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La Bendicion

4.15 of 5 stars 4.15  ·  rating details  ·  424 ratings  ·  66 reviews
Los autores analizan la antigua bendicion de los patriarcas actualizandola en forma practica y sencilla.
Paperback, 224 pages
Published January 6th 1990 by Grupo Nelson (first published 1986)
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Andy Mitchell
I first read this book over ten years ago, before I was a parent.

From the adult child point-of-view, this book confirmed what I knew already, that my parents are top-notch!

Now, I returned to this book as the parent of a 6-year-old daughter and 8-year-old son, and I found it a more challenging read.

How have I fulfilled the five elements of the blessing, an ancient practice of encouraging children to grow up into productive, responsible, loved adults?

1) Meaningful touch

2) A spoken (or written) mes...more
The Blessing [Revised and Updated] by John Trent and Gary Smalley
The Blessing powerfully communicates biblical truths on how to instill self-worth and emotional well-being into others based on these five essential elements:

Meaningful touch
A spoken message
Attaching high value
Picturing a special future
An active commitment

In The Blessing John Trent and Gary Smalley shares countless true life stories of men and women and their personal examples of “the blessing.” While some have received a bles...more
Erlyn Trinidad
Another good find I would say. The Blessing is truly a wonderful blessing that I would like to recommend to anyone who could read, just because we all have the power to bless, but most especially to all parents and educators, who, like parents, play a major role in making and breaking the self-image of children.

Unlike most books I've read as of late, that I am racing to finish, this one is something that I had to pace. Not only it is very insightful but could also be a very emotional read, not o...more
Lisa Beth
This is a great book. It gave me concrete suggestions to make sure my children know they have my blessing and admonished me to change some of the parenting habits I have now. It also gave me insight into the hearts of people I love who have never (and never will) received their parents blessings and ideas for ways to bless them. I was also encouraged to make blessing my spouse a fixture in our marriage and I am excited about planning evenings of blessing for both him and our children!
Great book, very encouraging, and easy to read.

I do not think that all of a person's problems stem from their parents, and I strongly believe that each of us is responsible to try to rise above our past, even if we had a terrible upbringing. But there's no denying that the way you are raised and treated by your family has a profound affect on you. This book underscores and describes that effect.

The author emphasizes the importance and impact of parents' words and actions on their children, and...more
Greg Taylor
This is a modern day classic for living a life of biblical blessing that comes from God and that people are called to give in turn to one another. The five blessings are powerful and explained in full with good illustrations and even practical ways to do the blessings formally and informally. This book may remind you of Love Languages and in many ways Blessings overlap with the ways of loving others, but there is particularity of blessing that is more penetrating for the future of a person when...more
I loved this book! I think this should be a "must read" for all parents...but this is a great book for everyone. [Make sure to get the Revised & Updated version of the book.]

The Blessing shows us how important the love and unconditional acceptance from our parents is in shaping our self-worth, confidence and emotional growth. This will help you with understanding your own life and how you were raised in your own home, but especially how you can bless your own children or others.
I think it's...more
In our world of fast everything, do we really have the time to bless our children, spouses, families and friends? I know my own time management is stretched to the limit with keeping our home, educating our children, being an involved wife, and so much more. So, how do we bless others? Why is it so important?

In The Blessing (revised and updated), John Trent and Gary Smalley introduce us to 5 biblically proven ways to bless our children and others. With many examples, both from scripture and the...more
Soaring Eagle
Everybody wants to be loved and accepted. Mr. Trent explains how in the Old Testament Esau missed out on his father's blessing; it went to his younger brother. Even now, we also want this blessing of love and acceptance from our family and/or friends. This book explains how you can be a blessing to your children; who crave our acceptance and our love.

As soon as I started to read The Blessing e-book, I knew that I made the right choice in choosing this book to review. I am a parent and I want the...more
Coranne (The Best Books Ever)

I enjoyed this book. It was written in a combination of stories, lessons, and real life applications. The blessing that we are to give to our children is made of five parts: meaningful touch, a spoken or written message, attaching a high value, picture a special future, and active commitment. I will admit- at the beginning of this book I was a little confused- the entire idea of this book is very similar to the 5 love languages and I knew that was written by someone different. After reading more...more
Daniel Butcher
The Blessing: Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance Revised & Updated by John Trent and Gary Smalley
John Trent and Gary Smalley in The Blessing: Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance present the principle and practical details of providing blessing especially for our children. The authors note the need of all humans to be accepted and the power of blessing in giving this gift of acceptance and love to our children as they grow into adulthood. Trent and Smalley l...more
There are some books that I read the whole way through and come out feeling like it's been a journey I'm glad I went on. The type of journey where I'm glad I read every word on every page, because the author's words, examples & stories served to shape me paragraph by paragraph, page by page. To skip any single portion of the book would be to miss out on a nuance of personal growth prepared by the author. The book Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero was this type of book for me...more
"Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance" -- who does not want a part of that?! Having a number of children in my sphere of influence, and wanting to make the most of each opportunity, I was thrilled to be able to read this book. Originally published 25 years ago, this updated version brings Biblical insight up to today's terms, complete with references to Facebook and Skype!

What is "the blessing"? It's a way of letting your child know that you love them, support them, and are ther...more
I got this book for free to review from Booksneeze. I was excited to read it, but as soon as I began it, I knew I would have trouble getting through it. It has taken me over a month to read this book, because I had a hard time getting into it and did not really enjoy reading it. But, I needed to read it to review it, and I was hoping that I would get something out of it, so I would periodically pick it back up and read a bit more.
This revised and updated edition of the book has links to a websit...more
Thomas Freeman
This book has been a “blessing” to me and I believe to my family. I know I have been impacted by it in the past without even knowing the source. I have been taught this before. I have heard about the importance of specifically and formally writing and sharing a wonderful vision of the future for your friends and loved ones. This book was probably one of the influencers in those who have shared this with me. And although I have been influenced, I don’t think I have ever formally committed to this...more
Sharra Badgley
Originally published in 1986, The Blessing is a best-selling classic by John Trent, PH.D. and Gary Smalley, completely revised and enhanced with new material. The Blessing is a call to action, to live out the great commission lifestyle, through bestowing Biblical blessing to children, which will undoubtedly impact generations to come.

The Blessing is based on the five elements of the Biblical blessing as mentioned in Scripture:
Meaningful Touch - a non-verbal affirmation of laying on of hands, hug...more
The Blessing- Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance
John Trent and Gary Smalley have outlined some important actions parents (and spouses or friends) can take towards encouraging and blessing the people around them. Through the five elements that make up what they have coined as the Blessing (meaningful touch, spoken message, attaching high value, picturing a special future, and active commitment) Parents are encouraged to bless their families. There are many updated web tools peop...more
The Blessing: Giving the Gift of Unconditional Love and Acceptance by John Trent
I received this book by agreeing to blog about it from Thomas Nelson Publishing and when my mom asked what I was reading now, she said, oh yes The Blessing. Well I had never heard of it but I should have guessed that she had as she did a great job of giving that to me and my brother.
The book shares the reason the blessing of a child is so important, shows how it happened in the Bible, then goes through several chapte...more
Apr 13, 2009 Jodi rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: parents
I felt like this book was written just for me! I am trying so hard to raise my children so that they have confidence in themselves and feel loved by us and accepted. This book addressed exactly these issues so wonderfully! I know that I will never be a perfect parent, not do I want to be, but this book helped to show me that there are a lot of good things that I am doing already for my children. I probably do need to spend a little more time getting down and playing with my children and listenin...more
This book seems to be primarily for those who feel like they haven't received their parent's approval/blessing and want to make sure they know how to pass that blessing on to their own children. For that end, it's a very good book because it tells you in detail how to go about it. It also specifically speaks to those who feel like they never received this blessing from their parents and helps them work through that pain (whether those parents are dead or are still living and might someday give t...more
After reading this book (and after 10 years of praying for my husband to know Christ) I wrote a blessing for him. With in 12 hours of reading my blessing to him, he was diagnosed with terminal cancer. he came to know Christ before he died. I was so blessed and encouraged by this book and grateful that I was able to bless my husband.
This book is really good! It focuses on the parent-child relationship in regards to verbal communication and actions. The authors give Biblical principles and examples of how blessing children affects their lives positively long-term from birth all the way into adulthood. Also, it addresses the results of children who do not receive any blessings at all from their parents, or a "withholding" of the blessing.

Honestly, I think I would have gotten more out of this book if I had my own children. I...more
Aug 22, 2007 Jennifer rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: parents, children, anyone you love
This book teaches that blessing others is necessary for their emotional well-being and self-esteem. He uses it mostly in the context of parent to child and breaks it down into 5 steps that are similar to the Five Love Languages. He bases it on Jewish tradition of blessing their children, and goes back to when Jacob gets Esau's blessing. Some of this most good parents already do, but it's a reminder to be intentional and specific. Also great for those who missed out on The Blessing from their par...more
This book will help out a family in the need of the great words of God..... The Blessings
The is a wonderful read for anyone who is a parent and wishes to give their children encouragement, love, support, etc. Although written from a Christian perspective with various scripture references throughout, etc., even for parents who are not Christian, it gives great examples of ways to bless your children. It also offers examples of lives that have not received parental blessings and how that affects them and their children.

Really interesting to read both from the perspective of someone's...more
Very good thoughts for parents on how to bless their children, and for any adult on how to approach memories of their childhood. Some parts didn't strike me particularly; I still don't feel like I have a grasp on the significance of the Old Testament blessings, even after two chapters talking about them. However, I got good ideas on how to bless my children as they get older, and that's always valuable. I also got insights into how I can identify the blessings I was able to grasp from my parents...more
Carrie Edgell
The Blessing by John Trent, Ph.D., and Gary Smalley is a research-based, anecdote-filled Christian explanation on how to make your children (and parents) feel blessed and receive blessings, as well as what can happen when parents fall short of blessing an individual. The formula for giving a blessing is Bible-based and experientially tested by the author(s). While the anecdotes are very moving and sometimes painful to read, they completely illustrate the author(s) points. At the end are several...more
Kari Odenath
My parents definitely gave me "The Blessing" throughout my life, and continue to do so. With that in mind, I did not feel that this book offered anything profoundly different than what I am already naturally doing for my children, since it was modeled for me. If you did not grow up with parents who made you feel valued and loved, than you might have a very different experience with this book. I'm not sorry that I read it, for it is a good reminder of how to treat your children, and I will be wri...more
Aug 18, 2009 Lorie rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone seeking acceptance from another
Recommended to Lorie by: my sister
Shelves: did-not-finish
First off, I must confess that I finally finished this book after the third time I tried to read it. Just did not engage me at all. I had to "force" myself to wrap it up and get it back to the library!

That being said...

Although I agree with the precept that a family blessing can be handed down or up, Smalley's always got a way of smashing invidivual feelings into his "cookie cutter" four or five patterns. He stretches his theory past the point of reality. A better counterpart for this discussio...more
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