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  <title><![CDATA[Boundaries in Marriage]]></title>
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  <default_description>Improve your relationship with your spouse! Gain life-changing insights on:&lt;br/&gt;&#183;What boundaries are, why they&amp;#8217;re vital to a healthy marriage, and how each partner can establish them&lt;br/&gt;&#183;How values form the structure and architecture of marriage&lt;br/&gt;&#183;How to protect a marriage from intruders, whether other people or personal idols&lt;br/&gt;&#183;How to work with a spouse who understands and values boundaries&amp;#8212;and a spouse who doesn&amp;#8217;t&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;It Takes Two Individuals to Become One Flesh&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Only when a husband and wife know and respect each other&amp;#8217;s needs, choices, and freedom can they give themselves freely and lovingly to one another. Boundaries in Marriage gives the couples in your group the tools they need. By applying the powerful biblical and relational principles presented in this ZondervanGroupware&amp;#8482;, couples can make a good marriage better and even save one that&amp;#8217;s headed for disaster.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Created by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, authors of the best-selling book Boundaries, this kit maximizes interaction, support, and insights within your group and minimizes the preparation required of you as leader. Exercises and activities in each of the eight sessions help partners connect principles with marriage-strengthening application. Boundaries in Marriage will pay huge dividends in your church or group, or wherever couples desire to understand the friction points or serious hurts and betrayals in their marriages&amp;#8212;so they can move beyond them to mutual care, respect, affirmation, and intimacy.&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;[&lt;br/&gt;Boundaries in Marriage sessions:&lt;br/&gt;1.What&amp;#8217;s a Boundary, Anyway?&lt;br/&gt;2.Applying the Ten Laws of Boundaries to Marriage&lt;br/&gt;3.Setting Boundaries with Yourself&lt;br/&gt;4.Values One and Two: Love of God and Love of Spouse&lt;br/&gt;5.Values Three and Four: Honesty and Faithfulness&lt;br/&gt;6.Values Five and Six: Compassion and Forgiveness, and Holiness&lt;br/&gt;7.Resolving Conflict in Marriage&lt;br/&gt;8.Some Warning Signs to Help Your Marriage&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;Boundaries in Marriage kit includes:&lt;br/&gt;1 &amp;#8211; 105-minute VHS &amp; DVD included&amp;#8212;use either one&lt;br/&gt;1 &amp;#8211; Leader&amp;#8217;s guide*&lt;br/&gt;1 &amp;#8211; Participant&amp;#8217;s guide*&lt;br/&gt;1 &amp;#8211; Boundaries in Marriage softcover book*</default_description>
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  <recommended_by><![CDATA[Amy Leafblad]]></recommended_by>
  <read_at>Wed Jan 07 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I thought this was a substantial improvement on the original Boundaries book. The discussions about being individually whole before you can be one together seemed solid, as did the points about owning one's contributions to the problem, inevitably experiencing some emotional pain when letting the sp...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41463067">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sat Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Sun Mar 08 13:36:32 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book to be absolutely fantastic in helping me to understand the difference completing one another in marriage, and complimenting one another in marriage. The books main focus is to encourage people to take ownership; own up to your personal responsibility in all areas of life and also y...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48617001">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="47763156">
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  <date_updated>Fri Feb 27 22:32:37 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I'm divorced and remarried and if I didn't read this quick book, I'd be divorced again.  Maybe most people know where to draw the line, but I didn't.  This is truly a marriage-saver for me.  Highly recommended.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Awesome Godly strategies for keeping personal and relational boundaries in effect in your marriage!  Highly recommended for anyone in a serious relationship, considering marriage, or even if already married.]]></body>
    <url><![CDATA[http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/76408907]]></url>
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    <review id="46095518">
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    <body><![CDATA[A must-read for all married couples]]></body>
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    <review id="14411129">
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  <read_at>Fri Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2005</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this book not because I am married, but because I'm not.  Boundaries change when the level of intimacy in a relationship changes.  For those friendships you've &quot;had forever&quot; or when you feel married to your job, I found many marital boundaries apply to those situations as well.<br/>...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/14411129">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="6479013">
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  <date_added>Wed Sep 19 22:49:36 -0700 2007</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Sep 24 17:37:22 -0700 2007</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is okay.  The workbook helps and is insightful if you want to put the effort into it. I find the other book about boundaries, entitled Boundaries and found in my book list, to be more thorough.  But this book is still a good read for individuals who want to promote healthy growth---since s...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/6479013">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="50494135">
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 20 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was a good book by a Christian author about setting boundaries in a marriage,,,,,and being the best partner as well. Thought provoking.]]></body>
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    <review id="26617037">
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  <date_updated>Mon Jul 07 23:21:34 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I bought this book at a mops garage sale last year. I was in need of help with in-laws. And I used this book as a guide to deal with them not my husband. On how to put boundraries on them. I dont know if it all worked. But I felt like I had ideas on what to say to them without starting fights. But I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26617037">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="34749098">
    <user id="774724">
    <name><![CDATA[Helena]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Mesa, AZ]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Mon Sep 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Oct 07 13:10:16 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Oct 07 13:13:25 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was impressed with this book.  I was expecting a book that would give me direction on how to set boundaries within marriage, but I was glad to also see Cloud/Townsend guide readers to acknowledging their own responsibilities within marriage while relating principles taught in the Bible.]]></body>
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    <review id="26198301">
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    <name><![CDATA[Megan]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Marion, IN]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Thu Jul 03 06:48:38 -0700 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Soooo great.  I think everyone who is going to get married or is married can learn form this book.  This is a must read for any person in a relationship!!!!  This will be one of my number picks for sharing with others.]]></body>
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    <review id="30074633">
    <user id="1423030">
    <name><![CDATA[Katherine]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Hillsboro, OR]]></location>        
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  <date_added>Wed Aug 13 16:25:50 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Aug 13 16:27:39 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I highly recomend this book!!!!<br/><br/>Sometimes it is hard to see where you need to draw the line, or just plain stand up for yourself!<br/><br/>I think ALL MARRIED people NEEEEEEEEEEEEEEED! this book!]]></body>
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    <review id="19675133">
    <user id="439893">
    <name><![CDATA[Shiloh]]></name>
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  <read_at>Mon Apr 14 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Apr 21 11:25:42 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I like this book better than I thought.  It started off a bit vague, but quickly started to come together.  It has been probably the best marriage book I've read next to For Women Only.]]></body>
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    <review id="30733172">
    <user id="1446082">
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    <body><![CDATA[One of the single most useful books I've ever read! Beware: this will not help you fix your spouse. It will help you fix yourself.]]></body>
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    <review id="14448783">
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[anyone who wants to be happy]]></recommended_for>
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  <date_added>Sun Feb 03 10:30:04 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Feb 03 10:33:56 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I love this book as it helps me understand how to be a better wife and how to understand my husband.]]></body>
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    <review id="29430815">
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    <body><![CDATA[Read this the year before Keith and I got married.  It's very good and totally relateable.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very good book...different perspective.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Good follow-up to Boundaries book.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I wish I could memorize this one.]]></body>
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