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    <body><![CDATA[I took a ten-week course based on this book, with adults aged 20-80, who were single, divorced, widowed, and married.  Extremely beneficial to study Cloud and Townsend's books on &quot;Boundaries,&quot; and &quot;Boundaries in Marriage,&quot; and &quot;Safe People&quot;.  Whatever your relationship ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/80264489">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I can sum up this book in one word: empowering. I found it to be a very helpful tool for dating. It’s empowering because I’ve been able to pinpoint some weak areas in my own life and know how better to address those weaknesses. It also gives me the tools to address weaknesses in my date in a way...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/41516713">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I hate most Christian based dating books because most are way too legalistic and simplistic. Relationships are not cut and dried things that are successful because you follow ten rules, and there's a lot more to a relationship that honors God than just not having sex until you're married. This book ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/59755923">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is surprisingly different from the original Boundaries book by Cloud-Townsend.  I thought they were just cashing in on a marketing success, until I actually read the book.  Instead, it has new material that is relevant to singles (regardless of whether you are dating or not!), and it is qu...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20044189">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[while people who aren't Christian may not get enjoy this book, it is such a great reminder for developing healthy relationships, and is a tell-all book of how to conduct one's self in a relationship. very nice :)<br/>I personally realized what it was that never worked in past relationships, and how...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/18928244">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I read the updated version of this book.  A lot of the suggestions are things I already know.  But it was still really good.  The book's help as far as boundaries are appicable to any relationship.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book gave very common sense advice about setting boundaries in the dating world. I'd never thought about some of the book the way they put it and it was very helpful.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Helps to understand how the dating thing works for adults in contemporary times.  Teaches how to think rationally during the emotional upheaval that often happens in dating relationships. Shows what to expect from the opposite gender in the dating relationship.  Teaches how to behave towards one ano...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/8017993">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This isn't the most difficult read ever and some of the points are a little &quot;Duh&quot;, but overall – interesting points about the need for boundaries and some food for thought when trying to balance emotion and logic. Also, I'm always sort of &quot;eh&quot; on anything with an overarching fa...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31610159">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was surprised I liked this book, but it wasn't preachy like I thought. Just some good, solid, practical dating advice.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[It is a great books of how to set boundaries in a relationship.  It helps identify possible red flags and how to deal with them before red flags and problems occur.  It is a great book for people who are starting a new relationship and want to start it on the right foot.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[A friend loaned me this book and it was full of valuable insights and guidelines for healthy dating. Written by 2 Christian psychologists- it is interesting, very insightful and accessible- full of first hand accounts from people's experiences.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really liked this book, simply because what I learned could also be applied to non-dating relationships.  The saying &quot;Fences make good neighbors&quot; is also true for relationships: boundaries make stable friendships.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book explores a method of healthy dating that encourages maturity and growth. The book is written from a Christian perspective, but certainly has merit for those of differing beliefs.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[FANTASTIC and realistic guidelines that prevent women from falling prey to themselves while dating.  There is a Boundaries book for marriage, parenting....I will read them all!]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This is by far the best book I have found on Christian dating principles and boundaries... And based on Janie's review, we probably shouldn't date.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Extremely insightful and helpful for healthy dating relationships! It completely changed my way of thinking! AMAZING book (including all of the others!)]]></body>
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