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Dear Diary

3.32 of 5 stars 3.32  ·  rating details  ·  601 ratings  ·  120 reviews
Following a remarkable run in its singular hardcover format (over 20,000 copies in print after two printings) and having captured a devoted fan base that continues to grow, Dear Diary arrives in trade paperback.

Within only several months of its release, this highly acclaimed title reached thousands of readers who sparked enthusiastic discussions on MySpace Books, was co...more
Paperback, 232 pages
Published August 7th 2008 by Vice Books (first published June 1st 2007)
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Mary
Mary rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: people who enjoy a good bout of the dry heaves
Shelves: ya
Lesley Arfin must be stopped. When the pathologically hip Williamsburgers of Vice magazine were content to live in their overpriced lofts and vacation at their neo-plantations in Costa Rica and judge one another with their peculiar brand of fashion fascism, they were good for a laugh. But now Lesley Arfin has taken it upon herself to, as she puts it in an excruciating interview with her father, reach out to "another girl, somewhere in Minnesota" who "might be going through the s...more
Kate
2.5 stars

I'm on the edge with this one and it's not of glory either. (Lady Gaga fans put your paws up!)

I liked the format a lot. I liked that she took the entries straight out of her personal diaries and then reflected upon it from her older self and interviewed the people involved with those entries. That was what made me stick with it and read it to the very end because Lesley Arfin has some big cajones for airing her personal laundry for all to see and read.

But (...more
matt. singer.
Lesley Arfin is not an extraordinary girl. She grew up a Jewish American Princess in Long Island, endured the same cattiness and extreme self-consciousness all teenagers suffer through, became a punk, then a raver, then went off to college — and became a full-blown junkie.

How does someone go from kick line and crushes and mosh pits to Ecstasy and crystal meth and heroin? That’s what Arfin, now 28 and “straightedge,” would like to know. "Dear Diary" is an extension of the co...more
Valerie
Valerie rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: people who aren't interested in drugs
ah gahd heroin heroin heroin. being a girl. feeling like shit. terrible horrible wonderful. yes yes yes.

i stayed up all night reading this horrible shit. i'm tired and pissed and i want drugs now. it's really good.

i've been keeping diaries as long as this chick and mine are way more interesting. way.
Kelly
I was looking through the bookstore purchasing materials for my vacation (rare treat to self) when this book on display jumped out at me. Recommendations on the back made it seem like it would be enjoyable, funny, and a speedy read.

Well it was speedy.

In this book Arfin takes diary entries from elementary school up to the present and pokes fun at them. She also goes back to talk to people she wrote about to find out if they're still jerks or whether they've mended their wa...more
Pilouetta
Pilouetta rated it 1 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Pilouetta by: tema
maybe it's just me. maybe we got off to a bad start when she said she was punk in 1993 at the age of 14 (i thought it DIED when i was 15 in 1983). and maybe i can't relate to a 27 year old whose parents supported her so she could go to hampshire college, and become a heroin addict. i found her book boring and self indulgent which, i think, is exactly what a diary is, interesting to arfin and her friends ONLY. her fucking isn't that hot, her writing is ... well, she's no anais nin. her best ...more
Colleen
self-indulgent to say the least.

i found a lot of it rather boring and the quality of writing was poor. [does she really think it's okay to publish a book using abbreviated forms of words such as "btw" and "jk?"-i get it. and it makes me embarassed for this aging hipster.]

i won't say that i disliked it though. i'm a pop-culturist and this is pop-culture at it's best. the author is only a few years older than me so it was nice little trip down memory ...more
JesterDala
For what it was (just another book about some girl who couldn't keep her shit together), the book is alright. The format is different and interesting enough to mostly keep a reader's attention until the end, though anyone could anticipate what's on the next page. The book is basically be summed up on the back cover, leaving nothing of any further interest inside.

Mostly, it was confusing. She names multitudes of people she's come in contact with over the span of fifteen years, but ...more
Renee
if you do not understand irony, please do not read this book. this 'memoir' (can you really write a memoir when you're 27 and the only life experience you have is going to college and doing copious amounts of drugs?) has aspects that kept me reading- blatant juiciness and bad-girl behavior written in a straightforward manner that makes you feel like you're having a conversation with your (pretty annoying) friend.

arfin is obsessed with cool vs. lame which makes me think she is perpe...more
Andrew Post
I picked this book up because I was looking in Biography for something to give me ideas when writing my own little biography. And well, sucked in by the dramatic (albeit a little Andrew WK-esque) cover art, I read the first few pages in the B&N before buying it. I thought it was funny and simple in its prose, a quick read and pretty much cut to the point.

But, I think Lesley Arfin likes to shock and skip over some of the minor details. Here are some of the shocks: describing in detai...more
Any
fantastic. absolutely incredible. i read this in eighth grade and did a project on it. i guess you could say my teacher was surprised, to say the least. many people say this is a modern day 'go ask alice', and i suppose it is. just much more informative and realistic sounding. even though its more outrageous. but hey, that doesnt mean i'm passing any judgements. i commend lesley arfin for: one, getting herself out of a hell hole that was her life (although a fun and wild ride before she came cra...more
lola
if you are in a proto-punk phase: someone should give you this book, you'll find it interesting and it might give you some good ideas about drugs and saying fuck you to middle school

if you are in your punk phase: you will probably find it very close to your own experience, which may either excite you or disappoint you, depending on what emotional price you put on considering yourself unique in the world

if you are post-punk: you will like it because it reminds you of peopl...more
courtney
i have a "thing" for diary-type books. either real of fictionalized, even if they are schlocky airport fare i can never say no. luckliy, this book isn't - lesley writes this memoir that is half diary entries from her personal journals and half commentary on those entries and where she was in her life when she wrote them like a letter to an old friend from back home. it helps that she has led an interesting and adventurous life thus far- and dear diary reflects that in its smart yet ...more
Michelle Casey
This great book consists of a 29 year old woman going back through her teenage diary and annotating entries with explanations of the people and situations and modern-day adult correspondences with some of the main players about past events. The book details her painful middle school years and her descent into drug addiction in high school and college. Relateable and raw, this book reminds every woman who reads it that no matter her current body issues, insecurities, or unhappinesses she is stron...more
Kim
Wow... wow... ok. Darn, I should have published my diary from age 14-25 teehee. Lesley did a great job of getting her sh*t together after all that. Love how she called people and checked out what they remember happening in their lives as it corresponds to her diary entries! I think reading this as a parent was a bit scary but reminds us not to get involved in social interactions of our kids (like her Dad yelling at her best friend and her best friend shunning her forever after that). It also ...more
MariNaomi
This book gave me a peek into what it might have been like, had I run rampant with my adolescent/early adulthood drug use. Oh, and had I not been terrified of needles. Lesley Arfin's journal entries (and especially her observations from an older age) really rang true to me, capturing the insecurities and desperation to please that I think all young girls go through. This book felt honest, thoughtful, and her writing style made me laugh aloud numerous times. Special excitement bonus points for th...more
Julie (julie37619)
I picked this one up at McKays because the cover reminded me a lot of Mortified (edited by David Nagel), which I enjoyed. I also needed a book for a quarterly challenge my NBC girls do that is in diary form and the premise for this book sounded hilarious. The book is made up of entries from the author's diary from middle school through her post-college years. She also includes updated commentary on her diary entries and interviews some of the people she wrote about. The back cover blurbs all...more
Ken

When I first picked up Dear Diary from a stack of vacation reading, I thought it was going to be a funny read. The idea/gimmick is that the author goes through the diary she kept through her teen years, comments on the entries, and tries to track down the people she knew at the time to get their perspective on things.


Once I got a better look at the book, I realized that it was not just for laughs or nostalgia: the author descended into heroin addiction during her teen years, and she uses t

...more
Hannah
I wanted to love this book. I had placed it on "hold" at the library almost a year ago, and when I finally received it, I could not wait to start reading it. I was disappointed, and I almost stopped reading about halfway in because it was pretty boring. I mean, the concept is very interesting: girl takes her diaries from ages 11-28 or so and posts exact entries from years ago, along with an update from now with additional information. She also interviewed people from the entries asking...more
Tiffany
Tiffany rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: people who want to read it
Recommended to Tiffany by: vice magazine
i read reviews of this book and of course 944 and vice and all the usual suspects loved it but my friends and general online "real" people hated it. so i didn't have very high expectations b/c if the only people who like your book are your friends and the people in your book then chances are it's not actually any good. it read a lot like vice (the author writes very much about themselves and their opinion on something as the only correct way to perceive the topic). at least she admits ...more
Maziel
This book was about a girl named Lesley who troughout her life, she has experienced crazy and werid things. This book is a collection of her funniest diary entries from twelve to tweenty five years old. Every time she updates her diary entries, Lesley writes about and to her old friends from middle school, high school, and college. She asks them awkward questions like,"Do you remember when we started using heroin?"and "Do you remember when I tried to beat you up?" I really...more
Lori
the author is shallow and full of herself....basically, she's the person who just wants to go on and on and on because she likes hearing herself speak.

there is nothing useful or helpful here, the writing is weak, undeveloped, and juvenile; the author seems very proud of herself for what she was involved in--and what info there is of that is very sketchy. even as i was reading this 5-minute story, i found myself wondering why this book had been published at all.
Eliza
I was so intrigued by this book - it has the dramatic trifecta: sex, drugs, and rock and roll - that it's hard to believe how bored I was reading it. Even with all of the crazy things that were going on it wasn't fun to read. Lesley is hard to relate to. I felt like she was trying to impress us. I guess it comes down to the fact that I don't know her and she didn't manage to make me care about her story. I couldn't even finish the book.
Catherine
I think the ratings on this book are kind of harsh. I mean, once I started reading it, I couldn't quit. I mean, I literally read it all in less than 24 hours. But Lesley Arfin does come across as just a spoiled brat who got addicted to drugs, but just finds it hilarious now. She says over & over that she doesn't mean to glamorize drugs at all, but then in the next paragraph she's doing just that.
Melissa
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Kate P.
Lesley Arfin (Vice, Missbehave Magazine) re-visits her childhood by transcribing and responding to her diary entries from middle school thru to her 20s. Arfin recollects her experiences with boys, hardcore, drugs, and awful backstabbing friends. Almost any girl that hated high school and kept a diary can relate.
Jeannette
Lesley Arfin's diary entries started out being worried about being flat chested to attending hardcore shows with 23 year olds and then being addicted to heroin in college. Dear Diary is a fast read filled with honesty, but it lacks insight...I mean it's Arfin's continuation of her Vice magazine column and the book is published by Vice, after all. I think the book does get better once Arfin starts college since the interviews she does with the people she surrounded herself with at the time seemed...more
Lauren
I liked this book because there were definitely parts that were funny. I just have a hard time feeling anything other than annoyed at people who blame their addiction on others. (Arfin, like so many others, blames her addiction on her parents. C'mon now-we've all heard that one before!)
Andy
I enjoyed this book, but wish it had a bit more significance. The author has a lot of potential to impress, but some things are left unclear. There's also a substantial amount of unjustified whining. I still liked it though. It's a good representation of adolescence.
Naomi
Naomi rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: no one....
Oh where do I begin...

I guess I will begin with I was very disappointed with this book. I read reviews that compares this book to "Go Ask Alice"... ha. Whoever wrote that needs to re-read that book and then re-read "Dear Diary".

I think this book may have been able to be something great, well expect that Arfin lacks any seriously writing ability. And that fact this junkie lived off of her parents money for years... I mean you can't hate on someone fo...more
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Lesley Arfin has been writing professionally since 2001. She graduated from Hampshire College and immediately started an internship at Vice magazine, where she then went on to write a number of articles, as well as her own column, "Dear Diary."

In 2007 her book, Dear Diary, based on the column, was published by Vice Books/MTV Press. The introduction to the book was written by ...more
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“Ever notice how amused people are when you point out one of their mannerisms or a funny quirk about them? They start laughing and getting happy because they're thinking, "People notice me! I'm relevent!" It's OK to have these instincts, but you have to suppress them a bit. There are 6 billion people here, so it's not all about you. You need to let other people talk for a while and pay attention to their world for a sec.” 1 person liked it
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