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Ladder of Years

3.71  ·  Rating Details  ·  11,159 Ratings  ·  855 Reviews
--Chicago Tribune

BALTIMORE WOMAN DISAPPEARS DURING FAMILY VACATION, declares the headline. Forty-year-old Delia Grinstead is last seen strolling down the Delaware shore, wearing nothing more than a bathing suit and carrying a beach tote with five hundred dollars tucked inside. To her husband and thr

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Published March 1st 1996 by Ballantine Books (first published 1995)
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May 08, 2013 Diane rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
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Mar 12, 2008 Katie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Anne Tyler is my go-to author for easy, enjoyable fiction. I don't do chick lit or romance novels, so Anne Tyler is my vacation reading. (Side note: About 8 years ago, I decided I could make my fortune writing romance novels. Easy, right? My first step was to familiarize myself with the genre, so I hopped on down to B&N and bought myself a Danielle Steel book. Good grief. It was painful, even with the semi-steamy sex scenes. I made it about a third of the way through before chucking the book ...more
Feb 16, 2009 Rebecca rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I did not relate well to the main character, a woman who married directly out of high school who lived in the same house her entire life and regretted never having set out on her own at any point in her life. So, I dragged through the plot, which sent the main character to start an anonymous life in a new town and abandoning her children, to find something interesting (because I read Tyler's When We Were Grownups and I remember liking it, so I thought that there must be a pearl in this book, too ...more
Oct 28, 2009 Vanessa rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
The idea of this book - a woman who just walks away from her family during at beach vacation - was very intriguing. Who hasn't thought about getting in a car and driving away at some point? But the direction of the story meanders and I despised the ending. It seemed like Tyler just got tired of writing it and didn't know how to resolve the plot. There was no feeling of some essential insight gained by the main character. This critical flash of insight, a culmination of all that's gone before, is ...more
I don’t read many novels these days—mostly due to time. However, in doing some reorganizing of bookshelves around the house this Anne Tyler novel caught my eye.

The Ladder of the Years is set in the 80’s. Delia, a middle aged housewife, is the youngest and prettiest of three sisters. She lost her mother very young and her father has just died. Her emotionally distant husband, Sam, 15 years her senior, took over her father’s medical practice.

Sam has recently started having chest pains. Their chi
Mauoijenn ~ *Mouthy Jenn* ~
I thought maybe this book would be different from Tyler's others.
I guess I'm just not that into her. It's me... I think!!
Claire McAlpine
May 13, 2015 Claire McAlpine rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
Recommended to me as I was reading her latest A Spool of Blue Thread, a line that reappears in Ladder of Years even though it was written many years before.

Delia goes for a walk while on holiday with her family and walks right out of their life. Where she ends up, she begins to create another life, another version of herself, someone she has perhaps long wished to discover, the free woman, whom she never was before.

Along the way people she meets share their thoughts, circumstances, invitations a
Dec 29, 2012 Mary rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Anyone who likes contemporary fiction
Recommended to Mary by: Library Book Sale
"Baltimore Woman Disappears During Family Vacation" declares the newspaper headline. Forty-year-old Cordelia Grinstead is last seen strolling along a Delaware beach, wearing nothing more than a bathing suit and carrying a beach tote with five hundred dollars tucked inside. To her husband, Sam and three almost-grown children, she has vanished without trace or reason. However, for Delia, who feels like a tiny gnat buzzing around the edge of her own family, "walking away from it all" is not a preme ...more
Lisette Brodey
Jan 10, 2009 Lisette Brodey rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
It's been a long time since I read this book, but unfortunately it was my first Anne Tyler book and I did not care for it.

As a writer, I don't have a problem with almost any theme, because for me, it's how the story is told. Not everyone is going to like every book, no matter how well written, no matter how much mass appeal. Such is virtually impossible.

In this book, the main character, Delia Grinstead, decides to walk away from her life as she knows it. Delia is on the beach with her family an
Dec 04, 2007 Aletha rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
I believe I read this book right before Jesse and I got married. It was a long time ago.

I got it as a book club selection and fell in love instantly. There is something romantic about just quietly walking off one day, leaving it all behind to start anew. How would you get along without your comfortable life and surroundings? Could you do it on your own?

Would you go back?

Wow, I seem to like kidnappings and runaway stories. Hmmm do I have abandonment issues?

I read this book at least once a year. I
Jun 28, 2014 Sarah rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2014
I've held this up in my mind, mentally referred to it, fondly remembered it for many years and this summer returned to it for a re-read. Happy to say it absolutely lived up to the memory, was just what I needed right now, and I had actually forgotten one wonderful aspect-which is just what a good writer Anne Tyler is. Such beautifully crafted sentences, such thoughtful word choices. There's something about this book that goes straight to my heart.
I often find myself empathising with characters in novels, but it is rare that I can so completely identify with one in the same way as I did with Delia Grinstead in Anne Tyler's Ladder Of Years. Having pulled a similar stunt myself, albeit as a teenager, I was amazed at Tyler's apparently uncanny knowledge of how I felt at the time. " How do I get out of this then?" I suppose it must not be such an unusual experience after all. Delia's reinvention of herself from Dee - fragile put-upon and over ...more
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Nov 18, 2012 Halley rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
I think I might have something different to say about this book 10-20 years from now.

I am a big fan of Anne Tyler's writing. Her characters are endearingly flawed and this protagonist is no exception. I don't have much good or bad to say about this book. I wish it had ended differently, but this is why I am saying that I might feel differently in 10 years. The resolution was expected. The character did the right thing, but just because a person's absence causes necessary changes, doesn't mean i
May 17, 2011 Karen rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
This was a light and enjoyable read. I had a hard time relating to the protagonist, though. Delia is a 40-year-old Desperate Housewife of sorts who, fueled by some serious middle-age angst, abandons her family to finally discover the kind of person she wants to be. I found myself cheering Delia on while scoffing at her unbelievably sheltered, flighty, and childlike persona. I recognize that my critiques of her say something about me. As a twenty-something graduate student, settling down to have ...more
Mar 08, 2009 Sheila rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Anne Tyler specializes in female characters who don't have much control over their lives. The protagonist in Ladder of Years leaves her family - just wanders down the beach - on day, sure that they won't care, and that they probably won't notice for days.

The characters are well-developed over time, and described in an amusing tone of voice. "Her hair curled at the bottom like the S-hole in a violin" (paraphrase) comes to mind first.

I particularly appreciated how the protagonist comes to terms
Dec 11, 2008 Sherry rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I've had this book for over ten years and just now have gotten around to reading it. It's been a long time since I've read Anne Tyler, and I thoroughly enjoyed Ladder of Years. I couldn't put it down. I hope women today go into marriage with a little more sense and self-assurance than in the day of our protagonist, Delia, but I think there is still a lot we can learn from this story. Delia, without a conscious thought, deconstructs her life and begins it again, trying to rebuild it with a kind o ...more
Jun 26, 2008 tbears rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
My first Anne Tyler book...the one that got me hooked with reading her books. I read this when I was about the same age as Delia. I thought, "Wow! She did what a lot of married women think about doing but don't have the nerve to do." How many women feel unappreciated by her family like she does?
Apr 15, 2013 Cathrine rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2013
:-) she had me at a five star rating
-Loved this book-
Until the last 3 pages with a Disney ending.
I 'll just pretend they did not happen ;-) !
Nov 13, 2009 Kam rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
I totally agree with another reviewer: I am plodding through this book. I almost gave up on page 75. Well, I'm halfway through, and am actually involved; but, despite liking Anne Tyler a lot in the past (I couldn't wait to get back to her), I find this book very disappointing. I thought: have I changed that much? This book is rather trite. So I don't think the writing is that good. I also don't like the main character much.I think I'm involved because I like her escape. A new place, what that me ...more
Aug 30, 2013 Julie rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I haven't been this conflicted about a book in years. I'm not quite sure where to begin, so perhaps I'll ramble.

This is an intriguing page-turner, centered around themes of abandonment and identity. The protagonist, Delia, is a stranger to both her family and herself, which results in a painful quest to find what is missing.

This novel runs the gamut of being quirky and humorous to being downright depressing and dark. What Delia does, and how her family responds, is just. . . sad.

Delia is, at t
Dit boek lezen, in de oorspronkelijke uitgave, was afwisselend herkenning en opnieuw beleven. Ik las het al eens kort na 1995 in de Nederlandse vertaling. Sommige stukken waren mij bijgebleven, maar niet alle.
Ik vind het uitgangspunt nog steeds sterk en spannend: een vrouw verlaat van het ene op het andere moment haar gezin, gaat na wat er is gebeurd, om tenslotte - dat is na meer dan een jaar - terug te komen.
De uitwerking valt mij bij nader inzien tegen. Anne Tyler houdt strak vast aan het "s
How can anyone leave their entire family, just walk away, during a beach vacation. She spends a year, building a new life, not visiting her family for birthdays, Christmas or any holidays. She is content with her new, emotionless, Ms. Grinstead life... I can understand the impulse, but not the action. I never warmed up to this book, despite its Eastern Shore/Maryland setting.
Nov 23, 2015 Georgina rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
It’s interesting how some writers can make the most implausible sequence of events seem entirely credible within the context of their storytelling while others manage to make a rather prosaic and clichéd chain of events appear preposterous. I’m afraid for me Anne Tyler belongs in the latter category. Here we have a story of a rather dippy middle aged woman who is mired in an insensitive and deadening family atmosphere. So she decides one day, on the spur of the moment, to disappear. Early on the ...more
Dec 04, 2015 Pj rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Started off well with some nice comic moments but soon became more and more far fetched and lacking in direction and momentum. Ultimately it was difficult to understand what had motivated the author to write this novel.
Ladder of Years is a story about a woman (you'd want to call her a girl, she's so lively and ingenuous) who married straight out of high school and brought up three children but, for obvious reasons, didn’t have time for settling her own personality. And now she does. She escapes to a new world -- utterly fictional, terribly precarious (and, frankly, quite as boring as that of a housewife’s) but it’s only hers, and she at last gets a grip of living on her own. Her family are outraged and she her ...more
Anne Tyler really knows how to write about family dynamics and drama. This time around she tells the story of a 40+ woman, who walks away from her family while on a beach vacation. Delia's kids are grown, with only one left in high school, and she is suddenly faced with the realization she only exists through her relationships with her family. No one sees her as an individual. Would anyone really miss her or even care if she was gone?

Although a little far-fetched at times, I couldn't help but r
Mar 03, 2013 Gayle rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
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Jun 01, 2009 Patricia Devereux rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I've always been delighted that Anne Tyler's novels are always a lot less fluffy than they seem, given the plot synopses on the back of my paperbacks.

The truth is, Tyler better captures more than almost any other author the inner lives of regular folks. I was surprised to find myself and constantly eager to find out what would happen to the protagonist, Delia, after she walks out on her family.

Delia's motivations are in no way cardboard, as they might be in the hands of a lesser novelist. They a
Deborah Markus
May 04, 2012 Deborah Markus rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a book I reread often. The premise is simple: Delia Grinstead, a vaguely unhappy forty-year-old homemaker, runs away from home without any conscious intention of doing so. The tone is humorous, even upbeat, but it's impossible to lose sight of the fact that she abandons her family. Every step of her journey is an accident, a stumble; but she allows each step to carry her away. Is she forgivable? After at least a dozen readings, I still can't answer that.

I do know that the writing here i
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Anne Tyler was born in Minneapolis, Minnesota, in 1941 and grew up in Raleigh, North Carolina. She graduated at nineteen from Duke University and went on to do graduate work in Russian studies at Columbia University. The Beginner's Goodbye is Anne Tyler's nineteenth novel; her eleventh, Breathing Lessons , was awarded the Pulitzer Prize in 1988. She is a member of the American Academy of Arts a ...more
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“But if you never did anything you couldn't undo you'd end up doing nothing at all.” 21 likes
“She saw herself riding in the passenger seat, Sam behind the wheel. Like two of those little peg people in a toy car. Husband peg, wife peg, side by side. Facing the road and not looking at each other; for why would they need to, really, having gone beyond the visible surface long ago. No hope of admiring gazes anymore, no chance of unremitting adoration. Nothing left to show but their plain, true, homely, interior selves, which were actually much richer anyhow.” 8 likes
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