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  <title><![CDATA[Should You Leave?: A Psychiatrist Explores Intimacy and Autonomy--and the Nature of Advice]]></title>
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  <default_description>Uniquely conceived and utterly refreshing, Peter Kramer (&lt;I&gt;Listening to Prozac&lt;/I&gt;) breaks the mold of most advice books with &lt;I&gt;Should You Leave?&lt;/I&gt; Expect no authoritative voice retreating behind labels or manufactured jargon. Instead, in a series of fictive sessions with imaginary advisees, Kramer illlustrates complex problems; each one lets him give a different style of advice--from Freud's to Ann Lander's. The central question pushes the limits of traditional &quot;silent therapy&quot;: can a direct, simple response to any problem of the heart be valuable?  &lt;P&gt; &lt;I&gt;Should You Leave?&lt;/I&gt; moves fluidly between discussions of psychological theory and imaginative flights, revealing both a wide body of knowledge and compassion. Kramer's questions, framed with sensitivity &lt;I&gt;and&lt;/I&gt; irreverence, challenge our cultural fixation on autonomy and assertiveness. Given these, how can intimacy thrive?</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[The title is provocative although a little misleading, even though that question is addressed.  The subtitle more accurately captures this psychiatrist's fascinating accounts  of his interactions with some of his patients.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[The most successful book I have ever read that is written in the second person.  It's written almost as a novel, but also includes lots of advice, if you can find the &quot;you&quot; that most closely matches you and your circumstances.]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I suppose it's not surprising that practicing therapists are often approached by friends...for a bit of free advice, or even an assessment as to just how bad (or worthwhile) is the relationship they are currently in.<br/><br/>Kramer presents a synthesis of the current thinking and wisdom applied b...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/17888400">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[Like Kramer's other books, this one is much more than it seems on the surface -- it looks like just another self-help book for couples in trouble. But instead it's a hefty rumination on the nature of relationships and the idea of advice vs. psychotherapy. It's definitely worth reading, and it gave m...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/14719622">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I don't remember reading this but my notes from it are interesting, so it must be good. ]]></body>
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