A Kind of Intimacy

A Kind of Intimacy

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Tracing the dark possibilities of best intentions gone awry, this darkly comic novel about a dysfunctional young woman's life in the suburbs offers interesting psychological insights. Annie--morbidly obese and lonely--moves into a new home hoping for a clean slate but is convinced she has seen her next-door neighbor before. She embarks on a series of increasingly bizarre a...more
Paperback, 282 pages
Published March 26th 2009 by Arcadia Books
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Elizabeth
Feb 20, 2011 Elizabeth rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Caris
Recommended to Elizabeth by: Well, it's Europa, of course I was going to try it
Was your problem with Bridget Jones's Diary that Bridget just wasn't fucked up enough?


This is the book for you.
Blair
This deliciously creepy and insinuating novel, Jenn Ashworth's debut, is the story of Annie Fairhurst - as told by this fascinating, contradictory and wholly unreliable character herself. We meet Annie, who is seriously overweight and struggles to interact with others, as she moves - alone - into a new neighbourhood. At first Annie seems to be a fairly ordinary, if rather sad, character. She is lonely, with no family, and appears to have a traumatic past; she is desperate to make friends with he...more
Jasmine
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'Annie moves into her new home bringing little else but her cat and a collection of cow-shaped milk jugs. She's hoping for a clean slate, but there's something familiar about her next door neighbour - she's convinced she's seen him somewhere before. Annie is morbidly obese, lonely and hopeful. She narrates her own increasingly bizarre attempts to ingratiate herself with her new neighbours, learn from past mistakes and achieve a 'certain kind of intimacy' with the b...more
Francesca
Mar 11, 2011 Francesca rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Psicopatici
Dunque, praticamente ci sta sta tipa grassoccia e assai sfigata che si trasferisce non si sa perchè non si sa per come in questo appartamento con il gatto, poraccia.

Appena arrivata comincia a farsi un sacco di pare pesissime sui nuovi vicini di casa, origlia, spia, facosevedegente, cose così che fanno tutti i nuovi vicini per far buona impressione suglia altri, insomma.
Tiene sta fissa di farsi amici, fare buona impressione, farsi una vita, ma non ce la può assolutamente fare perchè è solo una po...more
Lolly LKH
This novel brings to light the damage our own realities can wreak on innocent bystanders. Poor Neil, the object of Annie's demented love. Annie is an overweight mess of a woman that is descending into a bit of madness. Her obsession with her new neighbor Neil drives her to torment his young girlfriend Lucy, because she just knows Neil is in love with her and just needs help letting Lucy down. At first, Annie seems to be a sad woman coping with a broken marriage but slowly her creep factor rises...more
Carys
I started reading the book on a Saturday morning and finished it by teatime: it was a book that I couldn’t put down. I watched 'Notes on a Scandal' recently and the comparison that Alison Flood makes between the two stories is apt, although I found 'A Kind of Intimacy' more terrifying, which probably had something to do with Annie’s size and age: twenty eight is very young to be so damaged and Annie’s obesity tends towards Stephen King's 'Misery' (Anne Wilkes), rather than the jolly Father Chris...more
Eileen Granfors
I love a book told by an unreliable, mentally ill narrator. If you do too, this is a chilling look at society's "difficult" personalities. "A Kind of Intimacy" may remind you of Stephen King's Annie in his book, "Misery."

Annie Fairhurst, a plus-size woman, relates the story of her new home in a new neighborhood, all the while providing clues as to why she moved from her last home. It isn't pretty, as she plays little tricks on the winsome girl next door. Her attempt at a house party is fraught w...more
Devil
This is a very engrossing read and the narration in the first person is very easy to follow which makes it harder to let go of the book. It's not because you're really enjoying it though, but almost as though you are so uncomfortable with it, you want to get it over with asap.
Before I read this, I browsed through some reviews and got the impression that learning of Annie's past history would make her a more sympathetic character and that I would end up feeling sorry for her - Wrong! As it turned...more
Karmen
Annie is a lost soul. Morbidly obese, she is looking to make a new life.

We soon find that she has killed her nearly newborn child and husband. During the tenure of her marriage she had answered ads from ABUNDANCE a magazine given to her by a childhood friend whom she was enamored of. Annie often met with men from the ads advertising for BIG women.

In her new home, she attempts to forge new relationships but gloms on Neil, her immediate neighbor. Neil, a man living with his much younger partner, L...more
Cara Murphy
This book kept me up till the wee small hours as I just couldn't put it down until I had finished it! Jenn Ashworth lulls you into a false sense of security at the beginning, introducing us to Annie who has just moved into a new house and is getting to know her neighbours. Gradually you begin to realise that things aren't quite right but you can't put your finger on exactly why this is. At first you feel some sympathy or pity for Annie; she has obviously been through some kind of traumatic event...more
Diane
Annie Fairhurst, 27 and newly single has just relocated to a British suburb with her cat, Mr. Tips. Annie is an obese and socially awkward young woman, who actually seems content with her size and who she is. It is important to her to make a good impression with the new people she meets, so she has immersed herself in personal development books about socializing and making conversation. She's vague about her past, and when she does talk about it, you are never quite sure if she is telling the tr...more
Helen
Annie is morbidly obese, and lonely, but ever hopeful of becoming firm friends with her new neighbours, having just moved house when the book opens.

As the book progresses Annie narrates the intertwined stories of her present and her past.

We follow her attempts at befriending her new neighbours, which includes a plan to achieve a "certain kind of intimacy" with Neil, the man next door.

At the same time, layer by layer, detail by detail, we learn more about Annie's past, and whilst we may be horr...more
Ellie
I wasn't sure of this book when I first started it but it actually turned out to be an interesting read, which I think really took on a pace more towards the end. Mainly a psychological drama, but also part crime (without court cases and gory details) novel, it's set in contemporary England in the town of Fleetwood. The main character is a female who is seeking attention and affection from men. She turns her attention to her neighbour who she believes feels the same about her. As the reader we s...more
Cara
I've had this book on my shelf for a while. It was gifted to me, so obviously recommended, but I have to admit the cover did put me off.

During the World Book Night coverage the Guardian had pulled together a list of twelve of the best new novelists, one of which was Jenn Ashworth, and A Kind of Intimacy was spoken of so highly that I moved back up the 'to be read' pile.

The Guardian succinctly described A Kind of Intimacy as: "laugh-out-loud funny and completely compelling. The protagonist Anni...more
Nick Turner
Along with Mr Tips, her cat, and a collection of novelty mugs, suburban single white female Annie hopes to leave behind her troubled past by moving to a new house. Annie has some anger issues.
My hands started to hurt again and I looked at them, surprised at the grazes on my knuckles. I'd been hitting the wall above the pedal bin with my fists, over and over without realising it.
But what can one do if the neighbours are simply beastly?
'Have you seen the size of her?' said Lucy, and laughed again.
...more
Tonya
Annie, as your narrator, takes you through her move to a new neighborhood and her quest to remake herself. She is obsessed with making things appear 'just so' and wants very badly to be friends with her neighbors. What could go wrong?

We take a trip down memory lane occasionally and get bits of Annie's life growing up but the most engrossing parts of the book are her inner monologues and her reworking of a conversation she has just had with someone. We see her mind at work, we wonder how someone...more
Sophie
This was such an odd little book that I'm not even sure what rating to give it. As a novel, it's worthy of four stars, but to rate it "really liked it" is stretching things a bit. I was interested in the book, and found it absorbing, but I can't say that I liked and enjoyed reading it. It was too disturbing for that. To be inside the mind of such a damaged personality was disconcerting, even though I appreciated the technique the author showed throughout the narrative. The author puts the reader...more
Carl Bromwich
This first novel by Jenn Ashworth is a classic dark psychological thriller that takes you into the mind of an obsessive lonely obese woman. Imagine Abigails Party crossed with Stephen Kings Misery.
It is a frightening account of Annie who moves into a new house, a new area with new neighbours’ her plan is to get to know them and leave her murky past behind; she has read all the self help literature, but the problem is Annie has a personality disorder and her delusions of love and romance lead to...more
Vivienne
Unsettling is a good description of this novel. I was quite aware from its opening pages that Annie was going to prove an unreliable narrator - the warning signs were there.

I certainly did not find it 'laugh out loud funny' as the reviewer for 'The Guardian' did and maybe this is because of a certain empathy with Annie's situation of craving intimacy and not going about it in quite the right way.

It proved very popular with our reading group and provoked discussuion over a range of subjects. It w...more
Haley Spangler
This book so so well written, it's like I had Ashworth's character Annie sitting right next to me as I read. Annie's voice came through the pages so loudly it's like a I was getting punched in the face (in a good way of course), she was completely believable and not overdone like I was afraid was going to happen. She progressed slowly throughout the book, becoming more and more crazy and even more self obsessed and indulgent. I couldn't put this book down, I read it in just under two days and th...more
Luciabo
Molto carino. Una lettura gradevolissima. Annie è una ragazza non solo obesa, insicura, reduce da fallimenti sentimentali pesanti, dipendente da improbabili manuali di autostima, è anche una persona molto disturbata.Con una volontà stupefacente di riprovare a recuperare a far girare la vita in modo più gradevole e soddisfacente per lei. Non mancano momenti divertenti e a tratti riesce pure a catturare la simpatia del lettore; ha infatti una capacità straordinaria di trasformarsi in vittima quand...more
Federica79
Il personaggio del vicino spione che vorrebbe vivere le vite degli altri è decisamente inquietante. Lo è ancora di più se si tratta di una donna. Annie si insinua nella tranquilla esistenza di una giovane coppia di "belli e innamorati": lei invece è obesa, sola e con un passato torbido alle spalle. Vorrebbe ricominciare da zero cambiando casa, ma una volta sistematasi, inizia ad escogitare piani diabolici per impossessarsi della felicità altrui. L'autrice svela gli aspetti più morbosi di Annie i...more
Tom Middleton
I am a 32 year old straight male. Needless to say this book is not aimed at me, but oh my god I am glad I read it. It was amazing.
A couple of girls that I work with had read it and after hearing them talk about it I was intrigued (it is lovingly refered to in the office as the 'Fat Girl Book'. I was told it was dark, but just how dark amazed me. It drew me in and I could not put it down. It was brilliant. The insanity of the book had me gripped from the first page. We cannot stop talking about i...more
Nikki
I feel like I read a totally different novel to other people, in the sense where I can't see any subtlety or indeed any novelty here. I feel like I've read the whole story before, partially because it's populated by stereotypes. Fat woman with tragic past has mental illness and struggles to integrate into society, quickly developing a one-sided "connection" and proceeding to act according to the rulebook for stalkers which must be out there somewhere. Reminded me of Before I Go To Sleep (S.J. Wa...more
Ian
This is the story of Annie, a morbidly obese woman who we meet moving into a new house in Fleetwood, Lancashire. She is clearly excited and looking forward to a new start in life after escaping from a previous unhappy relationship. Annie is the narrator and we almost immediately realise that she is suffering from mental health problems, as she comes to the instant delusion, after just one very brief meeting, that her next door neighbour Neil is secretly in love with her. She thus embarks on a ca...more
rachel
A few weeks ago, after realizing that many of the books I read have the common thread of a plot I probably wouldn't want to talk about in mixed company, I added a "criminals or tremendous creepers" shelf tag. It features American Psycho, Ann Rule, necrophilia, Nazis, a disturbingly high number of pedophiles, and now, this book. A Kind of Intimacy certainly belongs in the category, but it makes me uncomfortable on a level quite different from the other books on the shelf.

Its protagonist, Annie F...more
Ann Johnson
I'm in between a 3 and 4 star rating on this one. The book paints a very complete picture of a person who is totally out of touch with reality. As a study of madness (albeit fictional), I found it intriguing and interesting. You see how Annie's thoughts are deeply dysfunctional and inconsistent, in ways that parallel and resonate with the real-life thought processes of patients with paranoid/irrational ideas and patterns.

The book is also really funny in parts, which provides a nice balance for...more
Anne
What a fantastic novel, I'm sure this one will be up there in my Top Ten of the year.

Annie is such an intriguing character - and one of the most unreliable narrators I've ever come across. At times she comes across as an innocent, naive, misunderstood and quite loveable, it is only as the reader gets further into the story that the darkness descends and so the little flashes of Annie's interior character are exposed.

There are incidents that are so funny; Annie's house-warming party and the dinn...more
Sibyl
Although I was a bit slow to 'take' to this book, I ended up finding it gloriously noir and funny.
I think the author should be congratulated for creating a central female character who breaks pretty much every rule about what heroines should be. On the one hand Annie is a victim, the unhappy daughter of an abusive father, who then gets ill-treated by the first boy to be smitten by her abundant charms.
But Jenn Ashworth's skill lies in showing us how victims can turn into aggressors....
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