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September 1st 2008
by Harper
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Hardcover, 224 pages
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0061254622
(isbn13: 9780061254628)
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Widowed novelist, near seventy, ex-Park Avenue girl, ex-beatnik, ex-many other things too complicated to list here, loves big p...more
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Read in July, 2008
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Harper MySpace Readers Program - myspace.com/harper1817recommends it for: Older readers (30+) Who Have Lost A Loved One, Grievers, Mourners, Journal Keepers
If you've passed Anne Roiphe's books on shelves at BookPeople and Borders like me (see Up the Sandbox! through Water from the Well...), you may already be familiar with descriptions of her feminist writings, which combine realism and romance. Roiphe is also a well-established memoir writer (1185 Park Avenue and Fruitful: A Real Mother) connecting with women readers for four decades. Her latest memoir, Epilogue, is true to her trademark duality, without d...more
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Read in November, 2008
One writers passage through the grief of losing her husband of 40-odd years. After tough times of loneliness, odd internet dating and friends who dissolve away (all described in wonderful detail), she discovers that she will make it on her own. Sad but not always. Lonely but not unbearably. She recognizes that altho close companionship is often a key to happiness and comfort, being on her own is enough. We are all, after all, in this alone. You an almost feel her relief at settling in with a...more
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Read in November, 2008
A really lovely exploration of life after loss, including how much happiness and companionship we have the right to expect across the course of our lives. Although much of the book is heartbreaking in its honesty, I did giggle a little when Roiphe discusses the online dating scene for the after-fifty set. My favorite paragraph: "If the owl and the pussycat went to sea in a pea-green boat and the owl flew off, the pussycat better pick up the oars and row toward shore--she has, after all, n...more
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I enjoyed this book, which I just finished in about a day. It's episodic, so it's easy to read - many brief excerpts from Roiphe's life as a new widow. The book brought to mind The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion. I've always enjoyed Roiphe's other books, on feminism, marriage and being a mother.
This book was very honest, and I liked that aspect, as if she was having a conversation with the reader. She did such a good job of describing her feelings of loneliness and isolation a...more
This book was very honest, and I liked that aspect, as if she was having a conversation with the reader. She did such a good job of describing her feelings of loneliness and isolation a...more
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Read in December, 2008
This is an autobiography of writer Anne Roiphe's life as a widow. It is not as well-written as Joan Didion's more famous book on the same topic, but it has other strengths. She tried to meet a man through friends and online sources and describes doing this as a woman in her early 70s. I got a little tired of the insular world of NYC she lives in, but overall found it interesting and worth reading
This is such a lovely book about going on after the loss of a spouse. I almost didn't read it because I thought it would be depressing, it's not.
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Read in December, 2008
Excellent, sad, and funny. I read it in a day. It made me want to hug my husband and learn how to fix my computer without help.
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good and depressing, a great prep for the death of a loved one
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Death. It is going to get us all. How and when you start to think about it is your deal. Anne Ruiphe's husband died and things begin to look different in her world. Her writing about aging, men, and the daily interactions with others are insightful and touching. No pity, no drama, if anything an objective flatness at times about the reality of living and dying.
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Over the past 25 years I've read several books on the subject of widowhood. The first, Widowed by Joyce Brothers, some of which I found valuable, other parts not. More recently, The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion--very interesting. One to read again. The review of Epilogue was enticing for a next on the subject.
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Read in October, 2008
depressing to be sure, yet the author is good at staring down the hard parts of this experience and describing them as she experiences them, in all their contradictions. Makes you grateful for what you have, and realize, once again, that the loss of a spouse or partner is practically unbearable.
Read in October, 2008
Riophe's husband died recently but she hasn't. This book is a beautiful and honest look at her sadness and grief and hopes for her future as a 60 something year old woman who finds herself alone.
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I felt that the author portrayed her cup as half full. It was depressing for me to hear her story.
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Read in October, 2008
Life after death - or really, the only two themes that matter.
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