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    <body><![CDATA[Since I have agreed with most of the books I've read I was beginning to wonder if I have a mind of my own or if I just believe everything I read. Well, this book gave me my answer. <br/><br/>I don't agree with the majority of the author's stances on what is appropriate boy behavior and how parents...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/54551680">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I bought this  desperation because my young son and I seemed to be at odds and I wanted to nip the arguments before they became a pattern.  I also wanted to get a little insight into why my sweet boy was suddenly so argumentative. This book was the wrong choice for me. <br/><br/>I admit to skippin...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/80971427">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I liked the insights into male psychology and the world of boys. But I recommend reading it in light of the author's own childhood experiences. Can't help feeling his own strained relationship with his mother feeds a lot of his advice and overall attitude toward mothers.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book really helped me understand better a boy's temperament, needs, and habits. I think I should probably reread it about every other year to help me raise my boys as they grow.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I didn't like this at all!!! This author has no business writing books on how to raise boys especially given his own personal history. Didn't care for it at all!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is a favorite among my parenting books. Being a mother of 2 boys I was intrigued by the content and was not disappointed. It is so insightful, compassionate, thought provoking and full of great advice. Even when touching on the sensitive subject matter of homosexuality I was blown away by ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/43952857">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[It seems the best thing I can do for my sons is stay married to their father!  A good read, I agree with his concept of three family circles and being mindful of all the influences in a boys' life.  Not really applicable for my boys' ages but I'll keep it around for reference!]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Has some fascinating research and insight into boys.  However, parts of it are very slow, redundant, and some of it is just plain garbage.  With that said, I really did learn a lot, but do disagree on several of his assertions.]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[Since I have two boys and am married to a man, thought this would be a good read. It did have some interesting things...probably more than I'm giving it credit for. But all the sex stuff was completely off base. Oh, well. Gather the good stuff. ]]></body>
    
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    <body><![CDATA[I found this book to be very enlightening.  He points out gaps in our societies method of male upbringing and how that is leading to gang formation, dead beat dads, and other problems in male culture.  He then uses the remaining text to inform his audiance in what a boy needs, and how to provide it ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/31837848">more...</a>]]></body>
    
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