How to Talk to Anyone: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships
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If you’ve read How to Win Friends and Influence People (my review) or other books about winning people over, you won’t find much new here. However, there are a few tips that countered common wisdom, such as waiting until after a...more
I docked a star because I while I understand where Lowndes was going with the "Big Cat" vs "Little Cat" comparison (or "Big Winners" vs "Losers"), at times I felt she took it too far. For example, it came across in the book...more
The author of this book, Leil Lowndes, has divided the book into 92 "mini-essays" for each of her "little tricks". Each mini-essay comes with some kind of anecdote. You can guarantee these anecdotes will tell us all about Leil's very very high po...more
For some this book might be more valuable by skipping the talk of big cats and glass ceilings, reading the tips at the end of the chapter and then reading that chapter if they apply. Some of the information f...more
I was looking for advice on honing my conversational skills to the level of a social butterfly. Having some experience as a management trainer, I look at self-help books critically and here is my analysis.
First the positives. This book does teach you some important and overlooked facts that are helpful for all of us, as they may be our blind spots. It also gives you real li...more
Yet after I'd finished the book I found that it wasn't at all what I wanted. It isn't for normal real life, and it goes so much to a sales person. It should be called HOW TO BE PERFECT.
I found the...more
This is more than just a how-to-do-it book.
Lowndes provides excellent justification for why certain approaches are successful or not.
The author herself, should you have had the displ...more
First of all, I am no a business professional. I have no desire to penetrate the corpo...more
The content of Leil Lowndes's How to Talk to Anyone is much better described by its subtitle: 92 Little Tricks for Big Success in Relationships. Some of the book is about talking to people, but quite a bit is about other aspects of relationships. I read this just after reading How to Make People Like You in 90 Seconds or Less by Nicholas Boothman (reviewed here). Both books are on similar topics, but written by very different authors. While Boothman's book is short and less thorough than I would...more
So what impressed me is the way the author presents the tips. She could have been presenting them in the form of "Dos" and "Don'ts". Instead she decided to tell a story concerning every advice she gave. I suppose this has two reasons: the first is that this way, one can remember it better than citing it the traditional way. the second reason might be the possibilities of resemblance in t...more
"You'll not only break the ice, you'll melt it away with your new skills." — Larry King
"The lost art of verbal communication may be revitalized by Leil Lowndes." — Harvey McKay, author of “How to Swim with the Sharks Without Being Eaten Alive”
What is that magic quality makes some people instantly loved and respected? Everyone wants to be their friend (or, if single, their lover!) In business, they rise swiftly to the top of the corporate ladder. What is their "Midas touch?"
What it boils down
If you want tricks for nonprofessional settings, take the underlying ideas of the 92 tricks, and use your creativity to come up with what would work for you in a friendly/romantic setting.
For me pe...more