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So you've heard that lesbians are chic, hot, and the "next big thing" but you still wonder what is all the fuss about a Middle Eastern country? Well, So You Want to Be a Lesbian? is here to rescue America from its confusion. It is the essential travel guide to the Sapphic landscape, illustrating key terms, "coming out" (how to do it without having your aunt collapse in the...more
Paperback, 240 pages
Published July 15th 1996 by St. Martin's Griffin
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Aug 07, 2011 Mary rated it 3 of 5 stars
Recommended to Mary by: KerryMara Moore
This book was a gag gift from my roommate, but it looked amusing and wasn't very long, so I thought I'd give it a go. In spite of the title, it contains more practical advice and less goofy humour than one might expect. If I were actually a lesbian, I'd probably have given it a better rating. Aside from my being obviously not the target audience, the book's main problem is that it is very dated. It was published in 1996, when the internet was still in its infancy, and gay marriage seemed like an...more
This book is SO funny! If you need to take a break from the seriousness of life this is the book for you. While done in a lighthearted fun way it does actually inform. For instance there is a list of lesbian authors through the ages where you might find someone you weren't familiar with. Mostly for laughs but might be helpful for a baby-dyke. If you don't know what that means - buy this book NOW!
this is actually pretty funny. it's a little outdated with some of the cultural references and of course stereotypes but hey, it definitely made me laugh several times with important sections on things like "the great lesbian haircut conspiracy" and silly "if your gonna be a lesbo, you have to know about these celebrities" etc. and dyke drama. it's funny because it's true.
Offers step-by-step instructions for discovering what kind of lesbian you want to be, preparing for your LAT's, and fielding the five questions guys will ask you once you're out.
This was the first "gay" book I bought when I was coming out...and actually my best friend at the time bought it for me. It's a funny lil book.
This was the first book I read when I came out. I laughed so hard at a very difficult time for me.
Freyja Vanadis
Fun, tongue-in-cheek look at lesbian life in all its glories and foibles. It was published in 1996 so a whole lot of it is very outdated, though. Some of the pop culture references will go right over newer lesbians' heads because they just don't apply any more.
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