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Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion
Influence, the classic book on persuasion, explains the psychology of why people say "yes"--and how to apply these understandings. Dr. Robert Cialdini is the seminal expert in the rapidly expanding field of influence and persuasion. His thirty-five years of rigorous, evidence-based research along with a three-year program of study on what moves people to change behavior ha...more
Paperback, 336 pages
Published
December 26th 2006
by HarperBusiness
(first published 1984)
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Summary: This book can’t be summarized. It can only be very, very strongly recommended.
Recommended? YES. Buy it now if you haven’t read it.
Table of contents:
1 Weapons of Influence
2 Reciprocation: The Old Give and Take…and Take
3 Commitment and Consistency: Hobgoblins of the Mind
4 Social Proof: Truths Are Us
5 Liking: The Friendly Thief
6 Authority: Directed Deference
7 Scarcity: The Rule of the Few
Notes:
Below are my key takeaways and some interesting points, but I’m telling you. Buy it. Read it. Tru...more
Recommended? YES. Buy it now if you haven’t read it.
Table of contents:
1 Weapons of Influence
2 Reciprocation: The Old Give and Take…and Take
3 Commitment and Consistency: Hobgoblins of the Mind
4 Social Proof: Truths Are Us
5 Liking: The Friendly Thief
6 Authority: Directed Deference
7 Scarcity: The Rule of the Few
Notes:
Below are my key takeaways and some interesting points, but I’m telling you. Buy it. Read it. Tru...more
Required reading for all marketing professionals. The book details the most common approaches to influencing the decisions of others, backed up by the authors time spent infiltrating direct marketing companies and the like. Offers handy hints on how to spot when you're being manipulated and how to handle it.
A very enjoyable read, should leave you much more aware of how you're being played next time you're in the market for a used car.
A very enjoyable read, should leave you much more aware of how you're being played next time you're in the market for a used car.
Social Proof - People will do things that they see other people are doing. For example, in one experiment, one or more accomplices would look up into the sky; the more accomplices the more likely people would look up into the sky to see what they were seeing. At one point this experiment aborted, as so many people were looking up, that they stopped traffic.
Scarcity - Perceived scarcity will generate demand. For example, saying offers are available for a "limited time only" encourages sales.
Likin...more
Scarcity - Perceived scarcity will generate demand. For example, saying offers are available for a "limited time only" encourages sales.
Likin...more
This book was assigned in my Social Influence class and I loved it! Cialdini has done tons of interesting research and is clearly very accomplished in the Psych field, yet he can write a book that everyone (non-Psych majors included) can understand. Each social tactic is explained thoroughly and he uses a lot of stories as well as his own experiments to back it up. I love how he peppers his anecdotes with his sense of humor ("Looking somewhat embarrassed because his father seemed to be raving wh...more
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In Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert B. Cialdini lists six different methods which one can use to persuade people. He lists the six tools of persuasion as: reciprocation, commitment and consistency, social proofs, attraction, authority, and scarcity. The first tool, reciprocation, draws its power from the desire to repay in kind a favor which was shown to us. The desire to repay a favor stems from the feeling of indebtedness which the receiver of the favor has from receiving the gi...more
Persuasion - making judgments based on costs e.g. cost of jewellery in an unfamiliar town,
reciprocity - hare krishnas giving out flowers,
ambit claims e.g. liddy's proposal for watergate was after 2 more expensive and sillier proposals,
consistency - e.g. lowball selling i.e. commit to buying a product then take away one of the things that made it attractive e.g. trade in value, social proof = cult after space saucer didn't appear - become more committed as now staked everything on faith, more...more
reciprocity - hare krishnas giving out flowers,
ambit claims e.g. liddy's proposal for watergate was after 2 more expensive and sillier proposals,
consistency - e.g. lowball selling i.e. commit to buying a product then take away one of the things that made it attractive e.g. trade in value, social proof = cult after space saucer didn't appear - become more committed as now staked everything on faith, more...more
Loy Machedo’s Book Review – Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion by Robert Cialdini
I first bumped into Robert Cialdini’s work with “Yes! 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to be Persuasive”. I found that book to be absolutely impressive and so, when I got to know he had also authored “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion”, I was more than eager to read it. And without a doubt, I can tell you, I am glad I did.
Harvard Business Review lists Dr. Cialdini's research in "Breakthrough Ideas for Today...more
I first bumped into Robert Cialdini’s work with “Yes! 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to be Persuasive”. I found that book to be absolutely impressive and so, when I got to know he had also authored “Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion”, I was more than eager to read it. And without a doubt, I can tell you, I am glad I did.
Harvard Business Review lists Dr. Cialdini's research in "Breakthrough Ideas for Today...more
Six "weapons of influence"
1)Reciprocation - People tend to return a favor. Thus, the pervasiveness of free samples in marketing. In his conferences, he often uses the example of Ethiopia providing thousands of dollars in humanitarian aid to Mexico just after the 1985 earthquake, despite Ethiopia suffering from a crippling famine and civil war at the time. Ethopia had been reciprocating for the diplomatic support Mexico provided when Italy invaded Ethopia in 1937.
2)Commitment and Consistency - I...more
1)Reciprocation - People tend to return a favor. Thus, the pervasiveness of free samples in marketing. In his conferences, he often uses the example of Ethiopia providing thousands of dollars in humanitarian aid to Mexico just after the 1985 earthquake, despite Ethiopia suffering from a crippling famine and civil war at the time. Ethopia had been reciprocating for the diplomatic support Mexico provided when Italy invaded Ethopia in 1937.
2)Commitment and Consistency - I...more
I don't understand why so many people rated this book so highly.
--It panders to the audience by using overly simple language and repeating the same idea 5 times to make sure that the reader really understood. Example (from memory): "People are heavily influenced by society. Society shapes our choices. Our choices are influenced by the people around us. There are countless examples of one's choices being swayed by his or her peers." Thanks, I got it the first time.
--The first and second "weapons...more
--It panders to the audience by using overly simple language and repeating the same idea 5 times to make sure that the reader really understood. Example (from memory): "People are heavily influenced by society. Society shapes our choices. Our choices are influenced by the people around us. There are countless examples of one's choices being swayed by his or her peers." Thanks, I got it the first time.
--The first and second "weapons...more
A classic example of how different books intrigue different people. My friend, Ben, gave me this book because he found it boring. I read it, highlighted it as I read it, and loved it. I love all things social psychology.
I thought it was funny when the author talks about the Mormon temple in Mesa. It was a great illustration of scarcity, but I wonder sometimes if people stop to think when they write that their audience may include the people they talk about.
There was one point while reading this...more
I thought it was funny when the author talks about the Mormon temple in Mesa. It was a great illustration of scarcity, but I wonder sometimes if people stop to think when they write that their audience may include the people they talk about.
There was one point while reading this...more
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Author Cialdini began the research that would lead to this book when he got tired of being taken advantage of. He’s not unintelligent, yet he would find himself talked into buying things he didn’t want at all. What was happening?
It turns out that there are some basic ways that humans are influenced, and most people follow them without questioning. Some are just the easy way to deal with situations, while some actually create discomfort when one refuses to follow the social conventions. Cialdini...more
It turns out that there are some basic ways that humans are influenced, and most people follow them without questioning. Some are just the easy way to deal with situations, while some actually create discomfort when one refuses to follow the social conventions. Cialdini...more
I've really gotten into pop psychology books lately. This one was exactly what I wanted: insight into persuasion from both an academic psychology perspective (lots of summaries of sometimes outrageous psych experiments, like those conditioning little boys to find toy robots immoral) and a marketing perspective (descriptions of persuasian/compliance tactics from car salesmen, Hare Krishna solicitors, advertisements).
While reading this book, I had to set it aside often to consider (1) the many wa...more
While reading this book, I had to set it aside often to consider (1) the many wa...more
Six categories of weapons of influence. Each based on manipulation of social survival skill.
Seems like I read much of this in Psych 101 when we studied propaganda.
1. Reciprocation. First offer gift to create obligation. Then collect on obligation. Based on reciprocation of support.
2. Commitment and consistency. Based on social importance of keeping commitments and acting consistently. Get people to commit to seemingly innocuous agreement or action, and then lead them to desired commitment. Since...more
Seems like I read much of this in Psych 101 when we studied propaganda.
1. Reciprocation. First offer gift to create obligation. Then collect on obligation. Based on reciprocation of support.
2. Commitment and consistency. Based on social importance of keeping commitments and acting consistently. Get people to commit to seemingly innocuous agreement or action, and then lead them to desired commitment. Since...more
Why do we buy stuff we don't need? Why do we comply with requests that "feel wrong" or make us uncomfortable? In this book, Arizona State professor Robert Cialdini examines the social psychology behind compliance, with the goal of helping us understand the "weapons of mass persuasion" that advertisers and salespeople can so easily use against us.
Cialdini went undercover in the late 1970s/early 1980s to do research about compliance techniques. He apprenticed himself to Amway salesmen and car deal...more
Cialdini went undercover in the late 1970s/early 1980s to do research about compliance techniques. He apprenticed himself to Amway salesmen and car deal...more
I read this because a Very Influential Person my magazine is profiling said that every consumer should read it. Can you say "hyperbole?" That said, Ciardini offers a tidy survey of post-Stanley Milgram research in human gullibility, and he's funny in a avuncular "professor who seems cool until you talk with him one on one" kind of way. Some of it--particularly a disquisition on the psych-warfare techniques of the Communist Chinese during the Korean War--is disturbingly timely in the Bush era.
I was lucky enough to have taken Dr. Cialdini's Influence: Brainwashing and Conformity Tactics class during my undergraduate days at Arizona State University in 2001. This class and Dr. Cialdini's brilliant public experiments have always stayed with me. I always will remember never to take the drink from the car sales man for fear that I will be more likely to buy a car that I don't want because of the theory of reciprocity. I just recently read the newest edition and it is beautifully written a...more
This book gives good insight to compliance strategies and main reasons we are persuaded - however I was unimpressed by a few of the examples Cialdini used and the main conclusion he made at the end of the book.
Example 1: After claiming to have been a bigger socialite than he really is to impress a young attractive saleswoman, Cialdini became particularly pugnacious about her "strategy of tricking him into exaggerating his habits" where as this was his fault, not the saleswoman's. When she offer...more
Example 1: After claiming to have been a bigger socialite than he really is to impress a young attractive saleswoman, Cialdini became particularly pugnacious about her "strategy of tricking him into exaggerating his habits" where as this was his fault, not the saleswoman's. When she offer...more
How does changing your last name to Brown win you an election? Why do crowds of bystanders struggle to help a clear victim? Robert Cialdini's "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" answers these questions and a range of others. It's a fascinating and engaging introduction of psychological factors impacting on individual and group decision-making. Students undertaking a degree in Business, Economics, Marketing or Politics would benefit immensely from reading this book. However, the book does s...more
Influence demonstrates clearly how compliance professionals can get us to say yes.
It appears the book is written for us, the target of the compliance professional. It efforts to advise how we automatically respond, much like lower animals, to various types of input and suggests methods to keep our necessary shortcuts from leading us in the wrong direction.
All of chapters are powerful, using real life examples and experiments to demonstrate the principle being discussed. For example, when dealin...more
It appears the book is written for us, the target of the compliance professional. It efforts to advise how we automatically respond, much like lower animals, to various types of input and suggests methods to keep our necessary shortcuts from leading us in the wrong direction.
All of chapters are powerful, using real life examples and experiments to demonstrate the principle being discussed. For example, when dealin...more
I put this book under "dangerous knowledge." Cialdini, still a top consultant in this field, has a tiny disclaimer at the end of the book saying how he's aware that this knowledge could be misused, but doesn't go much further.
I see this stuff abused all the time, to spin democracies to go to war, to sell us products and services we don't really need and much, much more.
I've been wanting to start an ethics institute around this topic. Interested? Write me!
I see this stuff abused all the time, to spin democracies to go to war, to sell us products and services we don't really need and much, much more.
I've been wanting to start an ethics institute around this topic. Interested? Write me!
book:Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion|28815] is a book about awareness. Cialdini's thesis is simple: we make dozens of decisions in our lives every day using single points of data. Usually this auto-decision-making process is of no consequence and a useful way to cut through the endless streams of information that surround us. There is simply not enough time to thoroughly analyze every single thing we do, so we use shortcuts.
However, these shortcuts can also be exploited to our detriment....more
However, these shortcuts can also be exploited to our detriment....more
I started reading this book for work - one of the things I'm supposedly working on this year in my ability to have influence on project decisions and be able to effectively provide input. I figured this would be unspeakably boring and decided to read some vampire stuff at the same time to get me through it.
I actually loved this book, though. He talks about all these methods that people - typically sales professionals - use to influence customers to buy more stuff. And I fall for this shit ALL TH...more
I actually loved this book, though. He talks about all these methods that people - typically sales professionals - use to influence customers to buy more stuff. And I fall for this shit ALL TH...more
As useful for the identification of the techniques as for how to notice and counter them.
MY SUMMARY:
These techniques are effective because they tap into our primordial automatic response mechanisms which have been honed over many years to further survival and allow room for higher-level analysis of more complex situations.
The techniques are: reciprocation, consistency, social proof, liking, authority, scarcity.
The epilogue is especially insightful. In the light-speed paced world we now live i...more
To understand why your marketing plans work or don't work, you need to look deep into what goes on in your customer's head. That's where this book takes you. It's a classic work on persuasion that will show you not only why behavior can be altered, but how to do it. The author, Robert Cialdini, is a professor of marketing at Arizona State as well as president of a consulting company specializing in ethical persuasion. Unlike my book on the subject, The Dynamic Manager's Guide to Marketing and Ad...more
A fantastic book and really found many of the concepts interesting. Here is my summarised review:
Chapter 1 is about power of comparison : better to compare an expensive item in the beginning and then followed by a cheap one so the latter one looks good in comparison. I remember Janet letter to her parents. Looks nice ; on how she influenced her parents for grads d to e
Chapter 2 is about : reciprocacy; I remember krishna and flower story and the story of Amway where the leave free samples for p...more
Chapter 1 is about power of comparison : better to compare an expensive item in the beginning and then followed by a cheap one so the latter one looks good in comparison. I remember Janet letter to her parents. Looks nice ; on how she influenced her parents for grads d to e
Chapter 2 is about : reciprocacy; I remember krishna and flower story and the story of Amway where the leave free samples for p...more
A masterful book that I read years ago and that I have to read again. But Dr. Cialdini's book was masterful and it has provided me great knowledge and understanding. In particular of influence that it has had is that it has helped me to understand that after great national tragedies such as school shootings or devastating airplane crashes, the chances of a repeat or similar performance is greatly increased. This is true even in incidents of plane crashes which seem to be accidental. People on th...more
Brilliant book! I first read Cialdini book several years ago and I try to make it my routine to read it at least every year since then. Professor Cialdini through many fascinating examples leads us on a journey to find how we are being persuaded to act and react in many ways that are not always to our benefits.
Professor Cialdini review in this book six main factors that influence our behaviors: reciprocation, liking, scarcity, authority, commitment/consistency and social proof, the books explai...more
I love these sorts of books the delve into the human psyche and attempt to explain why we do things. If you read this book you will certainly learn something about human nature and most likely it will something you didn't appreciate.
Better understanding why people do things and how others attempt to use human nature against us can only better equip you to deal with these attempts to influence you. The book is easy to read and follows naturally from subject to subject. It is certainly engaging al...more
Better understanding why people do things and how others attempt to use human nature against us can only better equip you to deal with these attempts to influence you. The book is easy to read and follows naturally from subject to subject. It is certainly engaging al...more
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Dr. Robert Cialdini has spent his entire career researching the science of influence earning him an international reputation as an expert in the fields of persuasion, compliance, and negotiation.
His books including, Influence: Science & Practice, are the results of years of study into the reasons why people comply with requests in business settings. Worldwide, Influence has sold over 2 million...more
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His books including, Influence: Science & Practice, are the results of years of study into the reasons why people comply with requests in business settings. Worldwide, Influence has sold over 2 million...more
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“A well-known principle of human behavior says that when we ask someone to do us a favor we will be more successful if we provide a reason. People simply like to have reasons for what they do.”
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“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine because I have to make some copies? The result was that once again nearly all (93 percent) agreed, even though no real reason, no new information, was added to justify their compliance. Just as the “cheep-cheep” sound of turkey chicks triggered an automatic mothering response from maternal turkeys—even when it emanated from a stuffed polecat—so, too, did the word “because” trigger an automatic compliance response”
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