Sink Reflections

Sink Reflections

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Fly Out of CHAOS
(Can’t Have Anyone Over Syndrome)
Into Order—One BabyStep at a Time

With her special blend of housecleaning tips, humor, and musings about daily life, Marla Cilley, a.k.a. The FlyLady, shows you how to manage clutter and chaos and get your home—and your life—in order. Drawn from the lessons and tools used in her popular mentoring program, the FlyLady system...more
Paperback, 256 pages
Published October 1st 2002 by Bantam (first published June 1st 2002)
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Gaijinmama
Jan 15, 2011 Gaijinmama rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: anyone who needs help de-cluttering and getting organized
Shelves: nonfiction
This one is a keeper for those of us who have trouble getting organized and staying motivated.
It's simple, straightforward, practical and inspiring.
As Ms. Cilley (a.k.a. FlyLady) would say, don't try to catch up. Just jump in where you are. Oh, and while I don't follow her spiritual beliefs I can totally get down with her warning to stay positive, no whining, nagging or complaining allowed. That's a fact, Jack. No one ever really got what they wanted by feeling sorry for themselves and acting l...more
Miriam
If you are "born organized" this read is not worth your time. But if you are like me, and struggle to maintain any sense of order in your home, this book is awesome! I'm still learning, and my house is by no means under control. But the techniques I've been able to implement have helped immensely. This book is the basis for "FLY Lady". If you've ever been turned off of FLY Lady because you subscribed to the emails without reading this book--you need to start from scratch! Forget about the intern...more
Kelly
I originally found FlyLady online in a quest to get more organized at home, and at first I enjoyed her system. When you sign up online, there are an overwhelming amount of emails involved, and for those who work outside the home, it can really start a guilt trip when you see what you "should" be doing start piling up while you're doing the 9-5.

So, I thought I would just get the book and do an offline version myself. My first problem is that her writing style is just awful. It feels like regurgit...more
Beth
Not well-written, not great literature, but really worked for me. I am not "born organized" and my home when I was raising 5 children and working 3/4 time was always verging a chaos. Wish Marla had written this book sooner. When I found the book --recommended by my married daughter--I read the book in gulp and found a system and support that really worked for me. Simple routines, morning and night, and the principles of "just jump in" and "you can do anything for 15 minutes": these work. Added t...more
Holly
I'm as of yet undecided about this book. As with many other organizational books, I do not like its format. I wish it would give you the system/checklists up front and let the explanation follow. Instead I found the book itself to be somewhat cluttered and disorganized. Too many letters of thanks from happy customers, not enough actual content.

As for the content, it can be basically summed up with three ideas:
1. Have a morning routine
2. Have a bedtime routine
3. Do a little bit of detail cleaning...more
Rachael
Picked this up for free at a MOPS swap, more out of nostalgia than anything. I remember the good ol' Web 1.0 days... I signed up for FlyLady when I was in college, in like 2002 or 2003. I quickly grew sick of the repetitive e-mails and unsubscribed. I wanted to see if the book version was any more succinct or helpful.

This book is okay, and clearly has helped many people (let's call a spade a spade: women). However, I was just not in the target demo I think. I started out with a house that was pi...more
Laura
For the ADHD and chronically disorganized among us, the FlyLady has some amazing suggestions. Unlike other "organize your life" books, this one comes from the viewpoint that you don't have to do everything! Start slow! Clean your sink, put on your shoes, and pat yourself on the back for getting anything at all done.
And for the serious cases (like me) she has advice for the things everyone else seems to do easily. For instance, I never understood how some people always seemed to have clean dishes...more
Hanna
Fun to read, and full of lots of great ideas to get your house organized and clean. I loved a lot of the things she said, and I am trying to incorporate some of them - like her control journal mapping out her weekly and daily chores. It was also gratifying to feel like I already do some of the things she thinks are so important. (Pat on the back right there). But probably the most important thing I took out of this book was that as the wife/mother of my home I should clean my home and take care...more
Angela
My only complaint about this book introducing a system of keeping your house under control (in terms of cleaning and organizing) is that it doesn't really say what the system is.

It does a great job of getting you in the right frame of mind. "You are not behind", "your house did not get messed up in a month, it's not going to get clean in a month", "do a little at a time, whatever you can manage", etc., and many, many testimonials from others who have felt their lives improve.

The author does admi...more
Courtney
May 18, 2013 Courtney rated it 2 of 5 stars
Recommended to Courtney by: Julie Peel
2.5 stars

I don't believe that I was the target audience for this book. I have never run out of gas or missed a doctor's appointment. I don't have trouble finding my keys when I have to leave the house. I have decent self-esteem, so I didn't feel I needed all the harping on "Finally Loving Yourself". (In fact, I was a little bothered by her tone). However, while I feel like this book is geared toward more chronic cases, there is information that can help anyone who struggles at all with organizat...more
Nina
May 11, 2009 Nina rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Those who are not organized
Recommended to Nina by: Kathleen
I am not a born organized person. I am very emotional about my things and I have piles everywhere and I am always overwhelmed with housework. I am a perfectionist, so if it doesn't get done right why do it at all? So for a long time I did nothing. This one will stay on my shelves for further reference.
You can read bits and pieces of this on her website and in the emails but it sure was nice to read it all in one place. I started this system in March and I have to say that this has changed my ou...more
Jennifer
Mar 09, 2010 Jennifer rated it 4 of 5 stars Recommends it for: folks who need a bit of guidance in setting up a home routine
This is not a particularly well written book... but that's really not the point. If you are Born Organized, this need not apply to you. I was raised by the ultimate Born Organized mother, with an exceedingly clean home. The problem with that? I never learned how to do it myself. Or more importantly, I learned that cleaning is long, hard, and difficult. Not that the more important part is decluttering first, and slowly building cleaning into your regular routine, so it is never a huge disaster an...more
Amy
I was a bit reluctant to give this book 5 stars, because it isn't exactly amazing literature. In fact, I felt that it wasn't even very well-written in some parts. HOWEVER, considering the tremendous impact this book has had on my life, I couldn't give it anything less than 5 stars. This book is not for everyone, but it is GREAT for people like me whose perfectionism gets in the way of truly being productive around the house, and people described as SHEs ("Sidetracked Home Executives") who have g...more
Kelley
I really enjoyed this book. It was just what I needed at this time of my life. The routines and tips she offers for getting you house in order have made a huge difference in our home. She breaks down jobs into simple, quick steps and that seems to work for my personality. Our house wasn't a war zone, but I wasn't EVER going to wash blinds or dust silk plants when I was always struggling to get the basic work done. I was skeptical when I started reading, but she basically said, "Try it and prove...more
Marley
There are a lot of things I could quibble about, but overall, I really liked this book and found it helpful. It's a book about housework and if you can't understand why anyone would write or read a book about housework, this book isn't for you. The book is aimed at the distracted, disorganized, I-don't-even-know-where-to-start kind of person.

The author uses her Internet persona of the FlyLady throughout the book, which lets you know from the start that this is a less formal book than you may be...more
Ramona
My girls all think I am nuts about Flylady, and its true, I am. She has helped me turn around my thinking about housework and organization, and to lose my "martyr" attitude. This book is NOT perfectly written, and you can get the same information from her website, www.flylady.net. But sometimes it helps to see things in a different format than on the web. My favorite quotes are "you are not behind, just jump in where you are", and "you can do anything for 15 minutes." Also, "you can't organize c...more
Rebecca Reid
Sink Reflections by Marla Cilley (Bantam Dell, 2002) is a self-help manual for women in need of ideas how to get organized in cleaning their homes and de-cluttering. It is written by The FlyLady, a popular blogger since 1999, who has a lot of follower she calls “FlyBabies.” While the book itself made for slightly irritating reading, the methods she gives and the reasons behind those methods are helpful, and inspiring, and I see myself developing habits of actually enjoying treating my home with...more
Melissa
This books was written by a woman that is very organized and lives in a super clean home. Known as the "Flylady", she's made it her mission to help others "bless their homes and families" by teaching skills through her website and this book. For me, the best part is she used to be very unorganized and once lived in a house full of clutter. She can relate to all of us who weren't born with the skills and discipline necessary to manage an immaculate home.

It's a quick read and has some great ideas....more
Angie
Read this (multiple times) years ago, and pulled it out a few weeks ago to tackle it once again. I really do find it to be heartwarming and comforting and inspirational and motivational and extremely helpful. The concepts Cilley teaches (you can do anything for 15 minutes, baby steps, you're never behind- just jump in where you are, "blessing our home" vs. cleaning, 5 minute rescues, hot spots, housework done incorrectly still blesses our families, ETC ETC ETC) are (dare I say the dreaded "P wor...more
Beth A.
Jun 07, 2008 Beth A. rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommended to Beth A. by: Heidi L
Shelves: nonfiction
This book is fun and easy to read. Marla Cilley has a good plan to help people change their homes from CHAOS (Can't Have Anyone Over Syndrome) to order. She tells you how to develop habits and routines to keep your house clean. I'm doing some of her baby steps and I already see improvement.
Jennifer H
I've been following Flylady loosely since 2000 with her Fly Lady Mentors group. I think the website does a better job of explaining what to do and the list emails are more inspiring but this book is a nice complement to her organizational system. I think this book would be good too even if you had no idea who Flylady was and just needed to get organized. My house has way too much clutter and I definitely come from a long line of pack rats. I'm already seeing improvement in the cleanliness of my...more
Lydia
I've been fluttering with the flylady for a while now...but after a recent conversation with some friends decided to actually read her book. It was good to read (good order to get you started...and it definitely renewed my desire to get rid of the CHAOS in my life.) But I'm still glad I get her daily email updates...those are what keep me going.

I will say this...I hate emptying out cold water that's been sitting in the kitchen sink. Also, when washing dishes, I use a constant flow of water... My...more
Sarah
I have a love-hate relationship with the FlyLady. I joined her Yahoo group a few years ago, and did some reading on her website. Home organization and management is something I have always struggled with...it’s not something I was especially attuned to when I was living with parents, and it wasn’t something I was really interested in learning more about until a few years into my marriage.

When I got married, I moved into this quaint, lovely, cluttered old farm house. It had been home to the entir...more
Sara
May 07, 2011 Sara rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: Everyone. Except Grandma Leah, a natural Fly lady.
Recommended to Sara by: Mindy
Shelves: to-own
Such a positive, enjoyable, humorous, and productive tool for life. This book is for everyone, especially if housekeeping is a challenge, but even if it's not. There is at least something in here for everyone, likely more things than one. Everyone SHOULD read this. What a blessing. So validating for me personally yet still offering so much more in terms of organizing ideas, building character, and ways of thinking. Overall truly exciting, but definitely in a way that you can still put it down an...more
Shannon
This book is for desperate women. I do appreciate her denouncing the martyr complex had by many crazy moms/wives. I just don't find it empowering to be talked to like a child. FLY (Finally Loving Yourself) is probably the lamest acronym ever. I wasn't motivated by Cilley, but I'm not a mess. This is geared towards those suffering from mood disorders. Seriously, if you found this book helpful, then you likely have a depressive disorder. I was just looking for some tips to increase my organization...more
Rebekka K. Steg
I find that stuff and clutter easily overwhelms me. I don't know where to start. Everything is all over the place, and it makes no difference.

I have a tendency towards perfectionism. If I can't do it perfectly, I might as well not bother at all. So usually I don't bother at all. Until I can't stand it any more, then I spend a couple of hours, and it looks great... until the next day, or the day after.

I'm tired of it, I feel like it drains me of energy, but I haven't really known how to change i...more
Anne-Marie
I've been facinated by the Fly Lady for a long ass time. I've been on the mailing list for at least 5 years. I try to "Fly" at least once every six months but have never actually gotten off the ground with it . . . but with my new employment status I am thinking that it's gonna work this time!!! I hope. I'm horrible with time management and I really have no idea how to keep a house clean. I have to spend lots of time looking for everything I need and I've got too many projects going on right now...more
Jennifer
WOW! This system is awesome. I have been doing the stuff on her website for a couple of weeks and decided to read the book. Mostly similar info, but I think the book is better organized. I am actually not much of a SHE - more of a Born Organized who has 3 kids ages 4 and under and a husband who works and goes to school full-time and got buried in the mess of life with kids! I think this book can benefit anyone..even if your house is already always clean...I bet you spend more than 3 hours a week...more
Everest
There is some practical info in this book--about 10 pages worth. All the rest is impractical, unnecessary fluff. Additionally, anyone who has ever heard of the woman's lib movement will probably find the 200 pages of fluff highly irritating.

Also, if you're annoyed by huge, broad, sweeping generalizations (i.e., every woman has, or wants to have children; everyone is A. religious, B. believes in "god", and C. is Christian), just save yourself the aggravation and skip this book.

Finally, this boo...more
Rachel
If you can get over the cheesy vocabulary and the initial strangeness of the routines recommended, this book is definitely a must read for any "home executive" who is not "born-organized" (phrases coined by the book's author).

This book has encouraged me to reclaim my home and my peace. The adages of "Clean sink, clean house" and "Dressed to the shoes first thing every morning" have showed me how building small, encouraging routines pushes me well ahead of the chaos curve. It's also helped me to...more
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