The Sisters Antipodes
by
Jane Alison
A gorgeous and deeply intimate memoir about families breaking apart
When Jane Alison was a child, her family met another that seemed like its mirror: a father in the Foreign Service, a beautiful mother, and two little girls, the younger two (one of them Jane) sharing a birthday. The families became inseparable almost instantly. Within months, however, affairs ignited betwee...more
When Jane Alison was a child, her family met another that seemed like its mirror: a father in the Foreign Service, a beautiful mother, and two little girls, the younger two (one of them Jane) sharing a birthday. The families became inseparable almost instantly. Within months, however, affairs ignited betwee...more
Hardcover, 288 pages
Published
March 16th 2009
by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
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Man, I really loved this. Memoir might be another one of those things that I think I really hate, but in fact don't. I might just hate the idea of it, of how rampant it's become and how much memoir embodies this idea that's so pervasive right now about how everyone's individual story is so fascinating and important just because it's true, and how any level of event or emotional pain so significant and unique and worth moaning on about, only because it happened... A lot of the reviews on here too...more
Two couples, each with two daughters about the same age, meet in Australia. The fathers worked in Foreign Service. The couples switch partners, divorce, and the two daughters from each of the original couples end up living with their birth mothers and new stepfathers. Jane Alison is one of the daughters. Now one would think that situation would present the author with terrific fodder for a fascinating memoir. Nope!
Alison's memory is spotty at best, miring the reader down into the minutest detail...more
Alison's memory is spotty at best, miring the reader down into the minutest detail...more
I loved this book.
To put this in context, neither non-fiction generally, nor memoir specifically, are among my favourite genres. But this book is so well-crafted, so compelling, I was drawn in from the start.
Alison describes the trauma of her childhood, caused by her parents switching marriages with another couple, combined with both families travelling for diplomatic purposes, with incredible clarity and emotional truth. She goes on to discuss the fall-out for herself and one of her step-sister...more
To put this in context, neither non-fiction generally, nor memoir specifically, are among my favourite genres. But this book is so well-crafted, so compelling, I was drawn in from the start.
Alison describes the trauma of her childhood, caused by her parents switching marriages with another couple, combined with both families travelling for diplomatic purposes, with incredible clarity and emotional truth. She goes on to discuss the fall-out for herself and one of her step-sister...more
When author Jane Alison was four years old, her parents (Rosemary and Edward) divorced - trading partners with a couple who were close friends of the family and had children of a similar age. Jane and her older sister went to live with their mother and her new partner (Paul) and Jenny and her sister went to live with Jane’s father and Jenny’s mother (Helen). This is Jane and Jenny’s story. Being close in age, Jane and Jenny developed a fierce rivalry - each competing to win the love of their new...more
This has got to be one of the most beautifully-written books I've read in a long time. I'm not usually one for memoirs, but the story about two couples starting out as friends and then swapping partners could be the story of my childhood as that's what happened in my family. The resultant jealousy, feelings, rivalry still occur in our family 37 years later so it is definitely something I could identify with. For me this book was more the creation of an artist than a writer, as the descriptions f...more
I can't decide if I liked this story or not. In short, it's a story about a girl growing up whose parents got divorced and married another couple who also had daughters (so, each couple started with two girls, got divorced, the couples changed partners, the girls all grew up with new dads--very confusing, I know), and all of the heartache that followed. It is very intriguing, in a "can't stop looking at the car crash" kind of way, but it is hard to enjoy a book when every single character is com...more
Not that I usually like Memoirs...but I think you can really connect to the Girls in this book. They experience so many different things that it is impossible not to have empathy with them at some point or another during their lives. It is a little hard to get into despite the opening being as blunt as it is. Everything the synopsis tells you is revealed on the first page - leaving you feeling as if there can't be much more to tell, but the story takes an entirely new direction and shows a whirl...more
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This is a sad but beautifully written memoir about the life of the author. Jane Alison experienced a very strange breach of family at the age of four: her parents met another family that were the mirror images of themselves, both couples divorced and married a member of the other pair. As each family had two daughters of the same age, Jane grew up with a strong sense of competition for the affection of her father, who now lived with two other little girls, and her new stepfather, who still had a...more
An Australian family in the foreign service meets an American family, also in the foreign service, and with 2 similarly-aged daughters to match their own. The couples hit it off - so much so that they end up divorcing and swapping partners with each other. This is the true story of the author's childhood growing up with the repercussions of that situation. Communication at that time was expensive and not technologically advanced (ex: no email), so the geographical separation of the families due...more
This is a biography of Jane Alison...when she was 4 years old, her family met another family...each family had two little girls, and she was one of the younger ones, who shared the birthday as the other little girl, but who was one year older. The families spent lots of time together, and Jane and the other youngest girl, Jenny, often were bathed together, thus the title of the book...antipodes means two bodies pressed together...foot to foot, exactly how they bathed.
The two couples divorced, m...more
The two couples divorced, m...more
Okay, so for the record, for the entire time that I was reading this book I thought the pronunciation was (Ant-ee-podes) but someone just pointed out to me that it is most probably actually pronounced (An-tip-oh-dees). Sounds much better that way.
Eh, either way you pronounce it, I did not love this book. This book being The Sisters Antipodes by Jane Alison.
I really feel like such an asshole whenever I say I did not like a memoir. Or, I guess, any book. I mean, every book is someones hard work, s...more
Eh, either way you pronounce it, I did not love this book. This book being The Sisters Antipodes by Jane Alison.
I really feel like such an asshole whenever I say I did not like a memoir. Or, I guess, any book. I mean, every book is someones hard work, s...more
I'm sorry. I really, really wanted to like this. REALLY. But I just did not.
The story itself was interesting, but there wasn't actually that much story in it.
I agree with other reviewers in their comments that it's basically a purge for the writer...but for me, it just got annoying. I DID want to know more about what happened...I got tired of reading what seemed to be a personal, written therapy session.
Also, to be honest, you can use the word 'antipodal' once, twice tops in a book this size and...more
The story itself was interesting, but there wasn't actually that much story in it.
I agree with other reviewers in their comments that it's basically a purge for the writer...but for me, it just got annoying. I DID want to know more about what happened...I got tired of reading what seemed to be a personal, written therapy session.
Also, to be honest, you can use the word 'antipodal' once, twice tops in a book this size and...more
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This book is well-written. However, I finished it with a mixture of relief that it was over, sadness that these things would never be over for the author, and a strange disconnectedness from the events Alison discusses. I have a hard time reading works in which there is nothing uplifting amidst tragedy (and I have a fairly wide definition of "uplifting"), it is true. But I found myself, as awful as this sounds, not really caring what happened to Alison. There are so many utterly devastating true...more
I enjoyed the language of this memoir and found her descriptions of events, people, and feelings both poetic and vivid. My only complaint is that when recalling pivotal events and situations that no doubt shaped her life and psyche, she remains unsure of what exactly happened...often offering two very vivid accounts of how things "might have happened." I guess I felt that such events were so life-changing and important that it should have been recalled with certainty...at least, this would have...more
Een intrigerend verhaal, twee gezinnen met ieder twee dochters, waarvan de ouders van partner ruilen en aan verschillende kanten van de wereld gaan wonen. De hoofdpersoon is het jongste meisje, die haar hele leven concurreert met het jongste meisje in het andere gezin.
Maar de manier van schrijven spreekt mij niet aan. Ze is de hele tijd aan het analyseren hoe ze zich voelde, waarom ze zich zo voelde, waarom ze dingen deed. Ik lees veel liever alle gebeurtenissen zoals ze gingen, de rest kan ik z...more
Maar de manier van schrijven spreekt mij niet aan. Ze is de hele tijd aan het analyseren hoe ze zich voelde, waarom ze zich zo voelde, waarom ze dingen deed. Ik lees veel liever alle gebeurtenissen zoals ze gingen, de rest kan ik z...more
I really wanted to like this book (because of the complicated family arrangements that reminded me slightly of my own) but I just didn't. One reason is that Alison presumes--she admits she presumes--a LOT about what other people were thinking or feeling and she just doesn't KNOW; to me, that weakens the book. Why go on and on about what you THINK people were feeling followed by musings on how you're not SURE what they were ACTUALLY feeling? Second, I just don't feel that she made a strong enough...more
The problem I had with this book seems somewhat unfair, because it IS about her personal life, it just seemed there was never any release from the life her parents created. What a strange little world! Her writing is beautiful, no doubt, but I just kept feeling like I was on my way to some unknown destination and never arrived. I wouldn't say I hated it, just that I think she should have been more raw and open. I feel she left a lot out, maybe to protect? However, therein lies the point of memoi...more
Two married couples, each with two daughters, both in the foreign service decide to swap mates. For much of their childhood the girls are separated by their stepdads assigments, living with their mothers. Finally one of the couples divorces. Jane, her sister, and mother must stay in the United States, because they gave up their Australian citizenship to accomodate the marriage. Money becomes a big problem, but the other family is living in the lap of luxury. The trials of this set-up are monumen...more
I was looking forward to reading this book... And I had to wait a long time for it to become available at the library. But I am glad I didn't buy it because it didn't live up to the review that made me want to read it. It was interesting, but not nearly as "juicy" as I'd hoped. I thought it was going to be about something done secretly, but that wasn't the case. Not one of the characters evoked any sympathy from me. And there lacked a resolution of any kind. Basically it was a story about a bunc...more
This biographical account of the author's family, torn apart by infidelity, focuses on the history of two Australian couples, and the effect of divorce and remarriage on the children and parents. Part tribute to the stepsister with whom she competes for their fathers' love and attention, Jane confides and speculates about the skeletons in her family's closet in intimate fashion.
The writing is lovely, highly literary and reflective in tone, and the pace, leisurely. The themes of identity and self...more
The writing is lovely, highly literary and reflective in tone, and the pace, leisurely. The themes of identity and self...more
As a Queenie, I recall hearing Jane read from the text when it was still a manuscript. I could not WAIT for it to be published, and as soon as I got my copy, I devoured it. Jane's writing is both expressive and controlled, evocative and image-laden (which, as a poet, I appreciate greatly). Her honesty in detailing very painful family memories and scandals set this CNF selection apart from a few others I've read this year. Well-crafted, beautifully rendered. Many of the anecdotes within stick wit...more
This bizarre family story could have been fiction: two young families, much alike, on vacation. Both fathers are diplomats, lovely mothers, two daughters each, the younger with the same birthdays. From that vacation, affairs between the couples, then a switcheroo: divorce, remarriage, relocation. Daughters growing up not only without their own father, but with the feeling that they have been replaced by a new family, a similar family, on the other side of the world. Cue ensuing themes of jealous...more
Quote from the book:
"Girls who grow up without fathers are so full of longing."
This was a disturbing memoir about two couples who exchange spouses and presume all the daughters will be fine. In fact, both households are toxic and, ultimately, dangerous. The author's life was intertwined with a stepsister's, and she should have stayed far away from her as they were jealous of each other living with their own father. It was difficult for me to read to be reminded of my own abandonment issues.
"Girls who grow up without fathers are so full of longing."
This was a disturbing memoir about two couples who exchange spouses and presume all the daughters will be fine. In fact, both households are toxic and, ultimately, dangerous. The author's life was intertwined with a stepsister's, and she should have stayed far away from her as they were jealous of each other living with their own father. It was difficult for me to read to be reminded of my own abandonment issues.
I was not a fan. I mean, I'll be the first to admit that most books involve some tragedy or hardship or sadness and I do not NOT like books simply because they're depressing,(is there any great work of literature about something happy?), but this is one of the more glum (glummer?) books I have read in awhile. It read more like someone's therapy journal or a creative writing exercise on with all sorts of stream-of-consciousness passages and working through issues than a polished memoir and I coul...more
My friend was nice enough to give me this book. (thanks, S!) Sadly, I didn't love it. It was fascinating and on paper it sounds like it would be an incredible story: in the 60s, a girl's parents switch partners with another family, creating a mirror image family (both families had two girls about the same age) that lived on the other side of the world. However, I found that it was mostly a story about the author's lack and search of a father figure, a rather whiny story at that. Sorry, S!
I love memoirs in general, and this was a fascinating story. I saw another review that said the author's writing was "dreamy." I agree: it was dreamy, like memories often are when recalled years later.
It doesn't offer a perfect recall of events, and the main question that I had while reading it ("What really happened with the parents?!") was never answered. But, that seems right. This memoir is more concerned with how what happened created or effected the author's sense of identity than with wh...more
It doesn't offer a perfect recall of events, and the main question that I had while reading it ("What really happened with the parents?!") was never answered. But, that seems right. This memoir is more concerned with how what happened created or effected the author's sense of identity than with wh...more
This book is very different from what I normally read a memoir that doesn't have a lot of drama or the I want to know what happens next feeling. The focus of the book is really the impact of her familiies divorce and remarriage that happens when she is young. A great deal of the book is about her introspective and self analysis of her feelings of her different family members. There were some analogies and references to other books and characters that I wasn't always familiar with.
Jane Allison has "drawn" some really lovely, strong images. One particular expression of hers, I must steal and make my own, in the way writers do with material they read. This is her first memoir. Her other books were novels; I will keep them in mind for future reading. This memoir is definitely literary nonfiction. My old prof Maddy would approve. Should write her about this book, esp. since Alison teaches in Miami -- home of Maddy's old newspaper gig.
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Jane Alison was born in Canberra, Australia, and grew up in the Australian and U.S. foreign services. She attended public schools in Washington, D.C., and earned a B.A. in classics from Princeton University. Before writing fiction, she worked as an administrator for the National Endowment for the Humanities, as a production artist for the Washington City Paper, as an editor for the Miami New Times...more
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