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Mommie Dearest
With the 20th Anniversary Edition of Mommie Dearest, Christina Crawford becomes one of the only authors in publishing history to re-issue a number one best-seller. "The new edition is published as I intended it. More than 100 pages - mostly that delve into my adult relationship with Mother - that were left out of the original version are back in," said Ms. Crawford. "I've...more
Paperback, 420 pages
Published
December 12th 1997
by Seven Springs Pr
(first published January 1st 1978)
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First let me start off by saying that I do not under any circumstances condone child abuse. With that being said,there are several contradictory statements in Christina Crawford's story.
For those unfamiliar with this book. It is a tell all from Joan Crawford's eldest adopted child, Christina. Christina speaks in depth about her mother's strict discipline which included: harsh chores, seclusion, and "being nearly beaten to death." Does anyone remember the cult classic movie "Mommie Dearest?" "NO...more
I grew up in the 80's and was irrationally obsessed with the movie Mommie Dearest; to this day, if I see it on TV, I have to stop what I'm doing and watch. Why the obsession about a pretty tragic story of a little girl who was abused? I have no idea, but I know I'm not alone.
As an adult, who loves bios of old Hollywood, I don't know why it took me a while to actually read the book, but I just did and I enjoyed (? - not sure if that's the right word) it. It delved deeper into Joan Crawford and Ch...more
As an adult, who loves bios of old Hollywood, I don't know why it took me a while to actually read the book, but I just did and I enjoyed (? - not sure if that's the right word) it. It delved deeper into Joan Crawford and Ch...more
Dec 07, 2009
MAP
rated it
3 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
Shelves:
biographies-and-memoirs,
non-fiction
What a ride! This book is completely insane. Which doesn't mean I don't believe Christina. I do. I have friends whose parents are drunks and I have friends whose parents are just plain nuts. This kind of crap really does happen. The emotional manipulation especially -- the child constantly reaching, constantly feeling that if she does one more thing or something a little better that longed-for love and acceptance from mom will finally come, and the shattering that occurs when one realizes it nev...more
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Narrative nonfiction, biography of Joan Crawford, autobiography of Christina Crawford, exposé of the dysfunctional family life of a famous person. This book also accounts the death of Joan Crawford as well as the three memorial services held for her family, her business associates, and her movie and television associates.
"From her throne in the eye of the hurricane, brandishing her wand of obsession, rules the queen of chaos herself: Mommie Dearest." Christina Crawford tells of the dysfunctional...more
"From her throne in the eye of the hurricane, brandishing her wand of obsession, rules the queen of chaos herself: Mommie Dearest." Christina Crawford tells of the dysfunctional...more
I bought this for .50 cents at a thrift store. It's dirty and dog-eared physically and metaphysically and metaphorically and all others.
Christina Crawford is as cuntastic as they come. This is a sloppy 5th grade essay on Mommie's bad moods that miraculously made me sympathize more with Joan "The Craw Craw" than anything else (I too have a fondness for bleaching powders). It's not written for therapy, it's nowhere near "A Child Called It," and the selling point is all of the nasty little tidbits...more
Oct 14, 2011
Alexander
rated it
5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for:
Fans of celebrity tell-alls, shocking novels, family dynamics books, and "The Valley of the Dolls"
Ok, so where do I begin? First, this book is not just some gossip-queen purely-for-entertainment trash novel a la Valley of the Dolls (which happens to be a favorite of mine also). Sure, the book is full of stories of mental, verbal, and physical abuse, raging alcoholism, bipolar obsessive compulsion, and even allegations of lesbianism. But one of the best facets of the book is that it is also somewhat of a psychological novel. Christina goes through great pains not only describing the events an...more
Joan Crawford like many stars of her day had a carefully crafted image. I don't doubt much of this book, especially while reading "Not The Girl Nextdoor". What amazed me the most about this book was that Christina still came across as loving her mother very much even after enduring horrific abuse. Most children who are abused still love their parents which is something that puzzles me. I can understand the anger and outrage Joan's public felt after this unflattering portrayl was released, Joan l...more
Ok reading the reviews had me so upset. Not because people didnt like the book. Thats a matter of preference. But because the nerve of some people to choose sides as if they know either parties. That concerns me. People are abused everyday and they have so much support, but the second someone is abused by someone rich, famous, and beautiful; everyone wants to debate it and take the side of the popular. I dont know if Christina is telling the whole truth about her childhoold. But even if she fabr...more
This book is written by Christina Crawford the daughter of Joan Crawford. I am not really sure what brought me to want to read this book, guess I needed to read a biography since I hadn't in awhile. Probably, not the best biography/auto biography book to go back to the genre on. I am going to go back and read a happish chick lit book now and will come back to biographies again soon.
Christian wrote this book and I think it is from just the perceptive of what she thought and saw with little backgr...more
Christian wrote this book and I think it is from just the perceptive of what she thought and saw with little backgr...more
I'd watched the movie several times and honestly, I laughed at most of the over the top scenes. The whole issue of child abuse was lost on me in the movie. When Joan Crawford lays into Christina over the wire hangers I tried to figure how an 8 year old got a hold of wire hangers. It wasn't like she could run to the store and buy them.
the book clarifies that -- they came from the cleaners that way. Other scenes that came across as humorous and turned the movie Mommie Dearest into a cult classic m...more
the book clarifies that -- they came from the cleaners that way. Other scenes that came across as humorous and turned the movie Mommie Dearest into a cult classic m...more
This book was awesome...definitely a HUGE insight to Ms Joan Crawford..I'd been searching for an affordable copy of this book for 3 years through my local trade in bookstore...my friend happened to find it before me & was kind enough to let me read it first.
The movie, follows pretty closely to book...with exceptions to the extra children that were left out of movie.
I think Ms Joan Crawford was an interesting and savvy business woman but she also had a lot of personal demons that she carrie...more
The movie, follows pretty closely to book...with exceptions to the extra children that were left out of movie.
I think Ms Joan Crawford was an interesting and savvy business woman but she also had a lot of personal demons that she carrie...more
It's a love/hate, hate/love story of a daughter and a mother. There's no doubt that Joan Crawford was never a "Mother of the Year" candidate - her adopted children endured years of her alcoholism, physical & emotional abuse and manic behavior (could she have been an undiagnosed case of manic/depression [now called bipolar] disorder?) in the already not-based-on reality environment of Hollywood, CA.
I'd always wanted to read this - I remember when the book came out - Christina's allegations we...more
I'd always wanted to read this - I remember when the book came out - Christina's allegations we...more
Maybe this should really get 5 stars. No other books I can think of, except maybe The Way I See It, by Patti Davis, elicited such perfectly realized voyeuristic distaste.
Obviously, a lot has been said about this book and consequently many have weighed in and chosen sides. It's difficult to judge the veracity of Christina's heartbreaking story since so many others have disputed it. In fact, I have read other Crawford biographies whose authors directly attack Christina for defaming her ultra glamorous, Oscar-winning mother.
It seems all that can be said for certain is that mother and daughter had, at the very least, a troubled relationship and one can readily belie...more
It seems all that can be said for certain is that mother and daughter had, at the very least, a troubled relationship and one can readily belie...more
This book taught me to never, ever, use wire hangers! o.O
I believe Christina's story. She was emotionally and physically abused by Joan Crawford. No doubt in my mind. The only reason Joan's twin daughters didn't talk was because they had "hush" money.
SurvivorSurvivor No Safe Place: The Legacy of Family Violence
I believe Christina's story. She was emotionally and physically abused by Joan Crawford. No doubt in my mind. The only reason Joan's twin daughters didn't talk was because they had "hush" money.
SurvivorSurvivor No Safe Place: The Legacy of Family Violence
Good movie, not so good book.
I don't doubt that even some of the more severe abuse took place, but that really isn't the issue. The real abuse is buried under chapters and chapters of boring whining. It's harder to take the real abuse seriously when the author is complaining about every single thing her mother ever said and did for the duration of her life.
At one point she says her mother is treating her brother "hatefully" because he isn't allowed to trample the flowers in the flower beds while...more
I don't doubt that even some of the more severe abuse took place, but that really isn't the issue. The real abuse is buried under chapters and chapters of boring whining. It's harder to take the real abuse seriously when the author is complaining about every single thing her mother ever said and did for the duration of her life.
At one point she says her mother is treating her brother "hatefully" because he isn't allowed to trample the flowers in the flower beds while...more
I grew up watching the Joan Crawford movies, my parents were fans. When I saw this book out, I had to snap it up and read it.
It was a very good book even if the content was not only surprising but upsetting.
To know a child has been abused and not much was done to help her is sad.
To know someone is such a well respected woman and is doing the abusing and getting away with it, got away with it, was/is criminal.
I'm glad Christina wrote the book so all could see the truth about her mother. I hope it...more
It was a very good book even if the content was not only surprising but upsetting.
To know a child has been abused and not much was done to help her is sad.
To know someone is such a well respected woman and is doing the abusing and getting away with it, got away with it, was/is criminal.
I'm glad Christina wrote the book so all could see the truth about her mother. I hope it...more
I couldn't put the book down but to say that I really liked it is a misnomer because there is nothing to like about all that happened in that household. It was literally a nightmare.
I did watch the movie a long time ago, when I was a kid. As a kid I had no idea what the movie was about, really. After reading this book, I now understand why my mother did not appreciate being called "Mommie Dearest." ;o) (It was said in a jokingly way but she was firm about never being called that. Now I know why...more
I did watch the movie a long time ago, when I was a kid. As a kid I had no idea what the movie was about, really. After reading this book, I now understand why my mother did not appreciate being called "Mommie Dearest." ;o) (It was said in a jokingly way but she was firm about never being called that. Now I know why...more
I had somehow never gotten around to reading a book that I knew was an "icon" in the genre it seemed to create (the grown-child-tell-all-about-abuse-from-mom-or-dad book). Some scattered moments of great narrative (e.g., opening chapter at the funeral home, description of "night raids," etc.) mixed in with less inspired writing -- but always a compelling tale. Even if it is true (but yet unproven) that Christina Crawford embellished the story (as she is accused), this recounting of parental abus...more
I read this book a long long long time ago. before I saw the movie in fact. This was the very first book I had read in this genre and it hooked me. I remember being shocked that someone so famous and in the public eye could treat her children in this manner and no one know or speak out for them. there was a lot of controversy surrounding this book after it was released, many didn't believe Christina's version of events but I myself believe that the childhood she describes did happen. I think she...more
Christina Crawford's memoir of the truth behind the glamorous image of life with her movie star mother, Joan Crawford, is moderately intriguing, but mostly sad. Christina vividly writes of the abuse she suffered, but rambles in the rest of the novel about how she still loves her mother and wishes to be loved back. Like an abused dog, Christina keeps returning to Joan just to be kicked again. The writing suffers from these rambles and from a bad editor who left many grammar and spelling mistakes...more
Fascinating look at the life of Joan Crawford from the perspective of her adopted daughter Christina Crawford. Of course the NO WIRE HANGERS scene is here that we all remember from the Mommie Dearest movie, right? But there's so much more, so very much more. Like how Christina had to write thank you note after thank you note for Christmas presents she never got to play with, and that's just the tip of the iceberg.
What with my love of drunk/drug memoirs, it's a wonder I didn't read this years ag...more
What with my love of drunk/drug memoirs, it's a wonder I didn't read this years ag...more
Being a Classic Hollywood fan, I was aware of the whole controversy surrounding Joan Crawford and her daughter Christina. I have seen the movie adaption of ''Mommie Dearest'' starring Faye Dunaway as Crawford - although her performance was laughable and the film a campy mess, I found it a very intriguing story. For a year I searched for a copy of Christina's supposed 'tell-all' memoir of life with her famous, supposedly abusive mother. I finally got my hands on a battered copy and read it in a w...more
Nov 06, 2008
Colleen
rated it
1 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
Recommends it for:
People who love crybaby stories
Recommended to Colleen by:
No one
Written by a grown woman, the first of Joan Crawford's adopted children, the book reads like one big whine-a** 13yr old journal entry. Christina Crawford complains about how her mean mommie had loads of cash and didn't spoil her and her equally bratty brother, Chistopher, even more rotten than they already were. Funny how out of four adopted children growing up in the same house, two were bitter and two have happy memories of their childhood. I read this with an objective eye, what I saw was con...more
Sep 29, 2011
Roxy
rated it
2 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
Shelves:
non-fiction-biography-memoirs
Uggg....this book just dragged on for me. I've seen the movie several times but was interested in reading the book to learn about what the movie left out or changed. In the beginning it was very interesting to hear about how Joan Crawford moved up in Hollywood and the stardom that was created around her and not to mention the names that were dropped. It was also very interesting and cut-wrenching to hear the manipulative things that she did to the children she adopted. But after awhile the book...more
Joan Crawford, star of the silver screen, Exposed!
What did I learn reading the story of a survivor of Child Abuse, Christina?
Well, I feel that that while the film made from the book in 1981 became a GLBT cult classic, sometimes I wonder if my fellow GLBT friends in the various GLBT communities actually got past the glam and glitter of Faye Dunaway's portrayal of Joan Crawford and looked at the pages of the source material for the even bigger picture?
I like the film but it plays out more like a "...more
What did I learn reading the story of a survivor of Child Abuse, Christina?
Well, I feel that that while the film made from the book in 1981 became a GLBT cult classic, sometimes I wonder if my fellow GLBT friends in the various GLBT communities actually got past the glam and glitter of Faye Dunaway's portrayal of Joan Crawford and looked at the pages of the source material for the even bigger picture?
I like the film but it plays out more like a "...more
While the book was full of celeb gossip from the golden age, I found this a boring by the time "Tina" got to high school.
I know she had no control whilst she she was a child but as she entered collee the crying an whining was ridiculous! Get a f*cking job! Get on with your life! Poor me was all I got from the college years on.
Also found it hard to believe that she was the perfect angel she claimed to be!
Maybe she should have thought back to shopping the book around before her mother died and t...more
I know she had no control whilst she she was a child but as she entered collee the crying an whining was ridiculous! Get a f*cking job! Get on with your life! Poor me was all I got from the college years on.
Also found it hard to believe that she was the perfect angel she claimed to be!
Maybe she should have thought back to shopping the book around before her mother died and t...more
A very dark story about a well known figure and the conditions in which she treated her children. It should be a lesson for what alcohol can do to a person and provides an insight into the perceived life as a movie stars daughter versus the reality. This is the tale of a traumatic childhood - but there is no forgiveness or acceptance, Christina takes all of her mother's abuse until one day her mother apparently accepts her. This is truly a gruelling read with no silver lining!
I had actually forgotten I read this book. I don't read my autobiographies, I tend to find them poorly written and badly edited. This was no different. I find the same problems with all autobiographies - timelines are poorly defined, some moments are written with perfect clarity while others are glossed over with barely a description of any sort. Just because someone has a story to tell doesn't mean they know how to write it well.
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Christina Crawford is the adopted daughter of movie star Joan Crawford. She is best known for her contorversial book "Mommie Dearest", about her abusive childhood in Hollywood.
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