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  <title><![CDATA[Split: A Memoir of a Divorce]]></title>
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  <default_description>Bestselling and award-winning author Suzanne Finnamore writes a story of divorce that is &#8220;brilliant&#8221; (Augusten Burroughs) and sure to become a classic. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt; There are certain books that come to epitomize their painful subject matter, offering solace to those who share the same fate and pleasure to those who merely appreciate fine writing. What &lt;I&gt;The Year of Magical Thinking&lt;/I&gt; did for grief, what &lt;I&gt;Drinking: A Love Story&lt;/I&gt; did for alcoholism, now Split does for divorce. Prescriptive yet full of pragmatic advice, insight and black humor, Split is a finely wrought tourniquet for a broken union and its attendant trauma. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt; Suzanne Finnamore, author of the novel Otherwise Engaged, didn&#8217;t see it coming. Well, perhaps she saw something&#8212;for example, a cocktail napkin on which her husband, N, had scribbled a Cole Porter love song and someone else&#8217;s name&#8212;but she refused to acknowledge it. She was busy tending to their one-year-old son, then applying makeup, donning high heels, and mixing a martini to greet N with when he arrived home at night. Until the night N came home, told her she looked beautiful, changed his clothes, and announced that he was leaving. &lt;BR&gt;&lt;BR&gt; In crystalline, riveting prose, Finnamore tells the story of her divorce, and her marriage, and how it all imploded and came back together, changed. At once quite funny, achingly sad, and unflinchingly fierce, Split will resonate with anyone who&#8217;s endured the end of a relationship.</default_description>
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      <name><![CDATA[Suzanne Finnamore]]></name>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I was really over this woman by the end of this book. Actually, I was pretty much over her a few pages in. Which is a shame, really, because I very much enjoyed her other two books: The Zygote Chronicles and Otherwise Engaged. But this one? It just seemed so disjointed and piecemeal and (yes, I'll s...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24479079">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon May 12 07:32:57 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Ugh, this was horrible.  I couldn't even make it halfway through.  I'm all for reading about depressing topics, so that's not what turned me off.  There was just nothing redeeming about it - it wasn't funny, I didn't learn anything, none of the characters were likable, sympathetic or real (even thou...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/10642814">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Nov 16 09:00:59 -0800 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Nov 16 09:05:45 -0800 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Marking this as &quot;read&quot; is a bit of cheating, since I put it down on a plane ride and never picked it back up (sorry, the Daily Show rerun on the in-flight TV was more interesting). But I know it's going back to the library for good. As many other people have said about this book: yes, divo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/77963105">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 02 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[There is no denying that getting divorced is no fun, and in her recent novel, Split, Suzanne Finnamore reminds us just how not fun it is. <br/><br/>In an entirely candid portrayal of her struggle with divorce, Finnamore reveals a journey wholly undesirable. Relying on the support from relationship...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/35264044">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="33654345">
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  <date_updated>Tue Sep 23 18:21:42 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Very disappointing book.  Divorce is an interesting topic, and a firsthand account of going through it could be fascinating.  My American U. colleague Wendy Swallow wrote an excellent book on this very subject a few years back.  Split was hard to finish, however.  The author has funny moments, and I...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/33654345">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="28742496">
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  <date_added>Wed Jul 30 08:53:35 -0700 2008</date_added>
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    <body><![CDATA[Although the writing here is not astounding in a literary sense (not like Lorrie Moore's Birds in America), she does have a quick wit, some dark humor, and a good story line.<br/><br/>The book, to put it simply, is about a woman who is going through a divorce. It begins simply, does not do much wo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28742496">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Nov 02 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have a Psychology of Love class this semester and I thought this book would be an interesting perspective to get while taking this course.  The book is about a woman’s journey of divorce (my worst nightmare).  I realized that while divorce is a relatively frequency occurrence in our country, it ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/24234341">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="23593635">
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  <read_at>Wed Jun 18 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[Kind of depressing so far, but that's expected since the book is about divorce..<br/>Just finished this one and I liked, definitely not loved it.  Aside from the fact that I'm happily married, I couldn't relate to the author; she is well off, lives in a house she owns, is able to work from home as ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23593635">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="23356253">
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I had to get used to her style, but I enjoyed it once I did.  I just kept thinking while reading, &quot;I'm never getting married.&quot;<br/><br/>One thing that bugged me: she replaces the names of her ex-husband and her son with the initials N and A, respectively, which is a bit annoying in and o...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23356253">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="20553428">
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  <read_at>Sun Apr 20 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I've been a fan of Finnamore since -- well, it feels like it's been since the day I started reading books, but we all know that makes no sense, as I'm not an infant. She is by far one of the most underrated writers of our time, and her background as an advertising copywriter is reflected in every pa...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20553428">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="20761956">
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    <body><![CDATA[So, I was excited to read this book based on the reviews and that fact that, hey, can a story about divorce really be boring? This book wasn't boring, but overwritten. The author self-indulges in language and instead of being impressive it's plain distracting. This story about a woman's psychologica...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/20761956">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="66241438">
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  <read_at>Sun Mar 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I though this had a real dose of honesty and I could relate to the author's situation and to the humour..especially when things get emotionally tough. Humour is what can help to get you through challenging times and to especially avoid growing bitter! life is to rich for that!]]></body>
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    <review id="39789436">
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  <read_at>Thu Mar 05 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[A well-off, attractive writer in an affluent California suburb gets divorced from her older husband, who has been cheating on her with another woman. Nicely written but I never felt that I connected to the author's experiences - or, maybe, it felt like she didn't have all that much insight into what...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/39789436">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="37054840">
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  <read_at>Wed Nov 26 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book a lot.  It's the author's memoir of her unexpected divorce; goes through all the stages of grieving, but it's funny at the same time.  I think it's a good read for anyone (particularly if you're female)  esecially if you've gone through a divorce yourself.  It will validate the e...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/37054840">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="46351489">
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    <body><![CDATA[I read this for obvious reasons!  I had already read her first two books: Otherwise Engaged (about getting married) and the Zygote Chronicles (about having a baby).  Split is a memoir of her sudden divorce.  She is a fabulous writer.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Raw, jarring, and full of the dark sarcastic humor and wit that Finnamore brings to each of her books. Its succint, but very powerful, and definitely will strike a chord with anoyone who knows someone who went through divorce.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I wanted to read this book because I like Suzanne Finnamore's fiction books, which seem to be loosely based on her own life, and so when I read a review of <em>Split</em> I wanted to see what happened.  Finnamore's story is probably not that uncommon, unfortunately.  She thought she had a wonderful family un...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/25934805">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Thu Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[The things about books about divorce is (and I went on a run of them last week, that I won't bother to record here)...they're not about YOUR divorce. So they just seem kinda useless and wrong. But this is more poignant and less patronizing or pathos-plugged than most.]]></body>
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  <read_at>Wed Jul 23 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[I almost gave this two stars.  Quick read but at times I found my attention drifting.  The author can be very funny and her mom had the best quotes.  At one point, when the author was admiring her son, seeing the horrible father in him, saying her son had the best parts of the horrible father, I sta...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28129971">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Mon Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2007</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Tue Jun 30 22:57:21 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[girls...have you read this?  known anyone going through divorce?  read it!!  I was fascinated.  really liked the author--felt like a girlfriend she was confiding in.  ]]></body>
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