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Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits : Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships

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Paperback, 180 pages
Published June 1st 1997 by Intinet Resource Center (first published March 1997)
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Joseph T Farkasdi
Jul 03, 2008 Joseph T Farkasdi rated it liked it
My wife and I have a blessed relationship. The reason for this is because our relationship is grounded in certain keys ways. We married with the intent to mutually grow together, to openly experience each other's natures, and to be supportive rather than judgmental of each other. We married for the pro-family oriented structure that a committed partnership can bring to a home environment, and simply because we love each other. And, at first glance, our relationship appears to be the traditionall ...more
Kristine (fezabel)
Mar 09, 2011 Kristine (fezabel) rated it really liked it
Shelves: own, reference
This book always comes up in discussions about polyamory and its many forms. It is a great intro to polyamory, as well as a good reference for people already into the poly lifestyle. I found some important parts to be geared more for later in the relationship rather than introductory. But all in all, an excellent resource for polyamory.
Nov 26, 2008 Shaun rated it did not like it
Blah, blah, blah. I was kind of excited to read this book to know more about the polyamorous lifestyle. I was kind of disappointed though because the material seemed to be common sense for someone who wants this type of lifestyle: overcome jealousy, get involved with people that you feel like you can get involved with, and don't get involved with people you don't like. Seriously? That's the advice?

The other part of the book mentions about attending workshops to help you and your loved one(s) to
Oct 09, 2010 April rated it really liked it
This book is a great introduction to the polyamorous lovestyle and an excellent way to explain to folks the differences many people who identify as "poly" see existing between themselves and "swingers" because there are fundamental differences...the nomenclature just hasn't settled out yet. One complaint- I wish there was a newer edition with more up-to-date resources.
Frl Drosselmeyer
Jun 30, 2015 Frl Drosselmeyer rated it did not like it
Polyvangelical. Comforting if you're the choir wanting to be preached to. Has a few case studies, not a great deal of practical advice. Read Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy instead, or Tristan Taormino.
Jul 11, 2013 Nandi rated it liked it
Enjoyed reading this, and getting inspiration on being more honest with others. Not necessarily the path for me, but interesting none the less. There are times where the author made me go 'Huh?', like when she was over promoting her workshops (the promotion of her other stuff in this book was the "surprise" it was the over kill of it at times) and a few times when she, more or less, forced the idea that "If where you're living is TOO rural or TOO isolated - move and move NOW!" sort of attitude b ...more
May 08, 2008 Jonathan rated it liked it
You can have as many sexual partners as you like, and so can they; and as long as everyone knows what's what, it's all hunky-dory.
Jun 12, 2010 Elicia rated it liked it
Really informative with personal anecdotes from the authors.
Oct 05, 2009 Danita rated it it was ok
Shelves: the-sex-shelf
annoyingly smug
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