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    <body><![CDATA[My very favorite gay novel.  Full of sweetness, irony, tenderness and truth, and devoid of bitterness and bitchiness.  Totally moving and real.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[One of the most touching, sensible and yet profound books I've ever read. definitely a leader of my drama shelf]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I love Stephen McCauley.  A good light read that isn't that light.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[It's no mistake that Stephen McCauley's <em>The Object of My  Affection</em> ends at a carnival, for the book is, shockingly enough, not about ballroom dancing or Jennifer Aniston's hair, but rather a funny, bittersweet rumination on the thrill rides we endure and the trick mirrors through which we peer, all in the name of relationships.<p>  George is a gay kindergarten teacher, holding a torch of the inextinguishable variety for his not-worth-it ex-boyfriend. Nina is a pregnant &quot;almost-psychologist&quot; feminist with a nail-polish obsession  and an overbearing boyfriend. The focus of the novel is certainly on the relationship between these two, but McCauley also brings an entire fictional ensemble to life, richly nuanced with quirky humor. After a night utterly devoid of sleep, romance, or even physical comfort on a stranger's futon, George decides to cut his losses and leave in the middle of the night, silently wondering about his generation's aversion to mattresses: &quot;I've never trusted people who feel compelled to replace them with uncomfortable, expensive substitutes.&quot; As he leaves, his blind date caps off the evening with some unsolicited dietary advice, advising him that he should really cut down on dairy.  &quot;Thanks,&quot; George deadpans.  &quot;I've been meaning to eliminate it from my diet. This should give me the extra push.&quot;<p>  <em>The Object of My Affection</em> gets you to care about this screwed-up lot of characters as they attempt to force the square peg of life-as-it-is-wished into the round hole of life-as-it-is. It offers no pat resolutions but rather an overall sense of hope, made all the more believable by the fact that the author has not frantically tried to tie up every single loose end. Instead, George, Nina, and those who touch them manage to push off from their unreasonably idealistic visions of the future and anchor, albeit tenuously, to the blessings of the present, resolved to remain standing amidst the forces that move them, as McCauley writes, &quot;as inevitable as death and much stronger than love.&quot; <em>--Bob Michaels</em></p></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[It's no mistake that Stephen McCauley's <em>The Object of My  Affection</em> ends at a carnival, for the book is, shockingly enough, not about ballroom dancing or Jennifer Aniston's hair, but rather a funny, bittersweet rumination on the thrill rides we endure and the trick mirrors through which we peer, all in the name of relationships.<p>  George is a gay kindergarten teacher, holding a torch of the inextinguishable variety for his not-worth-it ex-boyfriend. Nina is a pregnant &quot;almost-psychologist&quot; feminist with a nail-polish obsession  and an overbearing boyfriend. The focus of the novel is certainly on the relationship between these two, but McCauley also brings an entire fictional ensemble to life, richly nuanced with quirky humor. After a night utterly devoid of sleep, romance, or even physical comfort on a stranger's futon, George decides to cut his losses and leave in the middle of the night, silently wondering about his generation's aversion to mattresses: &quot;I've never trusted people who feel compelled to replace them with uncomfortable, expensive substitutes.&quot; As he leaves, his blind date caps off the evening with some unsolicited dietary advice, advising him that he should really cut down on dairy.  &quot;Thanks,&quot; George deadpans.  &quot;I've been meaning to eliminate it from my diet. This should give me the extra push.&quot;<p>  <em>The Object of My Affection</em> gets you to care about this screwed-up lot of characters as they attempt to force the square peg of life-as-it-is-wished into the round hole of life-as-it-is. It offers no pat resolutions but rather an overall sense of hope, made all the more believable by the fact that the author has not frantically tried to tie up every single loose end. Instead, George, Nina, and those who touch them manage to push off from their unreasonably idealistic visions of the future and anchor, albeit tenuously, to the blessings of the present, resolved to remain standing amidst the forces that move them, as McCauley writes, &quot;as inevitable as death and much stronger than love.&quot; <em>--Bob Michaels</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is a delight. One of those books where I smiled most of the way through it. Great depiction of complex relationships. Even the serious parts are told with some humor and the author has a very engaging writing style. ]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[It's no mistake that Stephen McCauley's <em>The Object of My  Affection</em> ends at a carnival, for the book is, shockingly enough, not about ballroom dancing or Jennifer Aniston's hair, but rather a funny, bittersweet rumination on the thrill rides we endure and the trick mirrors through which we peer, all in the name of relationships.<p>  George is a gay kindergarten teacher, holding a torch of the inextinguishable variety for his not-worth-it ex-boyfriend. Nina is a pregnant &quot;almost-psychologist&quot; feminist with a nail-polish obsession  and an overbearing boyfriend. The focus of the novel is certainly on the relationship between these two, but McCauley also brings an entire fictional ensemble to life, richly nuanced with quirky humor. After a night utterly devoid of sleep, romance, or even physical comfort on a stranger's futon, George decides to cut his losses and leave in the middle of the night, silently wondering about his generation's aversion to mattresses: &quot;I've never trusted people who feel compelled to replace them with uncomfortable, expensive substitutes.&quot; As he leaves, his blind date caps off the evening with some unsolicited dietary advice, advising him that he should really cut down on dairy.  &quot;Thanks,&quot; George deadpans.  &quot;I've been meaning to eliminate it from my diet. This should give me the extra push.&quot;<p>  <em>The Object of My Affection</em> gets you to care about this screwed-up lot of characters as they attempt to force the square peg of life-as-it-is-wished into the round hole of life-as-it-is. It offers no pat resolutions but rather an overall sense of hope, made all the more believable by the fact that the author has not frantically tried to tie up every single loose end. Instead, George, Nina, and those who touch them manage to push off from their unreasonably idealistic visions of the future and anchor, albeit tenuously, to the blessings of the present, resolved to remain standing amidst the forces that move them, as McCauley writes, &quot;as inevitable as death and much stronger than love.&quot; <em>--Bob Michaels</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[$1 Strand find. Not a bad book. I liked all the scene setting in New York, particularly Brooklyn. The story was turned into a Jennifer Aniston movie in the 90s, I think probably pre-Brad Pitt. Ho hum at best.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[My favorite beach book. It's deceptively crisp and simple. When I was done I thought it was candy, but I still find myself thinking about the issues it raises. And funny, too. The movie is supposed to be awful.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[It's no mistake that Stephen McCauley's <em>The Object of My  Affection</em> ends at a carnival, for the book is, shockingly enough, not about ballroom dancing or Jennifer Aniston's hair, but rather a funny, bittersweet rumination on the thrill rides we endure and the trick mirrors through which we peer, all in the name of relationships.<p>  George is a gay kindergarten teacher, holding a torch of the inextinguishable variety for his not-worth-it ex-boyfriend. Nina is a pregnant &quot;almost-psychologist&quot; feminist with a nail-polish obsession  and an overbearing boyfriend. The focus of the novel is certainly on the relationship between these two, but McCauley also brings an entire fictional ensemble to life, richly nuanced with quirky humor. After a night utterly devoid of sleep, romance, or even physical comfort on a stranger's futon, George decides to cut his losses and leave in the middle of the night, silently wondering about his generation's aversion to mattresses: &quot;I've never trusted people who feel compelled to replace them with uncomfortable, expensive substitutes.&quot; As he leaves, his blind date caps off the evening with some unsolicited dietary advice, advising him that he should really cut down on dairy.  &quot;Thanks,&quot; George deadpans.  &quot;I've been meaning to eliminate it from my diet. This should give me the extra push.&quot;<p>  <em>The Object of My Affection</em> gets you to care about this screwed-up lot of characters as they attempt to force the square peg of life-as-it-is-wished into the round hole of life-as-it-is. It offers no pat resolutions but rather an overall sense of hope, made all the more believable by the fact that the author has not frantically tried to tie up every single loose end. Instead, George, Nina, and those who touch them manage to push off from their unreasonably idealistic visions of the future and anchor, albeit tenuously, to the blessings of the present, resolved to remain standing amidst the forces that move them, as McCauley writes, &quot;as inevitable as death and much stronger than love.&quot; <em>--Bob Michaels</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[One my all-time favorite books, SO much better and more complex than the movie.  This is where my &quot;aka nina&quot; came from!!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Lu en un week end. J'ai beaucoup trop pleurer sur ce livre. J'ai honte.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Love this author - have read every one of his books.]]></body>
    
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    <![CDATA[It's no mistake that Stephen McCauley's <em>The Object of My  Affection</em> ends at a carnival, for the book is, shockingly enough, not about ballroom dancing or Jennifer Aniston's hair, but rather a funny, bittersweet rumination on the thrill rides we endure and the trick mirrors through which we peer, all in the name of relationships.<p>  George is a gay kindergarten teacher, holding a torch of the inextinguishable variety for his not-worth-it ex-boyfriend. Nina is a pregnant &quot;almost-psychologist&quot; feminist with a nail-polish obsession  and an overbearing boyfriend. The focus of the novel is certainly on the relationship between these two, but McCauley also brings an entire fictional ensemble to life, richly nuanced with quirky humor. After a night utterly devoid of sleep, romance, or even physical comfort on a stranger's futon, George decides to cut his losses and leave in the middle of the night, silently wondering about his generation's aversion to mattresses: &quot;I've never trusted people who feel compelled to replace them with uncomfortable, expensive substitutes.&quot; As he leaves, his blind date caps off the evening with some unsolicited dietary advice, advising him that he should really cut down on dairy.  &quot;Thanks,&quot; George deadpans.  &quot;I've been meaning to eliminate it from my diet. This should give me the extra push.&quot;<p>  <em>The Object of My Affection</em> gets you to care about this screwed-up lot of characters as they attempt to force the square peg of life-as-it-is-wished into the round hole of life-as-it-is. It offers no pat resolutions but rather an overall sense of hope, made all the more believable by the fact that the author has not frantically tried to tie up every single loose end. Instead, George, Nina, and those who touch them manage to push off from their unreasonably idealistic visions of the future and anchor, albeit tenuously, to the blessings of the present, resolved to remain standing amidst the forces that move them, as McCauley writes, &quot;as inevitable as death and much stronger than love.&quot; <em>--Bob Michaels</em></p></p>]]>
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    <body><![CDATA[So much more interesting than the craptastic movie.]]></body>
    
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