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Mississippi Sissy

3.56 of 5 stars 3.56  ·  rating details  ·  1,015 ratings  ·  167 reviews
Mississippi Sissy is destined to become an American classic



In a book that echoes the time-honored fiction of Harper Lee and Flannery O'Connor and memoirs by Mary Karr and Augusten Burroughs, Kevin Sessums brings the American South and the experiences of a strange little Mississippi boy to life....more
Paperback, 320 pages
Published March 4th 2008 by Picador (first published 2007)
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K.D. Absolutely
Sep 19, 2012 K.D. Absolutely rated it 3 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommended to K.D. by: Nowhere
Nicely written. I did not have any idea who Sessums was and after reading this book, I felt that he was like a friend to me. He shared everything including the emotional and physical tortures that he suffered from the hands of his father who could not accept him as gay, the sexual abuse and rape that he experienced at his young age and the many other homosexual encounters that he had with his lovers.

Looks like a typical gay boyhood memoir, right? Well, prior to this, I read America's Boy: A Memo...more
Faith
I wouldn't have read this memoir, by a gay emeritus of the Vanity Fair staff, if my book club hadn't picked it, which goes to show the value of book clubs. This is a thoughtful, un-self-pitying reflection on an extremely tough childhood and adolescence. (Just for starters, as the book jacket lets on, Sessums was orphaned by age 8.) The memoir is also, for this lesbian who could pass as straight, an interesting look into the world of a boy who never could have passed and apparently never tried to...more
Mark Gaulding
Astonished. What can I say. As a gay boy who grew up a sissy in the South, I completely identified with the alienation that Sessums felt. But the ability of this boy/man to transcend the most awful of setbacks early in life is without a doubt one of the more inspiring stories I've ever read. I finished this book over three months ago and I am still haunted and bewitched by this book. The women in this book are full of such strength. The author's mother, grandmother, his maid Matty Mae, his Aunt...more
Scott
Mississippi Sissy, fantastically written with long canters, tells Kevin's story in the format of a conversation, like someone might have sitting around a Southern table in the kitchen sharing sweet tea with a neighbor. I loved the style, the insertions and tangents, and the story itself - honest, brutal, vulgar, but mostly honest - at moments, I was surprised he would share the secrets which we all keep, those twisted, tarnished riches we keep locked away, as if treasure in our hearts and minds,...more
Robin
This was a brilliant, beautifully written, and generally accurate account of the universal experience all queer Mississippi natives share in regards to our upbringing and childhoods. Kevin Sessums perfectly relates those all-too-familiar feelings of isolation, of not belonging, of feeling a confusing empathy with African-Americans in his world, and especially of being told time and time again that he thinks he's better than Mississippi, and disagreeing exactly halfway with that assessment of his...more
Sassy
As a southerner and proponent of gay rights, I was intrigued by this memoir. Early on, I began to realize that I found it hard to trust Sessums in his accounts of what he thought and felt as a very young child. Not that I think he doesn't know or remember, but that he seems willing to attribute extremely sophisticated reflection and vocabulary ("chicanery," really?) to his four-year-old self. Toward the middle of the book, I just became a little put off by his compulsion to describe his emerging...more
Bob Redmond
Imagine this likely scenario: 24 year-old new graduate from a writing program from a Major University releases their first book. Although said graduate has not been out of school since before kindergarten, they've chosen a memoir. Write what you know! say the teachers (themselves having published memoirs). The new grad's story revolves around some autobiographical hook (born albino, raised by a pet Corgi, lived in a van in Alaska and wrote a lot of songs...) which may be interesting enough. Ulti...more
Del Zimmerman
Nice, solid summer read... I was expecting something much lighter than what it ended up being, however... Being from the South, I could relate to many of the stories he shares... could have done without some of the graphic sex scenes -- they seemed to be a bit gratuitous... Loved hearing about his growing up near Eudora Welty...
Bob
GREAT memoir about a little boy growing up hopelessly gay in rural Mississippi and where his "adventures" eventually lead him. This one I will read again from time to time, though have to buy a new one. Loaned it out, and it never came back. Hopefully it is still making the circuit I started by loaning it in the first place!
Tim
This one looks like it's one of those crazy memoirs like Augustin Burroughs. But actually it's a really dark, disturbing memoir. I didn't enjoy it much at all. He had a pretty bleak childhood. But he's a fantastic writer so there were passages that were transcendent. His writing kept me going. My favorite sentence in the book:

"One of his sons, a brainy sort who was a linguist who had been called by God to interpret the Bible into languages as yet to be transcribed, had asked a first cousin of mi...more
Jason
This autobiography started off well enough but then descended into a long drawn out affair that sadly became a chore to finish. Sessums repeats himself endlessly but I blame the editor for not stopping this self-indulgence. Did the editor just pack it in half-way through the autobiography? Maybe I should have.

There were a few magical moments that showcased his writing. One example that springs to mind is his retelling of a conversation between his grandmother, her sister (Vena Mae) and her siste...more
Sheri
I am a fan of memoirs, and found this book on a list of memoirs. I borrowed this book from the library & am glad I didn't spend money on it. It is about an effeminate young boy growing up in the deep South whose father is a coach and family is quite religious. For some reason, I thought it was about a little boy who was ridiculed as a child & how he overcame it. I didn't quite realize this book was about coming to terms with being homosexual before I began reading it. That would have bee...more
Mary Henderson
This is the most heartbreaking, affecting book I've read since Pat Conroy's autobiography. Forest, Sessums' Mississippi home, is 30 miles from Carthage, my husband's childhood home where we still spend a lot of time, so I understand the culture. (I'm just glad I missed the old, segregated days. I don't think I could have stood to be around all that hatred and prejudice.)

Sessums was obviously homosexual even from a very early age. His parents died within a year of each other when he was a small...more
Nicole
Oct 14, 2008 Nicole rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: ohhh, this question caused quite a stir at Book Club...
This book, in the words of my roommate, is NOT for sissies. It's raw and honest and heartbreaking. I cried. More than once. More than twice.

Not an easy read, emotionally speaking, but totally worthwhile. Sessums' writing is deliberate and well crafted, weaving multiple stories and decades together. Many of his chapters (and the book as a whole, really) spiral seamlessly back on themselves. Sessums is especially eloquent when it comes to describing his deep-south relatives.

There was more than a...more
Mac
An interesting memoir about growing up in Mississippi during the 60's and 70's as a "sissy". Frankly, I found the tidbits about Eudory Welty and the juxtaposition of Sessions personal story with the civil rights events transpiring in the deep south during that time more interesting than the gay coming of age story, which is of course the premise for the memoir. While I hate to sound like a prude, I also found the book occassionally a bit graphic for my taste. I asked myself if it was because the...more
Dalen
An engaging narrative using interjected anecdotes to convey a life story as though through a series of long conversations, yet maintaining the strong narrative arc of a novel. Sessums weaves together his story with continuity of thematic elements from childhood through young-adulthood, capturing the religious and political climate of the Southern U.S. in the 50s and 60s from his particular vantage and through his experience. Empowering the word "sissy," this is a thoughtful portrayal of a specif...more
Judy
Hard to choose the star rating. The book was written well. The author had a strange life as a child in Mississippi -- he definitely was a sissy. I had to skip chunks of it in the last third or fourth -- the vivid descriptions of pedophilia and homosexual acts were too much. The descriptions did not, for me, add to his memoir -- I believe I could learn just as much about him without the details. So, I liked what I read but not enough to recommend it to anyone else without the "warning" about "a l...more
Terry
Being a Minnesota Sissy, I found this a painful read at times. But still, I read this pretty quickly, finding it very hard to put down. Sussum’s prose is a little flowery for me, but he weaves a darn good story, flashing between the present and the past. Truly some unforgettable characters. Warning: a couple of pretty graphic sex scenes; also a graphic description of a murder victim. Totally appropriate in this book; very much a part of the story – just thought I’d warn ya!
Jean Brown
Very few books shock me but this one did...not for the faint of heart but there were things I loved in it...the view it gave of Mississippi literary life alone would have been enough to make the book good but the personal story was shocking to me...I guess because there was one incident I just did not see coming and it was so unexpected I was left reeling.
Melanie
Don't bother. It's one thing to have had life experiences, and it's quite another to write about them so a reader wants to go along and share them or, at least, consider them. This memoir about growing up, orphaned and gay, in the South, sounded terrific, especially on NPR and in reviews. Hard to imagine making so little out of so much material.
Leslie
This is one rowdy memoir. A little feller growing up gay in Mississippi. I near 'bout died laughing at the scene where he goes slam crazy at the Halloween fair. Toward the end he has true tales to tell of carryings on with Eudora Welty and other literary types. I really enjoyed it . . . but it ain't for the faint of heart.
Raffy Rillo
We are defined in what we do, not in what we are. I loved the book. It's a pageturner of a memoir. His childhood resembles close to mine but mine is yet to come. One of the best since Mary Karr, & Jeanette Walls memoirs. I love it! Two thumbs up! :)
Andrew Heffner
I liked this book. The story moved at a nice pace. An interesting childhood. Not unlike a lot of gays.
Joey Stocks
Fantastic! Kevin Sessums is the writer Augusten Bourroughs wishes he were.
Chance Lee
For my grad class in memoir writing, we choose our own reading list. I picked a variety of memoirs by gay writers. Being somewhat of a Mississippi Sissy myself, I thought I would enjoy this book more. But I didn't, for a variety of reasons. Since we're studying these books in class for the writing, and not necessarily the story, it affected my enjoyment of the book. (Honestly, I probably analyze EVERYTHING I read for the quality of writing, whether I'm reading it for a class or not.) I just don'...more
Patrick Gibson
Aug 05, 2009 Patrick Gibson rated it 2 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: those who doubt the joy of humanity
Recommended to Patrick by: you know who you are
I have never opened the cover of ‘Allure’ ‘Vanity Fair’ (no really, I haven’t) ‘Interview’ or ‘Elle’ where Kevin Sessums has spent the last few decades of his life. There were a few of his articles I skimmed in ‘The Daily Beast’ but they were primarily concerned with the she-she New York art and theater scene where my interest on a scale from one to ten would be a solid 2.

So I approached this memoir with trepidation—i.e. ‘I am going to hate it, x10.’ But, I have a friend who was laying one of th...more
Eric Klee
I was looking forward to reading humorous stories of growing up gay in the South. Why was I expecting that? From the title of the book and the image that was used on the cover.

Unfortunately, that's not what I got. In the tradition of *great* Southern writers, Kevin Sessums uses a LOT of flowy words, but the stories themselves don't contain a lot of substance. The stories were average at best and if I was listening to him tell them at a party, I would have yawned several times and been trying to...more
Katie
Sep 13, 2008 Katie rated it 4 of 5 stars  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Southerners, anyone interested in LBGT issues, anyone interested in memoir
Recommended to Katie by: Found at the bookstore
Sessums has written a very brave book, both in the sense that he tells a harrowing story, but also in the sense that he has attempted to tell a "true" memoir. Stepping out of the tradition of Frey and the like, Sessums makes it a point to name names. As he puts it in his note, "All the people and the names are real. All the events actually occurred. The dialogue - as true to those people and events and what was said around me as my memory can possibly make it - is my own invention." Given our cu...more
Jordan
There was a bit of time when I was reading this that I thought I did not like it. It took me awhile to realize that I liked the book, but disliked the author. This is a memoir, by default you have to be a narcissist to write one, but Sessums took it to another level. He causally drops how pretty he is several times throughout the book and how everyone wanted him. Based off his jacket photo, I don't see it, but even if it were true, it was really off putting to hear about it over and over. All th...more
Alan
The only reason for my two stars was his excellent writing style. He did capture some of the realities of the South in the turbulent 1960's, disturbing and gut-wrenching though they were.

The book takes a curious turn when Kevin comes to faith while watching Billy Graham on television with his grandmother. Soon after, he is molested by a renowned Methodist leader and predator. The contrast is stunning and disturbing. The section about his brother visiting Billy Graham to finish a sculpture was b...more
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