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  <title><![CDATA[Yes Means Yes: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape]]></title>
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  <default_description>In this groundbreaking new look at rape edited by writer and activist Jaclyn Friedman and &lt;I&gt;Full Frontal Feminism&lt;/I&gt; and &lt;I&gt;He's A Stud, She's A Slut&lt;/I&gt; author Jessica Valenti, the way we view rape in our culture is finally dismantled and replaced with a genuine understanding and respect for female sexual pleasure. Feminist, political, and activist writers alike will present their ideas for a paradigm shift from the &quot;No Means No&quot; model--an approach that while necessary for where we were in 1974, needs an overhaul today. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt;&lt;I&gt;Yes Means Yes&lt;/I&gt; will bring to the table a dazzling variety of perspectives and experiences focused on the theory that educating all people to value female sexuality and pleasure leads to viewing women differently, and ending rape. &lt;I&gt;Yes Means Yes&lt;/I&gt; aims to have radical and far-reaching effects: from teaching men to treat women as collaborators and not conquests, encouraging men and women that women can enjoy sex instead of being shamed for it, and ultimately, that our children can inherit a world where rape is rare and swiftly punished. With commentary on public sex education, pornography, mass media, &lt;I&gt;Yes Means Yes&lt;/I&gt; is a powerful and revolutionary anthology.</default_description>
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  <read_at>Thu Feb 05 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Feb 05 18:52:50 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Read this book.  No, really.  Read.  This.  Book.<br/><br/>I can't tell you how much the essays in this collection made me rethink my perspective on female sexuality, rape culture, what it means to be a woman in America right now, and many other topics.  These essays are eye-openers, embracing not...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/45242351">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[folks interested in consent, survivor advocates, survivors (who've had some distance)]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Sun Mar 22 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat Mar 21 11:01:16 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Mar 22 10:24:35 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[i expected to find this book irritating, because i find most of what jessica valenti is involved in irritating (see my scathing review of <u>full frontal feminism</u> for more), &amp; i find a lot of discourse around consent tedious &amp; lumbering, a game of one-upsmanship in which people are proposing ever more ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49965435">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <location><![CDATA[San Diego, CA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Sat Feb 28 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Feb 25 13:17:17 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Feb 28 20:48:51 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[A well-curated collections of essays about rape, abuse, and sexual consent, &quot;Yes Means Yes&quot; contains a variety of different perspectives and voices. Some of the essays contradict other ones; I disagreed with some authors' points while finding others' persuasive and illuminating. I found hi...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/47513639">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="40689172">
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    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 13 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Dec 22 12:13:43 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Jan 13 18:30:39 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book as much as I enjoy Feminist literature, but it isn't the best.  Several of the essays seem to draw on forever, but others are simply incredible.  <br/><br/>Perhaps my favorite essay, &quot;Hooking Up with Healthy Sexuality: The Lessons Boys Learn (and Don't Learn) About Sexuali...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40689172">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="56016609">
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    <location><![CDATA[Calcutta, 28, India]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Thu May 14 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed May 13 21:13:20 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed May 13 21:14:01 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Connections: The Apostate and Professor What If review...<br/>Yes Means Yes!: Visions of Female Sexual Power and A World Without Rape<br/><br/>The Apostate: My initial reaction when I heard about the anthology was mixed. It seemed that the problem of rape was being used for a catchy slogan's sake (t...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56016609">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="51849468">
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    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Apr 07 14:37:40 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Apr 09 11:01:03 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[<strong>RAGE OF CONSENT<br/>Veronica I. Arreola</strong><br/><br/>Review of <em>Yes Means Yes! Visions of Female Sexual Power and a World Without Rape</em><br/>Edited by Jaclyn Friedman and Jessica Valenti<br/>Seal Press<br/><br/>Utopian novels have grappled with the idea of a world without rape, but what would the pa...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51849468">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51849468]]></url>
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    <review id="53112567">
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    <location><![CDATA[Ithaca, NY]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat May 02 07:40:18 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was really good.<br/><br/><u>Yes Means Yes</u> is an anthology of essays on rape culture, consent, and related topics.  I was really impressed by how broad the subject area covered was.  An incomplete list: the book contains articles on reproductive justice, virginity, sex education, surviving abuse...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53112567">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53112567]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="56790721">
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    <name><![CDATA[Dhobi ki Kutti]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed May 20 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed May 20 16:45:55 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed May 20 16:50:43 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Everything I need to know about feminism I learned online.<br/><br/>It's startling how little new information there was in this collection of essays, since I've been reading feminist blogs online. I can't remember exactly why I had this book on my to-read list, since it was published by Seal Press...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56790721">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56790721]]></url>
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    <review id="51603643">
    <user id="124505">
    <name><![CDATA[Alex]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Philadelphia, PA]]></location>        
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <read_at>Fri May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sun May 17 13:29:52 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Easily the best book I've read this year, if not ever. Yes Means Yes! is an anthology of essays from women and trans folks (and a few men) of all backgrounds, white, black, Latina, Asian, poor, affluent, queer, hetero, sex workers, dominatrices, bloggers, organizers, educators, artists, and survivor...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51603643">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="51903760">
    <user id="218342">
    <name><![CDATA[Virginia]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed Apr 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Apr 07 23:42:27 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Apr 07 23:55:11 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was excited to read a book about sexual empowerment that didn't include a diatribe about sexual assault/rape/molestation etc.... but this is not that book.I was also hoping to hear new ideas about how to create a sensible, sexy consensual model for sex that people can follow. At the very least I h...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51903760">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/51903760]]></url>
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    <review id="60784408">
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    <name><![CDATA[Ariel]]></name>
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  <read_at>Fri Sep 25 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Oct 01 09:59:57 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Yes Means Yes is a great anthology incorporating a number of perspectives and analysis on rape culture, including but not limited to persons of color, survivors, trans people and queers. It is mostly focused on American culture, but it's still a relevant text since damaging campaigns like the Silver...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60784408">more...</a>]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/60784408]]></url>
</review>
    <review id="56793971">
    <user id="1755710">
    <name><![CDATA[Caty]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Northampton, MA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Thu Jul 16 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really expected more from a book that claimed to be putting the yes and pleasure back into consent. I've been disgusted with the liberal rape crisis movement for years in the way it polices people's fantasies and sexualities for healthy or unhealthy (do you like BDSM? You're just reliving your tra...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56793971">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="48232935">
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    <location><![CDATA[Chicago, IL]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed Jun 24 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Mar 04 12:32:28 -0800 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a collection of essays/articles - mostly it's about the difference between the current definition of sexual consent which is &quot;absence of 'no'&quot; and what they want to be the definition which is &quot;enthusiastic yes&quot; - where all parties agree vocally upon what they'd like to do...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48232935">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="44450951">
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    <name><![CDATA[KJ]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[San Francisco, CA]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Wed Jun 10 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is a book that explores the different facets of consent and women's sexual-self determinism, and how enthusiastic consent can help bring an end to rape culture.<br/><br/>I was a little concerned that the book wouldn't move past &quot;you go girl!&quot; rah-rah feminism (I associate <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/author/show/222118.Jessica_Valenti" title="Jessica Valenti">Jessica Valenti</a>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44450951">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="30100741">
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    <name><![CDATA[Sarah]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Aug 13 21:08:53 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Feb 22 22:23:10 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm so sad to be done with this book. I mean, I'm totally glad that I finished it and read the awesome essays at the end (Higginbotham, Kulwicki) that I was missing when I got distracted 2/3 of the way through, but I'm sad that there's no more for me to read.<br/><br/>Okay, there were a fair numbe...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30100741">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book takes its title from the chapter &quot;A Love Letter from an Anti-Rape Activist to Her Feminist Sex-Toy Store,&quot; where Lee Jacobs Riggs suggests that we reframe rape prevention with affirmative, consensual language and sex-positive cultural attitudes. In it, she describes her journey f...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30119222">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I recommend this book for everyone - though some of the essays were repetitive and questionnable (really - someone is trying to argue that drugs aren't all that bad for pregnant mothers?  really??). for the most part, this fat and rebellious book knocked my socks off.  i loved it so much i immediate...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/49688706">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love this book!  A play on &quot;no means no,&quot; this book reminds us that the absence of &quot;no&quot; is not a &quot;yes.&quot;  What would sex and relationships look like if both people actively say &quot;yes?&quot;  <br/><br/>The book is a series of essays from all kinds of writers that ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/73582594">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[My boyfriend has a chapter published in this book. I've only been able to read bits and pieces, as he has been taking it to book parties and on tour. Every time I find a bookstore who I would like to give my money to, they've sold out of it. I guess that's a good thing.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Lee Jacobs Riggs (i love you) and so many other incredible activists have contributed to this fucking rad anthology. Reading it has affected the way I think about sex. Go buy this one from women n kids and support a whole bunch of hot revolutionaries all at once.]]></body>
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