasures, The Art of Mending, Say When, True to Form, Never Change, and Open House, which was an Oprah’s Book Club selection in 2000. Durable Goods and Joy School were selected as ALA Best Books of the Year, and Talk Before Sleep was short-listed for the ABBY Award in 1996. The w...more
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