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Dec 03, 2008
Jennifer
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Reviewed by Sally Kruger aka "Readingjunky" for TeensReadToo.com
THE WAY HE LIVED is about Joel, only Joel isn't around anymore. He died in a tragic camping accident. Those left behind are trying to make sense of it all and decide how to continue on without him.
Written from six different points of view, it reveals Joel piece by piece. His sisters, Tabbatha and Claire, tell what life is like for them since his death. Both are confused that their parents chose thi More...
THE WAY HE LIVED is about Joel, only Joel isn't around anymore. He died in a tragic camping accident. Those left behind are trying to make sense of it all and decide how to continue on without him.
Written from six different points of view, it reveals Joel piece by piece. His sisters, Tabbatha and Claire, tell what life is like for them since his death. Both are confused that their parents chose thi More...
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Nov 18, 2010
Jed
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I originally picked up this book because it was written by my friend's sister. Normally I don't read books categorized as "Young Adult" but this one doesn't really fit that mold which is probably why I liked it.
It is written similarly to that of Pablo D'Stair, an author who uses multiple stories from multiple perspectives, each lacking a definite beginning or a solid ending. In this book the story is told by six teens each of whom were related to or friends of Joel, a brigh More...
It is written similarly to that of Pablo D'Stair, an author who uses multiple stories from multiple perspectives, each lacking a definite beginning or a solid ending. In this book the story is told by six teens each of whom were related to or friends of Joel, a brigh More...
May 05, 2010
Books and Literature for Teens
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I'm not really sure what to think of this book exactly. I can't really say I enjoyed it very much frankly because I am still trying to figure out what the point of the story was. Sure Joel's death did change some of people in the book, but there wasn't enough of plot to make the story very meaningful.
There are six different parts to the book in which six different characters talk about their lives before and after Joel's death. I think my favorite characters were Tabbatha and maybe Claire. Of co More...
There are six different parts to the book in which six different characters talk about their lives before and after Joel's death. I think my favorite characters were Tabbatha and maybe Claire. Of co More...
Jul 23, 2011
Gretchen
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Sep 08, 2009
Amy
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I don't know what to say about this book. It was terrible on so many levels. While the author clearly states in an interview at the end of the book that this was intended to be a book for young adults, I can't think of a single adult, much less young adult, that I would recommend this book to. The story deals with 6 latter day saint youth who have just lost a friend/brother in a scouting accident. The book explores how each of them are dealing with the tragedy through each of their different "
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Dec 03, 2009
Carrie
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When I picked this book up I had no idea it was going to be about a handful of youth from the ‘The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints’. When I discovered this, I was a little leery because I don’t like books that use a single religion to define all its characters. In this book I felt the Mormon religion was disserved.
Okay…the only character that I actually liked was Tabbatha. The others I just didn’t care about. I would have liked a better conclusion. I felt the end wa More...
Okay…the only character that I actually liked was Tabbatha. The others I just didn’t care about. I would have liked a better conclusion. I felt the end wa More...
Aug 29, 2009
Katrina
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I think what I liked best about this book is how realistic the characters sounded (in my opinion). I felt as I read through each character's comments that I could honestly imagine someone saying or thinking these things, which works well in a realistic fiction book like this.
I wonder, though, if Joel was as amazing a person as each character described him to be. However, I think this is intentional as generally, when someone dies, especially one so young, people who remember him wi More...
I wonder, though, if Joel was as amazing a person as each character described him to be. However, I think this is intentional as generally, when someone dies, especially one so young, people who remember him wi More...
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Dec 04, 2008
Samantha
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I have contacted the author for a Library Thingy and she was very nice. I was interested to read her book that was set in Utah in a fictional town called Haven. It is how 6 teens react to the death of a teen named Joel on a scouting trip (died of dehydration). I really enjoyed the first voice of Joel's older sister who blogged her emotions. However, her section was cut short and I felt like it could have used more explaining or Tab's own book. The other sections suffered from the same probl
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Nov 01, 2010
Angela
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I LOVED this book! It was so well written and I applaud Emily Wing Smith for writing about an issue that makes people think. I grew up in a small Utah town where 95% of the people in the community were members of the Mormon religion. Emily's version of a small Mormon town and the judgment that happens there is spot on. I also liked how it showed different narrators, their perspectives, and how Joel (the deceased character in the book) affected all of their lives.
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Jan 07, 2010
Lia
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The strong points of this book were the variety of narrative voices (the story is told from six different points of view) and the unique idea of telling the story of someone's death by taking a slice out of the life of six people who knew him and are now coping with his death.
The weak point was that the author's agenda was obvious in the first chapter, and it was too easy to guess what would happen and why.
Note: The back cover of the book and even the Library of Congress More...
The weak point was that the author's agenda was obvious in the first chapter, and it was too easy to guess what would happen and why.
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Jul 12, 2010
Ruth
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I read this book all in one sitting because I couldn't put it down. It wasn't because it was awesome, though, it was because I was so confused at the way it was all going to work out.
I really didn't like the changing voices. It was an interesting idea, but that style really doesn't appeal to me. The fact that the voices were all teens also drove me crazy - which is why I shouldn't read young adult novels.
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I really didn't like the changing voices. It was an interesting idea, but that style really doesn't appeal to me. The fact that the voices were all teens also drove me crazy - which is why I shouldn't read young adult novels.
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Aug 18, 2011
Emily
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The major theme of this book was not what I was expecting. The review given to me when it was recommended on a blog was that of an LDS author writing about a group of teenagers who had lost a friend to dehydration on a scout trip. I expected an interesting look at grief where a small Mormon community was simply a backdrop and not the main event. Well, a whole other theme came screaming at me and I was totally surprised. (Telling you what that theme was, however, would kind of spoil it...sorr
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Jul 07, 2010
Karin
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This book made me think. It's written by a local author and the setting is a fictional city somewhere in or near the Salt Lake valley. It's about a boy who dies on a scout hike, but it's told after he's already died through the voices of six teenagers who were affected by his death. It does portray Utahns (and specifically Mormons) as being quite close minded and judgemental. But maybe that's more accurate than we'd like to think. The question comes up in the book as to whether or not Joel
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Apr 29, 2011
Kelly
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Joel died at the age of 16, on a hike through the Grand Canyon. He gave his water to the others and died as a result. This story is told through six perspectives---his sisters, best friend, best friend's girlfriend, would-be girlfriend and former debate partner---and how each of them deal with losing him. (Some deal better than others; in some chapters, Joel's hardly felt at all.)
I think I would've liked this book more if I hadn't read it immediately after her other book, Back W More...
I think I would've liked this book more if I hadn't read it immediately after her other book, Back W More...
Jan 05, 2009
Patricia
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Jul 15, 2011
Sydney
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Good book! This book had a lot of Morman related things, and I'm not a morman. But my friend is.... Anyways, it was a wonderfully well done book and I read it in like 5 days. I love books that have different views of people, and this was definitely the reason why! It shows how people could view one thing about someone or something completely different from the other person. The three people that stuck to me were Miles, Claire and Nina. Miles was Jesse's (the un-viewed dead main character) best f
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Oct 13, 2009
Duane
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Done through the views of friends who each are struggling with the loss of a friend, Joel, we see how he made a impact on each one of them in such a different way. I enjoyed how the author didn't reveal the real Joel through the entire book. It's up to the reader to decipher who Joel was and really like by the ramblings of the people who miss him. The author does a great job of making sure there are different character types in the book so it seems so much more real then just having your normal
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Feb 13, 2011
Jane
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The Way He Lived is the story of several characters dealing with the death of Joel who died before the beginning of the book. The setting is fictional town that is 95% Mormon. The author does well at capturing the quirks and foibles of Mormon culture, especially when we are concentrated in large numbers, but only skims the surface when dealing with what Mormons believe about God, life, and coming to terms with death. While cultural norms are an interesting way to look at an issue, dealing with
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Jul 21, 2010
Julie
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I didn't expect too much, but found this book to be quite wonderful. Written in a different style employing a variety of mediums, it was a fascinating read. At the beginning, Joey has died on a Scout trip, and this book tells the story of the lives of several different people, each from their own perspective. The events of his life and the lives of those affected by his death slowly circle around each other until, by the end, we have a full picture of what happened, why, and the outcome Joey'
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Sep 21, 2010
Lexie
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This book was confusing to me at first. I though that the main character was strange then realized in the end that he was just a normal guy with really good friends although some of them had major problems and wanted their late friend Joel (the main character) back. In the end of each chapter each person seems to find a way to go on without Joel in some way of their own while others need him the most. I recommend this book to you if you like simple books and don't mind seeing things from a diffe
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Sep 18, 2010
Kalli
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I first discovered this book when I attended a Children's Literature Conference over a year ago. The author gave a lecture on "voice", and I was intrigued. I bought the book, had her sign it, and it has been sitting on the shelf ever since. I wish I had read it sooner!! I admit, I was skeptical at first, because I knew it was Smith's first novel, and sometimes first novels can be a bit of a tedious experience; however, I have been pleasantly surprised. The characters were believable, the dialogu
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Feb 11, 2010
Heather
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published November 1st 2008 by Flux
details Paperback, 240 pages
isbn 0738714046
Synopsis From Goodreads Six stories. Six voices. One reality.
Monday’s Child has just lost her brother, but that’s not why she’s crazy. Tuesday’s Child is a star and wishes she wasn’t. Wednesday’s Child is obsessed with getting revenge. Thursday’s Child is on a quest to find herself. Friday’s Child is in love with a dead guy, and Saturday’s Child is in love with a guy More...
details Paperback, 240 pages
isbn 0738714046
Synopsis From Goodreads Six stories. Six voices. One reality.
Monday’s Child has just lost her brother, but that’s not why she’s crazy. Tuesday’s Child is a star and wishes she wasn’t. Wednesday’s Child is obsessed with getting revenge. Thursday’s Child is on a quest to find herself. Friday’s Child is in love with a dead guy, and Saturday’s Child is in love with a guy More...
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May 09, 2011
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I had a mixed reaction to this book. On the one hand, it really makes you think and wonder how much you can learn about a person through the eyes of others. The book is unique and intriguing in the slow revelation of our main character. I liked that. I also really loved all the connections between the characters. Each one seemed so separate from the others, but they would interact and we would see those little connections revealed as well. It is also very well written a More...
I had a mixed reaction to this book. On the one hand, it really makes you think and wonder how much you can learn about a person through the eyes of others. The book is unique and intriguing in the slow revelation of our main character. I liked that. I also really loved all the connections between the characters. Each one seemed so separate from the others, but they would interact and we would see those little connections revealed as well. It is also very well written a More...
Jan 20, 2011
Jann
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I picked this book simply because my friend wrote it. It did sound a little interesting, but that was my main reasoning. What I found was a great book by a promising author. She writes about Joel Espen through the eyes of the people around him -- after his death on a Scouting trip to the Grand Canyon. Sure, Joel was a very caring and care-taking individual, but did he die knowingly by giving up the last of his water? We get to know Joel through six of those closest to him. His two sisters
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Sep 18, 2010
Debbie
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For the longest time the only things I knew about this book was that it was about a boy who died on a camping trip and the people who knew him. So when I actually read this book I was surprised to find out that there is nothing actually from the boy who the book was titled after. (I guess I thought we were going to go along with him on the scouting trip and see how he died.) That being said I was nervous to start this book. I wasnt really sure how I was going to like it.
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Jun 01, 2010
Kate
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Apr 05, 2009
I am not giving this book any stars. Please note that I am not giving this book ZERO stars, I am just giving it NO stars.
How can you assign stars to such a book? There were parts that I said, "Yes! I totally feel that way!" and parts that made me cringe inside, and then there were the parts that just make you think.
I DO NOT reccomend this book to anyone who is easily offended or bored. This story is not fast moving, and brings up a lot of different people's opin More...
How can you assign stars to such a book? There were parts that I said, "Yes! I totally feel that way!" and parts that made me cringe inside, and then there were the parts that just make you think.
I DO NOT reccomend this book to anyone who is easily offended or bored. This story is not fast moving, and brings up a lot of different people's opin More...
Nov 26, 2011
Jessie
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I picked up this book because I wanted to see what a nationally-published YA book by a Mormon author, about Mormon teens, was like. It was pretty good and I thought the religious and cultural elements were worked into the narrative quite well. I was left feeling a little unsatisfied by the fact that the plot was not very strong and there wasn't much of a resolution in the end.
Jan 26, 2010
Danylle
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I want to be a real book critic so I can say things like this book was beautiful, poignant, and emotional, because it so was. I loved how Emily Wing Smith took seven totally diffent people and wrote about the effects of one person's death had on them all. Powerful stuff and I love it.
I'm so excited to meet the author in person this weekend so I can sing praises to this book.
I'm so excited to meet the author in person this weekend so I can sing praises to this book.
Jul 24, 2010
Janessa
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Wing Smith uses a chorus of narrators to tell the story of Joel Espen - both his life and his death. The way the narrators lives intermix creates an intricate web reflective of life - the way people cross paths with one another and leave impressions both big and small without being aware of it. Joel himself is an enigma and a mystery, and coming close to him, through the lens of those who knew him, reveals the fact that even people we think we know well may have hidden depths we do not underst
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