Sex God: Exploring the Endless Connections Between Sexuality and Spirituality
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Sex God: Exploring the Endless Connections Between Sexuality and Spirituality

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Introduction: This is Really about ThatChapter One: God Wears LipstickChapter Two: Sexy on the InsideChapter Three: Angels and AnimalsChapter Four: Leather, Whips, and FruitChapter Five: She Ran into the Girls' BathroomChapter Six: Worth Dying ForChapter Seven: Under the ChuppahChapter Eight: Johnny and JuneChapter Nine: Whoopee ForeverEpilogue: More Balloons, PleaseEndnot...more
Hardcover, 201 pages
Published February 13th 2007 by Zondervan Publishing Company (first published February 2nd 2007)
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Andrea Zukewycz
I just finished this book and it was amazing! The way Rob Bell put things into perspective was awesome! As I was reading, I was like "wow, I never thought of it like that". He has a ton of wisdom and insight and it's awesome reading what he shares with us. I just wanted to share one part of it that I extra highlighted :) This is mainly for the ladies, but good for the men too.

"You don't need a man by your side to validate you as a woman. You already are loved and...more
Brittany
Brittany rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: ???People wanting to explore their sexuality???
Recommended to Brittany by: Saw it on a friend's book list
Before I get into the substance of the book, I would like to make a few notes about the composition.

One point I would like to make is that I now know why writers should not use one sentence paragraphs. They should not use one sentence paragraphs because it does not help with the flow of ideas or the point the author is trying to make (with my first paragraph of this review being an exception).

The other point or suggestion I would like to make is that the reader should ...more
Apple
Apple rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: every Christian leaning human being
Shelves: spiritual
This is possibly the most refreshingly accurate piece of work on sexuality by a Christian author I have ever encountered. But then again, Rob Bell is an exceptional observer of humanity and its spiritual side. If you have not read his first book, Velvet Elvis, I really suggest you visit that text before you jump into this; especially if you come from a background where everything biblical is hyper-literal (if you are recovering from that sort of situation, I completely empathize with you) or if ...more
Tim
Tim rated it 3 of 5 stars
Revised Review: 3/5

I think I have probably shifted my stance slightly with this book. As you might notice I took it down a notch to 3 stars instead of 4. And I also removed it from my 'recommended' shelf.

I would say it is because on further reflection, it is much more of a dangerous book than I would have originally thought. It is a little reductionist towards a Hebrew-centric view on marriage, and while the old testament was written by the Israelites, marriage was insti...more
Joe
Joe rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anybody
Shelves: faith
This book is simple and easy to read, but enthralling. In fact, I enjoyed it so much that, having read a borrowed copy, I'm going to buy it for myself (a much smarter approach than my usual, "buy it and sell it on Amazon if I don't want to keep it").

Moreover, contrary to the title, it's not just a book about sex and God, rather, it's a beautiful way to invite somebody who isn't all that familiar with the things of God to begin exploring how faith and life can connect, as it...more
Mark
Mark rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Someone interested in reading a book with a pink cover
Recommended to Mark by: friend at work
A friend at work gave this to me to read. It is by an evangelical preacher and explores the connections between being human and sexuality. I suppose it is good in light of how our society exploits and degrades human sexuality and he does a good job in pointing out that we need more in a relationship than the physical. But I felt like he often jumped from one thought or story to another without much continuity or without reaching conclusions and I was often left thinking yea... and what's your...more
Woowott
I'm done. I'm so done. I went into reading 'Love Wins' excited, hoping for some cool ideas. I thought it was limp. Shallow. So what do I do? I decide to look into what he has to say about sex.

Oh for. GAH. I need to STOP doing this to myself, but I have one more aggravating book waiting for me at the library.

I wish for five seconds he would stop pretending to be all hip and trendy. He's like a freakin' conservative in sheep's clothing. 'OHHH, I'm gonna be all DARING and say th...more
David Campton
I like Rob Bell's Nooma material and was impressed when I visited his Mars Hill Church in Grand Rapids, but there was a big part of me that wanted to hate this book from before I opened the first page. Why? Because so much time and effort has gone into the graphic design of the book that I feared it may be all style and no substance. And to a certain extent that is true. It is less substantial than it might be. For a starter, if it had been printed as a normal book, it would have been half the l...more
Dan
I can only give the book three stars because it wasn't what I expected, so I was let down. Perhaps if it was what I was hoping to get from my time spent with it, I would have liked it more. I wanted to be challenged. I read the title of the book and thought I would be challenged to pinpoint areas of lust in my life and my relationships and ways to combat them. Instead, the only discussions of lust were limited to ones talking about what lust leads to, why lust is bad-- and all in superficial...more
Andrew
Andrew rated it 4 of 5 stars
Before that book, the one about love winning, Rob Bell was already famous. He was famous because he'd written a book about the Christian faith called Velvet Elvis. Who'd ever heard of a book about Christianity having a title like Velvet Elvis? Extraordinary. His second book was called Sex God.

In both Velvet Elvis and Sex God, Rob Bell established a method of writing that revolves around a 'chatty' writing style, story-telling, the sound-bite, beautiful design, and of making statements...more
John
John rated it 4 of 5 stars
Save an extended discussion on the meaning of sexual in the second chapter, Bell pulls a fast one with this book. In a book entitled Sex God, with the reader anticipating a multiplicity of chapters on sex, Bell instead spends most of his time discussing what it means to be a good human being. And I am glad for that.

Bell is right. A proper view of sex is rooted in a proper view of what it means to be human. And so we learn about the importance of treating each other as human beings, tha...more
Jason
Jason rated it 3 of 5 stars
I have heard a lot about Rob Bell and seen several of his NOOMA videos. If you have heard him speak, or seen one of his videos, this book seems to follow that type of story telling approach. Connecting things that we all do everyday or hear about or think about to God and how He engages us to have a relationship with Him.
I found in this book that Rob does do a great job of reminding all of us of the value God has in each of us and that He continues to remind us of His desires for us th...more
Theresa Leone Davidson
I'm not sure if I'm supposed to know who Rob Bell is but I don't, and I came to the book without preconceived notions. Insomuch as it relates to two of my favorite topics, God and sex, I enjoyed reading the book, although I must say there was nothing new nor particularly enlightening. He writes that God wants us to explore our sexuality but only with the person to whom we are married; I agree, IF you're married. I am much more God-centered now than I was all through my 20s and early 30s, before ...more
Mac
How can you not love Rob Bell? The man has been given an incredible gift of insight and communication. He explains things so profoundly, yet, so simply. It's a solid combination.

Turns out this book is more about God and His love than sex, but it will get you thinking. A lot. A lot about what you really want, what you expect from a relationship, what you're willing to give, and what is the point of it to begin with?

I'd say for anyone who isn;y a believer in Christ, a...more
James (JD) Dittes
I have to say that I appreciated the pacing of this book (which I listened to on my iPod). Bell begins in Genesis, builds through Song of Solomon and closes by connecting many of Christ's images to those of the Jewish wedding.

This book is NOT for fundamentalists, and Bell gives fair warning early in the book. For those with an intellectual or spiritual bent, however, you will find it enlightening and thought-provoking.

Listening to the book had its advantages. Bell is a speaker, and he can't...more
Jonathan Spangler
Jonathan Spangler rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Matthew Hart
Rob Bell does a pretty good job with this book. The title is somewhat not fitting in that he doesn't explore the "endless" connections. Just a few in my opinion. Chapters 1,3, and 7 were the most insightful for me. This book was an easy read that helps the eyes not get tired by spacin out lines and thoughts. I would recommend this book!
Tori
Tori rated it 3 of 5 stars
I've seen a couple of Rob Bell's Nooma videos in church, and I've been following the press he's received lately thanks to his "controversial" notions of heaven and hell. I agree with much of what he preaches, but sometimes I think there's a little too much music video production quality and not enough substance in his message. This book is a bit music video, too: lots of white space in the design, stylish type face, staccato writing style.

Of course I couldn't resist this book...more
Troy Tenney
The title, 'Sex God' seems to be a marketing ploy to try to get some shock value. Rob Bell is the founding pastor at Mars Hill Bible Church, and I absolutely loved this book. It talks about intimacy - and not just in the sexual sense - and how it relates to spirituality. He has a way of telling stories to brilliantly illustrate his point, and to also shed some new light on biblical verses. As a Latter-Day Saint, the last chapter is the only one that I didn't completely agree with. Basically at t...more
Carrie
I suppose I should start by saying that this isn't even a book I purchased for myself, as religious non-fiction doesn't tend to be my genre of choice. I picked this up for my husband a few months ago, and after he finished it, twice over, he asked me to read it so that we could discuss it. I wasn't really sure what to expect from a book named "Sex God," but I figured it couldn't be bad - the author is Rob Bell, pastor at Mars Hill, which is the church I attend (irregularly). I enjoy hi...more
Chandra
Rob makes some REALLY good points through the book, and it's done in his engaging, conversational, mildly snarky style. While I happily read it on my own, I've delved into some of the points he raises with friends in discussion, and it'd be particularly well-suited for a college/young adult class, for single/married/mixed groups (not that an older crowd couldn't enjoy it, as well!).

There are times where Rob dwells on an idea a little long--he's made the point, but keeps making it--b...more
Reed Stratton
Rob Bell is brillant in his candor, and he's not afraid to shake up the Christian-book world. A title like Sex God really stands out in the usually conservative, restrained Christian section, but Bell is quick to explain where the title came from, and if you give him a chance it will make perfect sense. Basically, he compares the intimacy that we should desire to have with God to the initimacy that we desire to have with our fellow human beings. When you think about it, isn't that the best way t...more
Kyna
Kyna rated it 4 of 5 stars
I was first drawn to this because of it's title and good things I'd heard about the author. I wasn't disappointed. The only reason I don't give it five stars is that it wasn't life changing for me. I pretty much already feel what he says in the book. But, on that note, it is refereshing to actually find someone who is writing in a fresh and relevant way about this topic. Very few Christian authors go so bold as to say "sex is really about God." And, well, it is! I especially recommend ...more
Alisa Wilhelm
Rob Bell has a writing style similar to Donald Miller—conversational, lilting, and weaving personal stories with broader spiritual themes. Rob Bell is primarily a pastor. Donald Miller is primarily an author. I think this difference is key.

While this book did open up my eyes to new concepts and perspectives of sexuality, I wish that Bell had said these things in a film. He writes like he is talking to you, and I think the medium should be appropriate to the subject matter.

...more
Dru
It was a wonderful read! Incredibly insightful and it got me to contemplate many things that were brought up in the book. Bell had me redefine submission, love, and more. I don't mean I ate up what he said, but he made me look at what he had to offer, his thoughts, and look at what I already know and figure out a new perspective on it all. It definitely was a great conversation starter for my boyfriend and I! I think it's a must for anybody in relationships- or wants to be in one. Actually if yo...more
Art
Rob Bell has a knack for starting out with a provocative headliner or story and turning it into a life lesson (e.g. the title of this book). I think he offers a good start for explorers who do want to link their sexuality with God's spirituality. I say "a good start" because I think he mostly writes about the boundaries for singles and for marrieds to consider in their sexual explorations, and he offers good reasons as to why those boundaries exist. Those who read this may find that th...more
Dave
Dave rated it 4 of 5 stars
As always, Rob Bell manages to take the thorniest issues and illuminate them with perfect clarity, insight and wit. Here, he discusses how sex and love are intended to be synonymous, and that problems arise when we try to have one without the other. (This indeed both goes both ways -- he repeatedly emphasizes ancient Israeli marriage consummation practices, with the idea being that your commitment isn't made official until you've united physically as well as emotionally and spiritually). In addi...more
Alex
I would recommend this book to most open-minded Christians, but it's not a favorite among those I've read. It made some good points, but was often lacking on deep analysis, some of the Bible quotes were questionable/flimsy. I think his ideas are good and to some extent we don't need to look any farther than simply the words on the page. Often it felt like a good idea was muddled up by quoting the Bible. Sometimes good advice is just good advice.

The earlier chapters felt stronger than...more
Steve
Steve rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: emergentia
This book had several good thoughts in it, but on the whole, was not as succesful as it could have been.

I must admit that two things struck me before I read this book. First, many people I know pooh-pooh Rob Bell's teaching. Secondly, I was fascinated by the fact that he wanted to explore the connections between sexuality and spirituality, a tradition that goes back to Hebrew writing, to medieval interpretations of "Song of Songs" and to Christian thinkers like John Donne...more
Chelsea
I wish I could rate each chapter of this book individually. There were definitely some five star chapters. There were certain sections of the book that seemed startling and compelling. And there were others that seemed obvious or exaggerated. The Sex-God connection really worked in some places and seemed overreaching in others. Still it is such an avoided topic and I commend Rob Bell for approaching it so directly. That was wonderful! Bravo. I want to see more of that. (This would be a great boo...more
Kathryn
Kathryn rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: Anyone who ever has or ever will be in a relationship
Recommended to Kathryn by: B. Leach/Lindsey P. :-)
Shelves: christian
First off, what attracted me to this book was the author, Rob Bell. I have heard him speak at my church a few times in the past five or six years, and he is a dynamic speaker. What I especially admire about him is his strong foundation in Judiasm, particularly the language, history, and customs. This foundational knowledge really allows him to explain texts in the Bible. While reading this book, I had so many "wow, i never knew that" moments.

I will admit, I found the first ...more
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