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The New Bottoming Book
Almost a decade ago, the first Bottoming Book taught tens of thousands of people that bottoming - being a submissive, masochist, slave, 'boy' or 'girl, ' or other BDSM recipient -- is as much an art as topping. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possi...more
Paperback, 2nd (revised & updated) edition, 185 pages
Published
September 1st 2001
by Greenery Press (CA)
(first published February 1st 1994)
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Dec 28, 2007
Joe S
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
all of my future boyfriends, from now on
Shelves:
nonfiction
If you want a how-to book, this isn't it. If you want a why-for book, this is your baby. I wish I would have found this book years ago. For people who are already in the game, it's a quirky, fun reaffirmation and reminder of the basics. And while you won't learn the practical importance of, say, different commercial-grade leathers, I think the authors do a pretty good job of guiding readers to the psychological space you'll need to find once you do snag a good top who knows his way around a dung...more
I'm having so many emotions right now after finishing this, and I hope I can reign them in a bit during the following series of anguished ramblings. Actually, I think I might let loose a little, just because reading this was a personal experience and I don't know how else to talk about it without feeling weird.
I really should have read this earlier. If I ever become some kind of kindly kinky elderly mother figure, I will pass this book out to anybody who I think needs it. There's so much vital i...more
I really should have read this earlier. If I ever become some kind of kindly kinky elderly mother figure, I will pass this book out to anybody who I think needs it. There's so much vital i...more
Very Interesting - Whilst I learnt a lot about a many different aspects of Bottoming. I found Part 1 to be the most beneficial. Preconceptions vs Truth. The Net. Getting in touch with you.My copy has just about every second page highlighted or annotated in Part 1.
I thought Part 2 whilst extensive in the types of play ,I felt that the authors reminiscing of their conquests detracted from the actual "playing". The mention of "waxplay" had me sit up but then there was nothing about it(I will have t...more
I thought Part 2 whilst extensive in the types of play ,I felt that the authors reminiscing of their conquests detracted from the actual "playing". The mention of "waxplay" had me sit up but then there was nothing about it(I will have t...more
Although I appreciate Easton's work, I feel that I run into the same wall every time I read something by her. Every point she makes are ones I already know, in a way; it's all common sense, lessons learned through living, and epiphanies we all come to at some point. We all know that in order to be the best bottom we can be, we must communicate with our top. We must respect our top. We must respect ourselves. Etc. We all are very aware of these things, but every now and then, we need reminding. W...more
Dec 29, 2007
Sienna Herrin
rated it
4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
anyone who has sex
Shelves:
sexuality
Again more validation and a new insight into my own personal power dynamic in a sexual relationship.
Jul 29, 2007
Mark Stone
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
tops, bottoms, switches, and anyone else interested in BDSM sexuality.
Shelves:
sex
When my girlfriend and I took our questions about our burgeoning interest in BDSM to our more experienced friends in Washington D.C., they recommended that we start with this book, and it's sister The New Topping Book. The authors write with wit and compassion, making this a fun, sexy, and comforting read.
It's important to remember, however, that this isn't a 'how-to' manual. It won't tell you how to play BDSM games with your lover - at most, there are a few scenes you might find interesting. I...more
It's important to remember, however, that this isn't a 'how-to' manual. It won't tell you how to play BDSM games with your lover - at most, there are a few scenes you might find interesting. I...more
Read during a SFSI shift along with The Sexually Dominant Woman.The Topping Book is much better organized and offers really excellent theory. I’m skeptical of these two authors--The Ethical Slut put me off open relationships for years—but I really enjoyed reading this.
The best thing about this was the former subtitle (removed in this edition): How to Get Terrible Things Done to You By Wonderful People. Astonishingly boring, I thought, given its subject matter.
A very respectfully-written introduction that is suitable for those just getting started. I wish they would write a book like specifically for couples!
Helped me understand the psychological side of submission better than anything else I've read on the subject. Very good book for the curious.
The companion book to "The Topping Book". The next level after reading SM101 & Screw the Roses. Silly illustrations. Amusing anecdotes. Good advice.
Aug 17, 2009
Barb
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In order to be a well informed top, I felt I needed to continue to understand bottoming better...this book was so helpful...
A very light overview of BDSM practices, psychology, and culture, focusing on the why and what of subbing.
Seeing the other side was very useful, although I learnt little that I didn't get from the companion volume. As always, Easton & Hardy are confident, fun and responsible authors, although their need to include spirituality (thankfully in a dedicated chapter) in everything is sometimes a bit hard work.
decent tidbits, but felt like this could have been very compressed.
A good read for newbies as well as seasoned submissives.
way better written than the topping book.
Jun 15, 2009
Bunny
marked it as to-read
Might not read it on lunch break.
Very informative and a great beginner's book.
The New Bottoming Book is a good starter book for those interested in the sub aspect of a BDSM lifestyle, either as a bottom or a top. This is not the end all, be all, but gives a good idea of what can be expected, real life scenarios, and a basic understanding of the lifestyle.
I like the authors use of real life experiences to illustrate situations and expectations. I came with a better understanding of what I want from the lifestyle. Good way to begin.
I like the authors use of real life experiences to illustrate situations and expectations. I came with a better understanding of what I want from the lifestyle. Good way to begin.
I thought it was amazing. It got me thinking about my kink in a new way and allowed me to vocalize fantasies that I've had in my mind waiting to come to the surface. I would definitely recommend this to anyone looking to get into the world of BDSM and is interested in being the one receiving the "punishment." There's so many facets to the world of BDSM and some education is definitely a good idea.
This book made me feel beautiful and powerful as a bottom, I love it.
Dec 17, 2012
Julie
added it
Good... twas a fast read so I got through it quickly!
I decent how to book for newbies interesting in subbing. This is a start. The book is written in a light and easy manner. It explains scenes and the thought process to those who are just looking into this lifestyle.
Another informative book about the D/s lifestyle that's geared towards the bottom, although Dominants may want to read and glean a little info from also.
Pretty basic, but entertaining and left me wanting more, so I guess that's a good thing.
This book is really good for someone interested in bottoming that is still new to it. I'm not new to it, but it was still a good read.
If you'd like to know what I thought of this book, please contact me directly and I'd be happy to discuss it with you.
All the best,
-->S.
All the best,
-->S.
A must have for any kinky folk.
it hurts so good
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Jan 10, 2008 09:11pm
We were talking about a book? I thought we were all just rubbing each ot...more
Jan 11, 2008 06:50pm