She: Understanding Feminine Psychology

She: Understanding Feminine Psychology

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What does it mean to be a woman? What is the pathway to mature femininity? And what of the masculine components of a woman's personality? Robert A. Johnson explores these questions in this new edition of She, updated to reflect the growth of his thinking on these subjects.

Many writers and scholars have long considered that the ancient myth of Amor and Psyche is really the...more
Paperback, Revised Edition, 96 pages
Published November 1st 1989 by Harper Perennial (first published 1976)
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Will Bellais
Aug 09, 2007 Will Bellais rated it 5 of 5 stars Recommends it for: All who are interested in women
This slim volume focuses on the story of Cupid (eros) and Psyche. Eros is the need for love and Psyche is the spirit of love. Johnson explores the maturing process of women through the story of Eros and Psyche. The story enchants on its own -- and we have heard much of this story through the Grimm Bros. fairytales. However, once we meed Eros, the perfect man who does not want to be seen for what he really is, Eros' mother Aphrodite, and the most beautiful girl on earth -- Psyche -- we are taken...more
Adam
A short read assembled by a Jungian psychologist type fellow. Overall pretty flaky and shallow. Idea herein is that the Greco-Roman character Psyche and her associated tale of love w/ Eros is actually a template for feminine behavior and personal evolution. The book reads pretty much like a horoscope and as such is not terribly interesting or full of impact (or win, if you're a hip nerdcore kid).

Apparently, this same author has written a similar tome for males based upon Ares. Most likely won't...more
Jenny
Mar 17, 2010 Jenny added it
There were moments when I thought Johnson was really on to something, but overall I couldn't relate an iota to the "femininity" posed in this book and, in fact, felt offended by it at times. This could be due to my surface-level reading of the book, but it could also have to do with the fact that Johnson tries to summarize feminine psychology in a mere 80 pages- missing opportunity after opportunity to present concrete modern examples of his interpretation of this Greek myth. Alas, true to my co...more
Meg
A book about feminine psychology written by a man and using a man-centric pscyhological interpretation: enough said. I've always been drawn to the myth of Psyche and Eros, so I found, especially the intial, symbolic interpretations interesting. But some parts of the book made me want to scream and were vaguely reminiscent of "The Fascinating Woman." So read with a grain of salt- you HAVE been warned.
Anna-lee
He, She, and We are three parts of a whole that take you on a journey which navigates the recognition and integration of the male and female psyche in each of us. I was turned on to these by Dr. Gentz who is a practicing psychologist in Tulsa Oklahoma. My partner and I read them at the same time. We found that parts of these books were better absorbed on the second reading.
Headley Mist
Can not think of a better review of this book than this quotation:

Pronunciation -- think of Psyche!
Is a paling stout and spikey?
Won't it make you lose your wits,
Writing groats and saying grits?
It's a dark abyss or tunnel:
Strewn with stones, stowed, solace, gunwale,
Islington and Isle of Wight,
Housewife, verdict and indict.

Kind of reflects the plot.
Jesse Winslow
I really enjoyed this book. Short and concise, it takes the myth of Eros and Psyche and translates it to the psychology of the female in a fairly plausible way. All though it does not encompass all of the female psyche, it mainly focuses on love and relationships. A really fun read with come definite gems.
Nancy Lewis
An interesting essay, but still slightly subjugative. I wonder if it's because of the author's personal views, or a sign of the time in which the book was written. Was 1989 really that long ago? There is a companion book called "He" (of course).
Humaira Khatoon
A book about feminine psychology written by a man and using a man-centric pscyhological interpretation.An interesting essay, but still slightly subjugative.
Katie Robinson
It's a great book that chronicles the feminine journey for males and females. Some thoughts get repeated a few times, but all in all it's a great and brief read.
Jane
A quick Jungian take on some of the changes women go through in transitioning to marriage...appropriately timed. More moderner than I would have guessed.
Sara Cat
Some of it is very good, may explain women in relationship to men, but not a comprehensive or relatable picture for many.
Phillip Moffitt
An exploration of how one becomes a mature and complete woman using the ancient myth of Amor and Psyche.
Amy Wilder
Johnson uses the myth of Cupid and Psyche to explore feminine psychology - perhaps the first time that anyone had put it into so many words for me that each woman has a masculine side to her soul and each man has a feminine part to his soul.

This deepened my connection to Cupid and Psyche which just kept popping up everywhere for me around this time in my life.
Eileen
Well, I still don't understand Feminine Psychology, but I enjoyed reading the book. Another notch in the belt of Jungian thought. One of these days I expect to have an awakening when it will all suddenly make sense to me. Till then I continue to plug away at reading – building a foundation I hope. This one looks at the myth of Eros and Psyche as a metaphor for the spiritual journey every woman faces.
Tricia
more like 3.5 stars. It was interesting the interpretation of the Psyche, Eros, Aphrodite myth. I also enjoyed some insights re: the female influence over the male influence.
Angel
i love this book it really gives you a look inside
Heidi
a must-read for any woman overwhelmed by falling in love
Lee F.
Jan 11, 2013 Lee F. added it
2nd read. a lot to think about. great grounding to ewtad woodman
Michelle
I really enjoyed this!
Nickolas
Kind of sexist. Interesting ideas, but still very sexist.
Cara
Jun 27, 2009 Cara rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: life
Just couldn't get into this one. Disappointing after what a revelation We was.
David Michael Smith
A landmark work of psychology; the author uses the ancient myth of Amor and Psyche as the springboard for a brilliant, perceptive exploration of how one becomes a mature and complete woman. Written by a male, but what are you going to do?
Dave
Any Johnson book works for me. I love this one
Enam
i think this is a most intresting book
Jason Mckinney
Johnson makes some interesting points in this, but I didn't find it nearly as informative or like it nearly as well as He. It's worth reading if you've read the other one though.
Athos
Feminine Psychology (as it pertains to marriage) described through the stages in the Eros&Psyche story.
Joanie
Yet another book from my "Psych of Identity" class. About the feminine archetype in psychology.
Big D
This was an assigned reading for a "Mythology(/Psychology)" class I took.
Michael
Great introduction to the myth of Amor and Psyche.....
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