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Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader

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Anne Fadiman is--by her own admission--the sort of person who learned about sex from her father's copy of Fanny Hill, whose husband buys her 19 pounds of dusty books for her birthday, and who once found herself poring over her roommate's 1974 Toyota Corolla manual because it was the only written material in the apartment that she had not read at least twice.

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Paperback, 162 pages
Published November 25th 2000 by Farrar, Straus and Giroux (first published January 1st 1998)
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JSou
JSou rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction, owned, essays
Just a couple weeks ago, a great review of this book popped up on my update feed, (Ah, the magic of Goodreads) so when I spotted it at a booksale I went to last week for a dollar, I grabbed it quick. If you haven't read Jon's review yet, check it out:

http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/677...

Thanks to a bout of insomnia last night, I finished this and loved it. I feel like shoving this book onto some family and friends who think I'm much too obsessed with all things b...more
Abigail
Abigail rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Bibliophiles or Those Seeking to Understand Them...
Recommended to Abigail by: Patrick
Shelves: books-reading
Ah hopeful conceit, that borrowing this book would suffice! I ought to have known better, and indeed, after reading Anne Fadiman's entertaining collection of essays, it is clear that I will need to obtain a copy of my own. Such was my sense of recognition when reading some of these pieces, that I get the sense that I will be revisiting this title periodically.

A collection of eighteen short essays devoted to the author's "lifelong love affair with books and language," some o...more
Kathryn
Kathryn rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: book lovers!
Recommended to Kathryn by: Melanie (thank you!)
Shelves: non-fiction
I finished this book on my flight home from Florida and it provided me with great pleasure amidst my great dislike of flying. (Perchance I would have given it five stars had I read it from the cozy comfort of the couch in my den!) It felt so chummy to hear Anne's discussion of her love of books (both literary and tactile!) and I found myself nodding with agreement for many of her observations and confessions.

My favorite essays:
Marrying Libraries (of the joys and tribulation...more
Natalie
Natalie rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: anyone who loves to read
My aunt Heather recommended this book to me. She is exactly the type of reader Anne Fadiman is and also very frugal. So instead of buying books as gifts for me she mails me short lists of books she thinks I will enjoy and should check out at my local library.
This one was an easy beach read for me one year at Myrtle and then I read it again on a winter break. I later gave it to my cousin-in-law for a gift so I no longer have a copy of it by as I remember them each of the short stories ...more
rivka
rivka rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: all book lovers
Recommended to rivka by: Jennie Peterson
Shelves: borrowed, non-fiction
I enjoyed this book, but perhaps not nearly as much as some of my friends seem to have. It's always nice to read something that makes me feel that someone out there is like me and/or my family -- that we're not completely crazy! ;)

So reading about another kid who was taught NOT to say "the hoi polloi", someone else who can't help but proofread menus, who is an obsessive book collector -- these are cool.

However. Anne Fadiman has an annoying to tendency to assume...more
Lena
Lena rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction
This short collection of essays on the reading life is a true delight of a book. Anne Fadiman writes with self-depreciating joy about the pleasures and pains of the book obsessed, and reading her confessions helped reawaken (and soothe my guilt) about my own book-related afflictions. Her ruminations on marrying libraries (a task I have not yet been bold enough to undertake with my own husband), the art of inscriptions, and her clever discussion on plagiarism and the originality (or lack thereo...more
Koji Mukai
Koji Mukai rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: non-fiction
This is a collection of essays first published in Civilization, the magazine of the Library of Congress, which is where I first read many of them. These essays were written by, for, and about booklovers. My favorites include "Never Do That to a Book" where the author discusses two different ways to love a book - "courtly love" in which the reader tries to keep the book in as pristine a state as possible vs. "carnal love" in which the reader does not care a bit abo...more
Lisa Vegan
Lisa Vegan rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: everyone on goodreads,those who love beautiful language, essays
This is one of my favorite books. The daughter of Clifton Fadiman can write! These are wonderful essays about life, family, and most importantly, about books & reading. All are interesting & written beautifully, and they also have a lot of warmth & humor. This is a book worth owning to be able to reread certain essays every once in a while.

This book is a perfect gift for anyone who enjoys reading, books, and language.
Michelle
Michelle rated it 5 of 5 stars
Shelves: book-books
This book was WAAY too much fun. Anne Fadiman is Clifton Fadiman's daughter, and she has collected this book of essays about book-love. She is funny and frank and the book is a delight. There are essays on merging her library with her husband's, on the delight of finding long, delicious words, on sonnets, on "carnal-love" book lovers versus "courtly-love" book lovers (for the record, I'm in the carnal-love category--my books know they are loved), ink pens, flyleaf inscript...more
Wendi
Wendi rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Sarah Brannon
Recommended to Wendi by: Tina Dalton
My friend subconsciously suggested this book to me after a conversation we had about finding treasures hidden in books. She had just purchased a book for her husband, used book (the best kind), and within its pages she found a treasure trove of items left by the former owner(s). It sparked me to tell her how wonderful I thought that was, and how I loved finding notes scribbled in the margins of books. That's when she told me about Ex Libris.

This book may be sub-titled Confessions of ...more
Madelyne
Have you ever read a book and felt as though the author had beaten you? It is not fun. You purchase a book thinking, “Oh I’ve found a kindred spirit in this author. I can’t wait to read what he/she has to say”. Such was the book Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader by Anne Fadiman.
It is a biased opinion, but I believe myself to be somewhat knowledgeable when it comes to all things book related. I am a bibliophile after all. I thought Anne Fadiman’s book would nourish those ideas. Wr...more
Kelly
Kelly rated it 5 of 5 stars
~Preface~
This is one little book that I cannot pass up hunting for on Amazon. Will not. *checks tracking number list for fifth time* And I am now thoroughly convinced that a few good years of chair WHOMPING, voracious word eating, and a strenuous hike through the many 'eye blinks' of literature preserves one better than any Botox.

Marrying Libraries 3
I despise Fadiman for giving me one more thing to be anxious/terrified about: morphing my one day exhaustive library with t...more
Kathy
I love books that discuss the importance of reading and I appreciate authors who can admit to an obsession with books. "I'd rather have a book, but in a pinch I'll settle for a set of Water Pik instructions."

Fadiman is the child of readers and is continuing this "habit" with her own family.
"Children are "able to fantasize are more extravagantly about their parents' tastes and discuss their aspirations and their vices by scanning their bookcase...more
Corinne
Corinne rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: voracious readers
As the child of two incredibly literary parents (both of them writers and voracious readers), Anne Fadiman has written a collection of essays about her experiences with books, and not just reading them. She writes about plagiarism, secondhand stores, vocabulary lovers and the inscriptions we write - all told with a self depriciating and humorous voice.

Every essay entertained me. I'm sure part of that is the fact that I am a fellow lover of not just the written word itself, but the en...more
Leanna
Leanna rated it 3 of 5 stars
I walked past Anne Fadiman’s Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader at the library and immediately turned around. Without reading the dust jacket, I added the book to my pile. Any book about books must be a good book.

After reading Ex Libris, I'm not so sure. The collection of essays is ten years old, and they already feel dated—particularly an essay about pens and typewriters. More than anything, though, I take umbrage with the subtitle. Fadiman is anything but the “common reader....more
Sydney
Sydney rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: criticism
Parts of this book are utterly delightful. The chapters on combining libraries (first that of her husband and her own after ten years of marriage, later on with her father's) get to how visceral and symbolic a love a books can be. There is also the chapter on how the first thing she used to do with books (her parents') was build castles. All refreshing. But then there were moments where I thought she was Joyce Chafen (the ghastly, oblivous mother in White Teeth) particularly with Fadiman U. ...more
Deb
Deb rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: book geeks
This is my favorite book of essays on reading--I've never found another that can top the eloquence, brevity, and wit contained in this volume.

Things learned: the differences between a courtly and carnal lover of books, what the word sesquipedalians means (very long words), how & when to combine libraries with a fellow book reader you've joined houses with--do you give away the ragtag copy of x book because your partner has a nicer copy? Is a re-read the same without the book you grew...more
Lindsey
In these brief essays, Anne Fadiman gives voice to so many delights that come with loving books. From the happy sense of frenzy that comes with entering a hole-in-the-wall used bookstore to the simple pleasure of reading aloud or being read to, she echoes sentiments I've felt all my life but does it much more eloquently than I ever could. With stories of proofreading restaurant menus with her family and organizing her shelves meticulously by category, it would be easy for these essays to come ...more
Becca
Becca rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: all book lovers
I've always said if I were in a situation where I could only have one book with me, and I would be in that situation for a long time, that I would take an anthology of short stories compiled by Clifton Fadiman (Anne's father). He was just a pure genius at putting together the best anthologies.

I carried Anne's book around a long time in my car (I always keep a book in the car so that I'm never caught without a book--especially when Houston has one of its infamous traffic pileups where...more
Lilias
Lilias rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: children of readers
Shelves: non-fiction
First, a little bit about me: There are three things in particular that instill fear into many members of modern-day society and I embrace with pleasure. They are as follows:

1. Books (will make you BORING!)
2. Food (will make you FAT!)
3. Particularity (will make you UNBEARABLE!)

I cannot find it in myself to relate, and to some extent I've learned to deal with that. (Anyone who knows me well enough, has read the book, and happens upon this “review” will probab...more
Tracey
Tracey rated it 3 of 5 stars
I had purchased Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader some time ago on the recommendation of several fellow 50bookchallenge readers and thought this book would be an apt way to end the year.

A collection of essays written for Civilization: The Magazine of the Library of Congress (apparently OOP), Anne Fadiman explores her love of books, reading and writing. The titles alone -- "The Joy of Sesquipedalians"*, "Never Do That to a Book" and "Sharing the Mayhem"...more
Michael
Michael rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Book lovers
The subtitle, "Confessions of a Common Reader," is modest at best. I only wish I were the sort of reader Anne Fadiman is. She consumes every book that comes her way, from large volumes of classic literature down to the owner's manual for her car. Her vocabulary is extensive; as a sort of strange game, I dug out my highlighter with the small post-it flags, and flagged every instance where I had to retrieve a dictionary. I ran out of flags, but visited the dictionary no less than 32 time...more
Anna
I laughed out loud several times when I read this book, and forced long passages of this book on to my boyfriend, and several friends.
My boyfriend and I still keep the books in separate bookshelves - I organize more or less thematically and he (much like Fadiman's husband) organize everything by the category "books". (Actually, my boyfriend organize the books by the languages they are written in, but it still would drive me crazy.)
This is a sweet, funny and to-the-point co...more
Wendy Friess
Okay, so this book WON'T be for everyone, but I loved it! If you love books, and love hearing about other people who love books and why they love them and how they handle them and which ones they buy then this book will be for you too. Cleverly written essays all about books-yay!
Teresa
Teresa rated it 4 of 5 stars
Ex Libris is a collection of 18 essays by Anne Fadiman on books and bookishness. In these essays, Fadiman writes of her family s obsession with words, merging bookcases with her husband, the case and treatment of books, her love of fountain pens, and more.[return][return]It s hard for me not to like a woman who as a teenager got totally immersed in the works of Thomas Hardy and started classifying all the boys she loved as Damons or Clyms. (For me, they were Angels or Alecs, which is perhaps n...more
Trish
Trish rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: all book lovers
I've always said if I were in a situation where I could only have one book with me, and I would be in that situation for a long time, that I would take an anthology of short stories compiled by Clifton Fadiman (Anne's father). He was just a pure genius at putting together the best anthologies.

I carried Anne's book around a long time in my car (I always keep a book in the car so that I'm never caught without a book--especially when Houston has one of its infamous traffic pileups where one just si...more
Leah
Leah rated it 4 of 5 stars
Perfectly delightful. It wasn't taxing by any means, but what book lover wouldn't want to read about another book lover's romance with the written word? Ann Fadiman is a much more serious reader than I am--she once read her roommate's Toyota Corrolla manual for fun, and she and her husband own several thousand books--but there's a bit of each of her stories that I could relate to. I especially enjoyed the essay about the different ways people treat books: there are the amorous lovers of books, w...more
Andrew
Andrew rated it 3 of 5 stars
This short book was a quick and easy read, and author Anne Fadiman has an engaging narrative voice. While I could relate to a great deal of her stories about book obsessiveness, though, she sometimes got on my nerves a bit. Her fussy tone and obvious background as a child of privilege was intrusive for me, as someone who tends to prefer vernacular dialects, genre fiction, and trash art, and as someone who lives in near poverty and never expects anything more. Of course, part of my own near-impov...more
Antof9
I have a new favorite book! Like 84, Charing Cross Road, this is a book by a reader, for readers. As I said in the Top 5 Reads for May BookCrossing thread: I can't recommend it highly enough. If you love books, reading, words, literature. .. read it: )

This is the hardest kind of book review to write, because I prefer to reference things I liked and quote favorite passages in my reviews. If I did that for this book, I'd basically reproduce the entire book in my journal entry!
...more
Linda Lipko
Anyone who is as obsessed with books, as so many of us are, will delight in this lovely compilation of stories about books, their personal meaning, how we collect them, why we collect them, how we do or don't share them and how we may have gained a love of reading.

Some of my favorite essays include the author's comments regarding how, after joining her partner in marriage years later it was decided to meld their books. Realizing that commitments can begin and then end, both book lovers...more
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