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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book, but I have to get something off my chest - SOMETHING WAS NOT RIGHT with whoever edited the book.  I don't know if it was just the version I had from the library or what, but every time it should have said &quot;matter&quot; (as in, &quot;It didn't help the matter&quot; or &quot;...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26112094">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Thank you, thank you, thank you Jenny! Unlike another infamous married and questioning Jenny (for all you L Word fans), this Jenny has her head on straight, though her heart may not be so....well....straight. Or narrow. She is a breath of fresh air for anyone who has ever thought, &quot;I really lov...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23851798">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[    “It is estimated that 50-65% of husbands and 40-45% of wives cheat.”<br/><br/>Open relationships do not always start out that way, as Jenny Block explains. I first read Jenny’s article on Your Tango and discovered that she’s the author of Open, her memoir which focuses on the evolution...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/79306239">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[A very interesting look at the dynamics and communications that are present in open relationships and polyamorous marriages.  It's also an interesting deconstruction of several social preconceptions of jealousy, monogamy, true love and what marriage and the nuclear family really mean.  <br/><br/>B...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/78127753">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Liked this a lot (a lot, lot) except for some bio-essentialist bits--even if you're saying that women aren't innately programmed to want monogamy, you're still saying that women are innately programmed, so no points awarded. Where are my intersectionality moon-sisters?* She addresses every point of ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/42105464">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoyed this book, but I wanted more memoir and less polemic. Yeah, yeah, humans aren't monogamous, marriage oppresses women, our preconceived notions of the relationship between sex and love are whack.... Jenny's the preacher, I'm the choir. But what about the sordid goings-on in her Stepfordesqu...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43177847">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Fascinating read - first time I've ever heard the good, bad &amp; ugly of what it's like to actually *live* in an open relationship.  While it sounds more challenging and arduous than the movies/pop culture have led us to believe, it also sounds like it's worth it to those who have the courage and abili...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/46051530">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[News blast: Open Marriages are mainstream!  Even pretty moms and their normal, successful husbands are doing it!<br/>I felt 'duh' when she tried to be didactic, but as a memoir it's a lovely account of how communication and embracing desires can enhance a marriage.  It's an excellent gateway book....<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/48803155">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[The writing is good, her arguments are just not convincing for open marriage, particularly since her husband stopped all intimacy after she had her first baby. I wondered often if she just stayed in her marriage for the sake of their daughter.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Seriously thoughtful woman.  See an excerpt here:<br/><a rel="nofollow" target="_blank" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenny-block/life-in-an-open-marriage_b_119834.html" title="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenny-block/life-in-an-open-marriage_b_119834.html">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenny-bloc...</a>]]></body>
    
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