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  <title><![CDATA[Parenting With Love and Logic (Updated and Expanded Edition)]]></title>
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  <default_description>Need help with your kids? Learn how to parent with love and logic and be amazed at the great results! Now with a new look and updated content, readers will enjoy passing along this best-kept parenting secret to their friends.</default_description>
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  <original_publication_year type="integer">1995</original_publication_year>
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  <date_added>Thu Mar 06 18:42:59 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Mar 06 19:10:16 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I bought this book, as well as 4 other parenting books, so that I could compare a bunch of different theories and techniques and decide what spoke to me.  <br/><br/>I found it interesting and there was plenty that was useful, however there was a lot that I didn't agree with.  I think that there ar...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17203518">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat Nov 10 13:17:11 -0800 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Feb 19 18:10:57 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have mixed feelings about this book.<br/><br/>Here’s what I liked about this book:<br/><br/>    * The emphasis on consequences. It makes sense that, in order to learn about the real world, children should be allowed to experience consequences (within reason) so they can alter their behavior....<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8932997">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="36363581">
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  <date_added>Mon Oct 27 21:46:57 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Oct 27 21:49:18 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[In all fairness, had I written this review a couple weeks ago immediately after I read it, I probably would have given this book 3 stars. But since then, the points of contention for me have continued to annoy me, therefor Jim and Foster, I bestow only 2 little stars for you. I realize this book has...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36363581">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <name><![CDATA[Michael]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Jan 15 16:45:49 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't rate many books with 5 stars, so you can bet this one is good.  Gail and I have used these techniques and we were amazed at the children's response.  Don't get me wrong, it's way easier to yell at your kids and smack them upside the head.  But, if you want to actually get through to your kid...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43179999">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="21868846">
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    <location><![CDATA[Saint Louis, MO]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sun Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2006</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu May 08 12:16:55 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon May 12 15:23:02 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[There are a lot of great techniques in this book, but some that I question.  It seems that the object of L&amp;L parenting is to be constantly teaching the child a lesson.  I think that sometimes going out of your way to &quot;teach them a lesson&quot; is artificial and even on occasion harsh.  I think ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21868846">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="4147810">
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  <date_added>Mon Aug 06 08:25:17 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Aug 06 08:33:22 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am not a fan of this book although I see that there are many useful concepts therein.  The book is frequently recommended for parents adopting older children, but the whole tone of the book put me off.  The authors seem to take pleasure in the ways they've invented to show children the natural con...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/4147810">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="52319834">
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  <date_added>Sat Apr 11 13:46:59 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Apr 11 13:49:02 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book sat on my shelves for a number of years until I recently discovered it.  It makes sense and better yet it works! ]]></body>
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    <review id="75920655">
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  <date_added>Tue Oct 27 13:32:54 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Oct 27 13:56:59 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[ I will read this book again and again. I have already read it about three times and I love it. I highly recommend it to anyone who wants to find an effective way to raise their children to be responsible, respectful, and caring. I love how they go about using love and logic in parenting because if ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75920655">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="62848125">
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    <name><![CDATA[Rebecca]]></name>
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Thu Jul 09 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Jul 09 18:49:08 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jul 09 19:11:07 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is my dad: the calm and sometimes slightly sadistic way he let us experience the consequences of our choices, the kind of detached but sympathetic stance (&quot;Gee, I hope you work that out! Good luck!&quot;)even the unsubtle brainwashing-by-intentional-overhearing, i.e. &quot;Gee, washin...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/62848125">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="56337299">
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    <name><![CDATA[Emily]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue May 12 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat May 16 21:03:58 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat May 16 21:10:27 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a good book to add to my &quot;arsenal&quot; of parenting skills.  I've heard wonderful things about it.  It was very similar to the last parenting book I read, &quot;Making Children Mind Without Losing Yours.&quot;  I found that book a little easier to understand and implement than this on...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56337299">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="49845890">
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    <name><![CDATA[Anne]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 24 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Mar 24 17:26:56 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I can't bring myself to read a book like this more than about once a year, but this was a learning experience for me. I'm all about the idea that you want your kids to have a value system and view of themselves that comes from within, rather than living to please (or control) dominant figures in the...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49845890">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="25565066">
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    <name><![CDATA[Darci]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Thu Jun 26 11:04:29 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jun 26 11:10:12 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[There are some great things in this book, and also some weird things.  Use your logic and what works for you.  We should always speak to our children with love and understanding, being careful not to use sarcasm - which this book seems to use sometimes, but perhaps they don't mean it that way....  A...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25565066">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="57189885">
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    <name><![CDATA[Synesthesia]]></name>
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  <date_added>Sun May 24 17:13:26 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun May 24 17:19:19 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't have kids yet.<br/>That aside, at least this book isn't all break out the belt and woop that kid.<br/>At the same time, if I was a kid, this book would annoy the living daylights out of me. I play video games quite a bit. If I was relaxing after a long day of school with some game, it woul...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/57189885">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="58328835">
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  <date_added>Wed Jun 03 14:23:12 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was so excited when my sister told me about this book, because I thought great there would be some techniques I could use with my kids and initially I did and some that I still do, but to be honest, parenting is such a difficult job.  Every child and every situation is different, that not all the ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58328835">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="56421830">
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    <name><![CDATA[Kate]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun May 31 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun May 17 18:20:40 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun May 31 07:59:55 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I thought this book was okay. I agree with the principles - I think kids SHOULD make their own decisions and think for themselves, but I felt the execution of the principles was a little off. Most of the mock dialogue in the book came across as sarcastic and unfeeling. There were also a lot of gimmi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56421830">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="60037665">
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  <date_updated>Wed Jun 17 09:48:19 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this several years ago (not the updated version I guess) and I thought it had some good ideas, but again, it is always hard to remember this kind of stuff when you are in the middle of a situation. The biggest lesson I learned was not to be a helicopter parent, which I am guilty of at times (...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60037665">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="70029165">
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    <name><![CDATA[Barbara]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Salt Lake City, UT]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Tue Sep 22 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have heard this book on parenting raved about everywhere from good friends to my peditrician.  I really liked the methods discussed and the only reason I did not give it five stars was it was not as revolutionary and life changing as people had led me to believe.<br/><br/>The book is organized i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/70029165">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 15 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Fri Feb 06 13:19:22 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have heard so much about Love and Logic style parenting that I thought I might already know all there is to know about it and didn't even need to read the book. On the off chance I was wrong, I checked it out.<br/><br/>Turns out, I knew very little. I had heard about the &quot;give choices&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43336490">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I can take the &quot;emotion/anger&quot; out of parenting.  Well, it's supposed to.  This is a book you will want to read and reread. There are so many situations that come up with your children and it gives you situational advice when you forget the reason why you became a parent in the first place...]]></body>
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  <read_at>Fri Oct 30 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Oct 31 09:25:28 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I couldn't decide if I should give this book a 3 or a 4.  There were a lot of things I REALLY liked about this book.  I like the philosophy a lot.  I want to raise kids that know how to make wise decisions on their own.  I love the calm way of dealing with everyday situations and I love the fact tha...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75934346">more...</a>]]></body>
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