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  <title><![CDATA[Helicopters, Drill Sergeants and Consultants: Parenting Styles and the Messages They Send]]></title>
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  <default_description>Parenting Styles and the Messages They Sendwritten and told by Jim FayParenting expert and humorous storyteller, Jim Fay, helps you identify your parenting style, then shares practical, stress-free techniques for becoming a consultant parent. Enjoy being a parent again!</default_description>
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    <body><![CDATA[A nice, easy, condensced view of Jim Fay's parenting ideals.  I agree with his ideas, and this is a good, short read, for those who aren't going to take on the big ones.  ]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[This was very entertaining.  Hmmm.  What type of parent am I?  I am learning to be a consultant!]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[I enjoy most of Jim Fay and Foster Cline's books, but I think it's also important to hear their voices when learning about Love and Logic Parenting otherwise, what we say may sound sarcastic or less-than-authentic.  Actually hearing the men speak the words helps in this area.  Audio CD's or DVD's ar...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/22402065">more...</a>]]></body>
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  <read_at>Sun Jul 01 00:00:00 -0700 2007</read_at>
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    <body><![CDATA[This book is really good. It's a short and fast read. It's simple and to the point. I like that there is not so much detail that you lose interest. I felt that I took in the message and was able to practice the ideas within the day. I still have a lot to learn in the parenting department, but this i...<a href="http://www.goodreads.com/review/show/16651504">more...</a>]]></body>
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    <body><![CDATA[SUPER good/fast read to get you up and going on this style of parenting in the READERS DIGEST type version.  Cute, quip and ready to go.  Read on friends!  Love and Logic is super.]]></body>
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