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Fat Girl: A True Story

3.23  ·  Rating Details ·  3,165 Ratings  ·  505 Reviews
For any woman who has ever had a love/hate relationship with food and with how she looks; for anyone who has knowingly or unconsciously used food to try to fill the hole in his heart or soothe the craggy edges of his psyche, Fat Girl is a brilliantly rendered, angst-filled coming-of-age story of gain and loss. From the lush descriptions of food that call to mind the writin
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Paperback, 196 pages
Published February 28th 2006 by Plume (first published March 3rd 2005)
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Jennifer
Jun 04, 2008 Jennifer rated it did not like it
Recommends it for: people with a strong stomach
Shelves: biography-modern
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Christina
Jun 22, 2008 Christina rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: guys and galls who aren't asthetically perfect
WOW. This books is funny in parts but mostly sad. I related with the author and sometimes it really bummed me out how alike our feelings towards weight and food were. She describes food in a way that makes me want to run to the store right now and buy tons of comfort food ingredients. Seriously, I have never wanted a pie or biscuits in my whole life and yet the way the author describes the joy she gets from these comfort foods...makes me want to bury my own sorrows in a pile of fatty dough. I do ...more
Jen Knox
Apr 02, 2010 Jen Knox rated it it was ok
This book should've been condensed into a tight, dynamite essay. There was a heartbreaking but ironic narration that was great at first. But, as a whole book, I began to feel the way I do when I'm watching a comedian onstage telling the same joke again and again, wondering why my drink isn't stronger and whether or not I'll ever get my nachos: restless. I will say that Moore had some beautiful descriptions of food and heartbreaking descriptions of her own body; and I agree with the blurb on the ...more
Melissa Lee-Tammeus
Jun 05, 2012 Melissa Lee-Tammeus rated it it was amazing
This book broke my heart. This is an honest memoir of great proportions - this book gives you an inside look at what it means to be a large girl in a world that does not accept you. This is about bad parenting, school bullying, and an insatiable need for comfort, with no apologies, need or want of pity, or whimpering involved. This book especially hurt my heart when the last page explained to me that the author had died. I couldn't help but think how much I wanted to give Ms. Moore a hug, but to ...more
Sondra
Feb 07, 2008 Sondra rated it it was amazing
Recommends it for: Kendra because of the population she works with.
Recommended to Sondra by: At the end of reading Wally Lamb, She's Come Undone.
Did you ever read a book that opened up old wounds, but helped you deal with some of your own demons? That is Fat Girl for me. She said things that I felt growing up. I didn't have the same relationship with my mother, but I had a brother who did the same amount of damage. I always wonder why some of us turn to food to fill the empty space, while others have other addictions, or turn completely away from food. I wanted to write to Ms. Moore, but she passed away from colon cancer. I found an inte ...more
Anna
Jun 03, 2008 Anna rated it liked it
Recommends it for: any one who has dealt with being fat. Or has someone they care about that has.
I understood what this writer was attempting. I got it. I cringed, I sighed, I related to certain things. I just don't think she stuck with it.
She gave us many details about growing up. Occasionally throwing in vulger language to see if you were paying attention. But then suddenly, around the time of high school no less, she gives up! She didnt walk us through high school or collage or even her first marriage. She teases with phrases like "I never understood why he married me, or I why I married
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Lain
Dec 01, 2007 Lain rated it really liked it
It often seems that the only minority that's fair game for discrimination is the overweight. That fact is made uncomfortably clear in "Fat Girl: A True Story" by Judith Moore. Moore shares her life as an overweight, fatherless child -- a life that didn't get much better as she got older, and fatter. I found myself at times repulsed, at times weepingly sorry for her, at times amazed at her bravery. No pity party, though I do think Moore downplayed some of the more interesting elements of her life ...more
Jenn
Jul 08, 2014 Jenn rated it it was amazing
Fat Girl is the incredibly depressing account of an insecure woman's loveless childhood. Quotes on the back cover assure that the depressing subject--growing up fat--will be tempered by dark humor. But the quotes lie. Augusten Burroughs, you are a liar.

This book is 100% depressing, 0% funny. There is no dark humor. There is no intentional humor. There is no unintentional humor. It's just Judith Moore talking dead-pan about her shitty childhood. Chapter One: I Am Abandoned At Age Four, Chapter T
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Chana
Mar 01, 2009 Chana rated it liked it
Oy gevalt, this one hurts. It is a book I am not likely to forget; it is incredibly sad, and not in a way that makes you cry, it is sad in way that congeals as pain inside you. I wish I could pluck her up as a 4 year old and save her (not from being fat necessarily, but from being so hurt, unhappy and reviled). And it is not just her mother's mother, but also her mother and father. One tries not to blame parents, but please! I've never heard being fat described so thoroughly. Although I haven't ...more
Julie Tillman
Nov 17, 2011 Julie Tillman rated it really liked it
I actually picked up this book hoping to find some humor in it. Although there was none -- in fact it was black, heart-wrenching, sad, and at times even made me cringe -- I was not disappointed. All of the writing was simple, eloquent and beautiful -- even as the author described the horrendous acts that were happening around her and to her.

I wish, somehow, the author could have found a way to insert some humor into this book. Or at the very least some HOPE. Towards the end of the book she admi
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Jalylah
Dec 04, 2007 Jalylah rated it liked it
This memoir is honest, emotionally difficult, and painfully sharp. The author's metaphors/similes are occasionally off putting. She makes reference to confederate blue eyes and a high booty like an african. But other than those moments, when I had to put the book down because the poor choice kicked me out of the narrative, I was with her. You don't feel good reading it but it's certainly an important consideration of loathing and corporeal excess. The author's bafflement and gratefulness towards ...more
Lindsay
Jan 05, 2008 Lindsay rated it did not like it
Shelves: biography
This book was painful and lame. It's hard to do both. Judith Moore made it sound like if you're obese, that's all you think about all of the time, and it completely controls your life. I know a lot of obese people who are not like that at all, and so it didn't ring true.

Also, there were pages and pages where she just describes what she eats, and she describes it tritely. It made me feel bored out of my mind, and sick. I loathed the experience of reading this book.
Andrew Vachss
Nov 15, 2009 Andrew Vachss rated it it was amazing
Fat Girl is a black diamond, revealing its hard brilliance only when you accept its invitation to descend into the soul of the loneliest little girl in the world....
Sarah
Dec 13, 2008 Sarah rated it it was ok
Shelves: 2005, memoir, fat
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Lisa
Sep 17, 2008 Lisa rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: Parents of fat children.
This book was so much better than I expected. It isn't as much about being fat as it is about the permanent damage a psychotic, unhappy parent can inflict upon an unwanted child. And a child that has problems to begin with. As Moore herself admits "There was more wrong with me than just being fat". Sadly, Moore died from colon cancer in 2006. I found myself hoping she'd had a happy life as an adult. Having said all that, this book has the same problem all "used to be fat" memoirs have: following ...more
Melanie
Nov 12, 2008 Melanie rated it liked it
I don't know how to rate this one. On one hand, some parts were so true it was painful to listen to them (I listened to the audiobook), and on the other hand, sometimes the listing of foods, the whining, was a bit too much. But then she would say something true and raw and painful and it would make me want to cry for her and for me and for all the other little fat girls. So on one hand, I'd like to give it many stars for being brutally, disgustingly honest - and I'd also like to not give it any ...more
Zoe
Apr 20, 2007 Zoe rated it it was ok
Recommends it for: People who love food and depressing stories.
Shelves: 2007books
Judith Moore is an effective writer, but this book is so fucking dreary. It's a quick read (under 200 pages, big font) but depressing. Moore describes her lonely, food-filled childhood. Neither of her parents loved her and she was frequently abused. She ate a lot and got fat. Now she's a lonely grown woman who is still fat.

She admits at the beginning of the book that she is not a fat activist. At the end, she says that she does not want anyone's pity. Then what does she want? All I felt at the
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Eva Leger
Aug 14, 2008 Eva Leger rated it did not like it
This was a horrible book- I can't remember if I actually finished it or not but I don't think I did. Even the writing itself was terrible, I tried so hard to keep reading and just couldn't do it.
Becky Pliego
A hard story to read. Hate and hunger meet and the void they create is immense.
Gwynette Koch
Apr 06, 2016 Gwynette Koch rated it did not like it
Recommended to Gwynette by: Teacher
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Katie Kenig
Jul 13, 2015 Katie Kenig rated it really liked it
Shelves: non-fiction, memoir
This book is absolutely heartbreaking. I feel all raw and vulnerable and sensitized after reading it.



This memoir is non-apologetic. Moore isn't looking for sympathy or understanding, she didn't make any great discoveries or overcome her pain. She just wants to tell her story. And her story is achingly sad.

Moore was a fat girl, growing up. Her father left when she was only four, and her childhood became incredibly difficult. She was unwanted, and unloved. She began to hate herself, because if he
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Jennifer
Nov 02, 2012 Jennifer rated it it was amazing
If I had followed my degreed career path and became a teacher, I would have made my students read this, male or female. From the opening line about how the author is not going to apologize for being fat or try to explain it, she sets the tone for what would be a direct, often angry account of her life. Who better to understand the self conscious than adolescents whether they have weight issues or not.

Over the course of this quick, short read, you learn about Moore's chaotic childhood. Coming fr
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Nitya
Nov 14, 2011 Nitya rated it it was ok
I picked this book expecting a story of growing up fat, and perhaps staying fat, but finding a way to be happy and sassy, like the woman I knew who wore a button proclaiming "how dare you presume I'd rather be thin?" Kathy was a fat activist, unlike the author of this book, who tells you in the beginning that this is not a tale of being fat and happy, or of losing weight and being happy. It is, simply, a story about what it was like growing up, and then being grown-up, and being obese. We all k ...more
Michelle
Apr 20, 2015 Michelle rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book was so vast for me, I find it difficult to recommend, despite my five-star rating. It pierced me so thoroughly that I wept when I discovered the author, Judith Moore, had passed away not long before I'd read it. I had hoped to write to her and tell her the profound mark her words left on me.

While I may not be able to tell Ms. Moore, let me take a moment to share it with you - this book is an absolute haymaker to the brain and heart. Clear, concise, expertly worded - its poignancy makes
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Audrey
Oct 09, 2013 Audrey rated it it was amazing
Wow, just wow! What a powerful book! It's not a very long book but it is full of such insight and parts of it touched my heart and I understood alot of what she was trying to say about hunger.

This is a memoir by Judith Moore of her childhood spent as a fat girl, starved for love and affection. She is brutally honest in this book not only about her horrible mother and neglectful father but also about herself and her reactions to the world around her.

She talks about how being fat really makes her
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Jay
This memoir is so much more than growing up fat- it's about a lack of love, of terrible abuse and a need to find acceptance. Throughout the whole story, I was hoping that Judith Moore found what she was looking for as an adult, but given some of the few passages she wrote about her adult life, it doesn't seem to be the case. Some people have mentioned that certain aspects don't add up- swimming classes and her mother's alleged abuse- which does give me something to think about.

All the same, thi
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A.
Mar 19, 2015 A. rated it liked it
This memoir, in nearly every single paragraph of its 196 pages, discusses the reality of being "fat." It's billed as a memoir about being persistently overweight and what it was like to grow up as such. But this isn't really a book about being fat. It's a book about being unloved. Moore tackles the harsh truths of her abusive, humiliating, toxic upbringing with a startling objectivity, that seems almost impossible in an autobiographical scenario. Through her voice lingers the hardening and apath ...more
Leslie Eleveld
Aug 25, 2015 Leslie Eleveld rated it really liked it
I thought this was really excellent and fascinating as a memoir, but don't expect any positive message or deep personal epiphanies about suddenly loving yourself for who you are from this author. This is a book about struggling your entire life with hating your body. Judith Moore is angry, sad, incredibly bitter, often times judgmental of others and extremely judgmental towards herself. That being said, despite the overall air of negativity to this memoir I still found it extremely relatable. I ...more
Ashley Snyder Miller
Apr 22, 2015 Ashley Snyder Miller rated it really liked it
Wow, what a powerful read! I related significantly to Moore in her discussions of what young, fat girls think and feel about food, their bodies, their self-worth, their everything.

This is a dark read and if you like a happy ending, you won't really find one here. You will get closure though and that perhaps is better than a happy ending because it is realistic.

There were times in the memoir that I wanted to reach inside the book and provide love to the young Moore. Few childhoods have been as
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Amanda
This book feels like I have read it before. Maybe because I can associate with the author and how she feels about being fat. How that skinny girl that I once was is trapped inside this huge shell. Although the author was never really a thin person all her life, I do know what it was like to be thin. Hopefully I can get there again.

This book is painfully honest and at times brutal. Listening to the author tell her tale of how she turned to food for comfort, I understood why she felt she was all a
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