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Caitlin will aus dem Schatten ihrer Schwester treten und geht eine Beziehung mit dem unkonventionell aussehenden Rogerson ein. Doch diese Freundschaft entpuppt sich als Albtraum.
Paperback, 351 pages
Published 2005 by Ravensburger Buchverlag (first published September 1st 2000)
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Cara
Jul 14, 2014 Cara rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Sarah Dessen fans
Recommended to Cara by: Ash
Is there another word for heartbreaking? One that really can sum up feeling totally drained, broken, but at the same time hopeful? If the word does exist, that's this book in a nutshell.

While reading this I literally cringed and would slap the book shut, but a couple seconds later I would open it again to see what happens to a girl named Caitlin. She never feels like she measures up to her sister Cass, and in turn that leads her to trouble. And that trouble is named Rogerson (this is random but
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Ryan
Aug 08, 2011 Ryan rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
There is something to be said for authors that refuse to write the "Hollywood ending." They believe in their stories enough to write characters that need more than a big screen smooch to resolve their conflicts. Instead, these authors take the chance of writing an extended resolution, arguing, I imagine, that it takes time to resolve the problems people have. I would argue that novels that have a strong sense of resolution, something more than the sum of its tied-up-loose-ends, make a more endur ...more
Sookie
Aug 19, 2007 Sookie rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: ages 16+
Dreamland is about a girl named Caitlin. The books starts with her older sister, Cassandra, running away-which leaves Caitlin's family situation in chaos, and also leaves Caitlin to fill her "perfect" sister's place. She joins the cheerleading squad and starts to date a jock-the whole prep girl routine. But that abruptly ends when she meets a bad-boy named Rogerson.

This book was amazingly written-just like Sarah Dessen's other book (that I've read) This Lullaby.
But it's so different. Dreamland i
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Rose
Pre-read: Yeah, I'm re-reading this book for this year because apparently I'm on a Sarah Dessen kick from my library. I'm really looking forward to it.

Post-read: Dude, I'm still shaking even after I've turned the final page. Much of "Dreamland" hit spot on with respect to the feelings of isolation that Caitlyn felt with things going on with her family and friend circles, and the abuse she suffered just catapulted that strife into the stratosphere.

I really appreciated the chance to re-read this.
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Elizabeth
Apr 30, 2015 Elizabeth rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
TW: physical and emotional abuse.

Definitely feel like my heart was ripped out of my chest. Definitely was not prepared?! I knew it was going to be darker, but WOWZA. Very well written and so heartbreaking. I don't know how else to review it or to add on to that. Just... Brace yourself, and don't be afraid to give yourself a break and eat some pizza and watch something funny/uplifting while you're reading this one. It's an important one, though. Definitely. I'm glad that there are authors out th
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Pinky
Nov 01, 2015 Pinky rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
“See you in dreamland”

Your might find it really hard to believe that I just rated a Sarah Dessen book 2 out of 5 stars. But I didn't really enjoy this book, it was something that I wasn't expecting. I thought this was a book that was fluffy and filled with happiness.

BUT


It isn't fluffy and it isn't filled with happiness. It made me feel uncomfortable and it made me feel so depressed. I mean, it was a good book, but this book wasn't meant for me. It dealt with violence and abuse and I had a
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Arminzerella
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Robert
Mar 07, 2014 Robert rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Like Caitlin, my emotions are all out of whack. If I’m not careful, I may even resort to sucking my thumb, screaming at random times and intervals, rolling around on the grass, flopping on my bed, or sticking my feet up in the air and playing dead. It’s really hard to say what I might do, and if I tried to pin it down, my response would be filled with conjecture, and I prefer to deal in facts.

The fact is I hated this novel. Hated it with a passion, because it discussed abuse, and I prefer to loo
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Grace
*This review (and more) can also be found on my blog: The Humble Watermelon*

What makes Sarah Dessen's books so special is the fact that you feel like you can actually relate to the characters. Also, the plots are almost always the same, complete with a girl, a boy, and some romance, and the main character always has some kind of emotionally damaging problem they have to deal with, but it never seems repetitive.

Dreamland was haunting. It was disturbing. Not words you usually associate with Desse
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Cory
Mar 07, 2010 Cory rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
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Katya
I'm on my post-final YA fiction binge and working my way through the roommate's Sarah Dessen books. This one was, in my opinion, sadly lacking. Dessen gets into the head of an abused girlfriend very well, and the slow slide into an abusive relationship is believable. However, we never find out why her boyfriend was abusing her, leaving him to be a one-dimensional 'bad boy' and the circumstances around their relationship remained shallow. I don't have much patience for people who are too weak to ...more
Christina (A Reader of Fictions)
Dec 21, 2012 Christina (A Reader of Fictions) rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: readers sick of sweetie pie bad boys
Whoa. This was different. I've read two Dessen books prior to this one, Just Listen and This Lullaby. I very much enjoyed both of them, and, based on my experiences with them, I cataloged Sarah Dessen's fiction as intermediate contemporaries, balancing dark issues with optimism and sweet romance. Thus, I found the fact that they repackaged all of her books to look like shiny, happy summer reads odd. Well, it's odder still, since Dreamland is dark all the way through, depressing almost in its ent ...more
laaaaames
I actually enjoyed this book a great deal. It's a bit heavier in theme than most of Dessen's work, which I enjoyed, as it fit her tone well. But I wish she would stop writing cautionary tale-type fare; it's unfair to the target readers. Time and time again Dessen's stories don't stand on their own but instead as lessons to young girls to be good, that "bad boys" lead to trouble, that drinking leads to bad decision-making, that sex is not without its punishments, that generally boys know best.

I l
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Aleeeeeza
Feb 07, 2011 Aleeeeeza rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2011-read
Before this book, I'd only read one other book by Sarah Dessen--Lock and Key. And while it was a pretty decent read, I wasn't sure what the whole fuss over Sarah Dessen was about. And now I totes do!



I didn't really know much about the novel before reading it...besides for it involving dating abuse. And I kind of love 'issue' novels, so this one sounded right up my alley. And it was!



The story starts off with the the MC Caitlin's sister Cass running away on her (Caitlin's) sixteenth birthday. Cass
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Nic
This is the first Dessen book that actually really enjoyed. I have read Just Listen and Lock and Key and while I liked them I thought the plot tended to drag a lot. While with Dreamland I found it interesting and entertaining from start to finish.

There is no doubt that Dessen has beautiful prose. Some times a little too wordy for my liking but definitely thoughtful and gorgeous writing.

The characters were well developed and likeable. I even had a bit of a crush on bad boy Rogerson at the beginn
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Susane Colasanti
This is probably my favorite Sarah Dessen book!
Dee
Mar 07, 2010 Dee rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: NO ONE
Recommended to Dee by: Asia A.
THAT'S IT! I am sick of Sarah Dessen and her so-called "incredible" writing.

This book was about a 16-year-old girl named Caitlin. Her sister has just ran away from home, and her boyfriend Rogerson has taken a liking to beating her.

Why are Sarah Dessen's characters SO STUPID? I wanted to smack this chick. HOW STUPID CAN ONE GET? Caitlin stays with her abusive boyfriend because it "feels right". Caitlin starts smoking and doing drugs because it "feels right". Caitlin breaks her committment to th
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Kelly
And this was a perfect reminder why calling Sarah Dessen a romance author pisses me off. This is NOT a romance by any stretch of that word.

What an intense, disturbing, painful look at dating abuse. This is a story about feeling powerless and weak, about how you function and operate when staying in the abusive relationship seems safer than getting out.

Wow. Wow. Wow. This is a gut punch.
Cienne Olaes
Sep 09, 2010 Cienne Olaes rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2010, favorites
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Michelle
This book started slow for me, but I definitely got more into it as the story went on. The author does a good job of pulling the reader into Caitlin's plight; I cared what happened next.

That said, I had trouble with the way the abusive relationship was portrayed. I've done a lot of volunteer work in this area and abuse tends to happen in a "cycle"... the abuse occurs, then the abuser apologizes/says he'll never do it again/loves on the victim big time/etc. It goes from absolute terror to absolut
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Thomas
Apr 08, 2009 Thomas rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Thomas by: Sarah Dessen fans
"Dreamland" is the first novel I've read from Sarah Dessen, and I had high expectations of it due to all the hype my friends go on and on about from her books. I was not dissapointed. This book is about sixteen year old Caitlin, the B-honor roll bronze medal award getter. It starts out that on her birthday her older, more perfect sister Cassandra runs away to live with her boyfriend. She quickly tries to fill the void her sister has created for her but instead falls right into it. She starts exh ...more
Kit Kat
Although I enjoyed reading a lot of Sarah Dessen's books, most of them are completely alike just with different characters and different scenarios.
Most of her books start like this:

1) Girl has family problem. (Divorce, death of a loved one, moving to a new place etc.)

2) Girl goes to party/school and meets boy.

3) Girl and boy "feel" a connection.

4) Girl and boy have fight.

5) Girl and boy break up.

6) Girl and boy miss each other.

7) Girl and boy make up.

The reason why I like this book way more t
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Mei
After Caitlin's 18-year old sister Cassandra ran away with her boyfriend Adam on her 16th birthday, everything went chaos in the O'Koren family. Her mother Margaret keeps looking out for the phone in case it's Cass, have been constantly watching the Lamont Whipper Show, in hopes of her appearing, and kept buying dolls to fill out a new hobby. Before leaving, Cass gave her a gift, a dream journal.

Caitlin feels overshadowed by her "perfect" sister, since Cass gets the much attention, the one who's
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Margaret
Sixteen-year-old Caitlin had a terrible birthday; her older sister Cass ran away to New York that morning to be with her boyfriend, giving up her future at Yale and leaving only a note behind for her family. Since then, Caitlin has been struggling to sustain life as the girl left behind, missing Cass, but resenting the need to take her place at school and at home. Rebelling, she takes up with mysterious, dangerous Rogerson Biscoe, who helps her forget her problems...until he becomes a bigger pro ...more
Brooke
Feb 13, 2016 Brooke rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Ok so I'm going to give this book a 5 because once I started reading it I literally could NOT put it down. This is the first book I really felt this way about in the book club I am reading it for. I have enjoyed other books but this was the first one that made me want to put other things on hold and just get lost in the story. I got really invested in the main character Caitlin and this was the type of book that I wanted to skip pages and look ahead but had to stop myself. I also liked that this ...more
Gabriela
Apr 04, 2015 Gabriela rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I cannot find a single good thing to say about this. That's how bad it was.
This is by far my least favorite Sarah Dessen book. She talks about a very serious theme that must be portrayed and discussed, specially by YA books. However, she took the easy way out and the main character's voice falls flat and the whole situation is so badly written and annoying that I was counting the pages until it was over.
Angie Elle
I’m going to keep this review short and (semi-)sweet, because to be honest, I think this might be a case of “it’s not you; it’s me” with this book, and I’d hate to discourage anyone from reading Dreamland. When I put my list of Sarah Dessen reads together for what I wanted to read over the year, I chose based first on what my library had in audio, and then based on which of the remaining ones sounded most up my alley. If I had chosen them based strictly on what I was interested in, I’m not sure ...more
Nicola
Dreamland was not bad but I honestly can't say it was all that good either. I think Sarah Dessen can be quite hit and miss and this was a miss for me.

The whole first half was just so slow. Dessen's books are usually slow at the start so I didn't take much notice of it at first but it just kept dragging on and there wasn't much compelling me to read on. Caitlin just wasn't a likable character. She was just selfish, rude and annoying.

There was a shift in mood about halfway when Rogerson started
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Dana
Jul 11, 2012 Dana rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2012
Dreamland was a book a had to read for school, and I was okay with that. I was reading another book at the same time, and Sarah Dessen books are always pretty easy to read (not to put down her writing, I think her books are lovely, they're just always quick reads). I sat down with this book, and took the afternoon just to sit in the living room, drink diet coke, and read. I finished by five, and cried exactly three times. The book is written on such a personal level, and I could relate so well t ...more
Joy Joy
Nov 04, 2011 Joy Joy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: those with wayward relationship
Shelves: 2011
"Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent." --Eleanor Roosevelt

This was one of those books that I would start off easily. And also, one of those books that I would cringe and shut their covers because of too much tension and unbearable anxiety. Some of those books, they were left unfinished. I couldn't just go on because they were too hard to read. -But, all books have souls-. They would speak to you and nag you to finish them and find out about the characters and their bu
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