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Elizabeth Buchan
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That Certain Age

3.05  ·  Rating Details  ·  553 Ratings  ·  86 Reviews
"It is the summer of 1959 when forty-two-year-old Barbara Beeching, a married mother of two grown-up children, meets Alexander Liberty. Adored by her family and admired by her friends, Barbara never imagined that an unexpected, tender and surprisingly passionate affair with a much younger man was on the horizon. Alexander tells Barbara that she has a mind and a life of her ...more
Hardcover, 372 pages
Published by Michael Joseph (first published July 15th 2004)
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Apryl Rickert
I found the two stories to be interesting yet there just wasn't enough to help connect me to what was going on in either timeframe. I felt like the book ended and I wasn't satisfied. I will read the other book I purchased by this author and hope for a different outcome :|
Ann Baxter
It's on my shelf, I recogize the story - but it left no impression. That says a lot.
Mary Grace
To start, some of you guys know that I don't like Chic Lit as much as the other genre but I gave this a chance and after reading it I thought I might have made a wrong decision with the first chic lit that I read.

It's a well written book I should say but the story is nothing new. It's a too much common story in my opinion. The book is about two women in different eras. Barbara in the 50's and Sienna who is more of the present times both experience problems in their life. The story evolve around
Aug 13, 2011 Shea rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I read this book for a book club I'm in. Honestly, I'm not sure if I would have finished it if it weren't for that because I felt like there was nothing to really keep my interest. Sure, the premise was a good idea (women struggling with decisions and issues that stand the test of time) but I didn't think Buchan did a great job with it. The stories were kind of boring, and even at the end, I felt like nothing had actually happened to get the characters to where they were.
At first I liked Siena's
Ginnie Leiner
Apr 19, 2012 Ginnie Leiner rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I read this book on a plane ride from San Francisco to Pittsburgh and it was the most enjoyable transit ever. It is the story of two women living in two different time periods in England, supposedly getting everything they ever thought they wanted. I was intrigued to find out how these women connected and was so delighted at the connection when it was finally revealed.

I think there were two overall messages in this book (for me, at least). The first was that sometimes we do things in our lives
Laurel Osterkamp
Is motherhood a blessing or a curse? Should it be considered a right or an obligation? And when it comes to the role of motherhood, has anything changed in the last 40 years, or are things still basically the same?
Elizabeth Buchnan seems to think that despite societal changes, women still must overcome the basically the same challenges they were faced with in the 1950s, and she illustrates this beautifully in her latest work, Everything She Thought She Wanted. The narrative is in first person, a
Nov 24, 2008 Sarah rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
It was just Ok for me. i have a hard time with people justifying extra-marital affairs with a midlife crisis.

I liked the dual story line, the past vs the present. I liked how the problems of the past are still so similar to the problems of now that we as women face.

I kind of felt that both characters were selfish in a way.
One had an affair because she felt unexciting and boring in her life.
The other put off having kids to get the career she always wanted.(much to the dismay of her husband)

But i
"everything she thought she wanted" alternates between the perspectives of siena, a modern career woman who is hesitant to start the family her husband wants, and barbara, a middle-aged 1950s housewife embarking on an affair with a hot young philosophy major. we don't find out how their stories overlap until the very end of the book, which is very mysterious. but it was an interesting juxtaposition between the two woman...kind of a "can you really have it all?" question balancing motherhood, rom ...more
Oct 18, 2014 Connie rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I read this for a book club and probably wouldn't have finished it if it weren't for that. Two women from different time periods who have to make the decision to have children or a career. What's new and different about that. I didn't feel the author had anything new to add to the discussion. There was one other thing that annoyed me. She used apples for metaphors in both time periods. I found it tedious to be bludgeoned with it.
Unusual style in that there are two parallel stories running throughout the novel. Throughout I was trying to work out if there was going to be a link between Siena and Barbara, the two female protagonists.
They are two women living fifty years apart but both struggling to come to terms with having reached `That Certain Age'! In their different ways due to the very different life styles they are trying to find answers and compromises between their desires and love for their families.
There is a
I've read each of Buchan's books twice. Not because I loved them so much, but because the details were fuzzy. Even re-reading, only isolated incidents rang a bell. I think this one was the weakest of the three. It switches every two chapters between the story of Siena, set in modern-day London, and that of Barbara, set in the post-war era. The two characters don't really have anything in common, and the two tales are linked in a cursory way at the very end of the book. The modern character is ma ...more
Jan 13, 2009 Emily rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
This is one of those books that has the potential to be excellent. The writing is beautiful and the story intriguing. However I feel like the main character has to have some type of inner resolution after facing a crossroads and these two characters from parallel stories pretty much resigned themselves into the conclusion. Basically they both chose a simple and hardworking housewife lifestyle over the more glamorous career or elicit affair. Neither really wanted to be a housewife, they just resi ...more
Jul 18, 2015 Karen rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
The story is about two women in different time periods. I think is is supposed to be about their struggle with not wanting to live up to the stereotype roles for women of their time. I found it was just slow moving and there was no reason for why they decided to conform. I think Charlie should have said he would stay at home if they had a baby.
Jan 24, 2009 Tama rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: pleasure
I thought I had read this book a few years ago, but found it on my "to read" pile. I think I had started it (the beginning was very familiar) but had not finished it. The parallel stories set in two different eras seemed to be going on a somewhat predictable path. The characters were well developed and appropriate to their era. One of the reviews I read talked about Siena eventually choosing the traditional role of motherhood. I think Siena's dilema in the story was not that life changing events ...more
Mar 10, 2014 Abigail rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Very dull characters making dire decisions for not very interesting reasons. Apparently middle-age is something to be avoided at all costs, which is a bit difficult as I'm approaching it at high speed.
Jan 23, 2013 Katrina rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Not my usual read, not quite chick-lit but it is about "chicks"! Interesting parallels between Barbara who is living in 1959 and Siena who's living as a 21st century woman with the world at her feet apparently. Clever ending brought the two eras together. Considering half of the book was set in 1959 I can honestly say that it didn't put me off......I know it sounds terribly ignorant and probably a bit odd but I do not read anything set in the past. Recommend this book to women of all ages as it ...more
May 22, 2014 Erica rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: own-it, 2014
I quite enjoyed this quick read. Normally I can get frustrated by books that go back and forth between two different character plots and years, but this one didn't frustrate me and became a novel I just couldn't put down. There were a few little terms that I loved in this book: "appetite for choice" and "file weeding;" I enjoyed the word play. I thought the author had a lot of build up for each character plot, but when the climax came, I left feeling it was lacking. The ending needed more detail ...more
Aug 15, 2014 Kathy rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
We were... as close as crossed fingers.

Grief is very lonely.

The war brought us face to face with ourselves.
Kate Millin
Aug 22, 2009 Kate Millin rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
It took me a bit of time to get into this book, but when I did I found it a bitter sweet book as it is about 2 women in their 40's their marriages and relationships with their husbands and children in the 1959 case and the pressures about having children in the 2009 relationship. I am sure men don't agonise over relationships as much as women do, and why do we always feel guilty about doing what we want to do? No wonder I am enjoying solitude and being single.

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At first – I admit it – I wasn’t quite convinced with it, but then the plot got interesting and I couldn’t stop till I finished it. It is, as it is becoming more and more usual these days, a double plot: two stories being told at the same time.
Here's a quote that got me thinking:

«What I had never worked out before was that happiness has an isolating effect. I had withdrawn into my happiness because it was impossible to share. Unhappiness and doubt put one in touch with everyone else.» p90

Jun 17, 2008 Jasmine rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Everything She Thought She Wanted tells the story of two women -- one, a 42 year old stay-at-home wife in 1959, and the other, a 35 year old working, childless wife in the present day -- as they deal with the limiting and, often, limited choices available to them). An interesting idea for a novel, but poorly executed. The transformations that occur simply aren't believable. While Elizabeth Buchan does unearth some truths about marriage and motherhood, I found myself anxious to complete this book ...more
Ms. B
Aug 21, 2012 Ms. B rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Barbara, a married mother in 1959, and Siena, a career woman 40 years later, face the challenge of finding their happiness, each in her own way. This wise, witty novel weaves together the stories of these women, one with too many choices, one with too few.

My Opinion:
My opinion is DO NOT read this book. It was seriously a waste of time and I wish I had not bought and it and kept reading it. It took me a month to read it and it was a short book. It was a pointless story I thought.
Diane Will
Sep 13, 2012 Diane Will rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Very much of a yawn by the end of this and I actually wondered at one point what the story was about. Two women 50 years apart, different lifestyles and supposedly a connection, where it was I don't actually know apart from the baby issue, and then it popped up right at the end. If there was any other reference earlier on I missed it. I'm sorry but that is hours of reading I will not get back. The characters weren't jump of the page either I'm afraid.
Jul 07, 2009 Cassie rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: my-library
While this book was wonderfully written, it left a lot to be desired for me. It felt as though there were parts of the story that dragged on forever, and parts that sped right by without focusing on the details. Besides Barbara and Siena, none of the other characters had much depth. I love the central idea behind the book, but I felt that it could have been better developed. This book was on the verge of something great, but just didn't quite get there.
This book was extremely depressing and ultimately SUCH a let down. Character development-wise it was pretty shallow even though it was addressing really good issues that women sometimes face with marriage (childbirth/temptation). It was scattered and uneven, jumping back and forth from one woman to the other...the ultimate connection between the two was identified in the last two pages!! This book was definitely a waste of time to read.
Apr 01, 2009 Jenna rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
It took me a while to get into this book, but once I did it was a pretty cute story. It overlaps the lives of two women -- one in the modern day and one in the 1950s. Because it was telling two stories, it took a bit longer for the plots to develop. As the title suggests, the book explores the two women's internal struggles with what they think they want and what they think they should want and how that affects their lives.
Sep 22, 2009 Ann rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I think we can all agree that Janet Evanovich is a flamboyant writer, ha, ha. Well, Ms. Buchan is the opposite. Her books are quiet and somewhat reserved. Which doesn't mean to say that she fails to deal with life issues. This book tells of 2 middle-aged women, one in 1959 and one living in 1999, and unfolds a momentous decision each must make that will affect the rest of their lives. Quiet but powerful...
Clare Coffey
Mar 17, 2014 Clare Coffey rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I gave up, am afraid. Did not really enjoy it- the characters were in my opinion too wooden.
Mar 25, 2008 Nancy rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Nancy by: Missweneki
Wendy gave me this book last year as a summer read - and I just got to it. I was expecting fluff and got more than that. I love the writing style - the author really gives you a feel for the two characters. This book examines two married women's lives in different eras (post-WWII and now-ish) and how they deal with their relationships, life expectations, etc.
Jul 11, 2012 Wendy rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
The characters seem to just plod along and you never seem to get a connection with either of them or understand their lot in life.

One (Siena) just seems whining about how her husband does not get her while the other (Barbara) is enraptured by a man who asks her to one lecture and a seems to sweat alot. Alot of fluff and no substance. Pitty.
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Elizabeth Buchan began her career as a blurb writer at Penguin Books after graduating from the University of Kent with a double degree in English and History. She moved on to become a fiction editor at Random House before leaving to write full time. Her novels include the prizewinning Consider the Lily – reviewed in the Independent as ‘a gorgeously well written tale: funny, sad and sophisticated’. ...more
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