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Endorsements: Sheldrake catches your attention with his adept exploration of the intimate connection between desire, even sexual desire, and holiness. --JKeith J. Egan, Professor of Theology, Saint Mary's College and the University of Notre Dame He helps us understand that when we realize that our heart's longing is for God, we realize that our desires are not enemies but...more
Paperback, 151 pages
Published January 14th 2002 by Darton Longman and Todd (first published January 1st 1994)
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Matthew Green
Sheldrake does a nice job of demonstrating why desire is necessary and valuable and even inherently integrated into life, particularly the spiritual life. However, his language and arguments are a little unfocused, which made it somehow feel weighty and fluffy simultaneously, as if there was something important that needed to be constructed out of insubstantial and blurry thoughts. Additionally, he waded now and then into theologically dubious territory such as asserting that God's desire for hu...more
Truly a life changer at a time in my life when the clash between living my life and living my duty was about to drive me insane. I recommend this book for anyone who lives a duty-filled life but knows God has to be far more understanding and loving than just to plop us here on Earth to follow a bunch of rules.
Amy Shutt
While I resonated with many of Sheldrakes points and appreciated the depth of historical background presented, I found it a difficult read. It is a text I will pick up again and again however.....perhaps too much to think on all at once.
This rather short book argues that without desire we cannot move closer to God and offered me much to reflect upon. I savored each of the short sections treating various aspects of desire in human life and spirituality.
Dawn Bodi
Loved this book. It's not an easy read and one I will return to - but perfect as a foundational read for Ruth Haley Barton's Transforming Community. I get why she recommended it!
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Philip Sheldrake is a theologian who has been closely involved with the emergence of Christian Spirituality as an academic field. Sheldrake is Past President of the International Society for the Study of Christian Spirituality, and was Leech Professor of Applied Theology at Durham University. His publications have focused on the interface of spirituality, theology, and religious history, and he ha...more
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