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  <title><![CDATA[Crazy Love]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;DIV&gt;&lt;P&gt;At 22, Leslie Morgan Steiner seemed to have it all: a Harvard diploma, a glamorous job at &lt;I&gt;Seventeen&lt;/I&gt; magazine, a downtown New York City apartment. Plus a handsome, funny, street-smart boyfriend who adored her. But behind her fa&#231;ade of success, this golden girl hid a dark secret. She&#8217;d made a mistake shared by millions: she fell in love with the wrong person.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;At first Leslie and Conor seemed as perfect together as their fairy-tale wedding. Then came the fights she tried to ignore: he pushed her down the stairs of the house they bought together, poured coffee grinds over her hair as she dressed for a critical job interview, choked her during an argument, and threatened her with a gun.&#160;Several times, he came close to making good on his threat to kill her.&#160;With each attack, Leslie lost another piece of herself.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;Gripping and utterly compelling, &lt;I&gt;Crazy Love &lt;/I&gt;takes you inside the violent, devastating world of abusive love. Conor said he&#8217;d been abused since he was a young boy, and love and rage danced intimately together in his psyche. Why didn&#8217;t Leslie leave?&#160;She stayed because she loved him. Find out for yourself if she had fallen truly in love &#8211; or into a psychological trap. &lt;I&gt;Crazy Love&lt;/I&gt; will draw you in -- and never let go.&lt;/P&gt;&lt;P&gt;&lt;/P&gt;&lt;/DIV&gt;</default_description>
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      <name><![CDATA[Leslie Morgan Steiner]]></name>
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  <read_at>Wed Mar 25 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm a bit torn about my review for this.  Steiner's story is compelling.  So compelling, in fact, that I read the book in about one sitting (way past my bedtime too!). I really wanted to see how she would escape the relationship and was also generally curious about her life's path. Yet, I didn't <em>lov...</em><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50387445">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Apr 05 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Anyone who has ever been in an abusive relationship should read this book.  Then again, anyone who has ever wondered why women don't leave their abusers should read it.<br/><br/>Steiner is a good writer and shows vividly what it is like to be married to someone who is violent.  I was into this sto...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51671997">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Crazy Love by Leslie Morgan Steiner was one of a few books about domestic violence that at times I had to put down and regain myself to continue. It is not a bad book at all. Leslie writes in a style that makes you feel as you are sitting right there next to her as she retells her tale of abuse at t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76430311">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Aug 09 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The is a non fiction memoir of a woman surviving a physically abusive relationship.  I will give her credit for writing a book that might open some eyes and maybe even help someone.  <br/>But...<br/>The whole premise of this book is that if she...Harvard educated, well to do and blond (smacks of b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/66735330">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="64174538">
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    <body><![CDATA[Off article talking about abusive relationships, and why women may stay:<br/><br/>&quot;For a firsthand account that makes these dynamics painfully clear, check out Leslie Morgan Steiner's Crazy Love (St. Martin's Press). Steiner, who writes for the Washington Post on issues of work/family balance...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64174538">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="63327755">
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  <read_at>Sun Jul 12 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Leslie Steiner tells the story of her brief courtship and marriage to a handsome, bright, charming, but very abusive husband. She narrates her experience in a direct, factual manner. Her narrative includes some of the internal dialogue and reasoning processes that went on in her mind as she graduall...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/63327755">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="59743892">
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    <body><![CDATA[So this book........ it keeps you very interested.  She's incredibly succinct.  Almost too much so, where i found myself thinking, as the book went on, &quot;what!??!  Why didn't you mention THAT before!??!!?&quot;  My only caveat on this book is, though, if you've been in an emotionally or physical...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59743892">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="60773659">
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a tough book to rate. It was definitely a fast read and I was pulled right into the author's turmoil. As with any abusive relationship, it's easy for an outsider (and someone who's never been abused) to think, &quot;how can she stay!? I don't get it!!&quot; Of course I had those feelings, bu...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60773659">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="58966693">
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 13 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[It is amazing that Harvard grad/successful magazine writer/MBA student would ever stay in an abusive relationship.  Steiner's memoir explains why women of all socio-economic groups stay in physically abusive relationships with men. Unfortunately, I kept yelling &quot;get out of there&quot;, long bef...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58966693">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="73378931">
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    <body><![CDATA[Even though the themes of this book are hardly new (it's basically &quot;Sleeping with the Enemy&quot; all over again), I was riveted by this personal history of a Harvard grad who found herself hopelessly drawn to a psychopath. It's not difficult to see why she stays (she doesn't have much of a soc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73378931">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="60930942">
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 20 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I wish I could remember who recommended this book to me so that I never read their recommendations again. Unbelievable that it was written by a Harvard grad, since it reads more like an article in Seventeen magazine. The author actually wrote for Seventeen, before giving up her job to move to anothe...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60930942">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50849411">
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  <read_at>Thu Apr 23 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am strongly recommending this book to anyone who: 1) is or ever was in an abusive relationship of any kind, 2) has ever cared about anyone who is or was in any kind of abusive relationship, and 3) thinks they might have something more to learn about those who were or are abused by someone they tru...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50849411">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="53917509">
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm torn between giving this one 3 or 4 stars.  I'd give it four for the nature and subject matter the author writes about.  It's shocking and scary to think this type of thing happens to the average person, who seemingly has it all.  But I'd give it a 3 because it's a bit choppy.  I felt like she c...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53917509">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed May 06 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Well, I just finished reading this and I need to process it now.  It was painful to read from start to finish, and yet I didn't put it down.  Only when I finished the last page and looked at the back jacket blurb did I realize that I had read one of her other books, Mommy Wars.  <br/><br/>She wrot...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52638295">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This autobiography reveals how a young woman was courted and wed to a<br/>man who was abusive to her on many levels. It is pretty<br/>straightforward in narrative and language; nothing outstanding. It was<br/>a frustrating book for me to read, not because the writing was bad or<br/>cliche or the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/50633884">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="57309703">
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  <read_at>Wed Jun 10 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Leslie Morgan Steiner's story of her first, abusive, marriage makes for a compelling story and a can't-put-it-down read.  Like many of the reviews I've read for this book, I found her story very interesting, very personal, and very informative, but I wasn't overwhelmed by her writing. <br/><br/>Ce...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57309703">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Apr 19 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Leslie Morgan Steiner does us all a service by illustrating the pattern she experienced in her abusive relationship, especially the small steps her partner took to draw her in--his charm and his neediness, their deep connection, and then the boundary testing and slow escalation of violence. Behind c...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53372633">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I&quot;m glad that Steiner wrote this book, I'm sorry for her pain, and I hope that it helps someone out there. That said, this book is truly horrible. It's badly written, Steiner comes off incredibly shallow even through her suffering, and I swear to you at one point she flat-out says something lik...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60520292">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 28 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A good message and compulsively readable story. Nonetheless, I really didn’t enjoy it that much. Not having ever been in a violent relationship, I don’t feel qualified to review her life story. I’m sure it was cathartic and therapeutic for her to write and attempt to resolve this part of her l...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53921668">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jul 08 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Leslie describes how she got into a relationship with Connor, how she stayed for three years while he abused her, and what finally got her to leave.<br/><br/>I've heard from abused women before that they don't stay because they're stupid or silly, and Leslie tries to bring that point home too.  Ne...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52797349">more...</a>]]></body>
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