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The Lost Language of Cranes
David Leavitt's extraordinary first novel, now reissued in paperback, is a seminal work about family, sexual identity, home, and loss.
Set in the 1980s against the backdrop of a swiftly gentrifying Manhattan, The Lost Language of Cranes tells the story of twenty-five-year-old Philip, who realizes he must come out to his parents after falling in love for the first time with...more
Set in the 1980s against the backdrop of a swiftly gentrifying Manhattan, The Lost Language of Cranes tells the story of twenty-five-year-old Philip, who realizes he must come out to his parents after falling in love for the first time with...more
Paperback, 352 pages
Published
May 2nd 2005
by Bloomsbury USA
(first published 1986)
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What I admire about this novel is that Leavitt explores the significance in mundane details of the characters' lives. Grabbing a stranger's cock or fighting with a loved one is easy, but talking to those people takes immense courage. The characters find that opportunities come and go, and many aren't worth pursuing, and others can be created. I find their internal lives believable, and this book hooked me and kept me reading far too late for a few nights. But I wouldn't want to be any of the cha...more
an excerpt, when Rose realized his husband is gay:
But how could she have know that then? Homosexuality was a peculiarity to her, a condition to be treated in hospitals - not a way of life to be embraced or saved from. She had marched down the aisle, and now it seemed to her ironic that she should have seen in Owen's face assurance,a sign that she was aking the right decision, when in fact she was making the first and largest of a series of mistakes that would carry her out into her life like an...more
But how could she have know that then? Homosexuality was a peculiarity to her, a condition to be treated in hospitals - not a way of life to be embraced or saved from. She had marched down the aisle, and now it seemed to her ironic that she should have seen in Owen's face assurance,a sign that she was aking the right decision, when in fact she was making the first and largest of a series of mistakes that would carry her out into her life like an...more
Un libro noioso. Si tratta del primo romanzo vero e proprio dell’autore, pertanto una giustificazione ce l’ha, glielo concedo.
Lo stile è già riconoscibile, con le sue digressioni che spaziano e si diramano come tanti fili di ragnatela, personaggi secondari ben costruiti, ambientazioni precise. Peccato che sia tutto troppo.
Le digressioni – peculiarità che in altri romanzi successivi è persino un punto di forza – qui sono un universo di infodump che si occupa di ogni singolo dettaglio fino a rasen...more
Lo stile è già riconoscibile, con le sue digressioni che spaziano e si diramano come tanti fili di ragnatela, personaggi secondari ben costruiti, ambientazioni precise. Peccato che sia tutto troppo.
Le digressioni – peculiarità che in altri romanzi successivi è persino un punto di forza – qui sono un universo di infodump che si occupa di ogni singolo dettaglio fino a rasen...more
Non sono riuscita a staccare le mie manine e la testa e il cuore da questo libro, finito a tempo di record. Come capita solo ai libri che hanno un'anima dentro.
Anzi le anime dei personaggi e il loro relazionarsi che una prosa intensa, delicata, e profonda come in questo romanzo di Leawitt entra nel cuore e nella mente.
E' un libro sulla ricerca: di sé, della possibilità di vivere la propria sessualità con minore sofferenza e maggiore libertà. E quanto questo sia importante affinché la vita abbia...more
Anzi le anime dei personaggi e il loro relazionarsi che una prosa intensa, delicata, e profonda come in questo romanzo di Leawitt entra nel cuore e nella mente.
E' un libro sulla ricerca: di sé, della possibilità di vivere la propria sessualità con minore sofferenza e maggiore libertà. E quanto questo sia importante affinché la vita abbia...more
After reading the blurb for this one, I was a bit concerned that I was setting myself up for the Manhattan Hollinghurst. Luckily, this wasn't the case. There's none of the pretentiousness in Leavitt's writing, he's a straight forward, but evocative writer, and the whole book had more humanity in the first 20 pages than the whole of the damned Swimming Pool Library. It is guilty of being overly romantic in the odd place, and the ghoulish spectre of AIDS feels old fashioned, which is enitrely not...more
As far as I'm aware, this is Leavitt's first published novel, and it's an impressive effort. Leavitt's theme is that of many of his stories in Family Dancing - that is, family relationships from a specifically gay standpoint. In a way, you could analyze this novel down into a rather pedantic series of illustrative dissertations on possible varieties of family response: there's Jerene, the black lesbian whose parents have entirely disowned her; there's Eliot, brought up as the adopted son of a se...more
I didn't like The Page Turner, so I was wary of this, one of his better known works. Philip Benjamin, young and in his first major relationship, is steeling himself up to come out to his middle-aged parents, Owen and Ruth. They themselves are being rocked by some destablising news - they will have to leave their New York home of over twenty years, and Ruth realises she doesn't know a think about her husband. Owen, meanwhile, is struggling with his secret even as he inches closer to admitting he...more
I have read five of the author's books. While they are all excellent, this is the best one in my opinion. This is a story about getting honest. While it is never easy to come out, the main character has an easier job than that of his father. Years of self-deception can create a delusional reality. When the father is finally forced to be honest, the house of illusions built up over a lifetime between him and his wife come crashing down.
Mr. Leavitt is a brilliant writer. His book has a lyrical qua...more
Mr. Leavitt is a brilliant writer. His book has a lyrical qua...more
Dec 01, 2010
El
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4 of 5 stars
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Today is World AIDS Day. Since AIDS was first really recognized in the early 80s I think the numbers have reached over 25 million deaths. Pretty staggering when you think about it, and when you think about all the lives that have been touched in some way by this pandemic. It's not just about the big names you see on the news. It's about their families too, the ones you don't see on TV. It's about people in your neighborhood who could also be sick. It could be about just anyone. Friends, families...more
I enjoyed reading "The Lost Language of Cranes," which surprised me because I didn't find David Leavitt's writing style particularly engaging. However, the story itself, a quintessential coming out tale, was put together well. Leavitt has interesting ideas that (especially the story that relates to the title)that elevates the book above the run-of-the-mill.
The novel tells the story of Owen, Rose and Philip, their gay son who falls in love for the first time and struggles with the idea of coming...more
The novel tells the story of Owen, Rose and Philip, their gay son who falls in love for the first time and struggles with the idea of coming...more
"Ciascuno, a modo suo, trova ciò che deve amare, e lo ama; la finestra diventa uno specchio; qualunque sia la cosa che amiamo, è quello che noi siamo."
Ho scoperto Leavitt tardi, confesso: e quel Ballo di famiglia, che pure mi ha rivelato l'atroce sensibilità e capacità di un ventenne, quale era l'autore al momento della sua pubblicazione, m'era sembrato una noia mortale. Ripetitivo, monotematico, estremamente riduttivo delle mille complicazioni della vita.
Quale estremo piacere, allora, scoprire...more
Ho scoperto Leavitt tardi, confesso: e quel Ballo di famiglia, che pure mi ha rivelato l'atroce sensibilità e capacità di un ventenne, quale era l'autore al momento della sua pubblicazione, m'era sembrato una noia mortale. Ripetitivo, monotematico, estremamente riduttivo delle mille complicazioni della vita.
Quale estremo piacere, allora, scoprire...more
I've kept this on my shelves for a long time, never really feeling in the right mood to read it as I somehow expected the book to be too keen on political correctness, to centred on the homosexual theme everyone knows about when purchasing this book, and I also kind of thought it'd be too eighties. I don't know where these ideas came from, and I'm so glad that I was completely wrong.
The Lost Language of Cranes is one of the most engaging books I've read in a while with characters that are so psy...more
The Lost Language of Cranes is one of the most engaging books I've read in a while with characters that are so psy...more
This book is part of the gay fiction canon but it feels more like an artifact than a story that will be lovingly read and re-read for years.
Public opinion on homosexuality has shifted dramatically since the late 1980s, so that's part of it. Without the whiff of judgment and scandal that must have made this book interesting to people back then, it's a pretty pedestrian read. The characters are thinly sketched, and some scenes feel as predictable as an after-school special. Too much exposition, p...more
Public opinion on homosexuality has shifted dramatically since the late 1980s, so that's part of it. Without the whiff of judgment and scandal that must have made this book interesting to people back then, it's a pretty pedestrian read. The characters are thinly sketched, and some scenes feel as predictable as an after-school special. Too much exposition, p...more
This book is set in NYC in the 1980's. Philip, a young gay man in his 20's is tired of casual 1 night stands and longs for a long term relationship. He falls in love with Eliot and decides that he needs to finally let his parents know that he is gay. Philip's parents, Rose and Owen, are quiet literary intellectuals and have drifted apart over the years. Without the common task of raising their son, they find they have little in common. But more than just boredom in his marriage, Owen finally acc...more
A beautifully written novel with well developed characters, intertextuality, wild emotions and all different kinds of love. This book is definitely of its era. It is fascinating to get a glimpse of 1980's New York, rental prices, opinions, family structures and then to draw your own comparisons on how much society has changed and adapted in the past 30 years. Leavitt is captures the everyday, mundane nature of every day life with ease and narrates through multiple perspectives seamlessly. I did...more
I always find it hard to review a two-star book, because the inevitable question is 'well why did you read it?' I read this because it was sort of hinted to me that Leavitt is a kind of American Alan Hollinghurst. However, his writing lacks the grace and style of Hollinghurst, and his characters lack the depth and complexity.
Essentially this is a book about miserable people written in lifeless prose. As a contrast, I'm reading Howard Jacobson at the moment, who writes about miserable people with...more
Essentially this is a book about miserable people written in lifeless prose. As a contrast, I'm reading Howard Jacobson at the moment, who writes about miserable people with...more
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This is an amazingly well-written book that touched me in many ways. Philip, now 25, has always known that he prefers boys to girls, and men to women and that his sexual fantasies involve men. When he begins a more permanent relationship than usual, he decides that it’s time to come out to his parents. His coming out has disastrous results, causing his parents to deal with what they ha...more
This is an amazingly well-written book that touched me in many ways. Philip, now 25, has always known that he prefers boys to girls, and men to women and that his sexual fantasies involve men. When he begins a more permanent relationship than usual, he decides that it’s time to come out to his parents. His coming out has disastrous results, causing his parents to deal with what they ha...more
This is a well-written and touching account of a young man coming of age and coming to know himself as gay, learning about himself and his parents as people rather than as the roles life cast them into. I have the feeling that if I had read it when it was published in 1986, it would have been more meaningful simply because it would have been one of very few.
May 22, 2011
Leslie
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4 of 5 stars
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review of another edition
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20th-century-fiction
A family in 1980s New York coming to grips with the homosexuality of both the son and the father, the former certainly difficult but the latter far more conflicted and desperate. Leavitt does a wonderful job of showing the terrible toll a life in the closet can take, as Owen struggles to extract himself from the weight of so many years of guilt and fear and shame and secrecy. His misery and his desperate longing to be touched, to be desired, to be known, are moving. In the background is the new...more
This is a coming of age story for two men who are father and son, both of them gay. The book proceeds to tell how the son, Philip, finds the courage to tell his parents about his sexual orientation now that he has a special man in his life, while the father, Owen, lives in a state of denial about his own sexual preferences, hiding it from his wife and son, though he grows more careless of his secret as the book wears on. The story takes place in the 1980's, so it is rather dated. Though I suspec...more
De verloren taal der kranen.
Beklemmend boek vond ik het. Allemaal mensen die zo opgesloten zitten in zichzelf.De drie hoofdpersonen blikken regelmatig terug op hun leven, dat naar mijn idee wel erg armoedig (emotioneel dan)is verlopen. Communiceren is het probleem, daar verwijst de titel naar. (Een peuter wiens enige contact met de buitenwereld een bouwterrein met hijskranen was, hetgeen het enige geluid was dat hij voort kon brengen)
Sommige passages zijn prachtig verwoord, maar ik had toch vaa...more
Beklemmend boek vond ik het. Allemaal mensen die zo opgesloten zitten in zichzelf.De drie hoofdpersonen blikken regelmatig terug op hun leven, dat naar mijn idee wel erg armoedig (emotioneel dan)is verlopen. Communiceren is het probleem, daar verwijst de titel naar. (Een peuter wiens enige contact met de buitenwereld een bouwterrein met hijskranen was, hetgeen het enige geluid was dat hij voort kon brengen)
Sommige passages zijn prachtig verwoord, maar ik had toch vaa...more
Partiamo dal titolo, che a prima vista sembra non quadrare molto con l’argomento trattato. Questo libro parla di omosessualità, e allora cosa c’entrano le gru e il loro linguaggio? Leavitt lascia volutamente che il lettore capisca da sé la connessione, inserendo a metà libro l’episodio di un bambino molto piccolo che, trascurato dalla madre, inizia a imitare le gru di un cantiere che vede dalla finestra, e per tutta la vita amerà solo quelle: le gru diventano l’oggetto di un amore strano, inconc...more
Philip is the single child of Owen and Rose, and he is searching for love. When he finds romance with Eliot, he feels the need to come out to his parents. Unbeknownst to Philip or Rose, Owen has struggled with his own homosexuality for years. Thus the stage is set for how honesty and revelation will affect each of them, individually and in their relationships. There was a lot of story to this book and it was well-written. The characters had a lot of life and the conflict presented to them was ea...more
a strati, tu puoi decidere quali e quanti strati leggere.
Leavitt qui ne ha messi almeno tre: la storia di una famiglia disgregata dall'outing sessuale di due dei suoi membri, una storia su new york, e un sottotesto sui rapporti interpersonali.
quest'ultimo mi ha abbastanza sconcertata, perché Leavitt a 25 anni sembra aver capito quello che io sto iniziando a capire ora, ossia
- che l'amore e l'attrazione sessuale sono due cose distinte e che la necessità di farle confluire nella stessa persona è u...more
Leavitt qui ne ha messi almeno tre: la storia di una famiglia disgregata dall'outing sessuale di due dei suoi membri, una storia su new york, e un sottotesto sui rapporti interpersonali.
quest'ultimo mi ha abbastanza sconcertata, perché Leavitt a 25 anni sembra aver capito quello che io sto iniziando a capire ora, ossia
- che l'amore e l'attrazione sessuale sono due cose distinte e che la necessità di farle confluire nella stessa persona è u...more
I liked it, but toward the end had to temper my feelings with the reminder that it was written in 1986, Leavitt’s first novel after debuting many great short stories. The characters’ behaviors—their reactions to the story’s events—pushed my buttons. I don’t wish to have been 25 in 1986, like Philip; nor do I wish to have been 52 in 1986, like Rose and Owen. I constantly wanted these people to wake up and smell the modern world. Still, there’s a lot here to relate to (or cringe toward) in reading...more
the lost language of cranes, a deep understanding to another perhaps by mirroring or imitation, but without a spoken word
a father's closeted homosexuality is mirrored or even mocked by his son's flaunting of his own homosexuality. (published and) set in present day 1986 nyc, it seems ahead of it's time, AIDS issues are a major theme, but more so the resulting forced monogamy of relationships from the fear of contagion... "doomed to happiness"
beautifully written, but I would've chosen a different...more
a father's closeted homosexuality is mirrored or even mocked by his son's flaunting of his own homosexuality. (published and) set in present day 1986 nyc, it seems ahead of it's time, AIDS issues are a major theme, but more so the resulting forced monogamy of relationships from the fear of contagion... "doomed to happiness"
beautifully written, but I would've chosen a different...more
it was okay.I would not have read this book if not for a book club. I can't say this book was great, or that it changed me afterwards.
I'm interested to see what others thought.
I thought the book appeared to support the prejudice that homosexuality/bisexuality are either hereditary and, therefore, a disease we need to be able to "cure". Or, that it's just a case of "monkey see monkey do" and if we have a zero tolerance on allowing people to live that way, then less people will be gay because they...more
I'm interested to see what others thought.
I thought the book appeared to support the prejudice that homosexuality/bisexuality are either hereditary and, therefore, a disease we need to be able to "cure". Or, that it's just a case of "monkey see monkey do" and if we have a zero tolerance on allowing people to live that way, then less people will be gay because they...more
What I liked most about this book:
- The interesting parallel between a character who accepted reality and lived within it and the character who tried to hide reality from everyone, including himself. (If I were writing a paper about this book, here's where I'd start.)
- Learning about a place, time, and lifestyle that is at once remote and similar to my own. I usually don't get so many feelings of familiarity while reading about something rather distant from my own experience.
- The characters are...more
- The interesting parallel between a character who accepted reality and lived within it and the character who tried to hide reality from everyone, including himself. (If I were writing a paper about this book, here's where I'd start.)
- Learning about a place, time, and lifestyle that is at once remote and similar to my own. I usually don't get so many feelings of familiarity while reading about something rather distant from my own experience.
- The characters are...more
Stars: 3.75/5
Overall:
A study in life. A painting in words. A moving, subtly dramatic piece that dissects human nature and human life, splaying it on the table for us to see--and shudder at. I think anyone beyond high school will find a character to relate to, whether you are gay, straight, single, married, working a job you enjoy, working a job you hate, working a job you're good at, in love, in lust, just friends, hoping, dreaming, desperate, depressed, in the closet, out of the closet or just...more
Overall:
A study in life. A painting in words. A moving, subtly dramatic piece that dissects human nature and human life, splaying it on the table for us to see--and shudder at. I think anyone beyond high school will find a character to relate to, whether you are gay, straight, single, married, working a job you enjoy, working a job you hate, working a job you're good at, in love, in lust, just friends, hoping, dreaming, desperate, depressed, in the closet, out of the closet or just...more
I thought this was a very sweet book; as pointed out by others, Leavitt has a very sympathetic portrayal of all of the characters. I was glad that it was an honest portrayal of gay love, not overplayed. The portrait of NYC in the 80s seems very true and real. Leavitt's storytelling is very gentle, neither suspenseful nor boring, but enough to hold your interest and feel for the characters. It did take me a while to get used to his style; the writing in the first part of the book seemed a little...more
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Leavitt is a graduate of Yale University and a professor at the University of Florida, where he is the co-director of the creative writing program. He is also the editor of Subtropics magazine, The University of Florida's literary review.
Leavitt, who is openly gay, has frequently explored gay issues in his work. He divides his time between Florida and Tuscany, Italy.
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Leavitt, who is openly gay, has frequently explored gay issues in his work. He divides his time between Florida and Tuscany, Italy.
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