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The Sexual Life of Catherine M.
A national best-seller that was featured on such lists as The New York Times, the Los Angeles Times, The Washington Post, the San Francisco Chronicle, The Boston Globe, and Publishers Weekly, The Sexual Life of Catherine M. was the controversial sleeper hit of the year. Since her youth, Catherine Millet, the eminent editor of Art Press, has led an extraordinarily active an...more
Paperback, 224 pages
Published
April 14th 2003
by Grove Press
(first published 2000)
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Day 24 I’ve been trying to work out how to describe my latest knitwear creation. Just imagine you were getting too much. Honestly, way too much. You can’t wake up in the morning or walk down the street for lunch without somebody wanting it. So you put on this jumper and I’m buggered if I understand what happens next. Something to do with quantum physics, at any rate. You ar...more
I nearly want to reread this to see how she pulls off the remarkable feat of writing about having limitless unbridled ravenous multiorgasmic sex and making it duller than the weekly shop in Sainsburys and less erotic than funny shaped vegetables. "Oh look, dear - there's a two for one offer on lesbians this week." "Hmmm... we just don't have enough room in the fridge. And they look a bit wrinkly to me."
I was really looking forward to reading this, albeit in a "trashy-Nora Roberts" kind of way. If anything, I was hoping it might be some triumph for women's lib, that Catherine Millet was able to own her sexuality and not be afraid of "having sex like a man". However, she somehow takes a subject that should be interesting and juicy and makes it dull and lifeless.
This was easily the most boring thing I have read. a coveted spot formerly reserved for Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Those promoting ab...more
This was easily the most boring thing I have read. a coveted spot formerly reserved for Jonathan Livingston Seagull. Those promoting ab...more
There have been lots of great reviews for this book so go read some of the 4 and 5 star ones.....most of the reviews for 3 stars and below really miss the point of this book, they're either looking for a porn style tittilation, an erotic 'story', or literature (with no knowledge of either erotica or porn) this provides neither. I wouldn't even call it a memoir, more an exploration into why and how Ms Millet explores her sexuality through her numerous erotic encounters, and how her mind and body...more
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“Millet’s sexual memoir...actually succeeded in taking the sexy out of sex, surely her greatest obscenity,” writes one reviewer of The Sex Life of Catherine M. Mario Vargas Llosa described the book as a “carnal gymnasium, devoid of any sentiment or emotion.” Even Jean Baudrillard chaffed at Millet’s exposure: “If one lifts one’s skirt, it is to show one’s self, not to show oneself naked like truth.” Written with the precise eye of an art critic, the book is a fantastically detailed, if detached...more
In the beginning, I found it highly amusing that Catherine Millet spoke so candidly about very detailed, raunchy sexual escapades while still maintaining a very proper voice. In fact, when I began the story, I read it next next to a man who had his own book to read. Heavily into war and politics, his reading material was something about the situation of world affairs, but every time I looked over, I noticed that his eyes were on the pages of my book! It was unfortunate that Millet's voice so qui...more
Catherine M is sexless (at least towards men), as cold and clinical as a mortician. Fuck that! She has no passion, no fire, no desire even. She just does--in every imaginable way, which isn't shocking, just curiously boring and unexciting. The only scene that showed a peep of desire was, no surprise, when she was with a woman, which makes it clear she can fuck men (and many at one time) to her heart's content with no strings attached because she doesn't give a damn for guys. If she'd only explor...more
Embora não sendo um apreciador de romances eróticos, este ”A vida sexual de Catherine M.” chegou-me às mãos de uma forma muito curiosa, parecendo ser uma daquelas situações ocasionais do destino que me colocaram nas mãos um livro que poderia ser interessante analisar e perceber até onde teria ido essa tal Catherine M., sobretudo depois de saber que este livro criou um grande impacto em França.
Do livro, uma questão fulcral se levanta: ”O que leva uma conhecida crítica de arte, ainda por mais, dir...more
Do livro, uma questão fulcral se levanta: ”O que leva uma conhecida crítica de arte, ainda por mais, dir...more
I suppose this was supposed to be propaganda for a lifestyle of casual sex with whoever comes your way. God know I'm open-minded, but I don't think I've ever been so turned off by a naughty book. She seems completely checked out of all the fucking she's doing, often narrating from a distance as she's getting stuffed full of cock. If she think it's this wonderful, liberating thing she's discovered, she certainly isn't selling it very well. I winced and made my 'yuck' face through the whole thing.
Lançado em formato de livro de bolso, numa parceria entre a ASA e a FNAC, "A Vida Sexual de Catherine M", da jornalista francesa Catherine Millet, acabou por ser o mais bem sucedido exemplar dessa colecção. Pode haver vários motivos para tal. No que a mim diz respeito, lembro-me de ter adquirido a terceira edição da obra, poucos meses após esta estar disponível. Li... Corrijo, comecei a lê-lo pela primeira vez nessa altura, ainda com vinte Primaveras incompletas. As expectativas para o livro saí...more
May 15, 2012
Oin
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art critic's depiction of her experience in the swingers scene in 1960's paris. i like her nonchalance, feeling aligned with her passivity, and (as i normally do) the fleshing-out of parisian venues.
"we found a ready-made philosophy in bataille."
"finding myself vacant, then, with no other mission to fulfill, i grew into
a rather passive woman, having no goal other than those that other people
set for me. i am more than dependable in the pursuit of these aims; if
life went on forever, i would pursu...more
"we found a ready-made philosophy in bataille."
"finding myself vacant, then, with no other mission to fulfill, i grew into
a rather passive woman, having no goal other than those that other people
set for me. i am more than dependable in the pursuit of these aims; if
life went on forever, i would pursu...more
May 05, 2012
BeeQuiet
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4 of 5 stars
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Shelves:
non-fiction,
sexuality
Modern art critic Catherine M. here details her sexual life, both in acts and in thought, from childhood to marriage in a way which provokes more thought than titillation.
I can understand the frustrations of people who have read this book and found it tedious in the extreme, however coming from a background of studying sociology and focusing especially on the sexual, I found it fascinating. Catherine's level of detachment allows for a more nuanced appraisal of her own sexual experiences, bringi...more
I can understand the frustrations of people who have read this book and found it tedious in the extreme, however coming from a background of studying sociology and focusing especially on the sexual, I found it fascinating. Catherine's level of detachment allows for a more nuanced appraisal of her own sexual experiences, bringi...more
Apr 16, 2011
Ape
rated it
3 of 5 stars
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Shelves:
biographies-memoirs,
the-book-group-books
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I must say I am FAR from a prude so this book may have been up my ally, The book is about sex, I love sex therefore I must read it. Boy was I extremely disappointed. This book was like a really bad porno with words. I mean not even a porno with a "story" its one of those pornos where the pool boy says" i'm here to clean your pool and all of a sudden their are naked." Anyways...Besides being horribly written, I just don't see the point of writing about all of your exploits. But if you are going t...more
I tend to be drawn to memoirs by people who are living controversial lives- mostly because I love the self-faithfulness of it all. To be your strongest advocate can be challenging at the best of times, but practically impossible when the life that makes the most sense to you is having random, mostly anonymous sex with as many people as humanly possible.
I was hoping this sexual life memoir of French art critic Catherine Millet would bring clarity and understanding to a topic that can be repulsive...more
I was hoping this sexual life memoir of French art critic Catherine Millet would bring clarity and understanding to a topic that can be repulsive...more
hooooooorrible. completely boring. you might think that a radical sexual account of a celebrity's life would be shocking. not this one. there's only so many dicks she can suck before it becomes boring. the premise is powerful--a famed art critic is sexually liberated. however, all you really need to know is that catherine millet is a sex fiend. know that she is famous and taht she engages in orgies. the strangest thing is the car orgies... where the cars drive along together and stop every now a...more
I should have loved this book because it met so many of my predelictions: non-fiction, set in France, all about real sex from a woman's point of view. Problem was, Catherine M isn't much of a writer. If your depictions of anonymous couplings in the Bois de Boulogne or orgies in sex clubs are boring, what business do you have being in print?
Where was Catherine M's interiority? What went through her head as her boyfriend handed her off to random strangers night after night (and what kind of crazy...more
Where was Catherine M's interiority? What went through her head as her boyfriend handed her off to random strangers night after night (and what kind of crazy...more
I loooved this book, it's sexually explicit, but ultimately more of a philosophy-of-sex book than straight erotica. The sex acts described are daring but dryly written in most cases, not necessarily meant to titillate, but to provoke thought, written by this highly intelligent French art historian woman.
Fascinating insight into female sexuality, explored through the remembrances of a somewhat atypical intellectual's own experiences.
The book lurches from one chronology to another, harking backwards and forwards to other parts of it's brisk 200 odd pages, but despite the lack of form, and the detachment with which the author details her sexual history - though erotic, this is not erotica - this is one of the most frank, open exposures of a personality you may ever read.
Highly recommended - thoug...more
The book lurches from one chronology to another, harking backwards and forwards to other parts of it's brisk 200 odd pages, but despite the lack of form, and the detachment with which the author details her sexual history - though erotic, this is not erotica - this is one of the most frank, open exposures of a personality you may ever read.
Highly recommended - thoug...more
Full disclosure: I didn't actually finish this book. It's not that I found the extremely explicit group sex descriptions offensive, it's just after 30 pages of her going on and on about them, I started to grow bored. I flipped ahead to see if any of it was going anywhere, and it didn't. I think it would have been more interesting to hear about the implications of the culture on herself, how she changed, if the group sex clture cahnged, but it was mostly long winded descriptions of outrageous mea...more
I must say, I cannot agree with other reviewers on this site. I would never go as far as call someone sick, especially if there is no harming other people involved. The book is a quiet intense account of the authoress sexual encounters with various men in her life. If you are looking for a more imaginative or fairy-fairy approach of the subject matter, probably Anne Rice's "Claiming of sleeping beauy" would be a better choice. Catherine Millet's book however is gritty, postmodern and inspiring.
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EXCERPT:
"I really like sucking men's cocks."
She really likes to masturbate, too. Most of all, Catherine M. likes writing about sucking men's cocks and masturbating. I'm sure she feels much better having written this book about her favorite pastimes.
She has an amazing memory for penises and random encounters. I guess it's no worse than other books by fans about their hobbies. But such a shapeless, pointless memoir of fishing, or gardening, or any other hobby besides SEX wouldn't have been publi...more
"I really like sucking men's cocks."
She really likes to masturbate, too. Most of all, Catherine M. likes writing about sucking men's cocks and masturbating. I'm sure she feels much better having written this book about her favorite pastimes.
She has an amazing memory for penises and random encounters. I guess it's no worse than other books by fans about their hobbies. But such a shapeless, pointless memoir of fishing, or gardening, or any other hobby besides SEX wouldn't have been publi...more
Frank, dirty, forthright. I celebrated every disgusting detail she shared. There were so many things she's "into" that I'm not (ex. gang bangs) but I *recognized* her as a sexual being and woman and could relate to her motivations and casual attitude towards immersing herself in sex while successfully maintaining a career. While I'm not personally a big fan of dirty assholes, I totally GET how they turn HER on. Fantastic stuff. I don't know if the translation adds to the matter-of-fact tone or i...more
I needed to read something interesting and fluffy enough to read that could hold my interest while I'm back stage in the dressing room waiting for my cue to enter and throw up fake vomit on stage. So far, so good. This book can definitely underscore the screaming of obscenities and feigned sexual acts on stage.
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I like talking about sex. I like thinking about sex. I thought I was fairly free and adventurous when it came to sex. This book proved me wrong. I'm small potatoes. Little bitty potato...more
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I like talking about sex. I like thinking about sex. I thought I was fairly free and adventurous when it came to sex. This book proved me wrong. I'm small potatoes. Little bitty potato...more
So, I have very mixed feelings about this book. Strangely, it was sort of monotonous. I just wanted her to get to some point, which she never does. But, she is not unlikeable and occasionally her musings seemed vaguely relevant. What really struck me though, was that for all her claimed comfort with her vast sexual experiences, she actually did not come across as an enthusiastic, or even consciously willing participant. I got the distinct feeling she was talking herself into enjoying her experie...more
Seksi on näköjään aihe, josta voi kirjoittaa ilman juonta. Kirja eteni jatkuvien panojen ja orgioiden kertomuksena, jossa tapahtumat eivät sen enempää nivoutuneet yhteen minkäänlaiseksi kerronnalliseksi tarinaksi. Toistuva paneminen ja sen kuvaaminen kävi rasitaamaan, mielenkiintoista sen sijaan oli kertojan syvällinen (voisi todeta että filosofinen) pohdinta siitä, mitä tapahtui ja miksi tapahtui.
Takakannessa verrattiin Henry Millerin Sexukseen naisen kirjoittamana. Pelkkä seksistä kirjoittami...more
Takakannessa verrattiin Henry Millerin Sexukseen naisen kirjoittamana. Pelkkä seksistä kirjoittami...more
More of a 2.5 rounded up. For all its debauchery and fantastical detail of a subject that is anything but boring, I found "The Sexual Life of Catherine M" rather tiresome. The writing emits a droning evenness of tone and the post-modern conjugations seem forced. I wanted to be led in to her tales but the writing--perhaps the translation--pushed me away. On the other hand, it's hard not to appreciate the significant difference in attitudes and mores regarding sexuality that The Sexual Life reiter...more
It was a hardcover, and it cost cheaper than a paperback.
That should've been a sign.
I bought the book out of curiosity. Yes, I know, it killed the cat.
Curiosity, not the book; although I suspect this book may very well have lethal effects as well - one could easily die of boredom reading it.
I intended to read it carefully and take notes, as I usually do, for an accurate and well-grounded opinion. At some point I resolved it was futile and, moreover, not worth it, when I realized I had already wr...more
That should've been a sign.
I bought the book out of curiosity. Yes, I know, it killed the cat.
Curiosity, not the book; although I suspect this book may very well have lethal effects as well - one could easily die of boredom reading it.
I intended to read it carefully and take notes, as I usually do, for an accurate and well-grounded opinion. At some point I resolved it was futile and, moreover, not worth it, when I realized I had already wr...more
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