Transparent: Love, Family, and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers
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Transparent: Love, Family, and Living the T with Transgender Teenagers

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When Cris Beam first moved to Los Angeles, she thought she might put in just a few hours volunteering at a school for transgender kids while she got settled. Instead she found herself drawn deeply into the pained and powerful group of transgirls she discovered. In Transparent she intro­duces four of them—Christina, Domineque, Foxxjazell, and Ariel—and shows us their world,...more
Hardcover, 318 pages
Published January 2nd 2007 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt
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Eva Leger
Well, I can honestly say I learned a lot from this book. I've had it sitting around ever since I was back on and just never got to it. I wanted to start whittling away at my hardbacks and this was at the top. (Alphabetical order by author last name, had no A's.) (Yes, I'm a geek.)
Sooo, uh, I had never heard of alyhas. "Alyhas were (and sometimes still are) genetically male tribe members, who wore women's clothing, adopted women's names, and did women's work."
In the Mohave culture, four di...more
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OMG. I can't even with this book. I've probably read it seven times. It's about a group of young trans girls of color living in L.A, told from the perspective of a lesbian woman who begins working at a school for LGBT youth. I related so much to the characters in this book, in a way that I never did with other trans narratives. It's pretty much "real talk", not a lot of sugarcoating and shows you what life is like for these women: homelessness, sex work, family rejection, v...more
"Aside from some quibbles with definition of terms, pronoun usage, and the "white lesbian saves/helps/tells story of trans youth of color" thing, this is actually pretty good."

This was my initial reaction to this book. And while it held true throughout my reading of the text, I also grew to empathize, sympathize, and identify with the profiled young women.

Part memoir, part history lesson, part scientific explanation, part legal instruction, and part call-to-arms, this may not be the BEST book,...more
This book made me angry. The perspective from which it's written is very much a "white savior" / "cis savior" one, if you follow me. It's all about how the writer experienced the lives of several young trans women of color, and portrays these young women's stories with a sympathetic, but never empathetic, gaze. The book has a very "save the children" tone to it, and throughout the reading, I could practically hear the author begging me to open up my heart to these women. Paternalistic, patronizi...more
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Transparent is a very informative book on the Transgender Community. It was a very sad read overall. The author followed a few teenagers in the City of Los Angeles and wrote about their trials and tribulations with their sexuality and being accepted by society. These ladies lead very sad lives. Most, if not all are shunned out of their families lives and are homeless on the streets because their families don’t accept their sexuality. They grow up being confused and sad throughout puberty. Withou...more
Apr 14, 2007 E rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: everyone
Shelves: wmstrelated
i am totally impressed with how the author got involved in the lives of the teens she met. the book made me think about the coming of age experience of trans teens and how much harder their experience is when our society is so reliant on the gender binary as a means of organizing structures and support.

the book was well written and i highly recommend this to people who interact with children who might be different in the ways they express their gender identity. actually, i would recommend this...more
Cris Beam is fast becoming one of my favorite nonfiction authors. I wanted to read about her foster parenting of Christina - which she briefly references in "To the End of June" - but the author's teaching and befriending of several teenage/young adult transgirls was excellent as well. As a civil rights attorney, I liked taking note of the things that have changed for the better since the book's 2007 publication (some laws in the prison, education, and housing contexts), although lots of hearts...more
Andrea Patrick
I thought this was going to be about a family that included a kid that was transgender, but it's really about an out-of-work magazine writer who hung out a lot with "transgender girls", which are boys who more strongly identify with the female gender. There's hardly anything in it about girls who identify as male, so it felt a little one-sided.

It's not written well. There's a few pages about a situation going on in someone's life, then a few paragraphs thrown in that relate to how that issue was...more
Jun 02, 2014 Stacy rated it 4 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2014
Interesting memoir of dealing with transgender teens in Los Angeles; information is pretty specific to the individuals in the stories and may not reflect larger trends, however. I was hoping for a broader survey of core issues facing transgender adolescents, and while this was fascinating, it didn't quite hit the research points I needed.
Miriasha Borsykowsky
Although some parts made me uncomfortable (the author uses the girls' birth names too much for my liking, although only when describing their past) this book was overall amazing and extremely informative.
Obviously, this book is not a comprehensive picture of trans* people's experiences, but that's part of why I loved it. Instead of trying to make generalizations, it focused on four women that the author knows very personally.
I fell in love with all of them and I think that the author did an exce...more
This is a great book on a woman's experiences involving some transgendered youth she meets as a teacher at an alternative school for kids in Los Angeles. This story follows her real life journey with a few of these youth. As well as the story, the author has also done research and given facts into the reality of a lot of transgender youth and the amount of difficulties they experience in day to day life and the dangers that many of these youth face on an ongoing basis. It is also a story of hope...more
Marie Sophia
Very good book. It shows a life that isn't often explored, that of poor and immigrant transgender teens. The issues explored are real and immediate. However, the story did seem to jump in some parts, there wasnt a coherent plot, more of a series of short stories.

For what it is- the first real exploration of this type - it is excellent.

I did like the fact that she pulled no punches in describing the life these teens lead.

To me it is a good thing to have someone describe the life these kids lead,...more
I finally was able to read this book, which I picked up again to find some excerpts to have my class read. The author is a writer, mainly for magazines I believe, and the chapters can read as separate pieces at times, as she repeats things that don't need to be mentioned again, or wouldn't be in most books. But the writing is good and Beam gives the reader a very personal look at the lives of the transgender teens she meets in LA. Anyone who thinks transgender people are freaks or unnatural shou...more
This is a very well done book. If you have any interest in learning about transgender youth culture, and/or transgender teens of color, or being a youth of color this is very informative. There are many issues at intersection here, youth rights, poverty, tension between generations in immigrant culture, drugs, queerness, beauty, gender, education etc. Written by a queer woman who taught, advocated for, and be-freinded several poor, trans-gender teens of color living in group homes or on the stre...more
this was a really eye-opening book for me. written compassionately with a tone of healthy curiosity, cris beam provides thorough explanation of trans-life, processes, identities, struggles, and labels within the stories of the youth she works with. i was really impressed with this book, and even more surprised that harcourt published it. a must-read for the general public, especially those who are ignorant to gender/identity theory and the "alternative" lifestyles of the lgtb community.
Jun 11, 2012 Willow rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: people that work with kids and those who are looking to learn more about trans people
When I started reading this book I was worried about that it would emphasize stereotypes, as the first 20 pages or so did, but I've since completely changed my mind. I enjoyed it so much that I had a hard time putting it down. The author has done more than just describe her experiences, she's also included historical perspectives and scientific research (or emphasized the lack thereof), which I love her for. I got it from the library, but plan to buy it and read again.
I appreciate many of the reviewers who see this book as a 'white savior' kind of piece but I really think Beam lived at least part of the story. Also this is a book about people who really fall through American society's cracks, who go completely unnoticed by the mainstream, but who live such complex lives, so I was very glad to be able to read positive stories about their lives (as well as the negative ones) and share little bits of their experiences.
Sep 26, 2007 Jesse rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: people looking for a good, human story.
This book is an extremely open and powerful look at a group of young transwomen in LA, and also a revealing and powerful look at the relationship between a young teacher and the young women she teaches, befriends, and parents. It is both hard and necessary to read - you feel both the pains of adolescence and the pains of social inequality as you look through the pages of the book. The author has a strong voice that navigates the reader through.
this book was fucking amazing. cris beam manages to let the natural humor of her subjects flow through without making fun of them! which is quite a fine line. this book is moving, sad, fascinating and touching, and one of the rare books about transpeople i've read that shows them as full people, not just as their trangendered identity. there's plenty of facts, too, if you're into those, and i learned a lot. yay!
Personal memoir of a woman who taught transgendered teens and ended up becoming the guardian of one of her students. Combines personal experience with research and interviews. Full of fascinating stuff about California trans teen culture. I was delighted to see how many of her students mentioned the public library as someplace they learned something or obtained an item of value.
Lollipopwater Norton
I originally was a bit disappointed that the stories in this book focused on transgendered girls, and hardly a mention about transgendered boys. But despite that, I really enjoyed the read. Cris Beam was wonderfully informed on her topic, and supplied interesting "history lessons" throughout. Her commitment to reaching out and helping teens was inspirational.
Eh. The writing style is trite, the stories of her students not surprising, sad, but nothing one couldn't guess. It is more biography, memoir than a book I would recommend to someone working with the LGBT community, which is more what I was looking for when I picked it up an a "pay what you can" sale table in Cambridge one Friday night.
Finally a book that does good by the transkids! I am always hesitant when I pick up a book about trans folks, but any concern I had about this book was very quickly put to rest. Beam’s work is at once grim, honest, heart-tugging, realistic, and without bias. This a necessary addition to everyone’s bookshelf.
Wonderful book. I struggled a bit through the sections that read like Trans Youth 101, though I see why they had to be included. The strong thread of hope, the evocative portrayal of these girls' struggles, and the shimmering insights about family and love were ample reward for reading this book.
Jan 26, 2009 anne added it
this book was most interesting when the author spoke openly about her feelings and experiences and those of the people she met, talked to, and in some cases befriended and loved. it gets a little dull when she dives into background or sociology - it's the stories that make it work.
Interesting read about what goes on in the transgender young adult/teen world in LA. In journalistic/personal style, Beam explores the relationships transgender youth have with LA, each other, their parents, and institutions through personal stories a la "Random Family." I recommend it.
This book was great! I think it was so moving and Cris did a great job describing something that there's not a lot writen about. This book primarily describes transgendered teen girls of various races. This book is a potrait of trans teens that aren't often represented in the medium.
I liked how this book was nonfiction, but fluidly combined personal stories with the usual facts and figures. There wasn't a lot of new information in this book, but it was still good to read since I'm now interacting with teenagers on a daily basis.
Lisa Hernandez
Loved, loved, loved this book. Completely rearranged my thinking on the whole matter. I also liked that the author seemed invested, intelligent, and not afraid to commit herself to the issue at hand. No dry journalistic objectivism here!
A memoir about a teacher's experience with transgendered teens-- mostly m to f... The writing was okay, never very deep. The stories, while compelling, didn't resonate for long. The facts and medical info was interesting, though.
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CRIS BEAM is a journalist who has written for several national magazines as well as for public radio. She has an MFA in nonfiction from Columbia University and teaches creative writing at Columbia and the New School. She lives in New York.
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