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3.58 of 5 stars 3.58  ·  rating details  ·  28,857 ratings  ·  1,154 reviews
"She was a brazen hussy."

"She wasn't. And she was pretty, wasn't she?"

"I didn't look ... And tell your girls, my son, that when they're running after you, they're not to come and ask your mother for you - tell them that - brazen baggages you meet at dancing classes"

The marriage of Gertrude and Walter Morel has become a battleground. Repelled by her uneducated and sometimes
Paperback, 654 pages
Published August 17th 1999 by Modern Library Classics (first published 1913)
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Richard Reviles Censorship Always in All Ways
Rating: 0.125* of five

BkC51) SONS AND LOVERS by D.H. Lawrence: The worst, most horrendously offensively overrated piece of crap I've read in my life.

Yeup. Since I'm in a real bitch-slappin' mood, here goes.

The Book Report: Sensitive, aesthetic nebbish gets born to rough miner and his neurasthenic dishcloth of a wife. She falls in love with her progeny and tries to Save Him From Being Like His Father, which clearly is a fate worse than death. So, lady, if you didn't like the guy, why didn't you j
The storyline is in the name, Sons and Lovers, but what you don't expect are the subtleties of the Oedipus complex or Freudian allegory. It was a surprisingly sensational read for me, especially since earlier this year, I gave myself a classics challenge: to read and re-read a few classics just for the sake of it; erase the disdain of forced-readings in high school, college and grad school; read just for how it makes me feel, not because everyone else is doing it. Sons and Lovers ends my pers ...more
I attempted to read this book twice years ago. I failed to finish each time, finding the novel laborious. Now, married and with children, I have read through this book eagerly. It is perhaps a half-lifetime of experience that has allowed me to see this story in a different light. The examination of Paul Morel's emotionally incestuous relationship with his mother and the way it cripples his love for other women is insightful. My Barnes and Nobles version of this book (I put this review under this ...more
Jr Bacdayan
How do you leave a mother who associates her life’s meaning and fulfillment to you and your achievements, without breaking her heart? How do you surrender all your passion to a lover while leaving some for the woman who gave birth to you, reared you, and loved you? Should a man give greater love to his mother or his lover? How do you achieve balance between the women in your life? D.H. Lawrence’s semi-autobiographical novel Sons and Lovers displays the pendulum of a young man’s love swinging to- ...more
“I have been reading ‘Sons and Lovers’ and feel ready to die. If Lawrence had been killed after writing that book he’d still be England’s greatest novelist.”
- Philip Larkin in a letter to a friend, aged nineteen.

It’s late, and I haven’t written any reviews for this site up until now, but here goes nothing. Considering the relatively abysmal ratings that Lawrence’s novels seem to have here, I figured I should at least add my two cents and say a couple things about what I feel is one of the better
Warning: the book deals with sex. If you're sensitive to that, don't read the book or my review.

I loved this book. It reminded me again of my love for classic English literature. I love the realism in it. "Sons and Lovers" is essentially about relationships. I thought it was going to focus on the relationships of the mother in the book because the first part deals with her marriage and the stages it goes through. It describes the disintegration of love and what it's like to be a woman and have
Rakhi Dalal
Son - I want to review this book Mater.

Mother – Do you really now?

Son – Yes mother.

Mother – I would not advise you to do so.

Son – Why mother?

Mother – Because it will ask too much from you (READ - What about me then? There won’t be anything left for me of you.)

Son – You are being ridiculous mother. I wish to do it because I feel this is right.

Mother – Then do as you deem appropriate. I shall say no more.

Son - I will mother. You can’t hold me now.

So I finally decided to review this book. A midst v
This marks my first experience of D.H. Lawrence, apart from practically memorizing a famous, passionate excerpt from “The Rainbow,” read during a great episode of Northern Exposure (one of the greatest television shows of all time, in my humble opinion)…that excerpt may have generated some preconceived notions regarding the content of Sons and Lovers…in some ways, my predictions were correct…in others, wholly unmet and practically unfounded.

Sons and Lovers is the story of one family, the Morels,
D. H. Lawrence is one of those novelists like Dostoevsky who seem to work and rework some of the same themes into his novels. Lawrence's autobiographical novel, Sons and Lovers, initially elicited a lukewarm critical reception, along with allegations of obscenity. However, it established some of Lawrence's favorite themes and it is today regarded as a masterpiece of modernism.
Lawrence began working on the novel in the period of his mother's illness, and the autobiographical aspects of the novel
Really brilliant book!
From the minute i started reading i was totally absorbed.
I didnt know what to expect when i started reading this
but it was just go engrossing and the writing so lovely
it just carried me along through this story.
The whole setting in the mining community was so vividly
described and the characters really felt like i knew them.

Really connected with the dad as he was working in the mines
and had such a hard life but i think loved his family anyway.

Miriam was a little gem...i woul
There has never been a book that made me want to inflict physical pain upon a character -- until Sons & Lovers that is...

The really devious thing about this dreadful book is that the Sons half, the first half, isn't all that bad. Lawrence spends an immense amount of time on what one supposes to be the backstory for the Lovers section. One learns of Paul's youth and temperment, Paul's mother, Paul's parents relationship and his brothers' exploits. It is time consuming and not always entertain
Jun 24, 2007 Carolyn rated it 3 of 5 stars
Shelves: own
"To him now, life seemed a shadow, a day a white shadow; night, and death, and stillness, and inaction, this seemed like being. To be alive, to be urgent and insistent--That was not-to-be. The highest of all was to melt out into the darkness and sway there, identified with the great Being."

"Where was he?--one tiny upright speck of flesh, less than an ear of wheat lost in the field. He could not bear it. On every side the immense dark silence seemed pressing him, so tiny a spark, into extinction,
Generally regarded as semi-autobiographical, this is a very brave and evocative portrayal of working-class life in a Nottinghamshire mining community in the very early part of the twentieth century. You feel the characters' claustrophobia, and however much you may dislike them, sense that they are trapped in their lives by both their actions and their aspirations. The story line is engrossing and shocking for its time, both in its accurate portrayal of the imprisonment and desperation of individ ...more
May 22, 2015 Sanchi rated it 4 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: anyone looking for a good read
Recommended to Sanchi by: my school's librarian
This is an amazing piece of literature, and a must read for people who're into classics. The story is slow paced, but somehow its not boring. I read the book a couple of years ago, so I couldn't recall the exact events taking place, but I can say that I enjoyed when I read it.
Jun 15, 2008 Rick rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: arty people who might better identify with sensitive, moody Paul
Recommended to Rick by: found it on amazon as a suggestion for people interested in soci
It was mostly a bore. Some of the events had me interested, but overall i just kept waiting to be really moved and wasn't. I liked the descriptions of Paul in his discussions with Miriam about their relationship when they were getting close to "breaking off."

I kept wishing I could identify more with Paul. I read an interpretation that said the drive and ambition Mrs. Morel had driven into Paul to help him rise above his roots eventually hindered his ability to accept any woman as good enough fo
Generally considered Lawrence's masterpiece, it is ranked 9th on the Modern Library 100 best books of the 20th century. The story of Paul Morel and his brothers and the influence of the women in their lives, especially of their mother. I think the age old theme of men trying to find a wife or lover in the metaphorical image of their mother is present in all of Lawrence's novels, but more so in Son and Lover's than any other. It is beautifully written and the characters are well developed and ver ...more
Leonard Houx
William: How do you like Lawrence? I wasn't impressed. I came away thinking his rep rests on sensationalism.
Me: meh. the book seems to be about emotions, relationships: stuff i don't give a shit about.
While it may be said that the relationship between mother and son is a special one, D.H. Lawrence suggests that it can be obsessive and crippling, with a romantic passion that stops just shy of sexual. This absorbing tale follows the entwined lives of a young man, his mother, and the women who tried to step between them.

Gertrude Morel despises her collier husband, a rough man who turned out to be not quite what she believed she was marrying. In spite of this, they shared enough tender moments to
I was a devout fan of D.H. Lawrence as a teenager, before reading Bertrand Russell's autobiography in high school turned me against him.

I am a practitioner of science and rationalism, a believer in democracy and the equality of the sexes, so my decision to take Russell's side in the philosophical war that he brewed up between himself and Lawrence was a no-brainer.

It is hard for me to speak out in praise of Lawrence when he wrote so much sexist tripe---for example, the passage in Lady Chatterley'
The thing about this book is I thought it was a story about incest. So, as I was reading it, I was waiting for the fateful scene where the son and his mother eventually have sex, which they don't, although they go on dates, caress each other, etc. I think the most provocative moment was where the son lays with his lips on her neck, tenderly feeling her pulse. Pretty provocative, I just wish I hadn't been misinformed, it would have saved me a lot of confusion. That having been said, this book is ...more
I wanted to read this book for months, and now that I've finished it I can say that it was a terrible disappointment. The main character Paul treats the women in his life like absolute crap, and it's hard to care about a Mama's boy who can barely make decisions for himself. The mother in the book is a bitter, complaining shrew, and regardless of the first part of the book which explains why she's so protective of her son, you still want to slap her one. There are some good passages, but overall ...more
I still am not sure what I think of DH Lawrence. This reads more like a Victorian novel in many senses because of the length and the omniscient perspective which tends to lead to moralizing. Lawrence needs an editor in the sense that all of his books could be "tightened" but I think that's just me judging it from a modern perspective.

That said, there are passages of incredible sensuality and beauty (and insight) in Sons and Lovers. I think Lawrence is at his best when the narrator withdraws and
Brendan Diamond
There's an old Homer Simpson quote about people being "the suckiest bunch of sucks who ever sucked." Honest to God, that perfectly describes the Morel family, along with Lawrence's writing style and dialogue. There's Mr Morel, the drunken patriarch miner; Mrs Morel, his long-suffering wife who turns out to be worse at motherhood the mom from "Carrie;" three boys, including the abominable Paul, around whom about half the book revolves; and Annie, the only girl, who gets maybe six mentions in the ...more

D.H. Lawrence’s Sons and Lovers (published 1913) is a significant milestone in the development of the twentieth century British novel. The book itself is a heavy, dense, not very cheerful, reading experience, but one rich in characters and detail.

The main characters of Sons and Lovers are Gertrude Morel, the unhappily married wife of a coarse, hard drinking coal miner, and Paul, her second son. The strong physical attraction between Mrs. Morel and her husband cooled quickly after their marriag
Siddharth Sharma
I picked this book up, out of sheer curiosity for the (controversial/infamous) depiction, supposedly autobiographical, of mother-son relationship. (I was cautioned by someone not to read it!) But after reading it, what has stayed with me is not a gaped face, bewildered by the protagonist's attachment with his mother, which prevents him from having relationships with other women of his age (and even in this attachment, exists an ambivalence of love and resentment); instead I could just feel empat ...more

Quite simply, this is a gorgeous book, and I'm more than a little ashamed that it's taken me this long to get around to reading it. Although, honestly, I never really bought into all the oedipal stuff, which seems to be the aspect of the book for which it is most revered.

It's a simple story, really, of a woman, her son, and the two women he pursues and rejects (often simultaneously), but it's the characters, rather than the plot (of which there isn't much), that are truly compelling. I foun
Aug 02, 2007 Jane-Rebecca rated it 5 of 5 stars
Recommends it for: You
It had taken me awhile to get invested in this novel and if I hadn't already had a relationship with other Lawrence literature, I probably would have put it down.
Thankfully I didn't and was significantly moved by all the characters that played a part in shaping the novel.

I was particularly interested in the duality of love between Paul and his mother. That the love that existed between the two of them bordered on hatred and agony in their dependence for one another. The shows of self sacrifice
So... anyone who knows me at all knows that Lawrence can't do much wrong in my eyes-- although, I do like some of his work more than others.

I really enjoyed this one. I was not sure what to expect with it, because I've seen/read things about the portrayed relationship being an incestuous one between Paul and his mother. But, it is not really what I thought it would be. It was more like an emotionally incestuous relationsip. He loves his mother so passionately, that it inhibits him from having a
Whilst reading this, I'm not going to be able to stop singing:


I think there's about 30 years between the mining action in Germinal and then in "Sons and Lovers". (Zola was writing in the early 1880s but set it in the 1860s; DHL in the 1910s, with the early action set, I presume, in the 1890s. Interestingly, however, Zola was encouraged to write about the plight of miners because conditions were so bad at the time
I read this while at school, but rereading has left me with the distinct impression that whatever I read of Lawrence then didn't give many lasting memories. I firmly believe that some books need to be read at different times in your life: this one really didn't make sense to me as a naïve teenager, but does now. The Oedipal overtones of Paul Morel's relationship to his mother Gertrude ('Hamlet', anyone?) were strong, preventing his emotional attachment to any other woman while she was alive. {{{ ...more
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David Herbert Richards Lawrence was an English writer of the 20th century, whose prolific and diverse output included novels, short stories, poems, plays, essays, travel books, paintings, translations, literary criticism and personal letters. His collected works represent an extended reflection upon the dehumanizing effects of modernity and industrialisation. In them, Lawrence confronts issues rel ...more
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