Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.
Start by marking “Gott liebt Chaoten : warum wir nicht ständig besser werden müssen” as Want to Read:
Blank 133x176
Gott liebt Chaoten : w...
Mike Yaconelli
Rate this book
Clear rating
Open Preview

Gott liebt Chaoten : warum wir nicht ständig besser werden müssen

4.1  ·  Rating Details ·  3,226 Ratings  ·  154 Reviews
"I Guess I’m Not a Very Good Christian . . ."

Do you feel like:
I don’t pray enough
I don’t read my Bible enough
I don’t share my faith enough
I don’t love God enough
I’m not committed enough
I’m not spiritual enough

Then this book is for you. Messy Spiritualtiy was written for the silent majority of us who have been convinced that we just don’t do Christianity right. We spend mos
Published (first published September 20th 2001)
More Details... edit details

Friend Reviews

To see what your friends thought of this book, please sign up.

Reader Q&A

To ask other readers questions about Gott liebt Chaoten , please sign up.

Be the first to ask a question about Gott liebt Chaoten

This book is not yet featured on Listopia. Add this book to your favorite list »

Community Reviews

(showing 1-30)
filter  |  sort: default (?)  |  Rating Details
Jan 05, 2010 Dylan rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone who wants to walk in the way of jesus
Rather than give you a straight forward review, let me tell you this:

This book clocks in at around 140 pages. That's a day read for me, maybe two if I take it slow.

The first time I read it, it took me a month... because I had to stop every few pages to let the words sink in as my tears came out.

Life is messy, but Grace isn't afraid to get itself dirty.
Jan 17, 2010 Rhonda rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: read-in-2010
I first heard of this book in church, a lay pastor at our church read a quote from this book during his sermon, and I was hooked...had to get the book, ordered it from Just hit me head on...
talks about how spirituality does not necessarily fit into this nice handly little mold we like to think it can take many shapes and forms.

This is the part he quoted...

"My life is a mess.
After forty-five yeras of trying to follow Jesus, I keep losing him in the crowded busyness of my li
Garland Vance
Before Yaconelli's death, he served as the founder of Youth Specialties, a pastor, and a popular conference speaker. He was incredibly authentic and had a deep desire to love God and other people. His heart is certainly conveyed in the pages of this book.

However, I find Yaconelli's view of discipleship / sanctification / spiritual formation to be small and uninspiring. It boils down to this: "God's love for you is wonderful, and life is hard. So your Christian growth will be hard and messy, and
I tried.
The author started with a really good point: People who screw up or break the church's code of conduct can still be just as fiercely "spiritual" or God-centered as the Pastor.
My problem is, he didn't get any deeper than that. The whole book reiterates that sentence in various paragraph forms. At first I was just annoyed by the repetition, but then I got a little worried because his over-emphasis of how much "Godly people" can screw up started to sound like he was allowing sin
Lisa Wuertz
Feb 03, 2009 Lisa Wuertz rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Christians
Recommended to Lisa by: Caleb Magnino
This books was an easy read, but packed full of so many things I needed to hear.

I’m not sure what is being said about Yaconelli these days (probably not much seeing as how he’s been dead a few years). I remember hearing a few things a couple years ago about the organization he co-founded, Youth Specialties, and the role it was playing in the “emergent church”. Whatever. I just remember reading his other book, Dangerous Wonder in college and getting a lot out of it. This other book has been sitt
Jan 04, 2009 Crystal rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2009
We are always under construction. That sentence is really the best one-line summary of this book. This book embraces that concept - and explores the true meaning of what it means to “be spiritual.”

Mike Yaconelli died in 2003, and I think one of the most powerful parts of the book was the foreward written by his wife. She gives us a glimpse of what kind of man Mike was - incredibly real. A man of deep faith, and at the same time a man living in the trenches of life. It is out of that framework th
Feb 28, 2012 Debee rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
My home study group decided we'd read this book as a group and discuss it along the way. Each week we met we listened together as either a tape narrated the book as we followed along or a member (me) read it aloud. We sometimes stopped the reading for discussion, that wasn't always in agreement with the author... But over all what we realized is that culturally speaking there is a certain " togetherness" Christians are viewed as having obtained. What Yaconelli is stating and illustrating through ...more
Jun 16, 2010 Kim rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Messy Spirituality is sort of like Donald Miller's Blue Like Jazz. It hits Christians where it hurts in terms of their own spirituality. I'll be honest I'm a Christian, but I haven't read the Bible. I also don't pray every day like I should. I try and sometimes I get a good week going, but then I just forget. Its almost like life hits me and I just can't do anything to stop it. This book made me feel better about my doubts and my beliefs. It was written by a guy who went through the same thing t ...more
Oct 26, 2007 James rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I give thanks to God for this book.

Mike Yaconelli has written a wonderful exploration into the practicalities of grace. It is an easy read, filled with vivid stories and written for the laity. There are so many books on spiritual formation including a plethora written in the last couple of decades. Sadly, the most popular ones pay lip service to God's grace while subtly seducing the reader into a righteousness based upon works. Our calling in life, these books suggest, is to make God happy. Yaco
Willa Grant
A good little book for those of us who feel as if we fall down on the job spiritually. The author makes it clear that real spirituality lies in the gray areas of our spiritual life. I really liked the acceptance of the fact that we all have doubts, laziness & just plain confusion about our feelings & practices with God. The perfect people in the pews may not be as spiritually connected as we religious screw-ups. Yay for the real spiritual life which happens in the trenches of the everyda ...more
Oct 01, 2007 Adam rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Ah, Yaconelli.
I think I would have enjoyed this man if I had ever been able to meet him.
In essence, what I took from this book can be summed up in this:
My fumbling, haphazard approach to faith in Christ, as strange and uneven as it seems oftentimes, is still my seeking to have faith in Christ - in short, God smiles upon it, and me, and my not understanding or taking the rigid, highly structured approach to my Christian faith doesn't cast me off the side of the road into some heretic's pit.
Jul 13, 2009 Jared rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: EVERYONE!!!
Recommended to Jared by: Niki Nowell
If you want to understand God's love for you and feel fine with Him being ever near to you in the midst of whatever is going on (including your failures, sins and disappointments), then this is the book for you.

My following of Jesus was forever changed in the most positive of ways by this book, and yours will be too, if you read it. Now that I've finished, I'm starting on through it again. Yes, it is that good.
Kevin Hammond
May 01, 2012 Kevin Hammond rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Mike Yaconelli's Messy Spirituality teaches us how to slow down and focus on the things that truly matter, and it forcefully declares how we have been accepted by God through Jesus Christ. As we assimilate this acceptance, it becomes the most liberating piece of knowledge we could ever possess. It effectively demonstrates how our messes are merely opportunities for God to work in us and through us for Christ to be seen.
Jun 02, 2008 Mindy rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christianity
Really love this book. My favorite quote:
"It is the incongruence and the oddness of our disjointed spirituality that ought to characterize every church. For God so loved the world, that whosoever believes in him will, from that point on, be considered weird by the rest of the world, which means the church should be more like a zoo than a tomb of identical mummies."
Sep 07, 2011 Trina rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: new/struggling christians
Shelves: help-yourself
Initially, Yaconelli has a wonderful point to make regarding our society and it's impression of how Christians should live VS how they really are. Unfortunately that is all he has to say. This point is repeated and beaten to death. Where the flow of the book should turn a corner, it just keeps on driving home the initial point.
Stacey Gish
Jul 29, 2010 Stacey Gish rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Finally, a "Christian" admits that he doesn't really understand what God wants, that he'll probably never get there anyway, and life just is what it is. Loved this book... Have to read it on a regular basis just to remind myself that it's okay to question, doubt, scream, holler, and cry out to God.
Oct 10, 2012 Chris rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book was JUST what I needed at a time when it just seemed to me like church was another club to impress people in. THIS book describes what I feel the Church to REALLY be. Messy and full of love and good stories!
RIP Mike Yaconelli, you done good!
Nov 07, 2012 Johnny rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Yaconelli delivers a knock out punch! In a style all his own, and easy to read, helps those of us who have struggled with the notion of having to be perfect in order to please God by showing us that spirituality is often in the messiness of our lives.
Jan 11, 2008 David rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Good book but he was at his best when he was speaking.
Have a listen.
Not-So-Good Reader
In the epilogue of this book, the author tells us that his prayer for the reader is that he or she heard the crystal-clear voice of Jesus whispering, "I love you" throughout the process of reading it. For myself, this was certainly the case. Yaconelli's story-telling ability, mixed with his ability to find the proper metaphor to speak to a situation, makes for an easy, hard-to-put-down read, and at the end of it, I felt a bit more loved by Jesus & my loving Father. And all the while, the boo ...more
Nov 09, 2016 David rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I was a big fan of Mike Yaconelli back in the early 80's when he was the editor of the Whittenburg Door. This book is not as satirical as the Door. Rather, it is a book for broken believers. Yaconelli tells us that is is alright to not have everything together in our spiritual lives. God loves us in spite of ourselves.
Nov 23, 2008 Darden rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
People are messy; not just in a in a physical sense, but emotionally and spiritually as well. It seems that we often find ourselves doing what we should not do while disregarding the things we should do. And in the end, all we are left with is the mess of our failures and the guilt of our mistakes. It’s just an unfortunate part of life that may leave us questioning whether we are good enough for God to love.

And the ultimate answer to that question, according to author Mike Yaconelli, is “no.” We
Feb 22, 2011 Stephany rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
While I wouldn't say this novel has completely changed my life, it has transformed my thinking about what Christianity looks like. Mike Yaconelli does a fantastic job of tearing down all the rules and regulations we place in front of a true, meaningful relationship with God. And when we do that, we realize a relationship with Jesus is messy and complicated and so far from perfect. But through that mess, we find the true meaning behind God's perfect love for us.

Some of it, I didn't totally agree
Nov 15, 2010 Ben rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
At a dinner last year the topic of life changing books came up. Given the intimate company, I took care to note them all but have since, sadly, left most of them simply lingering on my to-read list. Of these books, I just finished Messy Spirituality by Michael Yaconelli. The actual book recommended had been Dangerous Wonder, but the premise and structure of this earlier book by the same author was less appealing to me (based on reviews), so I opted for Messy Spirituality. Both are rated 4.5 star ...more
A.C. Bauch
this one was a quick read. i can't even remember the last time i read a book in one sitting...

this book resonated with me because i have (and for the most part continue to) had a messy life. while i've gained much greater knowledge and understanding of my "mess" over the years, it seems that i'm never on top of things as much as i'd like to be--especially in my spiritual life. i often feel inadequate, like i'm not doing enough. this book was a great reminder that my awareness that i can't ever *
Cesar Santamaria
Jan 02, 2013 Cesar Santamaria rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
It's really powerful to read a book about 'not-so-encouraging' stories...but rather, stories of real struggling christians that remind you are not the most wicked sinner that has ever existed, but as them you are been transformed daily by your relationship with Jesus.

I think what hit me the most was Yaconelli's own account of repenting many times about a certain misbehavior, and stressing that he honestly 'really and decisively repented before the Lord, each and every time he did', before misbeh
Feb 06, 2015 Sue rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: christian, read-2015
A refreshingly honest look at how ordinary people can connect with God, without having to go through the hoops and trappings that are so often associated with ‘spirituality’. Yaconelli was a pastor, yet he struggled at times to pray. He made mistakes, he messed up. He explains that the spiritual life does not have to be a neat progression of steps but is often disorganised and messy.

Specific chapters look at hindrances to the spiritual life. The author encourages us to let go of the past, wheth
Jul 30, 2007 papasteve rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: anyone
I have, the last number of years of my life, understood life to be messy. I think, as a young adult I believed that life is orderly, or at least can be ordered by belief and will. But events in my life have destroyed that order and made me a broken human being. Because I once believed that life could be orderly, that to be a mess in life was to somehow, at the same time, be faithless or disobedient. At least less than perfect, because those who believe in orderliness become too easily, perfectio ...more
A common sentiment in Christian circles is that our spirituality or the love of God is conditional on how good we are, how "spiritual" we are, how much we do for God or for the church. Michael Yaconelli tackles this problematic belief in Messy Spirituality, and although a short book, it is a challenging read. Unlike popular belief, being a Christian does not mean one is perfect or that one has it all figured out; rather, the Christian is constantly under construction, "being renewed in knowledge ...more
Apr 10, 2013 Colleen rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
It's not "deep" in the sense that it reveals incredible and profound thought. It is a conversation with the reader, asking them to rethink their perspective of what christian faith being walked out looks like.... not just in others but in themselves. So often we find ourselves listening to speakers, reading books etc that focus on the mountaintop experiences of all believers through history and miss the reality that they did not spend their life there. Their lives were emotional, filled with the ...more
« previous 1 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 next »
There are no discussion topics on this book yet. Be the first to start one »
  • Contemplative Youth Ministry: Practicing the Presence of Jesus
  • A Generous Orthodoxy: Why I am a missional, evangelical, post/protestant, liberal/conservative, mystical/poetic, biblical, charismatic/contemplative, ... emergent, unfinished Christian (emergentYS)
  • The New Christians: Dispatches from the Emergent Frontier
  • In the Name of Jesus: Reflections on Christian Leadership
  • How (Not) to Speak of God: Marks of the Emerging Church
  • Souls in Transition: The Religious and Spiritual Lives of Emerging Adults
  • Your God is Too Safe
  • Flickering Pixels: How Technology Shapes Your Faith
  • Freedom of Simplicity: Finding Harmony in a Complex World
  • Stages of Faith: The Psychology of Human Development and the Quest for Meaning
  • Ruthless Trust: The Ragamuffin's Path to God
  • The Barbarian Way: Unleash the Untamed Faith Within
  • The Godbearing Life: The Art of Soul Tending for Youth Ministry
  • Churched: One Kid's Journey Toward God Despite a Holy Mess
  • Rich Christians in an Age of Hunger: Moving from Affluence to Generosity
  • Divine Nobodies: Shedding Religion to Find God (and the unlikely people who help you)
  • The Great Emergence: How Christianity is Changing and Why
  • Jesus Wants to Save Christians: A Manifesto for the Church in Exile

Share This Book

“Spirituality is a mixed-up, topsy-turvy, helter-skelter godliness that turns our lives into an upside-down toboggan ride of unexpected turns, surprise bumps and bone shattering crashes ... a life ruined by a Jesus who loves us right into his arms.” 17 likes
“The Church is the place where the incompetent, the unfinished, and even the unhealthy are welcome. I believe Jesus agrees.” 8 likes
More quotes…