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It tells you how to have the security, stability, comfort, etc that are requirements for a healthy a LT relationship while at the same time creating the uncertainty, mystery, and risk that are requ...more...]]> 27485 0060753633 9780060753634 96 36 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1167881458m/27485.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27485.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 1 1 false Sun Apr 26 00:00:00 -0700 2009 Sun May 24 10:04:38 -0700 2009 Sun May 24 10:04:59 -0700 2009 more...]]> 27485 0060753633 9780060753634 96 36 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1167881458m/27485.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27485.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 5 1 false Thu Nov 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007 Thu Apr 10 06:51:05 -0700 2008 Fri May 09 22:07:50 -0700 2008 more...]]> 27485 0060753633 9780060753634 96 36 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1167881458m/27485.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27485.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 3 1 false Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008 Thu Feb 14 07:02:44 -0800 2008 Wed Feb 20 19:32:44 -0800 2008 more...]]> 27485 0060753633 9780060753634 96 36 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1167881458m/27485.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/27485.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 4 0 false Sun Feb 01 00:00:00 -0800 2009 Mon Feb 23 14:43:05 -0800 2009 Mon Feb 23 14:55:04 -0800 2009 more...]]> 329751 0060753641 9780060753641 12 6 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1255631580m/329751.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/329751.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 3 0 false Fri Oct 17 00:00:00 -0700 2008 Fri Oct 24 08:28:27 -0700 2008 Fri Oct 24 08:28:27 -0700 2008
Perel focuses on maintaining desire in a relationship, using the lens of the balance of security and autonomy - people often sacrifice all...more...]]> 329751 0060753641 9780060753641 12 6 Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic 3.67 http://photo.goodreads.com/books/1255631580m/329751.jpg http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/329751.Mating_in_Captivity_Reconciling_the_Erotic_and_the_Domestic 4 0 false Sun Mar 23 11:43:46 -0700 2008 Sun Mar 23 11:45:57 -0700 2008
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