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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!<br/><br/>You're not that into him, but . . .<br/>* You slept with him anyway<br/>* You're dating him in the meantime<br/>* All your friends are getting married<br/>* There are no good men left<br/><br/> Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!<br/><br/>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill -- arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love -- with a great guy who is into you.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book was written as an answer to <em>He's Just Not That Into You.</em> As many of you know, I hated that piece--for its faux-empowerment (&quot;be a powerful, modern woman! Wait for him to call you first!&quot;), its idea that nothing a you do will affect whether or not he's into you (it's never that yo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/333125">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!  <p>Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never &quot;the one,&quot; but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.  <p>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now DR. IAN KERNER, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit SHE COMES FIRST, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, &quot;with a great guy who is into you.&quot; So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!</p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[Any guy who writes a book titled, &quot;She Comes First,&quot; must know what he's talking about, and that appears to be the case here.  It's kind of sad to admit that a lot of what Kerner discusses in this book is spot on.  We have lowered our standards.  We do tend to settle for the &quot;in the m...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/78409060">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!<br/><br/>You're not that into him, but . . .<br/>* You slept with him anyway<br/>* You're dating him in the meantime<br/>* All your friends are getting married<br/>* There are no good men left<br/><br/> Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!<br/><br/>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill -- arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love -- with a great guy who is into you.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book seems like it was written from the viewpoint of a different generation. I am mid-twenties, but the book seems to be geared towards women in their mid-thirties. I've never had any of the relationships he talks about in this book. If a guy is not into me, or I am not into him, there just sim...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/56661648">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!<br/><br/>You're not that into him, but . . .<br/>* You slept with him anyway<br/>* You're dating him in the meantime<br/>* All your friends are getting married<br/>* There are no good men left<br/><br/> Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!<br/><br/>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill -- arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love -- with a great guy who is into you.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I am surprised I had never heard of this little love self help gem before...But it crossed my circulation desk last week and I thought, oh this is just what I need to read! I rather like being single but sometimes...well a girl get lonely. It was a little disconcerting to see many of my behaviors wr...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48221882">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!<br/><br/>You're not that into him, but . . .<br/>* You slept with him anyway<br/>* You're dating him in the meantime<br/>* All your friends are getting married<br/>* There are no good men left<br/><br/> Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!<br/><br/>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill -- arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love -- with a great guy who is into you.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this self-help book. It's a quick read and the titles are explicit enough that you can easily skip the chapters that clearly don't apply to you (&quot;you're not that into him, but you slept with him anyway because you want to have sex like a man&quot;--yeah, I spend my Friday nights watch...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34547411">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!<br/><br/>You're not that into him, but . . .<br/>* You slept with him anyway<br/>* You're dating him in the meantime<br/>* All your friends are getting married<br/>* There are no good men left<br/><br/> Stop lowering your standards and start reaching for love!<br/><br/>The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). In this smash national bestseller, Dr. Ian Kerner, sex therapist, explores the battlefield of sex, hookups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill -- arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love -- with a great guy who is into you.]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[I have to admit, I liked this book better than &quot;He's Just Not That Into You&quot;. This book was more about realizing the reasons you do what you do when it comes to guys; coming to terms with why you shouldn't lower your standards; and how to deal with it all.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Playing off of the popular series, &quot;He's not that into you&quot;, this book tried to take it to the next step more from the woman going out and getting what she wants.  But I didn't agree with going out and &quot;having sex like a man&quot; because they make it sound like casual, one night stan...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15276546">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[The book was well written for what it was. I just didn't find any new ideas in it. Maybe once you've read one dating book you've read them all?]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This wasn't as funy as &quot;He's Just Not That Into You,&quot; and I was really hoping it would be. But it was an interesting read, at times.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I really like this book. It was a good companion book to &quot;He's Just Not that Into You&quot;.  It is basically about not lowering your standards.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this an enjoyable and interesting book with lots of new and funny facts to learn and a good message behind it.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Another great book, very informative and funny.  This is a book I will continue to read forever also. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[nothing like breaking up with someone right before v-day and finding comfort in a book.  ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Very interesting way of looking at relationships.  A fun read!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[My mom gave me this one too lol]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Empowering]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I admit to having a streak of vicious hatred in my heart for the seeming hundreds of thousands of books dedicated to women who, sheeplike, continue to adore men who are genetically inferior to pond algae. &quot;Women Who Love Men Who Hate Them&quot;, &quot;He Doesn't Love Me, But I Stand By My Man&quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/7933674">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Author wrote this book as a counter balance to <em> He's Just Not That Into You </em> ... some snippets...women can't actually have sex like men because a woman's brain chemistry is different (attach). men have feelings too. Respect yourself and stop lowering your standards. Overall the book was pretty empty...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/15383319">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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