If Life Is a Game, These Are the Rules

If Life Is a Game, These Are the Rules

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The Ten Rules For Being Human:
1. You will receive a body.
2. You will be presented with lessons.
3. There are no mistakes, only lessons.
4. Lessons are repeated until learned.
5. Learning does not end.
6. "There" is no better than "here."
7. Others are only mirrors of you.
8. What you make of your life is up to you.
9. All the answers lie inside of you.
10. You will forget all of t...more
Hardcover, 160 pages
Published September 15th 1998 by Harmony (first published July 15th 1998)
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Ethar
كتاب خفيف
أسلوبه جميل، حكمه مقنعة وبسيطة

مناسب جدا كهدية لأولئك المتذمرين دوما وأبداً، بالإضافة إلى الذين مروا بقصص مؤذية ومؤلمة في حياتهم

يمكن قراءته خلال رحلة بالطائرة أو بالقطار =]
Sheree
I read this little book during a very confusing time. It helped to calm my "now" and helped me imagine a "new". I absolutely believe that making a list of my own needs - the needs God created in me - and list the characteristics of the people i needed around me allowed me to focus and create clarity. Without that I would have stayed in the pit of confused co-dependence. It's a vicious destructive place. She refers to the universe but for me that's easy to translate to God. Why ask the waiter how...more
نوره المعطاني
اسم المؤلفة / شيري كارتر سكوت

الناشر / مكتبة جرير

الطبعة الثالثة 2010

عدد الصفحات / 240 صفحة

هذا كتاب في تطوير الذات .. عبارة عن قصص ..

وهناك قواعد 10 افرد لكل قاعدة فصل ..

يتضمن قصص يحكيها أشخاص حقيقيون

مروا بتجارب ومواقف إنسانية ..

وهناك من النصائح والحكم درر منثورة

تسبق كل قصة .. جميل الكتاب وممتع .. ورفيق سفر

جيد ..
FreshGrads .Sg
Have you ever wondered if life were a game, then what were the rules? If you did, this compact book of common sense and ten principles on how to get the best out of life is perfect for you.

As practical guide to one of her self-development workshops, Cherie Carter-Scott came up with her list of basic yet essential truths to life. She has a PhD in human and organisational development and for nearly 30 years, worked as a life coach, international lecturer, consultant as well as author. Her other bo...more
Kelly
Mar 08, 2013 Kelly added it
compassion is the act of opening your heart.

if you absolutely hate getting stuck in traffic, chances are you need a little work in the area of patience. And, chances are you will get stuck in more traffic jams than someone who has no issue with patience. And not simply because the universe has a sense of humor. You will just notice the traffic more than someone who has no issues with it.

Imagine yourself at 90 years old, looking back on your life. What do you want to see?
Shaimaa Mohamed
Nov 05, 2011 Shaimaa Mohamed is currently reading it
اقرأ الان كتاب " إذا كانت الحياه لعبه ... فتلك هي قوانينها " ... عباره عن قصص إنسانيه حقيقيه مؤثره ... بعدالإنتهاء من قراءه كل قصه تجد ان نفسك قداكتسبت روح إنسانيه جديده ... و الجميل ان القصص لأناس من اديان مختلفه .. ما يجمعهم هو أنهم جميعاً " إنــــسان "
Brenda Deflem
Well...if it was all that easy, all we had to do was to read this book, live by the rules of life and all end up completely feeling zen and hopping around full of happiness. Something tells me it doesn't work that way. She definitely got some points in her writing, but she just makes it sound like a walk in the park; like a button you can switch on after reading the "golden manual" and if it's not successful, then you don't have the right attitude or didn't quite understand "the rules of life"....more
Lia
I really like the words on the cards. A few of them feel trite, but most of them make me stop and think about hings with a new perspective. I also like how the text is broken up into phrases on the cards. It helps me to think through the words more thoroughly.

The images on the cards are an absolute throwaway. Whoever was in charge of the visuals for this deck should be fired.
Ben
I enjoyed the book. A light read not too deep into theory. A list of ideas to help a person get through life. If you read the list of ten rules that is really all you need. It does offer some good examples of people finding out about the rules. The book has a great story in it about the religious man that is waiting for God. Overall a quick easy read and entertaining.
Foxglow
If you want a moment to evaluate where you are in your life and where you'd like to go, this book is a great starting place. Filled with insight and suggestions. I read it with a notebook in hand pausing to evaluate where my life is, and what I'd like to do with it. I gained insight into myself, compassion for myself and acceptance of myself. All big pluses. A great read.
Patti Pokorchak
Small book but each rule makes you stop and reflect on it.

It's a book that I highly recommend to everyone. Very easy to read but deep. Really makes you think.

Great book to give to a Gen Yer - they might not read it right away but a good book for them to have handy after a crisis.
Ibrahim Majed
كتاب رآئع .. خفيف وجميل .. عشرة قواعد وستون قصة من مختلف أنحاء العالم .. مليئة بالإلهام والحكمة .. فقط لندرك أننا جميعاً متشابهون .. وأننا قادرون على تجاوز الصعاب .. ورسم خطة أفضل لحياتنا ..
قصة أو اثنتين منه يومياً كفيلة بتدفق طاقة الحماس لصنع عالم أفضل ..
أتمنى أن يجعلك هذا الكتاب سعيداً
Virginia
I like self help books, but this one is not a favorite. If you want something more interesting and useful, read anything by Sarah Ban-Breathnach. Her Simple Abundance book is all you need.
Sandra
This books contains some simple, yet powerful wisdom. It's a quick read so it makes for a nice pick me up if you're ever feeling down or confused about life.
Jo
I like the K.I.S.S. principle, so I really like this book. Too many books seem to have a lot more words than required to get the author's idea across.
Joni.208
the book was great i learned a lot and i don't mind reading it over and over again i so love every bits of it. ^_^
and i love cherie carter- scott
Amy
The concepts are so simple but it is really insightful. I also love her book: If Love Is A Game, These Are The Rules.
Jan
When I first flipped through this book, I thought all of the stories were by famous people, because I saw one by Nelson Mandela. However, he ended up being the only person I recognized in the book. These were stories by "real" people. Which doesn't make the book bad; it's just not what I was expecting.

That having been said, this book was pretty schmaltzy and sappy. And I'm pretty sure at least one of the stories was total BS. But there were a few kernels of goodness here and there. I didn't hate...more
Karla
Sep 13, 2009 Karla rated it 1 of 5 stars
Shelves: 2007
New-age mumbo jumbo (and pretty boring on top of that). This book was a waste of my time and money.
Mari
Aug 10, 2010 Mari rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anybody who wants to make a dream into a reality
Shelves: own
Uh, I don't like the English title. I think the Finnish translation of the title describes this book better even though the Finnish one is also a bit "crazy" for me ("Onnistumisen aakkoset: 10 ohjetta, joilla tehdä hulluista haaveista täyteläistä elämää" - how to turn crazy dreams into fulfilling life); I have a Finnish copy of this book. It may be a platitude that success is what makes you feel successful but this book encouraged me to turn a dream into a objective (and sub-objectives) for whic...more
Lilian
I couldn't finish the book the first time I read it because I kept crying. It just kept hitting home for me, and obviously, painfully, I needed to learn these "simple" rules if it kept affecting me that much.

This time I vowed to finish it. Nearly didn't, just took longer to read it all the way through. Some may think these tips or advice are very common or too simplistic, but that's why I find it harder to learn. Life lessons so simple, yet a lot of humans manage to forget.

I am putting this book...more
Anna
I loved this book. Read it in my late teens and it woke me up to a lot
Sara
Very powerful read, very short - read it in a day and it was very inspiring.
Amy
Second time read it and was more helpful than ever before. Great stuff.
Justin
Sep 02, 2009 Justin added it
Received this book as a birthday gift one year. It was a nice sentiment.
Kerry Keller-menzel
My mom gave me this book for Christmas years ago - I liked it.
Gita
Sep 15, 2010 Gita added it
Short but a powerful read, Must have in the sanity closet.
Poteeto
Dec 07, 2012 Poteeto rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommended to Poteeto by: Jaye
Shelves: meta-phys, bibles
This is just an excellent book! Read it!
Richelle Maganda
If only I could follow all Scott's rules ....
Colt Gordon
A great read
Everything in this book I already knew; I simply forgot it! The wisdom in this book brought me back to universal truths that are true. I especially appreciated the part about accepting myself as I am as I have been harsh to myself over the years as if what my body looks or feels like is the barometer of my self-worth. IT IS NOT. I will refer to it frequently when I need to shine some light into remembering who I really am. This book is not a rule book to follow but a truth book to ge...more
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إذا كانت الحياة لعبة ... فتلك هي قصصها : قصص إنسانية واقعية يحكيها أشخاص حقيقيون من جميع أنحاء العالم
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