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Feb 03, 2010
Jojo
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كتاب استمتعت حقا بقرائته
يساعد على معرفة من حولنا اكثر لنعرف موقفنا و ما يجب علينا
فعله في أي حال من الأحوال
يتكلم عن لغة الجسد
و كيف نستطيع قرآئتها
كنت عندما انتهي من فصل من الكتاب اذهب و اجلس مع عائلتي
و اقرأ لغة أجسادهم و كنت غالبا ما أفلح فيها .. و قد أعجبني هذا كثيرا
يساعد في المفاوضات و متى تقنع الشخص الآخر و كيف
و يساعد في جذب الناس إليك و جعلهم يأخذون عنك انظباع جيد
و حتى يساعد في مقابلات الواظائف و كيف تترك أثرا جيد و لا ين More...
يساعد على معرفة من حولنا اكثر لنعرف موقفنا و ما يجب علينا
فعله في أي حال من الأحوال
يتكلم عن لغة الجسد
و كيف نستطيع قرآئتها
كنت عندما انتهي من فصل من الكتاب اذهب و اجلس مع عائلتي
و اقرأ لغة أجسادهم و كنت غالبا ما أفلح فيها .. و قد أعجبني هذا كثيرا
يساعد في المفاوضات و متى تقنع الشخص الآخر و كيف
و يساعد في جذب الناس إليك و جعلهم يأخذون عنك انظباع جيد
و حتى يساعد في مقابلات الواظائف و كيف تترك أثرا جيد و لا ين More...
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Nov 07, 2011
I am fairly sure this was recommended on a management course. Entertaining read, well illustrated. Not sure how accurate it is, I tried out some of the ideas such as sitting side by side or at an angle to somebody rather than opposite across a desk at them. I certainly felt better for doing so but then the book told me that I would!
The downside for me is that I started to become absurdly self-conscious. Was I standing in an optimum way, sending out the best messages? Where my fe More...
The downside for me is that I started to become absurdly self-conscious. Was I standing in an optimum way, sending out the best messages? Where my fe More...
Jul 09, 2011
David
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When I was younger, I didn't really pay much attention to body language. At the time I didn't find it important; but in both personal and professional relationships, body language is crucial in understanding how the other person feels. This book provides a good overview of common body language gestures. I've been told by some, that reading body language can be contradictory. One sign another gives doesn't mean that's how they really feel. Luckily, this book reinforces this cautionary statem
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Aug 05, 2010
Ellen
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As an author, I am naturally a student of observation, so this book had the potential to be of great service to me not only in my writing, but in character-building and expression.
I enjoyed the read. Unlike some other Body Language books, this one has a lot of photographs, and at the risk of sounding sophomoric, they really added to my understanding of the text.
The chapters/categories made a lot of sense, and the information moved along with little unnecessary repetition. I More...
I enjoyed the read. Unlike some other Body Language books, this one has a lot of photographs, and at the risk of sounding sophomoric, they really added to my understanding of the text.
The chapters/categories made a lot of sense, and the information moved along with little unnecessary repetition. I More...
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May 12, 2009
Carrie
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This book is a well-researched summary of proxemics, gender and cultural differences in non-verbal communication, facial expressions and much more! A few tidbits you'll learn from this book: female brains are designed for multi-tasking (which is explains why we can watch TV, read a book, and chat online while drinking coffee); smiling is seen as a subordinate action and women tend to smile much more than men, something likely hard-wired into our brains; organs that are transplanted retain cellu
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Feb 16, 2011
Mary
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I rarely read every word of non-fiction books, but this is one of the rare exceptions. It's not even particularly fascinating. But it is interesting enough to hold my attention without skipping or skimming over anything. ALMOST four stars. It wasn't awesome enough to go out and purchase, but it would be great to have around all the time for reference when the fancy strikes. I doubt I'll remember this stuff on my own as well as I'd like to.
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Feb 13, 2009
Lolly LKH
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I admit to this snarky behavior, I love to study people! This book was very interesting and certainly I will look at everyone differently. I am a people watcher and have always been good at spotting the 'real' situation in any room. Now I understand why I can go past what I hear and see what's true, for those of you that can't or those who want to improve decoding people, this is a must read. I will admit I have learned more. This book touches on human beings body language, such as how we cross
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Nov 10, 2011
Dean
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I LOVE this book. It has me hooked. I'm reading it pretty slowly due to other things taking my attention, but every time I read it I take some good knowledge from it and use it in an everyday situation.
For instance, I was quickly able to tell when a female co-worker was feeling uncomfortable around another male in a group meeting. I even realized why she was feeling uncomfortable as he was being agressive, but not in a very direct manner. Women pick up on these things much more tha More...
For instance, I was quickly able to tell when a female co-worker was feeling uncomfortable around another male in a group meeting. I even realized why she was feeling uncomfortable as he was being agressive, but not in a very direct manner. Women pick up on these things much more tha More...
Jan 02, 2012
Ahmed
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الحر تكفيه الإشارة
قديما قالوا تكلم حتي أراك
فالكلمات هي المعبر عنك
ولكن لم يعد للكلمات جدوى في معرفة النوايا ومعرفة الشخصيات
فيكفيك معرفة إشاراته لتعلم كل ما ينتويه وكل ما يفكر فيه
قديما قال أرسطو الكلام تفكير بالفعل
ونحن نكمل ونقول وتفكيرك معبر عنه بإشاراتك وسكناتك
الكتاب عبارة عن ملخص لعلم لغة الجسد وهو من المجالات الكثيرة المنتشرة حاليا مع البرمجة اللغوية العصبية ( الفرع الاكبر)ويتحدث عن مغزي كل إشارة من إشارات من أمامك
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قديما قالوا تكلم حتي أراك
فالكلمات هي المعبر عنك
ولكن لم يعد للكلمات جدوى في معرفة النوايا ومعرفة الشخصيات
فيكفيك معرفة إشاراته لتعلم كل ما ينتويه وكل ما يفكر فيه
قديما قال أرسطو الكلام تفكير بالفعل
ونحن نكمل ونقول وتفكيرك معبر عنه بإشاراتك وسكناتك
الكتاب عبارة عن ملخص لعلم لغة الجسد وهو من المجالات الكثيرة المنتشرة حاليا مع البرمجة اللغوية العصبية ( الفرع الاكبر)ويتحدث عن مغزي كل إشارة من إشارات من أمامك
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Dec 06, 2011
Riki
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First of all, it was a very interesting book to read. I don't know if everything I read was completely accurate, but it sounds probable. Considering that there were so many body gestures/movements that were gone over in this book, it would be difficult to remember everything or even a majority of this information. I think a great way to read this book would be to read it through once, then go back to any sections that you may have forgotten information from later. The organization and layout of
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Jan 18, 2011
Ben
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It was a book jam packed with tip after tip of useful body language signals. It makes a person aware of his own body language as well as others. This is not a simple sit down read the book and go to work. It is a slow time consuming process to use what the book is about. We often see people and never think twice as to what we are really seeing. Just like Sherlock Holmes was a master of the secret unseen world,we to can be if we put the information to use that is in the book. Each chapter is a di
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Oct 16, 2011
Paula
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It was a fascinating book. I like that they used illustrations, including photos of well-known actors and politicians. And then I got to the parts about glasses and makeup. They advise you to take your glasses off when you speak and put them back on to listen. This is assuming you are a vain attention-monger who wears glasses JUST to be attractive. Whereas if I take them off I can't see you. And I take offense to the idea that women who do not wear makeup are perceived as having poorer per
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Aug 11, 2009
Myth
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This book was easy to read, clear and there were even visual aids. It's like a manual and doesn't weigh you down with information you won't remember or use. There's the added authenticity of their own experiences in coaching people, as well as take examples from studies.
Because it's a book based on observed behavior there are times when stereotypes play a major role. I found myself uncomfortable with some of the stereotypes, seeing as I know people who don't fit. I myself do not fit More...
Because it's a book based on observed behavior there are times when stereotypes play a major role. I found myself uncomfortable with some of the stereotypes, seeing as I know people who don't fit. I myself do not fit More...
Dec 28, 2008
Bernadette
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There were a few things I learned, but quite a bit of things I disagreed with. Examples are: turn your palms up to put someone at ease - I tried using this during my PT retail job and got wierd looks. Another example that truly disagree with is - if someone keeps you waiting - pull out some financial papers adn a calculator adn do calculations. When they call for you say say "I'll be ready in a moment - I'll just finish these calculations" - what???? or the other example for this is to
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Dec 03, 2010
Ahmed
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استفدت كثيراً من خلال قراءة هذا الكتاب، فهو يساعد على فهم سلوكيات الأشخاص في مختلف المواقف. أعجبت بأسلوب المؤلفين في طرح الأفكار، وأيضا الصور التوضيحية المطروحة، فهي تساعد الشخص على فهم الفكرة وتحليل لغة الجسد المطروحة لأنها تساعد القارئ على ترجمة الموقف وتحليله بأسلوبه الخاص. أنصح بقراءة هذا الكتاب.
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Jan 10, 2012
Doug
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Absolutely amazing, comprehensive and insightful information about how we communicate with nonverbal body cues.
Posited as a guide to assist salespeople, managers and others who rely on their communications skills to perform their jobs -- but also full of information for deciphering courtship body language -- I came away from this book with much of what I imagined about body language proven, a few misconceptions cleared up, and a wealth of new knowledge.
There's so much her More...
Posited as a guide to assist salespeople, managers and others who rely on their communications skills to perform their jobs -- but also full of information for deciphering courtship body language -- I came away from this book with much of what I imagined about body language proven, a few misconceptions cleared up, and a wealth of new knowledge.
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Dec 15, 2011
Hilary
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Simply awful. I have no idea why this book is rated so highly, because it's a mess in every regard. I'll grant that it has some useful ideas about reading body language, but they're nearly impossible to suss out from the conjecture, sexism, overstated claims, and outright falsehoods. Even the formatting is terrible, with "summaries" that don't always summarize and subsection headings that have the same font as the section headings.
Some of the most egregious examples: 1) Vi More...
Some of the most egregious examples: 1) Vi More...
May 20, 2008
Princely
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I felt that this book was good, and had accurate things to say about WESTERN gestures. However, I live in Japan, and none of the quote *offensive* gestures mean anything to anyone under thirty five. The business relations section for Japanese was suprisingly off. I mean, every time someone bows, they inspect your shoes? Most of the folks I meet here change from their outside, nice shoes into crappy indoor ones, so everyone's shoes look kind of beaten up when we meet everyone inside :).
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Mar 22, 2008
Essential but not particularly enjoyable reading: According to recent studies, only 30% of all communication is verbal. The other 70% is made up of the non verbal signals and gestures that come from the rest of the body (in other words body language). Assuming this to be true, it's therefore important for anyone interested in communicating effectively to fully understand the implications of body language and learn how to use it to effectively interact with all types of people.
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Jun 22, 2007
Khalid
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Body Language is an interesting subject. It’s something that most of us pay very little attention to, and if we did, we would have noticed a lot of things about the people around us.
This book talks about body language in great details. It describes, sometimes with the aid of images, different body shapes and gives their significance. It is not, however, a list of shapes. The book aims to build a model in our heads, which we can use to analyze the way the person we’re talking to is s More...
This book talks about body language in great details. It describes, sometimes with the aid of images, different body shapes and gives their significance. It is not, however, a list of shapes. The book aims to build a model in our heads, which we can use to analyze the way the person we’re talking to is s More...
Dec 28, 2009
Jim
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While I'm pretty good at intuitively reading people, I was curious to see if I could learn more. I bought this book from Amazon and read it before the book by Joe Navarro (also on my list)
The authors appear to be sales/marketing people and conduct workshops and trainings on reading body language. There seems to be a bias such as "this behavior equals this meaning." I have a problem with this simplistic type of interpretation.
However, I try to glean the basi More...
The authors appear to be sales/marketing people and conduct workshops and trainings on reading body language. There seems to be a bias such as "this behavior equals this meaning." I have a problem with this simplistic type of interpretation.
However, I try to glean the basi More...
Jan 03, 2012
Amos
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To be an honest Abe here, as I was reading this book I took particular interest, and paid attention to those around me, especially the cute 20-something year old sitting across from me.
The book goes on to tell you about why people cross their legs, fidget their hands, or stand in the posture they do.
Thank you Barbara Pease, after reading this in one sitting, I came to the conclusion that the blonde sitting at my table was trying to yearn for my attention (playing with hai More...
The book goes on to tell you about why people cross their legs, fidget their hands, or stand in the posture they do.
Thank you Barbara Pease, after reading this in one sitting, I came to the conclusion that the blonde sitting at my table was trying to yearn for my attention (playing with hai More...
Jan 27, 2012
Christian
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Changed my observation abilities in a way that I think will be very beneficial. So many of these things are common sense once you read it on paper but the real benefit is being able to see it fully fleshed out for you. Admittedly, the idea that many of this thing comes from evolution seems to me a little suspect, but books like this are very helpful for seeing how people are reacting to certain situations, even if it's not foolproof or is really difficult to implement.
Dec 26, 2011
Vastine
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This popular 2004 book surpassed my expectations. To look at it I expected one of these quickie books on human behavior that fill bookstores. But what differentiates this book is that the authors have many years of experience in the field. They also have done a lot of research of the finding of others. What resulted is a book that for the most part rings true. Whether trying to hone your acting skills or to get a date I recommend this book.
Sep 21, 2011
Amna
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A very useful book that taught me a lot about body language. It really helped me understand why certain people shake their legs (a bad habit that even I admit I have), why some people shake hands differently, and why certain hand motions are rude in some countries and cool in others. To someone who enjoys observing and studying other people's behavior like me, it's an entertaining book and an enlightening one.
Apr 01, 2011
Maryann
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My sister recommended this book and I am glad she did. I learned a lot about my own body language and the vibes I am giving off and how to read other people. It's not an exact science...but it gives you a heads up. This did help with an interview I had at a temp agency. I gave a good impression just by how I shook hands, how I sat and where I placed my arms and of course eye contact. It's definitley worth the read!
Aug 11, 2011
Matt
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A good gook, recommended. I didn't agree with everything, but there are so many facets of this book that you'll recognize in everyday life (especially the Capapult). Professional as well, realistic about recognizing gestures in clusters of 3 instead of jumping to conclusions, and avoids implying that everything a woman does is a come-on.
Jan 26, 2011
Dena
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This book had a lot of great information in it, but was written with a lot of humor as well. I enjoyed reading it and learning mroe on the subject. Like the Ekman books, I appreciated the authors pointing out that nothing is fool-proof. I always feel that information is more credible when the author is upfront about that.
Jul 22, 2010
Marcus
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Denna bok är helt otrolig om du vill lära dig grunderna i kroppsspråk. Jag kan inte hitta någon bättre, den ger också en företagsinsikt i vad man skall undvika och vad som är bra för att hålla möten. Jag kan varmt rekommendera denna boken till alla som vill lära sig kroppsspråk och vara ett steg framför alla andra.
Nov 18, 2008
Andre
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I read this book so that I could get an idea of the negative non-verbal communication that I give off.
I'd say that the book gave me an idea about the items but they came about it in a way that I thought was interesting (yet vague) - they talked about how animals use their body language to communicate various things. A lot of the book talked about how our bodies do things subconsciously. It was quite unsettling to think that our bodies literally have a mind of their own but as soon as More...
I'd say that the book gave me an idea about the items but they came about it in a way that I thought was interesting (yet vague) - they talked about how animals use their body language to communicate various things. A lot of the book talked about how our bodies do things subconsciously. It was quite unsettling to think that our bodies literally have a mind of their own but as soon as More...
