What Is This Thing Called Love: Poems

What Is This Thing Called Love: Poems

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From lilting lines about a love that "dizzies up the brain's back room" to haunting fragments betokening death and decline in a suffering world, Kim Addonizio articulates the ways that our connections—to the world, to self, and to others—endure and help make us whole.
Paperback, 128 pages
Published August 17th 2005 by W. W. Norton & Company (first published January 8th 2004)
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Allison
Apr 25, 2008 Allison rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: The reluctantly poetic; word nerds
What is this thing called poetry? As a recovering poet, I've devoted no small amount of thought to this subject. The best answer I can give you is tinfoil in the microwave. That's poetry. Unfortunately, most poetry reads more like saran wrap in the refrigerator. Which is why it was such a pleasure to happen upon this collection. While it doesn't quite approach the level of a full-blown kitchen disaster, certainly there are sparks. And it's always nice to find a soul as morbid as I am (see "31-Ye...more
Trebro
Now I know it's going to sound weird to those of you who heard me rant about gratuitous sexual comments thrown into poetry that I actually enjoyed this book, which contains poems that have quite a bit of sexual energy charged into nearly every one. Before I even get to the text, I think I need to explain why it works here.

I think the reason is that since the language of the poetry is that of a sexual nature--this is a set of poems that have a lot to say about sex and relationships--the sexual re...more
Doug
Mar 09, 2010 Doug rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: poetry
Another great collection of poems by Kim Addonizio. It has more than the usual number of very successful poems. Certainly not family reading but wonderfully human meditations on love, sex, and aging. Great imagery and passion.

Some favorite poems: "First Kiss," "Muse," "Death Poem," "And Then I Woke Up," "The Work," "Washing," "It," "Knowledge," "The Way of the World," "Dear Sir or Madam," "Bad Girl," "Body and Soul," "Dear Reader," and even "Fuck."

Some bits:

"Sometimes the body
gets so quiet
it ca...more
Ken
Jan 03, 2009 Ken rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: poetry
I was using Barnes & Noble as a library and coffee bar again today. I picked up this book which is Addonizio's fourth book of poems and was surprised to find another paradelle there.

She has a paradelle ("Ever After") in the anthology The Paradelle. I also have a poem in that anthology, but I didn't know she had written any others. If you're not familiar with the form, here's part of Billy Collins' introduction to that collection:

A few years ago, I wrote a poem that I titled "Paradelle for S...more
S
Kim Addonizio’s poems in, What is This Thing Called Love, surprised me. I actually liked them. I was first exposed to her poems in my creative writing workshop. I did not really think much of them. I thought that they were leaning toward a feminist “I am woman hear me roar” type thing. These poems were not like that. These poems were erotic. This poems confronted the author’s feminine eroticism. For example, Stolen Moments, had me on completely devoted to every word. I got a split second in to h...more
Mollie
Kim Addonizio captures a few themes in her collection of poem “What is this thing called love?” Most of Addonizio’s poems center on her feelings regarding death and love. The author speaks of the two in a matter that describes them using a bit of dark humor. The collection of poems is broken up into five sections. I’ve taken note that what theme each section focuses on: Section one is about love and sex; Section two takes a look at death; The third section dabbles in life, love, death and misery...more
Kaylee Poplawski
What Is This Thing Called Love

Addonizio, Kim.
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“What Is This Thing Called Love” by Kim Addonizio is radiant collection of poems. This is Addonizio’s fourth book of poems; each poem is solely based on love, sex, or death and the aging process. I found Addonzio’s love poems quite amusing and it was easy to engage oneself into the poem. Some poems were quite shocking in the sense of the vivid description, but as I soon...more
Ryan Steele
“what is this thing called love” by Kim Addonizio.
W. W. Norton & Company Inc., New York, 2004.

Love seems so simple through poetry.

Kim Addonizio explores some of the largest subjects encountered in life, all through short, visceral poems that aren’t afraid to be blunt, abrasive, and sometimes brutally honest. Summarizing a poetry collection is never an easy task, but Kim Addonizio kept her subject matter universal enough so that everyone can relate, addressing things such as: death, love,...more
Elizabeth Buckeye
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Chelsea
What is This Thing Called Love, poems by Kim Addonizio. W.W. Norton & Company, New York, 2004.

Kim Addonizio is a fantastic poet. This book absolutely portrays her talent. What is This Thing Called Love is a collection of poems for young adults – I’d recommend 18+ as some poems could be too mature for younger individuals – divided into five sections. The first two sections are very clear: the first is about love and the second about death and aging. The final three sections are a mixture of...more
Kristy
Like Anne Sexton and Sharon Olds, Kim Addonizio digs into sex, heartbreak, and grief. This was a darker collection than I expected, being that most of my experience with her have been some sexy and fun pieces. Addonizio's not as brutal as Olds, but she doesn't flinch away from violence either.

Best Poems
"Stolen Moments"
"You Don't Know What Love Is"
"Dead Girls"
"Round Midnight"
"This Poem Is In Recovery"
Ian
Sep 14, 2008 Ian rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: own, poetry
Reading Kim Addonizio is sort of like reading a slutty, less dorky Billy Collins. By that I mean this: It's enjoyable, even sometimes touching, but in the way that hearing from your slightly obnoxious drunk cousin can be entertaining. You get tired of them.

Most of these poems are fun, sometimes even funny, and there is a certain charm of her ability to write about things that most people would simply refuse to turn into a poem; for instance, the crappy computer game "Bugdom" turned out to be whi...more
Brian Fanelli
What interests me most about this particular set of poems is that Addonizio is mostly a formalist throughout this book, and yet, she writes about sex, rock 'n roll and other gritty subject matters throughout this collection. I found it brillant that she captured the right language for those subject matters in such tight, restrictive poetic forms.
Steven
Kim Addonizio is one of my favorite contemporary poets and her work speaks to me without much effort needed to figure it out. This is not to say that Ms. Addonizio’s craft is elemental; it simply comes across as effortless. She has forsaken the stigma imbued on “confessional” poetry from the current literary world and unabashedly plays with readers’ insatiable need to figure out what is “real” and what is “imagined” in her work. If this boldness grips you, as it does me, then there’s not a more...more
Steve
I'm hesistant to call any kind of poetry collection "negative" because, in a certain sense, all good poetry is in some way "negative." In the case of What is This Thing, it sort of applies, although a better word would be bitterness. Bitterness towards the way women's bodies are perceived in old age. Bitterness towards loneliness. Bitterness towards lovers. Bitterness towards this thing people call "love."
Stephen Kiernan
I already raved here about one of her books, but this one is better. Edgy, courageous, vivid, accessible, unflinching, beautiful in surprising ways. You will devour this book of poems, then find yourself going back to reread the best of them.
Excellent.
courtney
totally accessible and entertaining. she writes about sex and death, you know, the biggies. but her approach is refreshing and totally sincere. i loved a lot of the individual poems, "kissing" and "romance" -- and with titles like this, the poems have to be strong. i like her ease with form. and the line in one poem -- i don't have it in front of me -- something about the man who drank rainwater out of the hollow of my neck... floored me. i read that and thought that i would have written 3-5 lin...more
Cory
loved the first section, especially "Stolen Moments" and "What Was." Some of the poems about death and writing feel a little redundant toward the end.
Opskar01
there are 4 poems that are my new favorites.

very powerful stuff in here. I need to give it a second read.
Alisha Hanson-Glatzel
I think Fuck was my favorite poem and i've known Bad Girl. Addonizio is an interesting poet.
Brit
This is why I read poetry. Her poems are vivacious, they sting. This collection left me gasping. Love her.
Jan
Blew me completely out of the water. Now I want to read everything she's ever written.
Robert Beveridge
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An intriguing idea for a cookbook, this; appetizer-style recipes quirked into meal form. I'm not sure it's entirely successful, concept-wise; too many of these seem more like scaled-down entrees than scaled-up appetizers, which makes me wonder how it differs from your basic cookbook. But the recipes themselves are solid, so I can't be all that hard on it. Pick it up from the library and give it a look before decid...more
Julie
I learned that hearing poetry read is an amazing experience
Michelle
My favourite poetry discovery of 2011.
cassandra
favorites: what was, you don't know what love is, sonnenizio on a line from drayton, ex-boyfriends, knowledge, chicken, lush life, body and soul, fuck, miniatures, kisses.
Michael
A few good ones but mostly self-indulgent, narcissistic and crass.
Sean
Addonizio became my favorite poet after I read just three of her works. It is very rare but I actually get to say that "What is This Thing Called Love" changed my life... my poetic life that is. Her work is so real world but nonetheless maintains a depth of poetic quality that is astonishing. I have never seen anything like it and in my mind, she is by far one of the best modern poets.
Reese Thompson
"I show up like money on the sidewalk." Genius.
Dayna
I love Addonizio's gritty, down-to-earth style. I especially loved her poems "February 14" and "Kisses" from this collection. Some of her poems are a little dark for me, good in small doses but difficult (as in emotionally taxing) to read.
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Kim Addonizio is the author of four poetry collections including Tell Me, A National Book Award Finalist. Her fifth collection, Lucifer at the Starlite, will be published by W.W. Norton in October 2009.

Addonizio has also authored two instructional books on writing poetry: The Poet's Companion (with Dorianne Laux), and Ordinary Genius: A Guide for the Poet Within, both from W.W. Norton.

Her first no...more
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