Her Husband: Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath - A Marriage

Her Husband: Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath - A Marriage

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Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath were husband and wife; they were also two of the most remarkable poets of the twentieth century. In this stunning new account of their marriage, Diane Middlebrook draws on a trove of newly available papers to craft a beautifully written portrait of Hughes as a man, as a poet, and as a husband haunted?and nourished?his entire life by his relation...more
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Published August 31st 2004 by Penguin Books (first published 2003)
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Becky
Mar 04, 2008 Becky rated it 5 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: Plath/Hughes fans
When I first began reading Diane Middlebrook's Her Husband, I was disappointed.

"This is all the stuff I already know," I thought. "St. Botolph's...black marauder...pushy American girl...I've read this all before. Where's the new stuff?"

Plath fans like myself, who've read every biography and scrutinized every poem, need to hang in there for a bit. It takes a while to tap the riches in this book, but once you hit pay dirt, you'll be buried in it. You can expect nothing less from Diane Middlebrook'...more
Maythee
May 15, 2007 Maythee rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition Recommends it for: those who enjoy learning about famous relationships & those interested in writers' lives
Middlebrook offers a very different type of biography here. The story is told through the passionate yet tumultuous love relationship Sylvia Plath & Ted Hughes had. I was really caught up in learning how they met, what their early marriage was like, and how they felt about writing in the process. For example, their writing rituals were really intricate and required a lot of negotiation in terms of their personal lives. Similarly, Middlebrook explains the background that motivated their vario...more
Anita Dalton
This book was not what I thought it was going to be. When the title involves the word "marriage" I expect a little more of actual information about the marriage of Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath. Instead of actual events from their marriage, we get lots of literary analyses of how their poetry echoed and reacted to each other.

That's all well and good but this book leaves out huge amounts of actual details from the writers' lives. Even the discussion of the poetry was shallow because there was a wea...more
Kristiana
This portrait of Ted Hughes and Sylvia Plath's marriage is an interesting look at their lives and their work as writers. The effect each had on the other's work is fascinating. Hughes and Plath's focus and dedication to their work and the work of the other is the theme that the author follows throughout the biography.

During their marriage Plath typed Hughes's work for him, every place they resided had a place where they would work - much of the time sharing a work place and sometimes using one a...more
Julie
Not really knowing that much about Plath and Hughes apart from the basic facts this book was a mine of information, I always thought sylvia committed suicide because of Hughes afair but she had suffered from a breakdown before even meeting Hughes. I was shocked to know what a womaniser Hughes was and how he cheated on all his partners and wives, it was also strange that the women who he left Plath for also suffered from depression and mental problems.There was obviously something about these wo...more
Leanna
A pretty interesting account of the Plath-Hughes marriage and Hughes' efforts, after her death, to come to terms with her significance in his life. I have to say I was astonished by the number of affairs Hughes had with women throughout his life--he sure doesn't seem to take the ol' marriage bond too seriously. I couldn't believe how many times he cheated on his various wives. So, lots of juicy detail here. I did think the author drew too much from Hughes' final book, "Birthday Letters," in anal...more
Ingrid Lola
I loved this book. Diane Middlebrook approaches the subject respectfully and without bias. I found it interesting because it really discusses the ins and outs of the marriage between Plath and Hughes, focusing specifically on the creative connection they felt with each other. The book is organized chronologically in stages of the relationship. It's not a typical biography.

Middlebrook has a flowing writing style that made this book fun to read. You can tell she understands the importance of words...more
Kate Heath
This is my first book to concern Plath or Hughes. While a lot of their history is available, I think this book looks at Hughes objectively, not resulting to arguing he cause Plath's breakdown. I mean the woman was brilliant but troubled. It was inevitable for her.

Their relationship reminded me of Wuthering Heights--Hughes the dark, brooding and at times cruel Yorkishireman to her frail Cathy, immersed in him. It is a symbiosis of creativity and talent that linked them and forever bound them toge...more
Hayfa Qahtani
This is not a biography , its a life on its own.
I havent read a book as intense as this , the last book I felt strongly attached to was Gabriel Garcia Marquez: living to tell the tale, and this book really topped it.
why ?
at first glance you might think this will be totally dedicated to Hughes's life with Sylvia Plath on his own perspective.
well . . you are mistaken my friend.
I thought I knew Plath, even a little, to say she is a favorable poet of mine, an icon, though finished her life agai...more
Ann
Where to begin? I have lived with the works of these two colossal poets since undergraduate college. I've never taken sides in the great Plath-Hughes divide, precisely because I equally value their poems.

This book came out quite a few years ago, and even though I admired the author's biography of the poet Anne Sexton, I was hesitant to pick it up. What changed my mind? Negative reviews complaining that it was more about the poetry they created with and about each other than the gossipy drama tha...more
Janellyn51
I've always been somehow more intrigued by Ted Hughes than Plath herself. I was truly saddened to see recently that thier son Nicholas comitted suicide. The Plath/Hughes thing is becoming something akin to the Kennedy curse of Poets....I don't like it. It's pretty horrifying to think of all the death and destruction Hughes purportedly caused with his infidelites....but I haven't got much to say for someone who sticks her head in an oven without head to the emotional baggage her children will hav...more
Lauren
I read and reviewed this book for the Times-Picayune. It was interesting to reflect more upon Ted Hughes and also seriously consider their work side by side, but I wasn't blown away like I was by Janet Malcolm's book.
Zhi Xin Lee
I remember I loved this. Plath is obviously a literary figure that draws a lot of attention-- half of a poet couple, cheated upon, committed suicide by putting her head in an oven, and most importantly, creator of gorgeous poetry. Together with Hudges, another literary heavyweight, you get a black hole endlessly hungry for your curiosity. This book covered all bases, which is the only way you should go about a biography; poetry was brought in and analysed in relation to real-life figures and the...more
Caley
Mar 02, 2012 Caley added it
For a biography with such a stellar beginning and middle run, Wood Middlebrook so disastrously dropped the ending on this one that I lost interest and respect for the entire book. The overt and sometimes sophomoric literary theory arguments were manageable in the first 200 pages, but by page 300 the astrological/shamanistic/whatthehellisshetalkingabout analysis is just too much, and just too... undergraduate. I give kudos to Wood Middlebrook for tastefully adding depth to a frequently one-sided...more
Cassandra
This book had it's fair share of flaws, but it also presented the story of Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes in an accessible and intimate narrative that would definitely appeal to a massive audience. Middlebrook works in lots of details and imagery to the point that some parts of the book read more like a novel than a biography. She consistently reinforces the assertion that "writing is sexy, sexy is violent, writing is violent" (19). Her themes of sex, food, violence, anger, and sensory perceptions...more
Courtney Gustafson
Full disclosure: This was my second attempt at this book, after stalling around page 50 several years ago. I made it through the entirety of the book this time (barely and with some skimming toward the end) but I didn't like it any better.

My main problem with this book is in its framing of Plath, though I acknowledge that it never claims to be Plath biography. The book is aptly titled "Her Husband" and that is exactly what it is about: this is a biography of a marriage, a charting of a relation...more
Louise
Someone on Amazon said that Middlebrook shies away from talking about the dissolution of the Plath/Hughes marriage as to seem impartial. I don't agree, really. I think that, yes, she was being impartial, but I felt she addressed the subject objectively and at length. While there were certainly things that made me bristle, I actually think Middlebrook did a good job explaining how both Plath and Hughes could be difficult, could be brilliant and passionate and how neither of them were entirely at...more
Suna
Half-Read. I stopped. It's incredibly well researched and written with great skill and confidence in the subject matter.
You can easily detect the writer's affinity with both individual poets and their work. Her literary observations on both Plath's and Hughes' poems are very astute as well.
In fact, I think it's an utterly vital read if you are either a Plathian or a Hughsian, or -more rare occurrence- both.

But I realized that I was gaining insights that would spring to mind whilst reading speci...more
Jamie
Just finished re-reading this one; was perhaps very slightly less impressed on this go round, but I still believe Middlebrook to be an incredible biographer, and this particular text to be the shining star of the Plath/Hughes biographical warzone. If you're looking for the whole picture, you will be unfortunately let down; this is, as the title suggests, a portrait of the Plath/Hughes marriage, and so we get very little of their earlier history, and the last several chapters are concerned with H...more
Andrew
Night they met at party: He kissed her, she bit him on the cheek and drew blood. He liked this wildness in her.

3 years earlier she had shock treatment for depression - subject of the Bell Jar.

They had a passionate, wildly sexual relationship "went in a barrel together over some Niagara"

Quickly married, live in England, then to the US where they taught, then back to England

"Plath also viewed cooking as a practice that advanced her aim of developing a writing style grounded in womanly experience."...more
Kate
Mar 24, 2011 Kate is currently reading it
So far it is kind of depressing, but that is not surprising. I do get a little annoyed with the author's seeming obsession over whether or not Sylvia was "pretty", and her fascination with her mental health as an almost mystical condition- it's depression, and what does it matter if she is pretty or not? People are always more fascinated with beautiful depressed people, as opposed to normal ones. I suppose it is more "tragic" that way.
Martha
A fascinating study of the symbiotic relationship between Sylvia Plath and Ted Hughes. The tragic lives of these two are presented in a matter-of-fact way, because the focus of this book is the inspiration that each brought to the other of this partnership. This is not a "light" read, as Diane Middlebrook goes rather deeply into the imagery and symbolism of the works of both poets/authors.
Monica
I found this book fascinating- especially trying to understand how two poets/writers influence one another artistically when they are also passionately and destructively in love. Plath is an unbelievable role model as a woman writer- writing most of her work between the hours of 3-5 am while being a single parent.
Brandon  Barrett

Picked up this title on a whim, enjoyed it tremendously. Diane Middlebrook is easily one of the best biographers of her generation, easily seeing the Hughes/Plath union from multiple angles and timeframes. I learned quite a bit about their lives and careers, read it if you enjoy the work of either poet.
Autumn
Heartbreaking and honest--with no agenda toward either extraordinary poet. It shows how the very qualities that attracted Plath to Hughes were also the downfall of their marriage. Includes snippets of their poems and analysis on how events in their marriage affected their poetry.
Steph degaitis
Intense story of their relationship, and how dependent they were on each other, and intertwined they were while married and writing together. Things changed once the children arrived, but still a great peak into the lives and works of 2 brilliant writers.
Stephanie
Really fascinating, and usually well-balanced biography.

I have long been fascinated by Plath, and have to admit that I had little interest in Hughes - this biography manages to make Hughes as fascinating as Plath. The man was clearly flawed, but also extremely talented, and it makes me wonder how anyone could deal with the suicide of two partners, one of which also included the murder of his own child.
Brooke Bove
It was kind of dumb of me to read a book about Ted Hughes when all I am really interested in is the tidbits about Sylvia Plath. Therefore I blame myself for the fact that I found this book very boring.
Sharonm
Reads like a doctoral dissertation of poetry analysis. Ostensibly a biography of Sylvia Plath’s marriage and her husband, Ted Hughes, it really is literary analysis of his poetry. Deadly boring.
Shannon
Although I enjoy anything related to Plath, it seems as though the person writing this focused on quite a bit of the negatives. It was still rather interesting to read.
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Middlebrook, who taught at Stanford for 35 years, was perhaps best known for Anne Sexton: A Biography. Its intense scrutiny of the poet's life made it "one of the turning points of late 20th-century biography," according to the newspaper. Middlebrook published several other well-received biographies and works of criticism, and was known for funding various arts organizations and literary salons fo...more
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