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  <title><![CDATA[Epilogue: A Memoir]]></title>
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  <default-description>&lt;blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt; Widowed novelist, near seventy, ex-Park Avenue girl, ex-beatnik, ex-many other things too complicated to list here, loves big parties, summers at the beach, grandchildren, seeks interesting man for dinner and a movie. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;/blockquote&gt; &lt;p&gt; Anne Roiphe was not quite seventy years old when her husband of nearly forty years unexpectedly passed away. But it was not until her daughters placed a personal ad in a literary journal that Roiphe began to consider the previously unimagined possibility of a new man. Moving between heartbreaking memories of her marriage and the pressing needs of a new day-to-day routine, &lt;i&gt;Epilogue&lt;/i&gt; takes us on her journey into the unknown world of life after love. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Roiphe decides to reenter the dating world. But between new lunches, coffee dates, and e-mail exchanges, she wrestles with an unsettling loneliness. Recollections of marriage evoke complex, unexpected emotions on her journey through grief toward new companionship. In beautifully wrought vignettes, she recalls hailing a cab for the first time and learning to lock and unlock the front door&amp;#8212;tasks her husband had always done. &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p&gt; Eloquent and astute, &lt;i&gt;Epilogue&lt;/i&gt; tells the story of love rekindled and life remade. Roiphe offers us an elegant literary pastiche not of grief, but of hope and renewal. &lt;/p&gt;</default-description>
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  <read_at>Wed Jul 30 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[If you've passed Anne Roiphe's books on shelves at BookPeople and Borders like me (see <strong>Up the Sandbox!</strong> through <strong>Water from the Well...</strong>), you may already be familiar with descriptions of her feminist writings, which combine realism and romance. Roiphe is also a well-established memoir writer (<strong>1185 Par...</strong><a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/27474240">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Nov 17 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Nov 04 08:05:41 -0800 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[One writers passage through the grief of losing her husband of 40-odd years.  After tough times of loneliness, odd internet dating and friends who dissolve away (all described in wonderful detail), she discovers that she will make it on her own. Sad but not always.  Lonely but not unbearably.  She r...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36892242">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 26 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This memoir is the story of Anne Roiphe, a novelist, who at 69 years of age, lost her husband of almost 40 years rather unexpectedly. She was unprepared for life on her own, and she found it difficult to piece together the basics for a new life, as her grief at times seemed unbearable.<br/><br/>Se...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/44494117">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Epilogue, by Anne Roiphe, narrated by Lorna Raver, produced by Blackstone Audio, downloaded from audible.com.<br/><br/>Anne Roiphe, a journalist, uses journaling, and ultimately this book, to deal with the aftermath of her husbandâ€™s sudden death and the starting of a new life.  She writes this s...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/69450722">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Mon May 18 16:33:09 -0700 2009</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[memoir of bereavement after her husband died.  To the extent there is humor, it comes in her recounting of online dating as a 70-year old and some of the unusual men her search reels in.  Does a nice job of describing her late husband, a psychoanalyst who worked with little kids and liked to watch N...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56537673">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Jun 13 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[In the first year of her life after the death of her spouseâ€”of almost forty yearsâ€”author Anne Roiphe must face all the usual phases of loss and grieving.<br/><br/>As she weaves together the tale of her journey, she moves back and forth, between memoryâ€”of her husband, of their life togetherâ€...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/58793209">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sat Oct 10 13:22:29 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[The description from the inside flap of the book was a bit deceiving.  It tells the reader that Roiphe loses her husband at the age of seventy and explores new love after loss.  There is that element.  I got the impression--mistakenly--that the book would be similar to A Round-Heeled Woman by Jane J...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/74094586">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A really lovely exploration of life after loss, including how much happiness and companionship we have the right to expect across the course of our lives.  Although much of the book is heartbreaking in its honesty, I did giggle a little when Roiphe discusses the online dating scene for the after-fif...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/38471228">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book, which I just finished in about a day.  It's episodic, so it's easy to read - many brief excerpts from Roiphe's life as a new widow.  The book brought to mind The Year of <a href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/7815.The_Year_of_Magical_Thinking" title="The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion">Magical Thinking</a> by Joan Didion.  I've always enjoyed Roiphe's other books, on feminism, marriage and being a...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36682707">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Tue Apr 07 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Roiphe is a poetic, gifted writer. The way she describes certain situations in her life or her feelings of grief after the death of her husband are masterful. I meant to give some example quotes from the book I liked, but I forgot and put it in the &quot;to be returned to the library&quot; pile.<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34822452">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very interesting book.  Like Joan Didion's The Year of Magical Thinking, this is a book about adjusting to widowhood after years and years of a good marriage.  This is not as good as Didion's book, which was superb, but good nevertheless.  Roiphe seems to rush the &quot;getting over grief&quot; proc...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/52458887">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Roipheâ€™s husband dies unexpectedly and she is terribly lonely. Her daughters try to help her by taking out a personal ad for her. She tries to help herself by going online and using a service. She gets calls and she goes on dates. It is all a tremendous disappointment.<br/><br/>Time passes and R...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/64799378">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Dec 14 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is an autobiography of writer Anne Roiphe's life as a widow.  It is not as well-written as Joan Didion's more famous book on the same topic, but it has other strengths.  She tried to meet a man through friends and online sources and describes doing this as a woman in her early 70s.  I got a lit...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/40087979">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Anne was widowed at 70. This book is about creating a new life. Being a bit younger but also on my own, I was interested in her endeavors and decisions. Each one of us must make our own path. However, I welcome suggestions from others.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Mar 30 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A journal-like memoir of a year post-death of a spouse.<br/>Interior monologue of a most particular kind of West side intellectual.  Both warm and cold--never giving up, and yet longing to.  Every intelligent person has a plan...]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A painfully honest chronicle of the period after the death of the author's husband.  She tries to find a new pattern and meaning in her life.  A glimpse into the world of over seventy online matchups.  Should one take a chance on starting a relationship with an 89 year old man?]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 22 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Jan 26 20:12:31 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Anne is not quite 70 when her husband of 40 yrs dies. This is a memoir about the next 18 months or so. I really enjoyed her writing skill. Descriptions of emotions and sense of places were beautiful.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 19 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Thu Mar 19 19:23:09 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[She's a genuinely good writer; I can tell. I may try another one of her books. However, on this topic, I lost interest in the book in the middle. As a widow, she talks about the loss of her husband. She elaborates on how to live without him. In this she speaks about building relationships with other...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42973092">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <date_added>Fri Jan 09 21:06:36 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Jan 09 21:10:35 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I heard Scott Simon interview Anne Roiphe on NPR and immediately went shopping for this memoir.  One-third of the way through, I have not been disappointed.  At times I feel I am looking in a mirror.]]></body>
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    <name><![CDATA[Signora ]]></name>
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  <date_added>Thu Jun 04 19:33:21 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Jun 04 19:35:15 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Touching memoir of author's loneliness and attempts to re-engage with life after the death of her husband. Authentically written.  Lesson: treasure each moment while you have them!]]></body>
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