The Bolter: Idina Sackville - The Woman Who Scandalised 1920s Society And Became White Mischief's Infamous Seductress
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The Bolter: Idina Sackville - The Woman Who Scandalised 1920s Society And Became White Mischief's Infamous Seductress

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On Friday 25th May, 1934, a forty-one-year-old woman walked into the lobby of Claridge's Hotel to meet the nineteen-year-old son whose face she did not know. Fifteen years earlier, as the First World War ended, Idina Sackville shocked high society by leaving his multimillionaire father to run off to Africa with a near penniless man. An inspiration for Nancy Mitford's chara...more
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Published 2009 by Virago (first published January 1st 2008)
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This is another case of a memoir being different from its portrayal in a review. I expected a book about a high society woman in the early-to-mid part of the 20th century who desperately sought pleasure, no matter the number of husbands or children she left behind. And while she married and divorced five times and had a few kids thrown in, she seemed more the boltee than the bolter. She almost always was the one left behind, or she was forced to leave due to her husband's behavior. Despite the d...more
I started this yesterday, and once I picked it up I couldn't put it down. Weirdly enough, Osborne's writing wasn't what kept me glued, since IMO it wasn't a very strong and some of the chapters were boring and unfocused. That being said, the story of her great-grandmother Idina's life was like passing a wreck on the side of the road -- you know you shouldn't gawp, but you can't look away from the damage.

For all her wealth and priviledge, Idina lived what to me was an empty, wasted life. She devo...more
How can a biography of such a flamboyant figure be as colourless as this book? I was eager to read about the notorious "Bolter" who was fictionalized in Nancy Mitford's novels, but this biography somehow emerged as nothing more than a laundry list of marriages, affairs and transgressions.

The author was not lacking in sympathy for her subject, but the vibrant society and carefree (or were they careless?) adventures of the Edwardian jet-set never really came to life for me. I kind of trudged throu...more
If you enjoy reading about post-WWI Europe and the "lost" generation, YOU MUST READ THIS BOOK. If you are looking for an example of a psychologically astute biography, YOU MUST READ THIS BOOK. Even if you have only just "seen the movie"--"White Heat" or "Out of Africa"--YOU MUST READ THIS BOOK. I can't think of any member of the goodreads intelligentsia who would not ENJOY THIS BOOK.
Biography of Idina Sackville, the woman who personified the wild Twenties and who gave rise to so many fictional scandalous women (Osborne is Idina's great-granddaughter)
Fascinating account of the author's great grandmother, the notorious "bolter" and queen of Africa's Happy Valley set in the 1920's. Idina and her friends were beautiful, fabulously wealthy, and in search of excitement and adventure. Living in Edwardian England with its strict societal codes was not their style. In the wilds of Kenya, there was the thrill of the danger of the land and opportunities to live the kind of hedonistic lifestyle they craved. They were pleasure seekers who constantly par...more
Lady Idina Sackville Wallace Gordon Hay Haldeman Soltau -- married and divorced 5 times between 1913-1946. She was a free spirit who was one of the ringleaders of the notorious Happy Valley set. Written by Idina's great-granddaughter, this book was an interesting glimpse into the life and loves of Lady Idina. In some ways, her life was very glamorous with lots of adventures and misadventures in Kenya. She made world headlines with her marriages and divorces. But behind all of that there seemed t...more
This was one of those delicious biographies about one of those women that burn too bright for this world. The author is a descendent of hers (great grand-daughter).

The Edwardians were an odd bunch. What I learned:

Open marriages are ok, as long as you always (eventually) came home to your spouse.

One divorce is ok, but have any more than that and one's breeding might come into question.

What was immensely interesting to me was that Idina (the subject of the book) ran in the same circles as Karen Bl...more
Frances Osborne is fairly young when her mother tells her that Idina Sackville, Osborne's great-grandmother, is not someone to be admired. The infamous Idina didn't follow conventional rules, and Idina's mother before that was a bit of a scuttle-butter. Idina's crime: Divorcing her husband, leaving behind two young sons, and splitting to Kenya with another man. "The Bolter" is Idina's story -- five husbands, hundreds of lovers, wicked parties, drinks, drugs, notorious friends and scandal that go...more
This is a fascinating biography of Idina Sackville, a British aristocrat who was at the center of the 'jet-set" of the 1930's in Kenya. She married 5 times and had 3 children, all of whom she abandoned to be cared for by others so that she could party hearty. She had an incredible plantation in Kenya where she entertained guests at her lavish weekend or week-long parties, which started in her bathroom. She had cocktails served while she bathed in a luxurious marble tub, all the while chatting wi...more
Aug 08, 2009 Jamie rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Jamie by: Vogue magazine, of all things
Shelves: adult, just-for-fun
This was disappointing, especially considering that a biography of a smart woman who makes bad choices in men is my very favorite kind of book.

Mostly it ended up reading a little too much like a laundry list of affairs and scandal, but without much insight into why. The author, her great-granddaughter attempts to make a case that she was just "looking for love" and I buy it, more because of my gut feelings and experience with this genre. But there's not really any proof laid out. She may have be...more
Loved it! This is a great book, and fascinating biography of a very interesting and public woman.

She is used as the basis of the Bolter character in Nancy Mitford books, and the biography is written by her grandaughter, who was not allowed to talk about her at home when growing up due to her shameful notoriety.

The bolter was famous in British society for leaving her husbands, and getting through them at an alarming rate. This is a touching and sweet insight into a very interesting and I think of...more
I got over a hundred pages into this book, but decided it just wasn't worth my time. Generally, I enjoy books about the Edwardian era, but, after reading so far in this book I realized not one person being written about was the least bit interesting except in the aspect that not one of them had any morals or any redeeming qualities whatsoever. I read the biography of the Mitford sisters who were from the same wealthy, non-working upper class Brits. They were fairly amoral, but were extremely int...more
Lyn Elliott
I thoroughly enjoyed Nancy Mitford's witty novels of the English upper classes and couldn't resist this biography of the original of The Bolter.
This isn't a witty or humourous book but it does give quite startling insights into the promiscuous behaviors of the wealthy sets in which Idina moved in London and then Kenya. Yes, it does read at times like a book of lists, and I didn't really try to keep track of all the liaisons. But the accumulations of infidelities all round built up a picture of m...more
Elizabeth Moffat
Through GoodReads I participate in a reading challenge which involves twelve books over the year (a mixture of fiction and non-fiction) that revolve around the era of the British Empire. All of the books I have read so far are fascinating, not necessarily particularly likeable in some cases, but I’ve definitely learned something through reading each book so I would count that as a positive thing. The Bolter introduces us to a lady who is in some ways, indescribable, but in no way forgettable. Id...more
My interest in the white colony that sprang up in the Kenyan highlands between the wars was first triggered by reading Out of Africa by Isak Dinesen, and grew stronger after I discovered, many years later, the photography of a later resident of the locale, Peter Beard. However, it wasn't till I read about the hijinks in Happy Valley as recounted in Felipe Fernández-Armesto's Millennium that I grew truly fascinated with the place. It was a purely literary fascination, but none the weaker for that...more
I read this in tandem with Cocktail Hour under the Tree of Forgetfullness and they have in common Kenya and a avery strong central character . On the face of it I should have enjoyed this given the background of Edwardian life and colonial Africa . I didn't enjoy it much though .
The subject Idina Sackville the inspiration for the Bolter in Nancy Mitford's Pursuit of Love is hard to warm to . Married five times , ok she could have been a bad picker , and with literally countless affairs throughou...more
I was fascinated by this book, written about one of the chief characters of the "Happy Valley " set in Kenya in the 1920's. White mischief is one of my favourite films and to find a book about one of the main characters and you find out the author is actually her Great Grand daughter is a bonus. Her life in a nutshell was married young, left her 1st husband and her 2 children to run off with another man, ended up being married 5 times, took numerous lovers, and lived a debauched life in kenya, t...more
The British East-Africa Protectorate {Kenya}, 1920's :
Guests were invited for weekends--and came--driving six or seven hours each way. Insect-bitten and dust-coated, they arrived at bath time on Saturday. As they drew up at the house, half a dozen men in fezzes and long white robes started appearing from all directions. The cars were emptied of bags and these were whisked away as the guests were ushered into bedrooms scattered with tapestries and antiques, each with its own bathroom, fed by a ta...more
Ha, a review upon request. As a child, Frances Osborne read a newspaper story about Idina Sackville, known as "The Bolter" for scandalously leaving her fabulously wealthy husband and her two young sons in order to marry another man and move to Kenya, then getting married another three times and generally leading a louche lifestyle that people loved to condemn while discussing all details and rumors. Osborne was then shocked to discover that Idina was her great-grandmother. Thus started a lifetim...more
Apr 15, 2011 Anne rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to Anne by: Goodwill's book aisle :)
It says something about this biography of Idina Sackville when I could easily have torn the family tree from the front of the book and used it as a bookmark. I was that confused. It was very difficult to keep track of who was with whom, when, where and why. Which leaves the "what" part and that sadly was too predictable. Idina and her crowd drank to excess and were sexually promiscuous to the point of international scandal. While she indulged herself participating in and watching men and women f...more
Bronwyn Mcloughlin
I too was attracted to this one because of Nancy Mitford's generous borrowing from the events of Idina's life in creating The Bolter in "love in a cold climate". That Dina was also related to Vita Sackville West was another delicious bonus, and on the whole it is an engaging read. A recently discovered family connection to Kenya helped, although the family members concerned were not in Kenya until the late 50s there's a flavor of what life was like then, and an insight into how the British socie...more
I spent 2 years in Kenya during the 1980s and knew nothing about Happy Valley or Lady Idina. Even so, among a number of the expats I met, there lingered an air of impermanence. This was manifested, for example, in a casual attitude to loaning cars, partners or furniture items, as though they were interchangeable. I was curious: was this due to living outside the social rules of their original cultures? Did living in Kenya, with its British-inherited red-tape, its creakingly slow bureaucracy, unr...more
what am i learning? divorce laws in England were barbaric!
6-15-09: I heard the author on NPR, saw her at The Strand, fascinating tidbits but unfortunately that's all there is. Tidbits. She comes to conclusions with flimsy supporting evidence, one line from her great-grandfather's diary "dined with Dina tonight." And then opines on that meal and what transpired, the end notes provide no further foundation.

Her great-grandparents marriage failed marriage is not deeply explored, was it simple immat...more
This book caught my eye in Chapters at Xmas, but not having time to look at it, I promised I would remember the title as it tweaked something in my memory, but what? 6 months later, remembering the title I found the book at the library. I was just a few pages in when I realize why "The Bolter" meant something. Nancy Mitford's character, The Bolter, portrayed in her books The Pursuit of Love, and Love in a Cold Climate, is based on Idina Sackville, the subject of this biography. Her life is a who...more
The synopsis of this book intrigued me to pick it up: Woman marries and divorces tons of men and lives on a farm in Kenya! Many years later, woman's great-granddaughter reads newspaper article about woman and discovers the relation!

There is more to the story than that. Idina Sackville lived kind of a sad life. She didn't just leave her husband for fun - he began cheating on her and so she cheated on him, which was apparently the thing to do back in the day - and Idina gave up custody of her two...more
Written by Sackville's granddaughter, The Bolter is a recounting of Idina's life as a notorious flapper gal, member of the Happy Valley set, and generally lost soul. In the past, I've enjoyed reading about other well-known characters from colonial Kenya, but many of those people, such as Beyrl Markham, have interesting careers or compelling ambitions. Sackville is a pretty sad story. Her relationships with her five husbands and three children are disorganized and she seems to flit from person to...more
I have to confess I didn't finish this book or come anywhere close to finishing; I got about 75 pages and gave up. The subject seemed fascinating as Idina was married 5 times back when divorce was scandalous and traveled extensively. I was really interested in reading it. However, the author's writing style was something I couldn't get past. Sentence construction was really strange, full of way to many commas, weirdly switched between the past and present and it didn't work for me. It read like...more
Kate Forsyth
In Lauren Willig's Acknowledgements at the back of The Ashford Affair, she mentioned that her novel had been inspired by reading The Bolter by Frances Osborne. it sounded so fascinating I ordered it straightaway and it was just as interesting as I had expected. The Bolter is the non-fiction account of the life of Idina Sackville, the author's great-grandmother, who had inspired the key character in Nancy Mitford's Love in a Cold Climate. She married and divorced numerous times, and was part of a...more
Especially recommended for those interested in the 'White Mischief-Happy Valley' set of scandals in Kenya in the 1930's and 40's. I had always pictured Idina Sackville Wallace (and her other four last names) as a femme fatale and a bit of a sociopath. A much more sympathetic and well-rounded portrait emerges here from her great-granddaughter, who had access to many family letters and interviews with those who knew Idina and her children. Rather than "The Bolter" who discarded men at her pleasure...more
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Frances Osborne was born in London and studied philosophy and modern languages at Oxford University. She is the author of two biographies; Lilla's Feast and The Bolter: Idina Sackville. Her first historical novel, Park Lane, will be published Summer 2012. Her articles have appeared in The Daily Telegraph, The Times, The Independent, the Daily Mail, and Vogue. She lives in London with her husband,...more
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