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August 1st 2003
(first published 2001)
by Droemersche Verlagsanstalt Th. Knaur Nachf., GmbH & Co.
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Paperback, 340 pages
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3426615355
(isbn13: 9783426615355)
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In Nick Hornby's How to Be Good, Katie Carr is certainly trying to be. That's why she became a GP. That's why she cares about Third World debt and hom...more
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Read in September, 2006
Katie Carr is unhappy with her marriage: her husband David is bitter, sarcastic, and angry (professionally, even -- he writes a column for the local paper called "The Angriest Man in Holloway"), and what Katie thinks she wants is for her life to remain structurally the same but for David not to be David anymore. Alas, she gets her wish. After visiting a healer called GoodNews, who heals his bad back with a touch, David undergoes an extreme spiritual conversion: his anger disappears, he...more
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Read in May, 2007
To say I didn't get this book would be a profound understatement. Near as I can tell, it's about all the terrible, mundane ways life can grind you down, how hypocracy gets all of us in the end, and the way what was once beloved can turn into what you hate in the ones you used to love.
I found this book tremendously depressing. Also, it made me never want to get married or have kids. Ever.
I was tremendously disappointed in the ending as well, at the same time as I admire...more
I found this book tremendously depressing. Also, it made me never want to get married or have kids. Ever.
I was tremendously disappointed in the ending as well, at the same time as I admire...more
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how to be good
As long time readers know (or maybe you don't) Maria and I read to each other. One of the joys of "naked Sunday" is the fact that we don't have to get up, spend the day wandering around the flat in our pyjamas (just 'cos it is called "naked Sunday" doesn't necessarily mean that we spend the day nekkid!), basically just slob about.
This Sunday we spent the whole morning (and a bit of the afternoon) in bed. We ate cereal, we drank cokes and ...more
As long time readers know (or maybe you don't) Maria and I read to each other. One of the joys of "naked Sunday" is the fact that we don't have to get up, spend the day wandering around the flat in our pyjamas (just 'cos it is called "naked Sunday" doesn't necessarily mean that we spend the day nekkid!), basically just slob about.
This Sunday we spent the whole morning (and a bit of the afternoon) in bed. We ate cereal, we drank cokes and ...more
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Read in April, 2006
Well-written, compelling, blah blah blah. I'm sick of books about affairs and divorce.
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Read in October, 2008
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Núria y Kitty Wurecommends it for: a todo el mundo, ya verán que tiene algo para cada quien
Mi primer Hornby ¡Hurra! Gracias Kitty, gracias Núria excelente recomendación. Ya tengo 31 Canciones en la repisa.
¿Por dónde comenzar?
Será por mi absoluta identificación con el mundo reflexivo de la Doctora Katie Carr.
En su mente, es decir donde sucede toda la novela, soy ella. No en sus acciones y decisiones, y definitivamente no soy ella en el rumbo que toma su vida ni en su destino final, yo de la primera página en adelante hubiese derrotado por c...more
¿Por dónde comenzar?
Será por mi absoluta identificación con el mundo reflexivo de la Doctora Katie Carr.
En su mente, es decir donde sucede toda la novela, soy ella. No en sus acciones y decisiones, y definitivamente no soy ella en el rumbo que toma su vida ni en su destino final, yo de la primera página en adelante hubiese derrotado por c...more
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I think "How to be Good" certainly divided fans of Hornby who were used to his musical themes in High Fidelity and 31 Songs and his style in About a Boy. He was given a lot of criticism for writing the book from the perspective of a middle aged female but this did not bother me in the slightest. In fact I thought the book was witty and well written. I found myself identifying with Katie, despite her whiny repetitive moments. I loved her inner voice - I found things written on the page ...more
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Read in October, 2008
Ini buku dikasih Roos krn dia ga suka (1 bintang!), tapi setelah kubaca sesungguhnya aku bingung knp Roos ga suka ya? Oke, terjemahannya memang kaku, tapi masih bisa dibaca meski jadinya nyebelin. Tapi di balik itu, ini buku bagus. Judul Indonesianya Suami Sempurna memang ngaco, krn ga ada hubungannya dg soal suami. How to be Good adalah soal bagaimana bersikap baik (atau apa sih definisi baik itu) di abad ke-21 yang kelewat kompleks ini?
Katie Carr seorang dokter beranak dua, dia yak...more
Katie Carr seorang dokter beranak dua, dia yak...more
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Read in June, 2007
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Read in August, 2008
recommends it for:
Carmen, Thomas and anyone who can admit to being human and flawed and can appreciate wry humor
Loved this book! I didn't think I would, actually, because it opens with the decaying of a marriage between two Brits with kids. The subject just doesn't grab me much, I mean, as escapist reading why would I want to read about an unhappy marriage? Before I knew it, though, I was sucked in by the marvelous writing and witty humor of Nick Hornby.
I had no idea where this book was going. There are so many unpredictable twists and turns and just when you think it couldn't get any crazi...more
I had no idea where this book was going. There are so many unpredictable twists and turns and just when you think it couldn't get any crazi...more
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I don't know why I keep pickingup Nick Hornby books, except that there are folks who keep telling me he's really good. But every time I try and read him, Hugh Grant's voice presides in my head, and I find that I want to slap an number of the characters silly. Oh well.
From the Publisher
How to Be Good is a story for our times—a humorous but uncompromising look at what it takes, in this day and age, to have the courage of our convictions. In his third novel, Nick Hornby, whom T...more
From the Publisher
How to Be Good is a story for our times—a humorous but uncompromising look at what it takes, in this day and age, to have the courage of our convictions. In his third novel, Nick Hornby, whom T...more
Read in April, 2008
This book made me sad. It was really, really depressing. In fact, so much that it actually put me in a bad mood while I was reading it.
Don't get me wrong; there were flashes of humor, clever writing, and certainly it begs a lot of introspection. But it was a real downer. None of the hope of "About a Boy", and although I haven't read "High Fidelity", I've seen that movie, and I think that had hope too.
So here's what I started writing after the first...more
Don't get me wrong; there were flashes of humor, clever writing, and certainly it begs a lot of introspection. But it was a real downer. None of the hope of "About a Boy", and although I haven't read "High Fidelity", I've seen that movie, and I think that had hope too.
So here's what I started writing after the first...more
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Read in January, 2006
I enjoyed Nick Hornby's "Long Way Down" (book #1) so much that I decided to grab another one of his books at the library when I was there last. How to be Good was another great Hornby book as far as I'm concerned. Hornby's "thing" seems to take a very dark premise and write the hell out of it. Last time it was suicide, this time it's divorce.
Katie Carr, GP, considers herself to be a "good" person, despite being in a miserable marriage, (married to the se...more
Katie Carr, GP, considers herself to be a "good" person, despite being in a miserable marriage, (married to the se...more
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Read in February, 2009
I recently re-read this delightful, quirky book. Hornby succeeds in creating a thoughtful parady about how to be good in our self-centered, capitalistic society -- under the guise of a breezy, familiar tale about a marriage gone sour during mid-life crisis. We find pieces of ourselves woven into highly memorable characters -- there is the narrator (Kate) a doctor and self-proclaimed "do-gooder", who is about to leave her grumpy, sarcastic jerk of a husband, David. Life turns ...more
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Read in May, 2009
The narrator is Katie, A British Doctor bored with her negative husband and their marriage. She wants to feel good, loved, and appreciated and thinks that a divorce and an extramarital fling might be her answer. She begins to contemplate "How good do you have to be to be 'good'?" especially when her husband befriends a healing do-good guru, whom he invites to live with them and their two children. Under the influence of Good News, David takes in the homeless, gives away his children'...more
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Read in December, 2008
three stars. I liked it.
Nick Hornby is a wonderful writer. He's funny, raw, and creative with his words.
Despite what the bright yellow book cover may suggest, the story is quite depressing. You can't help but fall in love with each character in the family: the deeply cynical, over-thinking but under-engaging mother; the misanthropic-turned-altruistic (and spiritual) father; the adorably optimistic bleeding-heart 8-year old daughter; and the stoic teenage son. Also the f...more
Nick Hornby is a wonderful writer. He's funny, raw, and creative with his words.
Despite what the bright yellow book cover may suggest, the story is quite depressing. You can't help but fall in love with each character in the family: the deeply cynical, over-thinking but under-engaging mother; the misanthropic-turned-altruistic (and spiritual) father; the adorably optimistic bleeding-heart 8-year old daughter; and the stoic teenage son. Also the f...more
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Of the three Hornby books I've read (Slam, and A Long Way Down) this was my least favorite. I suspect Hornby wrote the main character to be somewhat unlikeable but he did not carry it off as well as in "A Long Way Down." I was frustrated by the main character, Katie, her constant debating whether or not to divorce her husband, and I really didn't like her husband (I got the feeling we weren't supposed to). I guess the message of the book is that two people can be somewhat unlikeable to...more
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Read in February, 2009
I've read About a Boy and High Fidelity, both after already seeing the films they inspired. I still enjoyed those books despite already knowing the general stories. With How to Be Good I was excited to experience Nick Hornby without any idea where the story would go.
This book was funny, depressing, and eloquent. Hornby is great at instilling his characters with honesty; they're understandable, fragile, and often despicable. I think I'll take the time to read the rest of his books...more
This book was funny, depressing, and eloquent. Hornby is great at instilling his characters with honesty; they're understandable, fragile, and often despicable. I think I'll take the time to read the rest of his books...more
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Read in March, 2009
HTBG is about Katie Carr, a family physician who has had it up to here with her husband David, "the Angriest Man in Holloway". On the verge of divorcing him, she wishes that he was a better person, less angry and cynical, and more caring.
Out of the blue, her wish is granted! Through a chance meeting with a stranger, David is inspired to be a better person. He even goes so far as to invite the homeless to stay in their house, and their neighbor's.
Katie is underst...more
Out of the blue, her wish is granted! Through a chance meeting with a stranger, David is inspired to be a better person. He even goes so far as to invite the homeless to stay in their house, and their neighbor's.
Katie is underst...more
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It seems to me now that the plain state of being human is dramatic enough for anyone; you don't need to be a heroin addict or a performance poet to experience extremity. You just have to love someone.
Great book. Hornby is a wonderful writer. His characters and very real and everyday.
In this story, Katie Carr's marriage is suffering because her husband is angry and sarcastic. She doesn't want to divorce him, but she doesn't want him to be who he is. She wants to still be m...more
Great book. Hornby is a wonderful writer. His characters and very real and everyday.
In this story, Katie Carr's marriage is suffering because her husband is angry and sarcastic. She doesn't want to divorce him, but she doesn't want him to be who he is. She wants to still be m...more
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Read in May, 2003
This is a good book. But only good - not great as I would normally expect from Hornby. A 3-star review for a Nick Hornby book, at least from me, is the same as a fail. This was the first time that Hornby disappointed me (it happens with other authors, too). I think he had extended himself a bit too far beyond his comfort zone. In this novel Hornby is not wittily describing the behaviour and opinionated ramblings of a music*/football*/girl* (*delete where applicable) -obsessed bloke. Instead he c...more
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"I'd thought I'd live with my wife, but I couldn't find one."
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