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  <title><![CDATA[Opting In: Having a Child Without Losing Yourself]]></title>
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  <default_description>&lt;div&gt;&lt;div&gt;For contemporary women, motherhood has become as polarizing a proposition as it is a powerful calling. For some women this tension is manifest in a debate over whether or not to have children. For others it concerns whether to stay at home with their children or stay in the workforce. Still others feel abandoned altogether by the supposedly pro-family and pro-mother social justice movement that is feminism and are at a loss when it comes to reconciling their maternal instincts with their political beliefs. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;With &lt;i&gt;Opting In&lt;/i&gt;, Amy Richards addresses the anxiety over parenting that women face today in a book that mixes memoir, interviews, historical analysis, and feminist insight. In her refreshingly direct and thoughtful approach, Richards covers everything from the truth about our biological clocks and the trends toward extending fertility, to parenting with nature &lt;i&gt;and &lt;/i&gt;nurturing in mind, to our relationship with our own mothers, to what feminism&amp;#8217;s relationship to motherhood is and always has been. Speaking from the vantage point of someone who is both a parent and one of our leading feminist activists, Richards cuts through the cacophony of voices intent on telling women the &amp;#8220;appropriate&amp;#8221; way to be a mother and reveals instead how to confidently forge your own path while staying true to yourself and your ideals.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</default_description>
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  <original_publication_day type="integer">29</original_publication_day>
  <original_publication_month type="integer">4</original_publication_month>
  <original_publication_year type="integer">2008</original_publication_year>
  <original_title>Opting In: Having a Child Without Losing Yourself</original_title>
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  <average_rating><![CDATA[3.01]]></average_rating>
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      <name><![CDATA[Amy Richards]]></name>
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    <name><![CDATA[Nicole]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon May 05 09:54:13 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu May 15 12:00:05 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[When I first started this book I was pissed off and feeling judged.    Now that I have finished it.  I don't feel judged, but maybe a little inferior.  Amy Richards shares details from her own life, and from those it seems like she has it all together.  And I don't have it all together.  But of cour...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/21637453">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <name><![CDATA[Sarah]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Burlington, CT]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Thu May 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue May 13 20:14:11 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue May 13 20:18:52 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[From the review I read of this book, I expected it to be mostly about managing a work-life balance.  It certainly addressed that, but overall was more about the history of feminism as it pertains to motherhood, and how to choose motherhood without abandoning feminist beliefs (and, further, raising c...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22200481">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="75559215">
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    <name><![CDATA[Meg]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Oakland, CA]]></location>        
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      <rating>1</rating>
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  <date_added>Fri Oct 23 22:06:15 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Oct 23 22:31:34 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Perhaps one star is a little harsh.  But, speaking as a feminist and a mother, here were a couple of my issues with the book (one more substantive, one more stylistic).<br/><br/>1. She believes there's no more need for old-school feminism (much as she pays homage to its relevance in the past), alt...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/75559215">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="30780024">
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    <location><![CDATA[Albuquerque, NM]]></location>        
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  <read_at>Fri Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Aug 21 08:15:37 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Aug 21 08:20:59 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[i expected a lot more from this book, which i found to be full of generalities and banal speculation.  in the end i decided that you could save yourself the trouble of reading it and just read the summary on the back cover instead.  or you could take a few moments to think about the issues she raise...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/30780024">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="53945296">
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    <name><![CDATA[Jen]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Bellevue, WA]]></location>        
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      <rating>2</rating>
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  <read_at>Tue Jan 01 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat Apr 25 13:59:19 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Apr 25 14:05:10 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Read in the fall, so my memory is a little foggy - but what sticks with me is being kind of pissed off as I read.  She'd have a sentence about how women can do anything they want, work or stay at home, yadda yadda, and then spend the rest of the chapter contradicting that.  I felt like she came down...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/53945296">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="36816880">
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    <name><![CDATA[Jessica]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Charlotte, NC]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <recommended_for><![CDATA[women - not just mothers.]]></recommended_for>
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  <read_at>Thu Dec 11 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Mon Nov 03 07:37:30 -0800 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Fri Dec 12 06:43:11 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Contrary to what some people thought when I added this book to my list - I haven't changed my mind, I'm still not planning to have kids.  But, that doesn't mean that a book like this doesn't interest me.  As a feminist I try to keep up with issues that affect women and obviously parenting and mother...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/36816880">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="29025491">
    <user id="937327">
    <name><![CDATA[Megan]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Mcminnville, OR]]></location>        
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      <rating>4</rating>
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  <read_at>Sun Aug 31 15:19:18 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Fri Aug 01 19:52:05 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Aug 31 15:19:18 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Thank goodness for this book. I was beginning to despair that there weren't any parenting books written that had anything to say that was worth hearing and talking about. [To be fair, I didn't quite finish the book--it was a new release at the library, which means you can't renew it, so I'll have to...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29025491">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="23374256">
    <user id="1140838">
    <name><![CDATA[Chalida]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[San Francisco, CA]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Sun Jun 01 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sat May 31 08:43:40 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Jun 09 09:38:23 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Trying to negotiate being a new mom with feeling guilty for missing work.  Thought this book would help me figure it out, but didn't connect the idea of feminism with my feelings and Amy Richards has me convinced I am a feminist (which I never denied, but never ever clearly put on my identity chart ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23374256">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="29788701">
    <user id="332518">
    <name><![CDATA[Meghan]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Seattle, WA]]></location>        
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      <rating>5</rating>
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  <read_at>Thu Aug 14 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Aug 10 15:46:45 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Aug 14 22:58:09 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I just finished Opting In by Amy Richards (the co-author of Manifesta) and I highly recommend it. I had been searching for a book written from a feminist perspective that addressed issues facing working mothers, and this is the best one I've found. The book was written in response to an article publ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/29788701">more...</a>]]></body>
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</review>
    <review id="66795035">
    <user id="929683">
    <name><![CDATA[Lisa]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Sun Aug 09 18:51:35 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sun Aug 09 18:55:43 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Usually, I eat up these types of feminist theory books; they're preaching to the choir, but I don't care. This one, though, sort of meandered about. And, in the end, I didn't feel I'd learned much about &quot;having a child without losing [my:]self,&quot; so I cannot give it more than a lukewarm rev...]]></body>
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    <review id="51344493">
    <user id="581327">
    <name><![CDATA[Katlet]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[San Francisco, CA]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Tue Mar 24 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
  <date_added>Thu Apr 02 21:30:48 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Thu Apr 02 21:39:25 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[While I didn't feel that I learned as much about not 'losing myself' while being a mom, I did feel like I learned a lot about the experience of mothering, about the intersection between feminism and mothering, about activism while mothering.  Good food for thought.]]></body>
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    <review id="34277167">
    <user id="1218675">
    <name><![CDATA[Cheri]]></name>
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  <read_at>Tue Oct 07 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed Oct 01 08:47:33 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Wed Oct 08 14:54:08 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I thought this book would offer an insightful look at mothering and womanhood from a feminist perspective. In short, it didn't. <br/><br/>It's really more like a dry feminist manifesto, with some stories thrown in for good measure. The author comes across as dull, talking on and on about the histo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/34277167">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="74349836">
    <user id="1530816">
    <name><![CDATA[Autumn]]></name>
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  <read_at>Thu Oct 01 00:00:00 -0700 2009</read_at>
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  <date_updated>Mon Oct 12 20:45:11 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I really didn't know what I was getting into.  The book was much more of a brief history of the feminist movement in relation to parenting, than I expected.  It was interesting as I am not well versed in that topic, but I can't say it really provided any eye opening concepts. ]]></body>
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    <review id="23193649">
    <user id="412789">
    <name><![CDATA[Anastasia]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[San Francisco, CA]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Mon Dec 15 00:00:00 -0800 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Wed May 28 22:06:16 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Tue Dec 16 09:36:33 -0800 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I wanted to give this book two stars because I so little identified with the author and her perspective, but really, it was a better book than that. I'm glad that there are books around feminism and parenting (or mothering, if you prefer), but this one just didn't speak to me. And I was surprised by...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/23193649">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="67738348">
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    <name><![CDATA[Jacqueline]]></name>
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  <date_added>Mon Aug 17 09:07:17 -0700 2009</date_added>
  <date_updated>Mon Aug 17 09:08:00 -0700 2009</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[Nearly finished...misplaced the book for a bit.]]></body>
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    <review id="26028264">
    <user id="1258852">
    <name><![CDATA[Caroline]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[The United States]]></location>        
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      <rating>3</rating>
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  <read_at>Sat Aug 16 00:00:00 -0700 2008</read_at>
  <date_added>Tue Jul 01 11:24:22 -0700 2008</date_added>
  <date_updated>Sat Aug 16 07:53:53 -0700 2008</date_updated>
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    <body><![CDATA[I think I'm not the right audience for this book; it was a perfectly fine read, well-written, and a nice mix of personal story and cultural analysis. But for me, it didn't shine any new light on issues (work/family balance; shared parenting; mother/daughter relationships, etc) I've been thinking abo...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/26028264">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <review id="66869183">
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    <name><![CDATA[Kelsey]]></name>
    <location><![CDATA[Cuenca, Ecuador]]></location>        
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    <body><![CDATA[So far a good overview of the typical feminist arguments such as: 1) SAHM vs. working mothers, why the grass is always greener and why can't we all just get along 2) why we should all move to Sweden or somewhere else where parenthood is valued not just in personal appreciation but in actual dollars ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28205613">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I guess I would have to say that what I took from this book is that a woman is going to struggle with whatever choice she makes ~ whether to stay home with her kids or work.  The important thing is coming to terms with it for yourself and not letting other people make you feel less as a woman and a ...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/28751724">more...</a>]]></body>
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